"OMG"-YES you are being "SCAMED"-RUN

 

1 hour ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Maybe because there’s none to ask for.

Typically, she makes 42 $ per hour she is a nurse 

57 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Provided the girl is in the desirable age, good looking, not mentally ill,

not mentally ill - - is that a thing? 

And then you get 6 thumbs down from losers who lost everything,

1 hour ago, kiwikeith said:

Beware of BF in the background 

Be careful happened to me years ago, a good lesson, I was new and green then. 

Many thaigirls have thai BF that they support with money.I lived in surin before and i speak thai well so i saw and listen what's going on.

33 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

not mentally ill - - is that a thing? 

 

Oh it's huge. 

 

Women 40% more likely than men to develop mental illness, study finds

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2013/may/22/women-men-mental-illness-study

 

Narcissim, BPD, sociopathy, depression, anxiety...I had one Filipina who, after I left her alone in my apt in Grand Cayman told me demons were sitting on her chest, sleep paralysis. And that was the funny part of one of her many mental disorders. 

 

 

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Oh it's huge. 

 

Women 40% more likely than men to develop mental illness, study finds

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2013/may/22/women-men-mental-illness-study

 

Narcissim, BPD, sociopathy, depression, anxiety...I had one Filipina who, after I left her alone in my apt in Grand Cayman told me demons were sitting on her chest, sleep paralysis. And that was the funny part of one of her many mental disorders. 

 

 

From The Guardian...😁

 

Women are more likely to report MH.

 

Men are more likely to commit suicide.

 

But yes, they are generally thought of as being nuts...🤣🤣🤣

 

Allegedly.....

5 minutes ago, faraday said:

From The Guardian...😁

 

Women are more likely to report MH.

 

Men are more likely to commit suicide.

 

But yes, they are generally thought of as being nuts...🤣🤣🤣

 

Allegedly.....

 

Yes indeed. When people say men and women are equal, a quick glance at their very different mental illness propensities would provide a first clue it isn't so.

 

Of course if we men have to deal with all these crazy females, is it any wonder that male suicide rates are sky high?

 

Just think of the poor Bob Geldorf, whose clearly mentally ill wife, Paula Yates, cheated on him, once, twice, then three times and took the kids with her. He's not recovered to this day, and it's a miracle he didn't kill himself.

I had this insurance sales woman date in bkkk she was happy with a litre of oil for her car per date ,not a bad deal 

Do keep us informed ....

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes indeed. When people say men and women are equal, a quick glance at their very different mental illness propensities would provide a first clue it isn't so.

 

Of course if we men have to deal with all these crazy females, is it any wonder that male suicide rates are sky high?

 

Just think of the poor Bob Geldorf, whose clearly mentally ill wife, Paula Yates, cheated on him, once, twice, then three times and took the kids with her. He's not recovered to this day, and it's a miracle he didn't kill himself.

She committed suicide you will recall

I was on a dating site a year ago and contacted quite a few Thai women and so many scammers. I usually just blocked them but one I played along. Talking about much she would want in a relationship and she demanded 140,000 baht a month. I never even met her and she even said as we were now friends could I sent her 33,000 baht a month until we met when it would go up to 140,000.

6 minutes ago, 3NUMBAS said:

She committed suicide you will recall

 

No. Actually she didn't. She went on a heroin trip and foolishly made a mistake and died of an overdose.

 

It was not a suicide. It was stupidity.

6 minutes ago, Geoff914 said:

I was on a dating site a year ago and contacted quite a few Thai women and so many scammers. I usually just blocked them but one I played along. Talking about much she would want in a relationship and she demanded 140,000 baht a month. I never even met her and she even said as we were now friends could I sent her 33,000 baht a month until we met when it would go up to 140,000.

 

Wow. 

 

I had a Filipina once, who asked for 64000 baht, though admittedly her father died and her sister was in hospital due to a motorcycle accident. I thought that was bad.

11 minutes ago, Geoff914 said:

I was on a dating site a year ago and contacted quite a few Thai women and so many scammers. I usually just blocked them but one I played along. Talking about much she would want in a relationship and she demanded 140,000 baht a month. I never even met her and she even said as we were now friends could I sent her 33,000 baht a month until we met when it would go up to 140,000.

The majority of the profiles on those dating sites are now fake. They are mostly male scammers posing as Thai women and using photos stolen from real social media profiles. Ask them to do a video call with you over the LINE app. The majority will refuse for the reason that they aren't the real Thai women seen in the photos.

5 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

The majority of the profiles on those dating sites are now fake. They are mostly male scammers posing as Thai women and using photos stolen from real social media profiles. Ask them to do a video call with you over the LINE app. The majority will refuse for the reason that they aren't the real Thai women seen in the photos.

 

Not my experience, most girls will do a video call. Very few refuse.

 

There are fake profiles, but I'd say it's less than 30%.

27 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

The majority of the profiles on those dating sites are now fake. They are mostly male scammers posing as Thai women and using photos stolen from real social media profiles. Ask them to do a video call with you over the LINE app. The majority will refuse for the reason that they aren't the real Thai women seen in the photos.

Yes I get that. I was always suspicious of the ones that immediately wanted an email address. I assume before the site closed down the profile. And exchange photos so they can build up their library. And the ones who wanted your skype account, who uses skype to chat now days?

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Lol, spare me your bs about "game". You are clueless. Game is only  to get into a relationship. If you just know "game" you are just incapable of retaining any girl long term. "Game" is only the entry ticket, once you are in, you are paying. Whether you like it or not,. Unless you date only ugly women, women over a certain age or who have mental issues, ie women with very low SMV, those may pay half their share, or even all of yours. But for the vast majority and normal relationships, where good looking women are involved, the guy will pay, one way or the other. It has always been this way, for thousands of years. But of  course you're special and you don't pay  for girls. Lol;.

 

Pull the other one. Even if she likes you, that just means you get in. For a long term relationship, you will pay. Stop lying. You don't pay, lol. Sure you do. Like everyone else. You pay.

 

A lot of words, but you are still paying where I am not. You are just ranting. Nothing to do with 'everyone else'. Speak for yourself. You pay. I speak for myself... I don't.

Maybe you are trying to feel better about yourself by imagining that everyone pays. They don't. Girls don't like you, so they make you pay. When they like you and even love you, they don't want your money,

But guys like you, they see it as easy as taking candy from a sugar daddy.

You know I'm not lying, but your ego cannot cope. Girls will suss you out in a minute. You are just a sugar daddy to them. Yours aren't real relationships. 100%. You are too desperate and take short cuts utilising money.

Where is your long term girl, after all your paying out? You don't have one, do you? Your girls are available to the highest bidder or just someone with whom they have a better connection. There today and gone tomorrow. Am I lying?

 

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If your girl is an 11 out of 20, mine is a 20. Want to put it to the test?

 

It's just weird that you are bringing up dead celebrities, as if it means anything at all. Being a celebrity doesn't automatically make you a good partner. What is wrong with you? Do you actually believe the nonsense you are posting?

Women stay close to me because of something other than money. It's clearly something about which you have no clue, other you wouldn't keep posting that utter claptrap.

It's obvious that even with money, you are not enough for these girls. Seems that you are just a flash in the pan.

I've noticed that your posts often reference cheating, even when you were writing about Russia and Ukraine. Writing about Ukraine opening it's legs and some such. So your women are cheating on you. Even though you are paying and imagining it's your girlfriend.

I can guarantee that you have trust issues and that you are the type to want to check your girl's phone.

That's not a relationship. That's a father keeping tabs on his daughter. If you don't have implicit trust, you have nothing. Like Joni sang; Loving without trusting is like frostbite and sunstroke. You don't have love. You don't have trust. You have a salaried friend. 

I asked a friend to take care of a 3000 baht bill for me, as I didn't have my credentials handy. Done, without question. Would your friend do that for you?

Your relationships have no depth. You are just trying to pay for exclusivity. If you love somebody, set them free. 

 

 

 

 

Some here say that their wife pay it all.Well..i heard that before.What actually happening is that the guy have give the wife his ATM cards and after says she pay it all.In practice she do it..in reality the man pays it all .It's the same man i meet who say their gf/wife never worked in a bar and when i ask their lady in thai the answer is opposite.

I was in my embassy in Bangkok and a foreigner came inside with a young gf and a newborn.He wanted his gf and his kid go to my country.He was told to come back another day with birth certificate for the kid but that he refused.

His gf sat down in the embassy and told all thais in the ventingroom that the kids father was a thai man

I left after i did my business there so i don't know the outcome of his case 

Yes!!

9 hours ago, norsurin said:

Many thaigirls have thai BF that they support with money.I lived in surin before and i speak thai well so i saw and listen what's going on.

Mangdas

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

H.L.S.  run Forrest run.

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

New nickname...Stradivarius!

On 5/22/2025 at 11:20 PM, persimmon said:

It`s just an opening request - negotiate , it`s common in Thailand . 30 k sounds a lot , but if you have $$$$ and are happy to pay, why not ?

I think many retirees splash a lot more on their Thai life than 30 k / month .....buying land , building the house , buying the car etc etc.

Why not negotiate?

Be interesting to see what that brings.

If doing business with friends can still negotiate.

Offer 10k/month see what she says.

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

Love your story. I've lived a few versions of it myself but she wants to transform an emotional connection to a financial one. If you do, you can't go back. I would do one of two things both involve watching her carefully as to how she moves forward from here. First is to give no money at this point. (Don't know how long you two have been talking already). 2nd is (if you can afford it), give her a much smaller amount like 5k or 10k but give it as a gift not as a deal or a quid pro quo and see how she reacts in the weeks that follow. She may actually be sweet or she may be working you. 

Let her run the bubbly affairs for the time being; you're not an ATM and hence there is no generous contributions to the "sick buffalo fund". If that does not go down well, then run better yesterday than today ....... in the opposite direction.

I am aware that this is not what you're looking for but you might either thank me and all the other postings for having done so ...... or regret not having listened to unbiased opinions by people who have absolutely no benefit from either of your decisions 😉 

On 5/23/2025 at 1:21 AM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

Bobby Boy the only bubble is in your head where your brain should be ...if you ever had one. You are a ninny hammer Bob.

mate you need to stop thinking with your little head, if you dont want to do the washing by hand find a hooker, much cheaper in the long run or maybe its just your ego she is pushing for you, big problem in Thailand are all the young ladies that get richer by using the ego of older men. You are ignoring the facts that are right in front of you, if she is into you, you would not have to pay her for her company, the old sick buffalo method of draining farangs pockets is alive and well with you, all she is now is a glorified hooker demanding money for her company and you are falling for it.

No. She just poor