2 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

if I was to go out with a lady my age in Australia .. similar to me ..then it wouldn't be about money for either party.

 

It's unlikely. It could be, because that woman could have a very low sexual market value, and possibly adopt the male mating strategy of provisioning, however, if she is still attractive, she would most liikely only date someone who can improve her life, ie with money and status or the like. 

 

3 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

But maybe as you hit 30 things like finances and abilities come into it more if you and or them are looking at marriage.

 

Absolutely right, as a man hits 30 he's at or approaching his financial peak, which is why women prefer men of that age. Of course any woman looking at marriage will only choose a guy who has a superior earning capacity to hers. As a rule. There are are exceptions.

 

5 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

Point is neither party are bad or scheming in the big picture.

 

No, it's not bad. It's actually a very good thing that women only choose the most competent and most well off males they are able to choose. That's how the human race has advanced. Imagine if they chose someone like JakeC. Doesn't bear thinking about. Where would humanity be then?

15 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

but in the end, it cost me half my house, which I'd solely paid for with my own genius

 

I think they are genius 

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

I think they are genius 

 

It's not their genius, it's just society has a credo. That credo is "men have to sacrifice for women". That's what the Kamikaze were all about. And that's what every man everywhere is taught. You need to sacrifice. For women.

 

So it was only viewed as natural that the woman, who had paid not a dime towards the house, which I had paid for entirely, deposit and monthly repayment, it was only viewed as natural that I should sacrifice half of my assets. For her. Because she did the dishes. And well, you know, she's a woman.

9 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I promise you, either you are like that or you not. It is that simple, money or not, you are what you are. For some who never had the chance, yes, but they end up in Pattaya sooner or later, or simular place. 

 

 

I'm not quite sure what you mean, but that's OK. And in case you've never been there, you can't really equate Malibu with Pattaya.  

 

In any event, in the real world, even Charlie Harper couldn't get away with being Charlie Harper in Malibu.  It would be fun to try, though. 

Im married and my marriage is not that expensive. I married someone not looking for my money. Does that mean that my marriage is good? Not at all

3 minutes ago, jas007 said:

I'm not quite sure what you mean, but that's OK. And in case you've never been there, you can't really equate Malibu with Pattaya.  

 

In any event, in the real world, even Charlie Harper couldn't get away with being Charlie Harper in Malibu.  It would be fun to try, though. 

What I'm saying, either you are like that, be it the king of hillbillies or trailer park, it's in you, not something you become because you accidentally got access to money.

 

Oh trust me, I have spent enough time in Patong and Pattaya in my prime to know what I'm talking about.

 

I never went wild in any of those places and changed ladies faster than I changed my trousers.

 

Yes I met ladies, and yes I had fun, and I enjoyed their company, and also traveled with a few.

 

My trick was to and have a massage before start drinking to ease off the pressure with a long good massage and helping hands 

2 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Im married and my marriage is not that expensive. I married someone not looking for my money. Does that mean that my marriage is good? Not at all

 

If your wife is loyal and not mercenary, what's the problem?

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

If your wife is loyal and not mercenary, what's the problem?

Nothing that i think another thai girl will fix lol

 

 

shes better than most in my estimation. Im not sure if thats saying much

3 minutes ago, hotsun said:

shes better than most in my estimation. Im not sure if thats saying much

 

Go with God, brother.

13 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Go with God, brother.

 If our life were televised it would keep you laughing for hours

57 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

..then it wouldn't be about money for either party.

Yeah, it would!

31 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Im married and my marriage is not that expensive. I married someone not looking for my money. Does that mean that my marriage is good? Not at all

Who paid for the house, car and scooter?

No need to answer.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

No that's transactional. People only enter into relationships when they want something from the other. That can be money, but it need not be, it can be attention, it can be social status, it can be a lot of things, however, usually, with women, it's money.

 

Now, I've had relationships outside of Thailand, and they do start out as non-transactional, simply beacuse it is bad form to spell out the transaction, but in the end, it cost me half my house, which I'd solely paid for with my own genius. So yes, whilst for some time, those relationships can seem non-transactional, in terms of money, usually they are not. Even if it does not go south, you'd still be supporting the wife, paying the mortgage, her food, gifts, etc.

I agree. It's transactional 99.999999% of the time. And maybe some guy comes along who can easily afford it and finds a woman to marry.  They're both happy and he never knows the difference.  But it's still transactional.

 

Women are hardwired to seek out a provider. 

 

As for houses?  You're lucky if that's all you lost.  Some guys end up paying permanent alimony, if they happen to get divorced in a state that makes that kind of award.  It's getting less frequent, but it happens. 

51 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

not their genius, it's just society has a credo. That credo is "men have to sacrifice for women". That's what the Kamikaze were all about. And that's what every man everywhere is taught. You need to sacrifice. For women.

Nah, it's only in the western world.

Everywhere else they get nothing for leaving, and stoned to death in some countries.

53 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's not their genius, it's just society has a credo. That credo is "men have to sacrifice for women". That's what the Kamikaze were all about. And that's what every man everywhere is taught. You need to sacrifice. For women.

 

So it was only viewed as natural that the woman, who had paid not a dime towards the house, which I had paid for entirely, deposit and monthly repayment, it was only viewed as natural that I should sacrifice half of my assets. For her. Because she did the dishes. And well, you know, she's a woman.

 

If that were true than how cum so many Thai ladies stick with their drug abusing drunkard Thai boyfriends and husbands? The same boyfriends and husbands they send to you to earn some money while they bang other women. Please don't fool yourself. You are just an easy target for them and your payments and gifts have enabled THE SOMCHAI to have a good life and boom other women with your money.

 

The uncle and brother Somchai know how to play the game. The Farang mug is just that.

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

If that were true than how cum so many Thai ladies stick with their drug abusing drunkard Thai boyfriends and husbands? The same boyfriends and husbands they send to you to earn some money while they bang other women. Please don't fool yourself. You are just an easy target for them and your payments and gifts have enabled THE SOMCHAI to have a good life and boom other women with your money.

Obviously they will do anything for murderers, drug dealers, and gang members.

But most guys aren't like that.

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Obviously they will do anything for murderers, drug dealers, and gang members.

But most guys aren't like that.

 

So suddenly in your opinion most women are nice trustworthy creatures? How opinions change to suit your narrative.

 

 

13 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and I hear your frustration. If you're feeling disconnected or like things are getting overwhelming, it can be really helpful to talk to someone you trust, or a professional who can offer support and guidance. Taking a break from things that might be contributing to those feelings can also make a big difference. Remember, you're not alone in feeling this way, and there are resources available to help.
 

 

This seems like a confession from yourself.  

13 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Obviously they will do anything for murderers, drug dealers, and gang members.

But most guys aren't like that.

There is a certain type of woman that is attracted to the dark side, knowing they will be used.

 

Quite common to see them at boxing rings, screaming for blood.

18 minutes ago, jas007 said:

Some guys end up paying permanent alimony

 

Yes, lucky I was able to avoid that, as we had an amicably divorce and settled it privately without the state. 

19 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Nah, it's only in the western world.

 

The kamikaze had to sacrifice their lives. For whom?

 

For the women at home.

 

 

I really, really hate it when some born again Cristian tells me how to live my live. What is it to you why people come to Thailand? None of your business!

 

 

 

20 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Thai ladies stick with their drug abusing drunkard Thai boyfriends and husbands?

 

You're living in the 1950s. In 2025 the Thai girl will leave the Thai bf if he so much as looks at her wrong.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

The kamikaze had to sacrifice their lives. For whom?

 

For the women at home.

 

 

Talking you usual BS I see.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

You're living in the 1950s. In 2025 the Thai girl will leave the Thai bf if he so much as looks at her wrong.

 

7/11 girl must have told you that 🤣

2 minutes ago, bubblegum said:

I really, really hate it when some born again Cristian tells me how to live my live. What is it to you why people come to Thailand? None of your business!

 

 

 

Ha a thumbs down emo. Must be the pastor.

Back on topic

 

 

 

 

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Back on topic

 

 

 

 

 

Don't lie to yourself, its more like this

 

17 hours ago, Celsius said:

to pay for sex? I mean it's dumb. I

Well, most farangs come here because of broken relationships in the West as refused leftovers or kicked out or unable for any relationship.

In Thailand you got fantasies to get what you never got in the West. Don't need to contemplate that it is you who is the problem of all your misery.

You can buy it. That gives you the superior feeling.

You would deny it's business.

And sometimes you got a dessert:

STD. Hurrah. It's a men's world? No, but the dumbest will think so.

And everybody who feel addressed now can send a thumb down emoji. !!!!🙏

Start now.

25 minutes ago, Celsius said:

7/11 girl must have told you that

 

That Miss Grand hat a very, very rich Thai bf. She left him because he was "too demanding".

 

I realise she was probably cheating with the Ukrainian. But still.