Is paying the bar to take a girl out of the bar justified? Or just a scam?

[FritsSikkink]

2 hours ago, DrJack54 said:

Finally someone who understands how it works. 

It's all about return to the bar (even bars in the area) if the farang love affair ends. 

AKA : he cuts support. Which of course he eventually will. 

Girls moving to different bars is quite common.

[Smokin Joe]

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Her name is not Lek, Fon, Noi, Nut, Nid, Fai, Tip, Sup or Mot.

But it is three letters. 

 

How about TBD?

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, Peter Crow said:

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

Porn has four letters but.

Why Porn? You could have chosen Lek, Noi, Nok, Noo..

 

Been there, done that. Lek's had a baby, Noi drinks too much, Noo's way too chubby.

 

But regardless, Porn has the biggest t!ts.

[ThreeCardMonte]

32 minutes ago, Patong2021 said:

Disgusting topic.

Your fingers are your friends.

 

 You can always use them to scroll to the “living in  Bum Fuc- Issan to immerse myself in Thai culture “ thread.🪡 

 

Before or after the “I’m only in Thailand for the temples and food “ thread.

[MalcolmB]

37 minutes ago, Patong2021 said:

Disgusting topic.

The bar is in your namesake Patong.

[grain]

4 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

IExcept now the bar is demanding 50,000 baht from him so she can go”retire” from the bar. 
And she is agreeing with the Mamasan. “Justified” because Mamasan gave her the job, accommodation, lent her money, bought her clothes etc

It is getting ugly.
He is refusing. Mamasan isn’t budging. 
 

Why can’t she just quit like at any other job? 
Interested to hear views from other bar owners.

Is this standard or are they taking the pi55?

 

 

 

Mamasan gave her the job means nothing, pretty well every bar in Thailand is looking for fresh gals all the time. 

Accommodation means a folding mattress on the floor in an upstairs room with a fan and shared by 3,4,5 other gals. 

Lent her money, bought her clothes etc is pure BS, at the very most mamasan would have possibly paid for a couple of days grub until the gal got some cash through LDs or barfines. 

Of course she can quit and walk away at a moment's notice. As already pointed out here the only repercussion would be the gal would not be welcome back to work in that particular bar again should her relationship with the customer fail. But there are about 50 zillion other bars around the country she can go to. 

Is this standard? Yeah, pretty well, It's just the mamasan and bar owner trying to get a piece of the pie. 

[RoryBreaker]

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Her name is not Lek, Fon, Noi, Nut, Nid, Fai, Tip, Sup or Mot.

But it is three letters. 

My sister-in-laws name is Jin. I found out recently i've been calling her Chim all these years, no wonder we've never really gotten on. I don't know about anyone esle but i do struggle to remember these one syllable chu lens

[Ralf001]

1 hour ago, Evil Penevil said:

 

And does she have long black hair, brown eyes, small breasts and a shaved p*ssy?  I may know her too!

 

whats up with the shaved thing... I hate it.

[marin]

14 minutes ago, RoryBreaker said:

My sister-in-laws name is Jin. I found out recently i've been calling her Chim all these years, no wonder we've never really gotten on. I don't know about anyone esle but i do struggle to remember these one syllable chu lens

So you are posting to show you know little to nothing about Thailand?

[ThreeCardMonte]

7 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

whats up with the shaved thing... I hate it.

You’re at least 30 plus years behind the times.  

 

Smooth as silk over the Sherwood Foest any day.

[RoryBreaker]

1 minute ago, marin said:

So you are posting to show you know little to nothing about Thailand?

who are you Marin? i see you keep stalking me and viewing my profile. are you a bit of a wierdo?

[EVENKEEL]

2 hours ago, frank83628 said:

Is that you on the left

Never could do the no socks thing. Feet always sweaty. But thanks for the memories.

[transam]

5 minutes ago, RoryBreaker said:

who are you Marin? i see you keep stalking me and viewing my profile. are you a bit of a wierdo?

It's a bit early in your membership to bring out the "stalking" card, isn't it........😂

[RoryBreaker]

7 minutes ago, transam said:

It's a bit early in your membership to bring out the "stalking" card, isn't it........😂

i'll bring out whatever i want, whenever i want. are you in charge of this forum transam? seems like you think you are hahahahaha

[transam]

1 minute ago, RoryBreaker said:

i'll bring out whatever i want, whenever i want

I'm sure you will.......................

 

But not the grammar checker, eh..........🤭

[RoryBreaker]

1 minute ago, transam said:

I'm sure you will.......................

 

But not the grammar checker, eh..........🤭

ooo grammar banter wow, riveting stuff. bore off will ya.....

[transam]

1 minute ago, RoryBreaker said:

ooo grammar banter wow, riveting stuff. bore off will ya.....

😂..........Only trying to help, ol' chap................😢

[RoryBreaker]

1 minute ago, transam said:

😂..........Only trying to help, ol' chap................😢

ok great , thanks for your help

[cjinchiangrai]

Total scam and she will get half the money. Run from this girl.

[StayinThailand2much]

Justified, but what happens after is between you and the girl. If she is bad in bed, or moody, or is 'in a hurry' is not the responsibility of the bar.

[Ralf001]

44 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

You’re at least 30 plus years behind the times.  

 

Smooth as silk over the Sherwood Foest any day.

am well versed with the shaved, just do not understand why.

 

i miss the muskiness that a fair thicket of long straight black pubes brings to the party.

[Hummin]

3 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Has anyone ever heard of anyone paying this before?

The bar seems to think it is standard process.

 

The girl is a 9 and the bars main attraction.

The other girls are sort of 6’s

So this friend is you? Right? 

 

🧐

[JackGats]

This is Thailand, the country of barfines. If you want a hospital doctor to come to your home, you must barfine the doctor from the hospital too.

[Callmeishmael]

3 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Gotcha 😎

 

Looking GOOD 👍

 

Why is there a picture of me in this thread!

 

lol

[marin]

49 minutes ago, RoryBreaker said:

who are you Marin? i see you keep stalking me and viewing my profile. are you a bit of a wierdo?

that question should be asked of you. How many nicks have you had on here? 

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Hummin said:

So this friend is you? Right? 

 

🧐

 

With all the bar girl threads this guy has started, he must be gathering info to make his move soon. 

 

He jokes about the house in Isaan, but that's exactly where he seems to be headed.  

 

[RoryBreaker]

1 minute ago, marin said:

that question should be asked of you. How many nicks have you had on here? 

What are nicks? What are you talking about? you're on my profile searching my posts. Trying to figure out if I'm someone else. You need to get a life mate

[Patong2021]

2 hours ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Why?  It's a very common question and surely what this Forum is for!

If you're disgusted, why choose to read the thread when the title is very clear.

 

If it is a common question, then it has been addressed  previously multiple times.

The purchase of human flesh by losers seeking to exploit vulnerable and desperate people is indeed disgusting.

Repeated discussions n effect normalize the exploitation of  people.

 

2 hours ago, roo860 said:

Daft reply 

 

Only to those who  seek approval of others as they exploit other humans. What's next a price list or a listing of bars on where to find 12 year olds for lewd sexual acts?

 

1 hour ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Your fingers are your friends.

 You can always use them to scroll to the “living in  Bum Fuc- Issan to immerse myself in Thai culture “ thread.🪡 

Before or after the “I’m only in Thailand for the temples and food “ thread.

 

Your trying to cover up what the thread is about: The normalization of sexploitation. You are all for it. and so are some others. Well, I am not. You want to promote the depravity, fine. I can say no to it.

 

 

[marin]

5 minutes ago, RoryBreaker said:

What are nicks? What are you talking about? you're on my profile searching my posts. Trying to figure out if I'm someone else. You need to get a life mate

"Paranoia strikes deep, into your soul it will creep".  

[RoryBreaker]

3 minutes ago, marin said:

"Paranoia strikes deep, into your soul it will creep".  

Hahaha, you don't even have the intelligence to reply so you just copy and paste a quote you've just googled. Look at what you copied too, bit strange to be fair. Someone should check your hard drive