Just now, MalcolmB said:

With all the reading and self help books you have read I am surprised you fell for this woman?

If you saw her when I first met her, you would understand. Covert narcs love bomb you until they have you. That, along with her getting pregnant and me being a loyal father, had me move here and build a house because she didn't want to leave her family, most of whom she despises.

18 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

She wanted to be back with me right up till she married. Was kissing on me in front of our daughter the day before she married him.

What was her body count when you met her?

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

If you saw her when I first met her, you would understand. Covert narcs love bomb you until they have you. That, along with her getting pregnant and me being a loyal father, had me move here and build a house because she didn't want to leave her family, most of whom she despises.

Got you hook, line and sinker.

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Got you hook, line and sinker.

Yes, but I'll be the one that got away. Have no idea of her body count but she's a cheater. 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Yes, but I'll be the one that got away. Have no idea of her body count but she's a cheater. 

Very likely a high body count.

Did you catch her cheating on you?

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Very likely a high body count.

Did you catch her cheating on you?

No, just suspected from other cues. She had 2 children before me, and stayed with them for some years, mostly living in Isaan, so who knows. I was the only foreigner until the new one. 

Just now, MalcolmB said:

With all the reading and self help books you have read I am surprised you fell for this woman?

Aaaah, your master baiting is in full swing now, eh..........

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Six or 7 is the norm, any less than that she's either a bona fide virgin or she's lying.

 

Is that all at the same time, or spread over a few days? 

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

women don't subscribe to knightly virtues.

Wasn't that the punchline to a joke? As Lancelot was riding off to the crusades, his squire came racing after him shortly after departure... "Lancelot! Lancelot!  Wrong key!" 

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I think it's irrelevant to our life together.

Generally it's INCELs that fantasize about virgins.

I had some when I was younger, nothing memorable about any of them.

Well, if you find an inexperienced Thai woman, it can lead to some memorable, amazing experiences, but you need to know how to awaken their sexuality. If you're an older guy "dating" an experienced girl, you're competing with what came before. Women tend to prefer what they were taught in the past and what they are familiar with.

 

If you want to date bar girls, aka prostitutes, it's going to be an uphill battle.

Just now, JensenZ said:

Well, if you find an inexperienced Thai woman, it can lead to some memorable, amazing experiences, but you need to know how to awaken their sexuality. If you're an older guy "dating" an experienced girl, you're competing with what came before. Women tend to prefer what they were taught in the past and what they are familiar with.

 

If you want to date bar girls, aka prostitutes, it's going to be an uphill battle.

Perhaps not, if his wallet is quite big............🤑

5 minutes ago, transam said:

Perhaps not, if his wallet is quite big............🤑

Unfortunately, I don't have that problem.

2 hours ago, transam said:

Aaaah, your master baiting is in full swing now, eh..........

You dont know what yours is do you?

Don't know, don't care.

 

Given the number of women I have had, to get my knickers in a twist about my GF's body count would be hypocritical.

 

I have had one virgin in my life, and prefer to forget the experience.

At 75, I am too old to care. My own "body count" is rather high. At this stage of the game, other things are more important than sex.

58 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

You dont know what yours is do you?

Indeed I do, but it is not baiting threads.............

1 ........me and only ever me.

 

 

5 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Sex goes away in marriages because the man usually stops the romance he did when he was courting his wife. If you ask most any woman, or their counselors, or read their books, the main complaints women have about their man is he doesn't listen to me.

 

He never takes me on dates anymore.

 

He's more interested in watching sports on TV.

 

He goes out with his friends drinking but never takes me along.

 

He leaves his clothes all over the floor. He never helps around the house.

 

He doesn't spend enough time with the kids.

 

The main one is not listening, because if he did, he would hear all the rest. This is why she gets played by players. What does a player do to get laid? He listens."Oh, I'm sorry your husband never takes you out anymore, I wouldn't do that" "Oh, you're so romantic, I wish my husband was like you". Bingo! If she cheats, it's still on her but it's too late.

 

Some are pigs and never satisfied no matter what you do. Damaged by her dad and men before you, a complete waste of your time. Most aren't being listened to.

 

Divorce happens because people pick the wrong partners, they are abusive, drink too much, cheat, lie, neglect or leave emotionally. Some stay because of fear of the dark unknown, finances or kids.

This pretence of wisdom and authority you insist upon maintaining makes me laugh.

1 minute ago, madone said:

This pretence of wisdom and authority you insist upon maintaining makes me laugh.

If you doubt what hundreds of professional counselors, psychiatrists and psychologists, along with countless clients have said, then you laughing is easy to understand. If you have little experience in these matters, it might be best to go to other topics. I go by facts, and if your opinions don't match them, that's your deal. Some people just know more than you do in some topics.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

If you doubt what hundreds of professional counselors, psychiatrists and psychologists, along with countless clients have said, then you laughing is easy to understand. If you have little experience in these matters, it might be best to go to other topics. I go by facts, and if your opinions don't match them, that's your deal. Some people just know more than you do in some topics.

Just listen to you. 

 

Just now, madone said:

Just listen to you. 

 

I'm thinking you haven't realized that some people gather quite a lot of wisdom in 68 years, especially if they've been married , had many relationships with women, listened to them actively,and most importantly,have read for over 30 years on what women need in a relationship. You do realize that many professionals in this business get divorced, as they're also humans that make mistakes and learn from them. if you disagree with what I wrote earlier, tell us why women stop having sex after marriage, as it never did for me.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm thinking you haven't realized that some people gather quite a lot of wisdom in 68 years, especially if they've been married , had many relationships with women, listened to them actively,and most importantly,have read for over 30 years on what women need in a relationship. You do realize that many professionals in this business get divorced, as they're also humans that make mistakes and learn from them. if you disagree with what I wrote earlier, tell us why women stop having sex after marriage, as it never did for me.

Just keep going, Fred. Tell us all again how very wise you are. 

Just now, madone said:

Just keep going, Fred. Tell us all again how very wise you are. 

Answering for others again, like a few do here? Again, if you need to disagree with me because we disagreed before, don't just come in and talk crapola. Show me why you disagree with what I said. Maybe you don't understand why women complain about men, but research and an open mind tells you a lot. 

9 minutes ago, madone said:

Just listen to you. 

Shhhhhh ........... Nobody mention god or narcissists...........

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Shhhhhh ........... Nobody mention god or narcissists...........

Atheists of a feather

8 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Shhhhhh ........... Nobody mention god or narcissists...........

At least he doesn't need to have the last word. Always.

1 minute ago, madone said:

At least he doesn't need to have the last word. Always.

If you're going to talk about someone, do it to them. I asked you, if you disagreed with what I wrote about why women stop having sex in a marriage, join that discussion, especially if you have some experience in the matter. If you're coming here because you and i disagreed before and aren't going to add to the topic, don't waste our time. It's amusing that the same few here always tend to stick up for each other, and it's in topics where they have no experience besides buying women, yet they think they can give advice to people that don't. 

13 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

If you're coming here because you and i disagreed before

Not sure why you keep saying this.

I think everything you have posted since the day you insisted Americans don't have accents has been a testament to your delusion. 

But that is neither here nor there, Freddo, the first rule of fight club is don't engage a narcissist. 

 

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It's amusing that the same few here always tend to stick up for each other, and it's in topics where they have no experience besides buying women, 

 

Don't assume you know me or my experience.  You couldn't possibly. That is because I don't feel the need to share my life with strangers on the internet. 

 

Now feel free to type whatever makes you feel good, because you know you can't help yourself. 

Cheers, you font of all knowledge, you.

35 minutes ago, madone said:

Not sure why you keep saying this.

I think everything you have posted since the day you insisted Americans don't have accents has been a testament to your delusion. 

But that is neither here nor there, Freddo, the first rule of fight club is don't engage a narcissist. 

 

 

Don't assume you know me or my experience.  You couldn't possibly. That is because I don't feel the need to share my life with strangers on the internet. 

 

Now feel free to type whatever makes you feel good, because you know you can't help yourself. 

Cheers, you font of all knowledge, you.

I would never say Americans didn't have accents so I don't know where that's coming from. There's a Boston accent, a Brooklyn accent, a Texas accent, a southern accent, a Midwestern accent, a New Jersey accent, among a few others. I did say he Americans didn't have an accent like the Brits, and they don't.

 

That you can't understand some things I've written is again on you, I go by facts, and not opinions, and have always backed up what I've said. Using links from reputable sources.

 

That I have more experience and knowledge than you in some topics is also on you. Deal with it. If you disagree, come up with evidence or don't bother, as one liners don't show much imagination. 

 

You likely know more about some things than I do. There are quite a few here that seem very intelligent, that know a lot about certain topics. What makes them different if they're showing what they know and giving advice, just like I do? If you're going to call someone delusional, you need to prove them wrong, but that won't happen because again, I go by facts. Most people who are readers increase their intelligence as they age. Some things I know quite a lot about because they're my interests, and when you read up on them for decades, what happens? You're not a font of all knowledge but knowledgeable in some. Can't help myself? You don't realize that's just why you came here today? And I do like engaging narcissists, as they're a stain on society and they have to be called out. 

He's back. Do you not realize how obvious you are H?