2 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Useless post.
 

Cut and paste from your marriage counselors handbook.

 

Quote me where I said I was looking for a legit woman.

You have me mistaken for someone else.

 

 

 

 

Not so useless, as it made you spin.

7 minutes ago, BangkokHank said:

Most Thai women on dating apps these days weigh more than I do.

I've been noticing that recently, I go out most morning for exercise then stop off at Amazon for a coffee, the farang women are slimmer, Thai's are becoming obese, jing jing, 

16 hours ago, DonniePeverley said:

prostitutes, ladyboys, those seeking to scam money, and what not. Not legit women looking for love. 

What makes you think that prostitutes,  ladyboys and scammers don't need and want and search for love?

If they are not what you want, there are plenty of others,  even in the apps

 

16 hours ago, DonniePeverley said:

Anyone here gone down the dating route using these apps

Tinder, I found this girl. 

She wants to be my mom. 😂

😂

 

15 hours ago, Autocan said:

There's a blurry line here. Well-off/hi-so/well-educated Thai women are not on dating apps, they operate in their own Thai social circles and are 99% not interested in farangs.

 

Middle/lower income Thai women with a job might be open to a long-term relationship with a farang - "the legit woman looking for love" deal. But at the same time many will be amenable to a "date" with a guy which has no long-term prospects but ends with her receiving a "token of appreciation". She will not consider this prostitution but that she is being rewarded for her desirability. 

 

Think of it what you will but we are, thank the Lord, not in a puritanical (hypocritical) culture. Personally, I find this refreshing and liberating. A guy doesn't have to lie through his teeth and a gal doesn't have to pretend she's what she's not when they both want the same physical intimacy without commitment.

 

Bottom line if I may answer your question: Are dating apps full of prostitutes or legit woman looking for love? Both and the same gals/lbs both categories.

The hi-so not interested in farang is a bit of a myth. Most farang, including your wife-beater wearing Pattaya types, slim chance, but if one has connections, speaks a bit and is a bit of a looker and charmer, it can be done.

But yes, most dating apps are likely gonna have workers. 

1 hour ago, NorthernRyland said:

 

There are far too many ugly women on those apps for that to be true.

 

Not just that, there's far too many single mothers. I don't know why they allow single mothers to go on those apps. Another major annoyance.

 

Of course you can't stop it, only some are honest enough to tell you on the profile. I've had a girl come and stay only to find out she had a child. The nerve of these people.

12 hours ago, it is what it is said:

 

Well-off/hi-so/well-educated Thai women are not on dating apps, they operate in their own Thai social circles and are 99% not interested in farangs.

 

not in my experience, i've dated a lawyer, a hospital director, physiotherapist,  marketing exec, designer for a leading japanese vehicle brand, to name but a few. my latest tinder gf had seven successful businesses, nine properties, and (i don't know why) 4 cars. 

 

if you get out of the sex worker and bar scene there's an amazing thailand to discover.

Absolutely full of  c.......

Unlucky but I have a good sense about people and all were not prostitutes 

45 minutes ago, Lorry said:

Wrong, another farang who has no idea. 

Pattaya has long become a regular tourist destination for day trippers from Bangkok.  Office girls go there with their friends,  to take bikini pictures (the bikini is bought only for this purpose,  they don't go into the water), visit Terminal and take selfies in front of the Pattaya sign.

The first time they go, they must get used to the masses of Indians, to the voluminous farang (you don't see these types if you work in an office in Bangkok) and to the fact that Pattaya prostitutes do not like them. 

 

Right, how much experience do you have on theses dating sites?

Or are you just using your imagination?

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I get around 8 replies per week, of which I choose 1 or 2 girls. This is on TF only.

 

Then I also get about 1 or 2 girls per week on Bumble, which has far less sex workers and more professionals, but also more older women sadly.

 

Obviously it depends on how backed up I am as I have 4 girls on rotation that are regulars and if I'm busy with them i can't put as much time into replying on TF and Bumble.

 

So nothing earth shattering, just good honest hard sex work.

 

 

Sure you have.......

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

Sure you have.......

 

Up to you, ka.

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

Sure you have.......

 

He is much more likely to be looking through furniture catalogues for couches.

Just now, Will B Good said:

 

He is much more likely to be looking through furniture catalogues for couches.

 

I am actually looking for a couch. The last one is wrecked.

33 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I am actually looking for a couch. The last one is wrecked.

Let me guess........in a few you will say that happened with one of the girls, right?

37 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Up to you, ka.

Aaaah.. you big stallion. 😂

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Let me guess........in a few you will say that happened with one of the girls, right?

 

I wasn't going to, but since you asked...I like to bend them over the edge of the couch, and of course with that forceful banging some of these Thai couches just can't take it.

 

I'm only saying this because you asked, I wasn't going to otherwise.

17 hours ago, DonniePeverley said:

Most seem like they are full of prostitutes, ladyboys, those seeking to scam money, and what not. Not legit women looking for love

Here's one for you, not any of the above. 

 

Just a woman, looking for love. 😂

 

16 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

You looking for love, get a 🐕 dog

Not looking for love, just looking for free sex. There isn't such a thing though.

2 hours ago, Lorry said:

The girl has a regular job

 

🤣

18 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

Not used them

7 thumbs down lol

Weirdos

17 hours ago, Autocan said:

Well-off/hi-so/well-educated Thai women are not on dating apps, they operate in their own Thai social circles and are 99% not interested in farangs.

I'd agree with that. The only slight caveat I'd add is that category of Thai women will indeed hook-up/marry a farang if she is already divorced from the hi-so Thai guy - often due to him having one or several mia nois or some other issues. I can vouch for this, because I know several independent educated Thai women who are divorced (or permanently separated) and are with farang guys for years and have kids together with them. In other words, you are right in what you suggest above, but I'd add in the first go-around of marriage both family's parents (often, though not always, Thai-Chin), with substantial resources and businesses, need to preserve face and marry their daughter (or son) into another family of equal or higher status. In addition, I think the taboo of a youngish Thai woman and a farang guy is wearing thin. In Bangkok you see lots of younger mixed couples and the young Thai females have probably met the farang guy online - maybe along the lines you suggest - they don't appear to be prostitutes, many speak 'real' English (e.g. complete sentences) but are also hoping for something more than just sex.  

11 minutes ago, ronnie50 said:

I'd agree with that. The only slight caveat I'd add is that category of Thai women will indeed hook-up/marry a farang if she is already divorced from the hi-so Thai guy - often due to him having one or several mia nois or some other issues. I can vouch for this, because I know several independent educated Thai women who are divorced (or permanently separated) and are with farang guys for years and have kids together with them. In other words, you are right in what you suggest above, but I'd add in the first go-around of marriage both family's parents (often, though not always, Thai-Chin), with substantial resources and businesses, need to preserve face and marry their daughter (or son) into another family of equal or higher status. In addition, I think the taboo of a youngish Thai woman and a farang guy is wearing thin. In Bangkok you see lots of younger mixed couples and the young Thai females have probably met the farang guy online - maybe along the lines you suggest - they don't appear to be prostitutes, many speak 'real' English (e.g. complete sentences) but are also hoping for something more than just sex.  

 

Yeah, I'm sure if George Clooney told them, shall we have dinner? they'll say "no I only like Thai guys".

 

 

14 hours ago, Packer said:

 

A girl near here, 23, makes +/-300,000 a month. Mainly does 3-4 short times each afternoon and evening from guys online at 3,000 a go. Does the odd overnight with guys that fly in to Thailand for 2 weeks or so at 10k a night or 100k per week. Puts most into property and will be a retired USD millionaire by 30. 

Are you her pimp? 

Change your search profile to over 40, not Pattaya, Bangkok or Phuket. You will see a whole different set of women. Try Thai Dating instead of Grindr.

Thinking longer term - what will it take to make a relationship work ? Most of these ladies will be looking for someone who can change their lives in a big way . That means either taking them to Farangland and helping them get a job , or providing a good life style in Thailand , which probably means marriage , land , house and car purchase + 40 k + Bt / spending money . If you can`t realistically provide either of these 2 options , then short - time paid for encounters might be the best bet .

Cannot say if all are prostitutes/escorts but at one point the broad hints can show up,  for you to shell out money. If that is the case, not sure then what to call it ? 

17 hours ago, Packer said:

 

A girl near here, 23, makes +/-300,000 a month. Mainly does 3-4 short times each afternoon and evening from guys online at 3,000 a go. Does the odd overnight with guys that fly in to Thailand for 2 weeks or so at 10k a night or 100k per week. Puts most into property and will be a retired USD millionaire by 30. 

Good story Mr. Packer, and she is such a good friend with you that she revealed all that information. It just flooded out of her mouth, right? You feel fine swimming around up there on your fluffy clouds? That was one of the most moronic posts ever.

Thai dating apps just escorts?

Everybody knows men come for hookers

Everybody knows the price is cheap

Everybody knows you can't admit it

Give or take a night or two

 

16 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Oh dear,

 

The hookers are tighter than the nurses.

 

Appreciate the intel for future reference.

 

I certainly hope @still kicking doesn’t read this.

 

No need to read this, I know your opinion about women.

2 hours ago, persimmon said:

Thinking longer term - what will it take to make a relationship work ? Most of these ladies will be looking for someone who can change their lives in a big way . That means either taking them to Farangland and helping them get a job , or providing a good life style in Thailand , which probably means marriage , land , house and car purchase + 40 k + Bt / spending money . If you can`t realistically provide either of these 2 options , then short - time paid for encounters might be the best bet .

 

Yes, true, your financials need to be impeccable to ensure she gets a better life long term. Plus she needs to be attracted to you and you both need to work at the relationship every single day.

 

George Clooney still writes letters to Amal and leaves them on the pillow, years after marriage.