May I suggest Soi 6.

 

Those girls are amongst the cleanest on the planet.

 

Many have 12 or more showers per day.

28 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Sorry I'm not gay, keep hunting

hahaha you're gay! you're gay!

go sit in the corner...

🤡

29 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Sorry I'm not gay, keep hunting

hahaha scuba is gay! scuba is gay!

go sit in the corner...

🤡

5 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I don't necessarily want to be away from sex workers. It's more about feeling that Thai women are unclean and potential sex workers, or just something that's spiritually deficient that's symbolized in sexwork but not limited to that. I don't have the issue towards sex workers of other nationalities (at least not as much), so it's not just sex work.

 

The insane part is I'm feeling a generalized revulsion, but not thinking anything at the time and don't have a single reason. There's something going on underneath the surface.

If you're born in 1969 you've reached the age where the lusts have weakened. I don't believe the good life is that of a junkie chasing dopamine. Pattaya is a place where desparations are exchanged. 

You've seemingly rejected any notion of family, community or friendship, "no male contacts required" what is left? Living for yourself? That's an empty existence man. I know that personally.

The disgust we see in others is often the disgust we see in ourselves  that won't be allowed to be recognised.

16 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I'm living in Pattaya and started viewing Thai women as unclean. It's so bad now that I don't even want to have sex with them if it was offered. It seems to be getting worse. When I do approach women it's women of different races, black, Chinese, Japanese, etc., but it's not very often.

 

What should I do, move out of the area, or just wait it out? Relocate back to home country? I don't want to just fly solo and am not interested in social contacts with males.

 

It's been going on for many months now. Therapy is not an option here since I don't think there are many good therapists around.

The next step is to realize all women are unclean, then sex is unclean. Now you're on the road to enlightenment 

8 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

That's definately part of it if they are having sex. It's more then being physically unclean though, it's also a kind of spiritual stain that I view in them even if they are not prostitutes.

 

I can see my view as unreasonable without knowing each person, yet I can't get over the feeling. It's at the point now where I'm feeling generalized revulsion for no apparent reason.

Maybe you should talk to someone who's a fully fledged misogynist, like @Cameroni? Maybe you two can help each other out!

If that doesn't help then there's always the bottle.....

 

PS. On the off chance that this isn't a joke then head back to your home country immediately and seek treatment.

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

You're not happy?

I'm happy, you still having a midlife crisis? 

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

I'm happy, you still having a midlife crisis? 

No. It was a joke.

18 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I'm living in Pattaya and started viewing Thai women as unclean. It's so bad now that I don't even want to have sex with them if it was offered. It seems to be getting worse. When I do approach women it's women of different races, black, Chinese, Japanese, etc., but it's not very often.

 

What should I do, move out of the area, or just wait it out? Relocate back to home country? I don't want to just fly solo and am not interested in social contacts with males.

 

It's been going on for many months now. Therapy is not an option here since I don't think there are many good therapists around.

Its normal as you age. People are dirty.

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Its normal as you age. People are dirty.

It's not normal at all. And locking oneself in a basement is definitively not a solution as you have clearly demonstrated, Suze.

At one point of life, nobody can cure their psyche issues with booze or ladyboys or prostitutes. Medical therapy would be the best option and the most beneficial. 

19 hours ago, sidjameson said:

The disgust we see in others is often the disgust we see in ourselves  that won't be allowed to be recognised.

Spot on. I could be projecting my own stuff onto others and chose Thai females as a target.

 

I can't figure out what would be unclean inside myself though. I'm not anti-sex. Not anti-prostitute, it's just not for me because I believe it should be freely given. I'm not a prostitute myself so I could not be disowning that and projecting it out towards others. It's also most Thai women (also the guys) so it's not limited to prostitutes or sex issues and I don't have much in common with Thai people.

Perhaps it has something to do with a money issue...

 

I'm seeing them as needy or poor and am pushing that away. I experienced the same feeling in Cambodia when I lived there. That feeling of being repulsed and wanting locals to just go away and leave me alone.

 

It felt like they always wanted something from me, or were angling for a profit or something in their own interest, but not owning up to what that was. Putting on a fake smile or friendliness, with a hidden agenda.

11 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

and I don't have much in common with Thai people.

 

so go back home then

 

8 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

so go back home then

I can't afford it! That could be what I'm projecting onto them and don't want to accept in myself.

 

You're a genius, thank you...

11 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I can't afford it!

 

stop barfining girls 7 nights a week.

cut back to 3.

budgeting 101. 

it will be good for your "psyche" too. 

 

Sound serious, see a doctor get meds

Relocate back to your home country.

On 9/2/2025 at 4:22 AM, short-Timer said:

Susan, you always have such a wonderful way with words and so much to add to any conversation. Much like a bung that never stops oozing.

 

No I think it's Bob. Susan, in her various reincarnations has been consistently reactionary fascists. 

Bob is the one with the weird everyday life dilemmas. 

On 9/3/2025 at 11:22 AM, save the frogs said:

 

so go back home then

 

But I don't have much in common with Romanians, Albanians and assorted Muslims ...

On 9/2/2025 at 6:27 PM, sidjameson said:

If you're born in 1969 you've reached the age where the lusts have weakened. I don't believe the good life is that of a junkie chasing dopamine. Pattaya is a place where desparations are exchanged. 

You've seemingly rejected any notion of family, community or friendship, "no male contacts required" what is left? Living for yourself? That's an empty existence man. I know that personally.

The disgust we see in others is often the disgust we see in ourselves  that won't be allowed to be recognised.

I was born in 1956, my personal philosophy is any hole is a goal.
 

On 9/3/2025 at 1:28 PM, Mark1969 said:

Spot on. I could be projecting my own stuff onto others and chose Thai females as a target.

 

I can't figure out what would be unclean inside myself though. I'm not anti-sex. Not anti-prostitute, it's just not for me because I believe it should be freely given. I'm not a prostitute myself so I could not be disowning that and projecting it out towards others. It's also most Thai women (also the guys) so it's not limited to prostitutes or sex issues and I don't have much in common with Thai people.

Time you went home old mate. The fun is over for you.

11 hours ago, BritManToo said:

But I don't have much in common with Romanians, Albanians and assorted Muslims ...

 

I was starting to feel like a minority back home.

I would rather be a minority in Thailand or anywhere else in SEA. 

 

On 9/1/2025 at 10:58 PM, Mark1969 said:

am not interested in social contacts with males.

So what are you doing on AN?

48 minutes ago, LukKrueng said:

So what are you doing on AN?

Avoiding people and complaining.

53 minutes ago, LukKrueng said:

So what are you doing on AN?

I have a psyche issue. Can you help me?

11 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

Avoiding people and complaining.

 

And polluting people's minds with your bs, maybe?