3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

Still she can make food, 

 

I wouldn’t changed my wife against a 35 year or any age of Victoria. The older my wife gets, the more I care for her, and love her, and I will do my best to keep it that way. I did have a few great role models in my younger life, where I did see true love, and how they treated each other on daily basis, and I think they had the recipe of a great long lasting love life, even life did put them through challenges, especially when his wife got a stroke and ended up on nursing home. Not one day did he miss visiting her, and show her his love for her. Great experience 

 

 

Is she reciprocating? It takes two.

23 hours ago, Cameroni said:

she does not want to be "tied down",

But tying her down is half the fun.

14 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

So you are saying that @MalcolmB knows the truth about you and so he can come here to reveal the truth? Are you sure that you want to stick with that line? Because I have an idea that his view of you might not align with the view you have of yourself.

I know Fred quite well and would describe him as quite narcissistic.

Probably gained from years posing in front of mirrors in the gym.

He honestly believes that the bulk he gained makes him tough.

But he wouldn’t stand a chance with someone like me who can street fight and was security at various nightclubs where we deal with a lot of Freddy’s every weekend.

 

He claims to be some sort of expert on women but all his wives have one thing in common.

They are all divorced from Freddy.

 

Freddy complains endlessly about Thailand but yet remains.

He claims he has too much stuff here, a CD collection.

When he realizes that CDs are now obsolete he may or may not go.

 

He makes a lot of assumptions.

 

Just now, IsaanT said:

So, honesty only works one way in this arrangement! 😄

 

Look, if you think these girls are "honest", I have news for you. They lie through their teeth. Guaranteed they're talking to other guys, but tell you they are not.

 

When you go in the Octagon you have to have the skills. If you think you can prevail just with honesty, you wlll be in for a shock. It's 2025.

1 minute ago, Purdey said:

But tying her down is half the fun.

 

That's what I should have said with a James Bond smile.

 

It always comes too late.

 

Sigh.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Obviously she is or she would not have agreed to a second date.

 

 

Total nonsense, CM girl comes from a good family and can easily afford her own dinners. She holidayed in Singapore, China, Japan, Vietnam and KL, I saw the photos. She even went out with her girlfriend later, so she has no money issues whatsoever.

 

Lol, I make their life better with my charming presence, hence she agreed to a second date.

 

 

Well, that's inevitable.

 

 

You can keep the prostitutes, I'll go with quality girls, thanks.

Like my grandmother used to say "you cant argue with stupid people when they believe their own lies"

27 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I know. i have talked to enough young girls to know they work in factories making 8000 baht, or 711.  Often less than that.

The minimum wage in Thailand is more than that.

5 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

In the absence of a welfare system it seems a good business proposition for both parties.

 

To make a prostitute out of someone? You think this dude is a family man?

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

The minimum wage in Thailand is more than that.

 

Minium wage is 400 baht, so around 8000 baht a month, and most factories pay minimum wage. I've seen the payslips.

 

I've listened to the cries of disappointment with the tiny salaries.

 

They earn very little.

3 minutes ago, Dan O said:

Like my grandmother used to say "you cant argue with stupid people when they believe their own lies"

 

Your grandma was on to something there. Maybe the other delusional guy here will take note.

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

 

To make a prostitute out of someone? You think this dude is a family man?

 

Lol, did you not see the text where she offers to be a girlfriend for20000 baht?

 

I think they do that without any help, dude.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Lol, did you not see the text where she offers to be a girlfriend for20000 baht?

 

I think they do that without any help, dude.

 

Yes, I saw it. ALL of the girls you talk to are looking for a Sugar Daddy.

Just now, BatteringRam said:

 

Yes, I saw it. ALL of the girls you talk to are looking for a Sugar Daddy.

 

No not all. Like I literally JUST wrote, the CM girl for instance looks to be from a higher socio-economic class.

23 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

So I was willing to pay the 10000 to 15000 to fly down to

 

 

That must be some gold plated plane ride @ 15K.

 

 

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Is she reciprocating? It takes two.

 

Of course she does, relationship is a two way contribution system, give and take, and it should be effortless where both knows their roles and duties. 

 

It is quite simple but complicated if not both understand what it take for a relationship to work. 

 

For men the main problem is options throughout their life in Thailand, where women have a limited time where they have to make the best choice for their future. 

 

So when you find a younger gf, you know your risks, and how you have to deal with someone who is not matured in to her role yet, and will try every trick and see if it works on you, and if you are like me, you will walk on to the next one, and the next one in hope to find the perfect one. 

 

I kept my age preference mostly at the same age throughout the process above 30, so it will make the decision a bit easier, since most of them have necessary experience and if smart enough learned by their mistakes. 

 

And of course no kids or extended family with problems is as important as the girl itself. Very few understand that simple factor if they haven’t been around for awhile 

1 minute ago, In Full Agreement said:

 

 

That must be some gold plated plane ride @ 15K.

 

 

 

No, it's 3000 there, 3000 back, 3000 resort for one night, 3000 her flight to CM and the rest for food and taxis.

 

Money goes qujicker than you think.

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

 

 

I kept my age preference mostly at the same age throughout the process above 30, so it will make the decision a bit easier, since most of them have necessary experience and if smart enough learned by their mistakes. 

 

 

But you still chose her on looks and what other factors?

22 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I know Fred quite well and would describe him as quite narcissistic.

Probably gained from years posing in front of mirrors in the gym.

He honestly believes that the bulk he gained makes him tough.

But he wouldn’t stand a chance with someone like me who can street fight and was security at various nightclubs where we deal with a lot of Freddy’s every weekend.

 

He claims to be some sort of expert on women but all his wives have one thing in common.

They are all divorced from Freddy.

 

Freddy complains endlessly about Thailand but yet remains.

He claims he has too much stuff here, a CD collection.

When he realizes that CDs are now obsolete he may or may not go.

 

He makes a lot of assumptions.

 

You know nothing about me besides what I've posted here, which you constantly turn around in your own sick mind to make yourself, a self professed hooker buyer and user, feel better.

 

What I "probably" did is also in your mind, as you again, know very little. You have no idea about what I can handle and you don't want to find out, as you've obviously never met anyone like me, seeing from your high school banter. likely only picking on little kids in school.

 

You assume with every sentence, yet you've never met me. That's a little boy trying to act tough online. Malcolm, it doesn't work with adults, especially those who've dealt with your petulant kind all their lives.

 

I don't claim to be an expert on anything. That I know a lot about certain things comes from education experience and research. That you talk like you can handle people you've never met, who have lived in gyms for 50 years, also shows just how ignorant you are.

 

I divorced my three wives, because they were not good mothers or partners, so that's yet another one of your many assumptions, all the while being told the truth. I told you this many times, yet you can't remember.

 

I don't complain about Thailand. I see it for what it is. Good for some, not good for others, and I know what goes on here. You're a buyer of women, and do not have any children, so you have no business commenting on family matters as you haven't a clue how they are nor how they are run.

 

You continue to make a fool out of yourself repeating the same things over and over, after having been told all along what really went on. That shows a very poor memory or a lack of self control, or both, likely coming from years of alcoholism. That there is something really wrong with you is blatantly obvious. Stop acting the coward online. You wouldn't have a chance in hell against someone like me, although your low self esteem has you think otherwise.

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No not all. Like I literally JUST wrote, the CM girl for instance looks to be from a higher socio-economic class.

 

You admitted that ALL of them asked you for money.

4 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

You admitted that ALL of them asked you for money.

 

No, I did not. I've only been on one date with CM girl, it would be a bit surprising if she were already asking for cash.

 

I also want to stress VERY CLEARLY,  that Phuket girl is a total outlier. I have NEVER been asked to negotiate in this hardnosed way by any girl. Yes, they may have asked for money at some point, but in a nice way. I have NEVER before been negotiated with iin this shameless manner as Phuket girl has done.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, I did not. I've only been on one date with CM girl, it would be a bit surprising if she were already asking for cash.

 

Did you not write that FIVE girls were all asking you for money, on another thread? 

Just now, BatteringRam said:

 

Did you not write that FIVE girls were all asking you for money, on another thread? 

 

I don't recall. Maybe if you post the quote.

Filipina 1 and 2 have asked me for money. Nakhom Phanom virgin constantly asks for money shamelessly.

 

BKK very rarely. CM not yet. Phuket girl not until 2  days ago, when she now is doing it in an absolutely shameless way. I've never seen anything like it.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

Filipina 1 and 2 have asked me for money. Nakhom Phanom virgin constantly asks for money shamelessly.

 

BKK very rarely. CM not yet. Phuket girl not until 2  days ago, when she now is doing it in an absolutely shameless way. I've never seen anything like it.

 

I don't see that you have even the basis for any relationship.

You just seem like a worthless guy. I 'm sure that sounds harsh, but if you think I'm wrong, run a mini poll of if any guy would choose someone like @Hummin to date their sister or daughter or you. I think not even a single person would choose you as a family member. 

 

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

But you still chose her on looks and what other factors?

More of attitude and how we interacted from beginning. We kept being friends for a long time since she was in a broken relationship that ended, and after second time I arrived back we pretty much knew each other well enough to head out for a longer trip together, 3 time we became partners. 

 

So it kind of grew on us and came along without surprises or red flags for any of us. 

 

No kids

No partying or drinking or drugs

Conservative family oriented ideas

Thrives at home

No extended family 

Like outdoor, clean food, good chef, reliable and not to Buddhist

Good language skills

 

And a bit adventurous which attracts me and also know how to put her foot down and adress my stupidity without being an drama queen should cover most of it

 

And of course she was not without options, but as far I know she didn't take advantage of her possibilities. If she did I wouldn't care, we choosed to be together and that's how it is today. 

 

And at last non of us trying to take advantage of each other one way or the other.

 

 

Just now, BatteringRam said:

 

I don't see that you have even the basis for any relationship.

You just seem like a worthless guy. I 'm sure that sounds harsh, but if you think I'm wrong, run a mini poll of if any guy would choose someone like @Hummin to date their sister or daughter or you. I think not even a single person would choose you as a family member. 

 

 

 That's great news. I hate families. If I could date only orphans I would.

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

 

And at last non of us trying to take advantage of each other one way or the other.

 

 

 

What's the financial situation, presumably you pay all the bills?

26 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You know nothing about me besides what I've posted here, which you constantly turn around in your own sick mind to make yourself, a self professed hooker buyer and user, feel better.

 

What I "probably" did is also in your mind, as you again, know very little. You have no idea about what I can handle and you don't want to find out, as you've obviously never met anyone like me, seeing from your high school banter. likely only picking on little kids in school.

 

You assume with every sentence, yet you've never met me. That's a little boy trying to act tough online. Malcolm, it doesn't work with adults, especially those who've dealt with your petulant kind all their lives.

 

I don't claim to be an expert on anything. That I know a lot about certain things comes from education experience and research. That you talk like you can handle people you've never met, who have lived in gyms for 50 years, also shows just how ignorant you are.

 

I divorced my three wives, because they were not good mothers or partners, so that's yet another one of your many assumptions, all the while being told the truth. I told you this many times, yet you can't remember.

 

I don't complain about Thailand. I see it for what it is. Good for some, not good for others, and I know what goes on here. You're a buyer of women, and do not have any children, so you have no business commenting on family matters as you haven't a clue how they are nor how they are run.

 

You continue to make a fool out of yourself repeating the same things over and over, after having been told all along what really went on. That shows a very poor memory or a lack of self control, or both, likely coming from years of alcoholism. That there is something really wrong with you is blatantly obvious. Stop acting the coward online. You wouldn't have a chance in hell against someone like me, although your low self esteem has you think otherwise.

 

I think the person who is making a fool of themselves is not whom you imagine. 

Doesn't it occur to you that literally no one else on this board gets described in the way that you do?

No just one by one person, but by many. Why you in particular, when none them have actually met you?

You must be giving off something. 

You can try to rationalise it to yourself all you want, but it won't change until you change. Just saying.

Enjoy your trip back to Texas, if you ever pull the trigger and actually do it.

 

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

What's the financial situation, presumably you pay all the bills?

 

First you have to recognize where you are in the world, and if that is your main point, I wish you good luck searching for a younger clean women who should be high on the list among many men and attractive, but only choose you because you have such a great personality!

 

Good luck 🤞 

 

What matters, if you being taken advantage of or it is reasonable for time being, and when support and what kind of support needed. 

 

I gave her my credit card after the second time, and told her to use it when she needed something, and in 8 months she asked me for 8k.

 

She could had emptied it, or asked for whatever in month, but she didn't. Frankly that was my test to see who I was really dealing with and a cheap investment if you ask me, even if she tried to empty my card or take out to much, I could had cancelled the card and had one more experience and saved myself for future problems

2 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

I think the person who is making a fool of themselves is not whom you imagine. 

Doesn't it occur to you that literally no one else on this board gets described in the way that you do?

No just one person, but many. Why you in particular, when none them have actually met you?

You must be giving off something. 

You can try to rationalise it to yourself all you want, but it won't change until you change. Just saying.

Enjoy your trip back to Texas, if you ever pull the trigger and actually do it.

 

 

I'm sure lots of people would love to have you as a family member, scorecard. You seem delightful.