9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

What's the financial situation, presumably you pay all the bills?

Now the farm pays more or less for our daily living costs where her parents works as well and also calculated in the budget. I think we talked about this numerous times now, 

13 minutes ago, Hummin said:

More of attitude and how we interacted from beginning. We kept being friends for a long time since she was in a broken relationship that ended, and after second time I arrived back we pretty much knew each other well enough to head out for a longer trip together, 3 time we became partners. 

 

So it kind of grew on us and came along without surprises or red flags for any of us. 

 

No kids

No partying or drinking or drugs

Conservative family oriented ideas

Thrives at home

No extended family 

Like outdoor, clean food, good chef, reliable and not to Buddhist

Good language skills

 

And a bit adventurous which attracts me and also know how to put her foot down and adress my stupidity without being an drama queen should cover most of it

 

And of course she was not without options, but as far I know she didn't take advantage of her possibilities. If she did I wouldn't care, we choosed to be together and that's how it is today. 

 

And at last non of us trying to take advantage of each other one way or the other.

 

 

 

Erm....so who drinks that wine?

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'm sure lots of people would love to have you as a family member, scorecard. You seem delightful.

 

I am. No cheating. No lying. Not perfect, but always looking to improve and to improve the lot of those around me.

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

 

First you have to recognize where you are in the world, and if that is your main point, I wish you good luck searching for a younger clean women who should be high on the list among many men and attractive, but only choose you because you have such a great personality!

 

Good luck 🤞 

 

What matters, if you being taken advantage of or it is reasonable for time being, and when support and what kind of support needed. 

 

I gave her my credit card after the second time, and told her to use it when she needed something, and in 8 months she asked me for 8k.

 

She could had emptied it, or asked for whatever in month, but she didn't. Frankly that was my test to see who I was really dealing with and a cheap investment if you ask me, even if she tried to empty my card or take out to much, I could had cancelled the card and had one more experience and saved myself for future problems

 

Okay, so you do pay the bills and she is very careful with money which is good.

 

The reason I asked is because of course whilst it seems to be the case that niobody is being taken advantage of, I'm assuming you did not just choose her for her careful ways with money? Or her love of the outdoors. Like most men I suspect you wanted a female for sex and she did not repulse you completely.

 

And in return you are paying the bills. A perfectly normal arrangement. This is the standard transactional relationship. And it works whilst you have the resources and she has the looks that do not repulse you. Whilst you can both extract what each of you wants, it will work.

 

However, when that is no longer the case, that is when problems could occur. You're obviously far from that still, but I think this is is the general danger with transactional relationships. As soon as one party is no longer able to extract what they want, or in sufficient quantity, they become disenchanted.

 

So I would keep an eye on that. You're a bit too close to that see that now, but I am far away, I can see it clearly. That danger is on the horizon.

Just now, BatteringRam said:

 

I think the person who is making a fool of themselves is not whom you imagine. 

Doesn't it occur to you that literally no one else on this board gets described in the way that you do?

No just one person, but many. Why you in particular, when none them have actually met you?

You must be giving off something. 

You can try to rationalise it to yourself all you want, but it won't change until you change. Just saying.

Enjoy your trip back to Texas, if you ever pull the trigger and actually do it.

 

Doesn't it occur to you that there are just a few here, yourself included, who use many usernames, hiding themselves, they think, from others, and come here just to troll? To look for reactions, to insult. Not to help, but to instigate. That you continue to come back and think everyone here is somehow blind or dense to your trolling, with the following innocent act, shows more how you think, and live, in your little world. It means nothing to tell you how they appear to others here, because you're one of them. You're insulting Cam here, and also trying to tell others that you're looking for a woman who is looking to settle down, yet you can't yourself stay with them and I can plainly see why. You actually think your fooling anyone? I don't need to change,as I treat people well. I'm just very good at spotting your kind, and your kind can't change.

9 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

First you have to recognize where you are in the world, and if that is your main point, I wish you good luck searching for a younger clean women who should be high on the list among many men and attractive, but only choose you because you have such a great personality!

 

Good luck 🤞 

 

What matters, if you being taken advantage of or it is reasonable for time being, and when support and what kind of support needed. 

 

I gave her my credit card after the second time, and told her to use it when she needed something, and in 8 months she asked me for 8k.

 

She could had emptied it, or asked for whatever in month, but she didn't. Frankly that was my test to see who I was really dealing with and a cheap investment if you ask me, even if she tried to empty my card or take out to much, I could had cancelled the card and had one more experience and saved myself for future problems

 

I did the same with a Thai friend back in the day. Gave her a debit card so as to buy gold and trinkets to send to me for family. She took nothing. I had to insist that she took 1000 baht for her travel. 

Cameroni is living on a different planet.

Just now, BatteringRam said:

 

I did the same with a Thai friend back in the day. Gave her a debit card as to buy gold and trinkets to send to me for family. She took nothing. I had to insist that she took 1000 baht for her travel. 

Cameroni is living on a different planet.

 

Not at all. My BKK girl also sometimes asks for only 200 baht. Thai people are very modest. This is not a unique experience to you or Hummin because the two of you are such lovely men. It's the girls that are so modest, a very common thing in Thailand.

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Erm....so who drinks that wine?

Surprised you would know and remember just signed up on the forum 😎

 

Do not count a bottle of wine or two late lunch early dinner or just hang out at a restaurant with view drinking a few glasses. 

 

We have been out drinking together as every couples should do especially in the beginning, and that's when you truly understand who you are dealing with. 

 

Maybe should had said, she didn't go partying when we where not together and I was away, and had no experience of no battery, no connection, or any other excuses who most have experienced while having a lady back in Thailand thousands of miles away

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Surprised you would know and remember just signed up on the forum 😎

 

Do not count a bottle of wine or two late lunch early dinner or just hang out at a restaurant with view drinking a few glasses. 

 

We have been out drinking together as every couples should do especially in the beginning, and that's when you truly understand who you are dealing with. 

 

Maybe should had said, she didn't go partying when we where not together and I was away, and had no experience of no battery, no connection, or any other excuses who most have experienced while having a lady back in Thailand thousands of miles away

 

You posts pics of it on a prominent thread. We obviously have different ideas of what it means to not drink. 

I might have a sip of alcohol at Christmas and New Year. That's what I call not drinking. But hey, don't take it all so seriously, this is The Lounge after all. Can have good banter with no hard feelings.

But thanks for clarifying that you meant her not behaving badly.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Okay, so you do pay the bills and she is very careful with money which is good.

 

The reason I asked is because of course whilst it seems to be the case that niobody is being taken advantage of, I'm assuming you did not just choose her for her careful ways with money? Or her love of the outdoors. Like most men I suspect you wanted a female for sex and she did not repulse you completely.

 

And in return you are paying the bills. A perfectly normal arrangement. This is the standard transactional relationship. And it works whilst you have the resources and she has the looks that do not repulse you. Whilst you can both extract what each of you wants, it will work.

 

However, when that is no longer the case, that is when problems could occur. You're obviously far from that still, but I think this is is the general danger with transactional relationships. As soon as one party is no longer able to extract what they want, or in sufficient quantity, they become disenchanted.

 

So I would keep an eye on that. You're a bit too close to that see that now, but I am far away, I can see it clearly. That danger is on the horizon.

 

Again you are projecting your ideas and your experiences on others, even if it was true, you are blind to the whole picture. Getting sex is the least problem, finding someone you have chemistry with and thrive with 24/7 is another part of it.

 

 

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

 

You posts pics of it on a prominent thread. 

Can't remember I posted anything for the last 6 months now, so you better admit you had other Nick names and not a Rookie 🐦‍⬛ 

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

 

Again you are projecting your ideas and your experiences on others, even if it was true, you are blind to the whole picture. Getting sex is the least problem, finding someone you have chemistry with and thrive with 24/7 is another part of it.

 

 

 

It's like chatting with a horny teenager who worships Andrew Tate.

47 minutes ago, In Full Agreement said:

 

 

That must be some gold plated plane ride @ 15K.

 

 

????? Not my post

Just now, Hummin said:

Can't remember I posted anything for the last 6 months now, so you better admit you had other Nick names and not a Rookie 🐦‍⬛ 

 

Definitely not. He seems incredibly well informed for somebody who just joined.

 

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

Again you are projecting your ideas and your experiences on others, even if it was true, you are blind to the whole picture. Getting sex is the least problem, finding someone you have chemistry with and thrive with 24/7 is another part of it.

 

 

 

I never said it was a "problem", but rather that the problem is that if the woman you chose for this purpose eventually starts losing her looks, would you still be as enthused? Would your attitude towards her still be the same? If you were ever to lose the ability to pay the bills, would she still have the same attitude with you?

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

Can't remember I posted anything for the last 6 months now, so you better admit you had other Nick names and not a Rookie 🐦‍⬛ 

 

Really? I see your posts on your view are far more recent. But if you want to insist that you haven't posted for six months, then knock yourself out.

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Really? I see your posts on your view are far more recent. But if you want to insist that you haven't posted for six months, then knock yourself out.

Posted wine pics that someone claimed was showing off and even cheap blend wine I was accused to drink? 

 

Honestly can't remember I did that for the last 5 or 6 months, but who really care, I just reacted to your knowledge about me after such short time with very few interactions between you and me.

 

Whatever I do not mind

He'll send  you a boiled rabbit soon.

 

Or a horse's head.

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Posted wine pics that someone claimed was showing off and even cheap blend wine I was accused to drink? 

 

Honestly can't remember I did that for the last 5 or 6 months, but who really care, I just reacted to your knowledge about me after such short time with very few interactions between you and me.

 

Whatever I do not mind

 

Need I remind you that Images are on shown on the right hand side and you can click through them without going through the posts?

Either way, why should it bother you? It's an place for anonymity unless you choose otherwise. I noticed that you posted a picture of yourself, so obviously you chose otherwise.

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Definitely not. He seems incredibly well informed for somebody who just joined.

 

 

I never said it was a "problem", but rather that the problem is that if the woman you chose for this purpose eventually starts losing her looks, would you still be as enthused? Would your attitude towards her still be the same? If you were ever to lose the ability to pay the bills, would she still have the same attitude with you?

 

I guess love is not something that you have experienced...other than from perhaps your dad.

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

 

I guess love is not something that you have experienced...other than from perhaps your dad.

 

Like sex, love is not hard to experience. It's maintaing it over 4 decades that's hard.

 

Particularly with "modern love" which is transactional love. Both parties are seeking to extract something. This is the norm now.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Like sex, love is not hard to experience. It's maintaing it over 4 decades that's hard.

 

Particularly with "modern love" which is transactional love. Both parties are seeking to extract something. This is the norm now.

 

Yours is just the world you create for yourself. There is no modern love, just love. You either know it or you don't. 

You don't. It's not part of your make-up. There is nothing in what you have written here that indicates you have any idea of such a concept.

Yawn, more and more childish bickering.....  This forum should be retitled 'AseanNow for Kids'

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

Yours is just the world you create for yourself. There is no modern love, just love.

 

Well, you stick your head in the sand of your personal bile, but clearly you missed the obvious. Love has become transactional in modern life now. Both men and women carefully select their partners according to what they wish to extract from the other. This is the new face of love. Transactional love.

 

And the problem is that transactional love has obsolescence built in, because say a man chooses a woman for looks. When she no longer has the looks the man will change his attitude towards her. If a woman chooses a man for money, and his resources decrease, she will change her atittude towards him.

 

That is why so many modern marriages fail. The failure is already built into the fabric so to speak.

Just now, simon43 said:

Yawn, more and more childish bickering.....  This forum should be retitled 'AseanNow for Kids'

 

Impressive post there. Perhaps you could have demonstrated your lack of interest by not posting anything at all.

Instead, you decided to add to the 'childish bickering' Bravo!

Meanwhile it's Cameroni's thread and he can cry if he wants to.

2 minutes ago, simon43 said:

Yawn, more and more childish bickering.....  This forum should be retitled 'AseanNow for Kids'

 

Yes scorecard is a terrible influence. He's like a gonorrhea for threads.

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, you stick your head in the sand of your personal bile, but clearly you missed the obvious. Love has become transactional in modern life now. Both men and women carefully select their partners according to what they wish to extract from the other. This is the new face of love. Transactional love.

 

And the problem is that transactional love has obsolescence built in, because say a man chooses a woman for looks. When she no longer has the looks the man will change his attitude towards her. If a woman chooses a man for money, and his resources decrease, she will change her atittude towards him.

 

That is why so many modern marriages fail. The failure is already built into the fabric so to speak.

 

What I am stating is that I don't experience the modern love of which you speak, as I experience 'real love'.

You are simply recounting your own experience with the pool in which you choose to swim. A filthy pool full of sharks. I choose something a little less dangerous than hanging from a cliff edge.

Bile? I feel good.

I'm sure you prefer your brothers to give it to you straight, rather than to beat around the bush. 

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes scorecard is a terrible influence. He's like a gonorrhea for threads.

 

Speaking of sexually transmitted diseases...

4 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Impressive post there. Perhaps you could have demonstrated your lack of interest by not posting anything at all.

Instead, you decided to add to the 'childish bickering' Bravo!

Meanwhile it's Cameroni's thread and he can cry if he wants to.

Helloooo!  You're bickering again........

Just now, simon43 said:

Helloooo!  You're bickering again........

 

Did you write that whilst looking in the mirror?

You aren't even swimming anymore, so why are you here? You've sworn yourself off women, have you not? 

If you can DM me her contact details, I can help you out bro. I will send her a subtle message to test her loyalty to you.