February 16Feb 16 Author 7 hours ago, fredwiggy said:I talk to God all the time, and yes, I've asked him to help me find a decent woman when I return, unless my girlfriend follows us there. By the way, God said to say hi, and to open your mind, because he's been watching you. I will find another woman if my girlfriend here doesn't follow, and one around 45-50, as that's my health and shape type now.What languages does he speak?
February 16Feb 16 5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:What languages does he speak?I would think all as he made all men and women.
February 16Feb 16 8 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:What languages does he speak?Damn good question ! I'm always wondering if the background buzz I notice in the middle of the night is some form of communication .I usually just dismiss it as neurons decaying on my path to dementia in some form or other .
February 16Feb 16 Author 5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:I would think all as he made all men and women.What advice has he given you?
February 16Feb 16 11 hours ago, fredwiggy said:...Divorce settlements can be 50/50, although it all depends what you accrued during the marriage. A woman isn't usually going to get things you brought into the marriage. It does happen, but that would mean the judge isn't following the law.If you bought a house during the marriage with money you earned during that marriage, the woman will usually get the house if children are involved. If not the house can be sold and the profit divided. This is one reason things brought into the marriage separately can be divided..............Commingling: Mixing separate funds with joint funds. For example, if a man had a bank account before marriage but deposited marital income into it, or used it to pay joint expenses, it may become marital property.Transmutation: Changing the character of the property. For example, if a man owned a house before marriage but added his wife's name to the deed, it often becomes a joint marital asset.Increased Value: If a separate asset (like a business or home) increased in value during the marriage due to the efforts of both spouses, that increase may be considered marital property. ....................I bought my house in Texas a week before we married. She tried to get it but couldn't, as her name wasn't on the deed.The wife says you raped/abused/groomed her, and you're toast. Legal niceties won't save you (from ruin or the sex-offender register).
February 16Feb 16 3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:What advice has he given you?Stay far away from toxic people. Keep up the research about them and women who are evil inside. Take my child away from here so she can have a brighter future. Protect my child from all evil using any manner of action necessary.
February 16Feb 16 Author Just now, fredwiggy said:Stay far away from toxic people. Keep up the research about them and women who are evil inside. Take my child away from here so she can have a brighter future. Protect my child from all evil using any manner of action necessary.Did he tell you to go to Thailand?
February 16Feb 16 1 minute ago, JackGats said:The wife says you raped/abused/groomed her, and you're toast. Legal niceties won't save you (from ruin or the sex-offender register).It doesn't matter what anyone says as they need solid evidence. Hearsay doesn't work but in kangaroo courts with morons for judges. Yes, children can be used against an innocent parent and have been, so you do what you can to prove your innocence and see that those who lie against you are prosecuted and jailed. Never give up .
February 16Feb 16 1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:Did he tell you to go to Thailand?No, I came here because this is where my child was, until she is old enough to re-establish her with me in a better place for her.
February 16Feb 16 Author 2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:No, I came here because this is where my child was, until she is old enough to re-establish her with me in a better place for her.Ask god for a better gf
February 16Feb 16 8 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:Ask god for a better gfI have a good girlfriend now, one i would take to America if she wanted to come. Said she might, but she's like many here who feel a responsibility to her parents when they get to where they can't do much for themselves. Her dad is very strong still, at around 75, although mom isn't. They have each other, but she's the only daughter, and you know how the men are here with that type of responsibility. so it's up in the air.
February 16Feb 16 3 hours ago, JackGats said:The wife says you raped/abused/groomed her, and you're toast. Legal niceties won't save you (from ruin or the sex-offender register).The allegation must be proven in court. The people who offer these types of excuses, typically have not accepted responsibility for their own deviant and anti-social behavior and are still blaming others for their failure(s) in life.
February 17Feb 17 13 hours ago, fredwiggy said:The closer you are in age the closer your thinking would be. The further away, if over 20 years or so, and you're likely trying to relate to someone in another generation. Different maturity, thinking, friend groups, habits, likes and styles unless one gravitates towards the other, which means changing your way of life, which isn't a good thing as you should be you.Of course many are doing this, but the best relationships occur when people are close to the same age level. If one is a lot older, the younger one will eventually become a caretaker for the other, which looks more like a parent-child relationship and less a couple.The best age distance is usually 3 or so years apart, although that's hard to come by here, as most men want that younger woman they couldn't get back home. The more a gap, the more money is also involved, mostly coming from the man. Shared future plans and hobbies are always going to help, along with a commitment to the relationship, equal sharing of duties and same child rearing ideals, if there are children.Remember, to the younger women here, you're the ancient mariner, and if you knew what they thought about it, you would understand more how they feel and how they see you.I've always found whether here or back in America that being with a younger woman helps me to feel younger, and being with a woman my age makes me feel quite old, as she is typically stubborn, overly willful, obstinate, set in her ways, extremely opinionated, and prone to constant debate. No thanks. We all make choices in life and that's definitely one I've decided not to make.
February 18Feb 18 On 2/16/2026 at 10:40 PM, Patong2021 said:The allegation must be proven in court. The people who offer these types of excuses, typically have not accepted responsibility for their own deviant and anti-social behavior and are still blaming others for their failure(s) in life.No the allegations must not be proven in court. Not nowadays. The courts act on "believe the victim", and we know what that means.
February 19Feb 19 On 2/17/2026 at 7:58 AM, spidermike007 said:I've always found whether here or back in America that being with a younger woman helps me to feel younger, and being with a woman my age makes me feel quite old, as she is typically stubborn, overly willful, obstinate, set in her ways, extremely opinionated, and prone to constant debate. No thanks. We all make choices in life and that's definitely one I've decided not to make.When you find the right woman, her age doesn't matter, as the young ones will certainly screw with your head just as much.
February 19Feb 19 3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:When you find the right woman, her age doesn't matter, as the young ones will certainly screw with your head just as much.Maybe it would be appropriate for you to say "for me when I find the right woman the age doesn't matter".For me it does as I've stated I prefer younger women, I've tried older women, and I have no idea whatsoever why a man would be with a woman his age if he truly had a choice. But I do have a choice, and that's a tremendous bit of good fortune for me. Whatever works for you is okay, 99% of what's on this forum is just opinions.
February 19Feb 19 On 2/16/2026 at 7:58 PM, spidermike007 said:I've always found whether here or back in America that being with a younger woman helps me to feel younger, and being with a woman my age makes me feel quite old, as she is typically stubborn, overly willful, obstinate, set in her ways, extremely opinionated, and prone to constant debate. No thanks. We all make choices in life and that's definitely one I've decided not to make.It appears that you hold a negative view of strong women and may not fully embrace the principles of equality. This perspective aligns closely with MAGA beliefs.
February 19Feb 19 3 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:Maybe it would be appropriate for you to say "for me when I find the right woman the age doesn't matter".For me it does as I've stated I prefer younger women, I've tried older women, and I have no idea whatsoever why a man would be with a woman his age if he truly had a choice. But I do have a choice, and that's a tremendous bit of good fortune for me.Whatever works for you is okay, 99% of what's on this forum is just opinions.I wouldn't say 99%, as many back their words up with facts. There are a few here that assume about everything, but everyone knows them well. My reply to you just meant, seeing you said, "a woman my age makes me feel quite old, as she is typically stubborn, overly willful, obstinate, set in her ways, extremely opinionated, and prone to constant debate.", which is your experience with a certain amount. There are countless older women who are sweet, smart, independent, way past playing games, and easier to get along with as they're in your age group, so easier to relate to. Of course most men would like a younger, tighter woman, but that's a shallow way of looking at a partner, as we all age, some more than others.Some men are intimidated by older women, so go after the younger ones as they're easier to manipulate with that money. The more independent, older women aren't as easy to manipulate or fool.Thailand isn't the norm, as women here are a lot more centered on money, less apt to be independent while much younger, and the relationship as far as communication, being able to relate to your age level things, and your age interests comes secondary to that money. When you're 10 years and more older than now, she'll likely be the caretaker and more like a mother than a partner, and more likely to communicate even less, looking to family and friends for communication, which of course is the cement in all relationships.A man's first attraction to a woman is looks, which isn't a choice. After that, the relationship needs a lot more if it's going to be mutually enriching. Sex is great with a younger women, but after awhile, it's the rest that matters more, and when you do get older, will she still want it more and complain when you aren't willing or able? When you're closer in age, everything you do strengthens the bond. A lot do move here because sex is first and foremost on their minds, but again, after awhile, will her desires lower when yours do? Most cheating from women happens in these cases. Whatever works is right, but will it work later on?
February 19Feb 19 10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:My reply to you just meant, seeing you said, "a woman my age makes me feel quite old, as she is typically stubborn, overly willful, obstinate, set in her ways, extremely opinionated, and prone to constant debate.", which is your experience with a certain amount. There are countless older women who are sweet, smart, independent, way past playing games, and easier to get along with as they're in your age group, so easier to relate to. Of course most men would like a younger, tighter woman, but that's a shallow way of looking at a partner, as we all age, some more than others.The original poster desires a concubine because his fragile ego struggles to handle any disagreement from women. He believes that women should remain in the kitchen and not voice their opinions. In Western society, he is often labeled as a male chauvinist.
February 20Feb 20 16 hours ago, nick supreme said:It appears that you hold a negative view of strong women and may not fully embrace the principles of equality. This perspective aligns closely with MAGA beliefs.I love strong women, and my women are absolutely equal. I think you are confusing a woman who has the ability to manifest the dignity within femininity and a younger woman, with a woman who is submissive. Those are two completely different things but a very common error that American men make in their limited and narrow way of thinking.
February 20Feb 20 23 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:Maybe it would be appropriate for you to say "for me when I find the right woman the age doesn't matter".For me it does as I've stated I prefer younger women, I've tried older women, and I have no idea whatsoever why a man would be with a woman his age if he truly had a choice. But I do have a choice, and that's a tremendous bit of good fortune for me.Whatever works for you is okay, 99% of what's on this forum is just opinions.On 2/17/2026 at 7:58 AM, spidermike007 said:I've always found whether here or back in America that being with a younger woman helps me to feel younger, and being with a woman my age makes me feel quite old, as she is typically stubborn, overly willful, obstinate, set in her ways, extremely opinionated, and prone to constant debate. No thanks. We all make choices in life and that's definitely one I've decided not to make.Your dilection for younger women is likely brought about by your paraphilic infantilism preference.Do you have the same position with male friends? Are they so many years younger?Qualified help is available.🙃🙃
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