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Do foreigners in Thailand really change or just adapt?

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17 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Of course Im stoned a lot which makes it easier. 😀

It depends on your personality, I think. I used to know smokers who were on the paranoid side, and I tended to be too. Being an 'overthinker', I quit weed/hasch nearly 20 years ago because it wasn't good for me.

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  • Not bad. You should have added a story of a guy losing everything to a bargirl in your AI prompt, that would boost the chances of user engagement.

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    Are you going to accuse anyone who can write a coherent couple of paragraphs of using AI to do it for them? Is this some kind of reverse snobbery - where we now feel we have to dumb down our language

  • Did he admit to being gay or still pretending to be straight?

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Hopefully we change our perspective by living over here, I think that's part of the plan. If I wanted boring, predictable, listless, overpriced, and bitter I would have stayed in America.

On 3/22/2026 at 2:26 AM, rattlesnake said:

This is the gist of the issue: the OP is dumbed down and simplified.

No, in the above comment we have the issue. That issue seems to be owned by you.

On 3/21/2026 at 2:20 PM, SoCal1990 said:

asically all people who live and work here and have some sort of busy lifestyle

Interesting thing about people who work here "and keep a busy lifestyle" is they are usually either very well off with high salaries and/or businesses OR they are barely making much above local wages. There doesn't seem to be much inbetween.

A friend once told me that "Thailand is Disneyland for adults - you can have as many fun as you want as long as you can afford it" and if you can't afford it it's a far less pleasant place to be. I've had that experience in the past and decided to leave at the time (now I'm thankfully much better off).

On 3/22/2026 at 7:21 PM, Yagoda said:

Thailand has changed me to the extent that i am far more mai pen rai than I was before I hit LOS

Me too.

On 3/22/2026 at 3:03 AM, Lacessit said:

IMO I have not changed here. I have definitely adapted.

I just wish I had known about Thailand much earlier in life, to be more fluent in Thai, and avoid mistakes I made in Australia.

My sentiment entirely- the only difference is change Australia with England

Thailand is the next destination, and for some it is like landing on Mars

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6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Thailand is the next destination, and for some it is like landing on Mars

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More like landing on Venus, if you get my drift.

Having lived here 23 years, with the occasional visit back to the UK (I no longer refer to UK as home), I think I have changed and adapted.

Changed possibly partly due to my constantly increasing age (No, I am not yet old, and my birthdays seem to come regularly once a year like everyone else).

Looking back at the UK, I see living there as a mixture of hiding from the weather in small box houses, facing bills whether you want them or not, and looking at a generation of people with weird gender based ideas that I don't care to worry about.

With the immigration problems and the changing culture within the UK over the last 20 years, I also consider Thailand a much more civilized and safer country (excluding perhaps some of the crazy tourist centres).

I read on this site this morning that Israeli, Russian, and Indian tourists are the worst behaved, and assume drunk Brits are not far behind in the list.

Adapting: well that comes naturally over the years, whether it's learning to live comfortably with your fellow Thai friends and neighbours, or learning to love Larb or Khai Mot Daeng.

I've learned the language, to a point can read and write Thai. This happens naturally over time if you're going to live and enjoy your environment rather than cling to the past.

I don't plan to ever return to the UK, which has also changed and adapted to it's own foreign environment.

On 3/21/2026 at 7:20 PM, SoCal1990 said:

there was no real conclusions.

This poor grammar is the key indicator that the OP was not AI generated. The writer has good grasp of how to write an essay; it's sad that many here have such little intelligence as to not be able appreciate a point by point (pint by pint, maybe) descriptive analysis of what was obviously a wide-ranging conversation amongst friends.

Am I prolix? Possibly, but I'm not AI generated, just the product of a lifetime of love of the English language (and possibly myself).

On 3/22/2026 at 4:14 AM, scubascuba3 said:

Did he admit to being gay or still pretending to be straight?

You seem overly interested.

It’s never too late to give it a try you know.

7 hours ago, Keeenok Powell said:

You seem overly interested.

It’s never too late to give it a try you know.

Interesting topic but no not gay sorry to disappoint you

All caucasians left their home country, where they grew up in but none of them ever really arrived in Thailand. The hosts here make it crystal clear that you arrive, stay, depart/die as an alien - which is a substantial difference to South American expatriates from the Northern hemisphere.

If you can live with this, you manage beautifully but never ever believe that you're an integrated part of the Thai society.

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