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Cute Girl In CM, Half My Age: Am I Kidding Myself?

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12 minutes ago, novacova said:

Why bother putting her in that situation? Just tell her “let’s go rest for a while “ then head on over to your place. Then you’ll both know.

Thats how you approach a Pro! Not a decent girl!

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  • richard_smith237
    richard_smith237

    Not all girls in Thailand are hookers & will only ffff for money - that’s just your limited circle of exposure.

  • spidermike007
    spidermike007

    It sounds like you really like her and it sounds like she likes you too, so perhaps you're overthinking it a bit? Age difference is not considered as big a deal in Thailand as it is in the West, and m

  • BritManToo
    BritManToo

    Enjoy the sex, don't spend more than 1,500bht a go.

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Is that you bob? Nice of you to update us on your latest adventures. I do like your newfound style. A pleasant departure from your Soi 6 installments. 😂

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1 minute ago, Hummin said:

Thats how you approach a Pro! Not a decent girl!

Did you not read the op, or are you really that dense? They’ve

already developed a friendship relationship. Though you can’t ascertain the obvious since your perception always leans towards the negative lacking real world experiences.

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What is the age gap? There's 30 years between me and my wife and it works fine. I wouldn't focus on that, but focus on what YOU want. Are you looking for a serious relationship/marriage, or just sex?

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

In your situation - the way to find out is to invite her away for the weekend.

If she shows clear reluctance with excuse or ‘mai dai’ kind of responses - then you are friends.

If she shows interest & a positive reaction - she likes you.

I did invite a few women to travel with me, and I always said I would book two rooms, not one. None of them accepted that. Not one of them wanted to stay alone in a room while travelling together. Still, I thought it was nice and polite to ease the pressure on them. In the end, it was their decision.

The same thing happened in China when I had a professional translator/guide working with me on a few projects.

6 minutes ago, novacova said:

Did you not read the op, or are you really that dense? They’ve

already developed a friendship relationship. Though you can’t ascertain the obvious since your perception always leans towards the negative lacking real world experiences.

I hear you, but now you sideslipping and gets personal

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33 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Of all the women I've been with, none in the west were looking for money. They all worked. Those here want a foreigner to provide, and will go with an older , more settled man because of that

We aren't talking about the west where relationships are generally much more genuine than here because money isn't the same incentive.

At least you agree, here money is a big incentive, many are in denial

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42 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

No way you have a wife/girlfriend without some kinda of money incentive, your personality is not attractive at all

Same for all the self righteous posters, no money = no sex.

So I'm guessing they probably are lacking in sex drive, nothing wrong with that, I had an Aussie pal in his late 40s whom was quite happy with sex once a month from his wife.

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3 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

We aren't talking about the west where relationships are generally much more genuine than here because money isn't the same incentive.

At least you agree, here money is a big incentive, many are in denial

Not sure Fred would know as (by his own admission) he's never managed to keep one that long.

Probably because he didn't hand over enough money. I've found small regular payments are more effective than a house in their name right at the start.

Briffault's Law - past payments buy you nothing in the future.

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39 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

There you have it! Your response clearly gives away the answer we already know. You don´t have a clue! Now go back among you closed society, choose a woman for the night and live your life as usual.

In your dreams i don't have experience, i have a good lawyer friend of 10 years, she's always buying me stuff, I don't need to pay her to be a friend unlike what's normal with you

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I'M too old and too impatient to read long and arduous post about a man and a chic, can someone translate the post to the main points?

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9 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I did invite a few women to travel with me, and I always said I would book two rooms, not one. None of them accepted that. Not one of them wanted to stay alone in a room while travelling together.

19 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Thats how you approach a Pro! Not a decent girl!

Well it is apparent that you frequent indecent women sneaking off to a hotel and ready to hop in the sack.

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6 minutes ago, ezzra said:

I'M too old and too impatient to read long and arduous post about a man and a chic, can someone translate the post to the main points?

Maybe copy and paste into Gemini and ask to summarise. Might as well donthe same for all Fredwordy posts too

7 minutes ago, ezzra said:

I'M too old and too impatient to read long and arduous post about a man and a chic, can someone translate the post to the main points?

Right, so there was this foreign man who met a Thai woman and...

Just now, BritManToo said:

Not sure Fred would know as (by his own admission) he's never managed to keep one that long.

What long? Marriages last from one day to 50+ years, all depending on the partner you pick or how much you pay, for the women who are only interested in cash. I managed to keep them together for the kids sake, as long as I could, with partners who weren't good partner nor mothers.

Your UK wife "managed" to stay with you, likely because of the money or kids, until she could no longer take it, and left, with the kids. I got custody of the children because I am a good father, and partner, who picked the wrong partners to have children with three times, which is what most men go through, whether it's three ,one or twenty, even if the marriage lasts a lot longer because of finances or religions.

I never paid for women like you have, which has them stay longer because that's all they care about. I provided, for the family, then ended things because they weren't turning out to be what was needed for myself or the children. So I "managed" to stay long enough to have the children stable, with me of course, and now am with a girlfriend for over 5 years, but seeing we will be moving soon enough, will end unless she decides to move to the states after we're settled. If she decides to stay here because of her family, I will find another woman, for myself, as I'm done having children and can concentrate more on just the two of us.

When you comment on another's life, make sure you have enough experience to understand relationships only work if BOTH are into it. It was never about money but picking the wrong women to have children with. Remember, I'm the one who left.

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1 hour ago, Gottfrid said:

And please, disregard replies and statement from @HappyExpat57 @BritManToo , @scubascuba3 and @SAFETY FIRST as they seem to have very limited experience of women and relationships in their lifes. Always complaining about women, look at them as tools for sex and generally put bad labels of both the women in their home countries as well as in Thailand. Generalizing is the cornerstone of their lives.

I sympathise with any woman that ever had sex with you.

I expect you don't have much experience of sex with women.

Probably arrived in Thailand as a 60yo virgin.

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3 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Maybe copy and paste into Gemini and ask to summarise. Might as well donthe same for all Fredwordy posts too

Yes, some shouldn't comment if they don't understand the topic, or what others write if it's "too long" to comprehend.

7 minutes ago, novacova said:

Well it is apparent that you frequent indecent women sneaking off to a hotel and ready to hop in the sack.

Nice try, and what you know, impressed.

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Nice try, and what you know, impressed.

Sir, just pointing out one of many of your contradictions which leads to credibility issues.

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39 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Thats how you approach a Pro! Not a decent girl!

Treat ho's like ladies, treat ladies like Ho's.

2 hours ago, Off Piste said:

Maybe a night out with Rocky might help with the confidence issues..............

Where is she? Expected her to have dropped in three astounding snippets of life advice from AI sourced wisdom by now.

2 minutes ago, novacova said:

Sir, just pointing out one of many of your contradictions which leads to credibility issues.

The best you can do is make personal attacks instead of discussing the topic. Your opinion, experience, illusions, or analysis of others is not worth more than anyone else’s. Nice little touch with “Sir” there, Sir.

And if you claim there is a contradiction, point it out clearly. Vague claims about credibility are not an argument.

6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Treat ho's like ladies, treat ladies like Ho's.

Well, honestly, that is the nugget right there.

I never cease to be surprised, but still, my nature is to stand solid and treat every girl as a lady until she shows her true self and motives.

Everybody deserves respect, and if not, move along

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1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:
2 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

Not all girls in Thailand are hookers & will only ffff for money - that’s just your limited circle of exposure.

Many wives and girlfriends are quasi sex workers, earning money from their partners, many men pretend to themselves that's not so

If you wish to speak for yourself, please do so. What you should not do is assume that your experience speaks on behalf of everyone else.

None of my friends' wives have ever worked in the "entertainment industry". In fact, that entire world is completely foreign to them.

Your post, much like Brit's, carries the implication that many - perhaps even most - women in Thailand are sex workers, former sex workers, or somehow adjacent to that industry. That simply does not reflect the reality I have experienced living here.

My exposure to Thailand extends well beyond the nightlife enclaves of Pattaya and Phuket. Those places inevitably shape perceptions because they concentrate a very specific segment of Thai society.

When people spend most of their time in those environments, it is easy to mistake a highly visible minority for the broader population.

The reality is that Thailand is a country of nearly 70 million people. Judging Thai women primarily through the lens of the nightlife industry is like judging all Western women by what you encounter in a red-light district. It is not just inaccurate - it fundamentally distorts reality.

7 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Well, honestly, that is the nugget right there.

I never cease to be surprised, but still, my nature is to stand solid and treat every girl as a lady until she shows her true self and motives.

Everybody deserves respect, and if not, move along

Truth. A man always treats a woman with respect, as that's what he learned growing up. Some see their dads treat mom with disrespect, and follow suit, thinking all women are to be used, are dogs, hoes, expendable. That's a boy's thinking who never grew up.

Many women are plain trash, users, manipulators, greedy, cheats and liars, but you still treat them with respect, and leave them asap.

It would be a better world if the hoes and players ended up with each other, to drive themselves crazy, and the decent were with the decent, which would bring decent children into the world.

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4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Truth. A man always treats a woman with respect, as that's what he learned growing up. Some see their dads treat mom with disrespect, and follow suit, thinking all women are to be used, are dogs, hoes, expendable. That's a boy's thinking who never grew up.

Many women are plain trash, users, manipulators, greedy, cheats and liars, but you still treat them with respect, and leave them asap.

It would be a better world if the hoes and players ended up with each other, to drive themselves crazy, and the decent were with the decent, which would bring decent children into the world.

Give a rest Fred, nobody wants to read your wordy worthless narcissistic nonsense.

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7 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

None of my friends' wives have ever worked in the "entertainment industry". In fact, that entire world is completely foreign to them.

That's not the point, they are often looking for money the only difference is time scale, i see little difference in someone wanting money by the hour and someone wanting money for a few years marriage. A friend of mine was paying his wife 100k a month and a big payoff at the divorce, but you keep on dreaming it's always a genuine relationship

Just tell her that you find her attractive

and that you are lonely.

When Ja sends you such a lovely gift

you must accept.

Cute Girl In CM, Half My Age: Am I Kidding Myself?

You not in Kansas anymore Toto, and Asian gals are not Western gals. Thank god. So if the relationship works, if you're comfortable and she is comfortable - then go of it.

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Give a rest Fred, nobody wants to read your wordy worthless nonsense.

Funny thing, many do because it's honest. If you think my advice is worthless, that's because you aren't in a normal relationship yourself, but one you paid for from the get go. I've never done that, besides when I was a teenager and went with a couple hookers for a bj.

If you would read what I say, then look it up on websites on relationship advice from the pros, you would see it mirrors what they say. that I picked a couple wrong partners I had children with, is what millions of others have done and will continue to do with normal, or semi normal women.

P4P doesn't come into that spectrum, as anyone with cash can easily buy a sex partner that will stay, as long as the money keeps coming in.

You should give it a rest, as your experience with normal women ended when you left the UK, even though there are millions of normal women here.

I'm quite the opposite of a narcissist, and seeing you call me that, you haven't a clue what one is, as my lifestyle shows I'm not one. A narcissist uses women, and everyone else. I'm still in Thailand because I'm waiting for the right time to leave with my daughter. A narcissist would have left after the divorce, so educate yourself. And thanks for the thumbs downs Brit, as it shows you were called out and lost.

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