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Seonai - Update

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I'm sure she's gone to the light...............

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I'm not very good at these posts, never have been. I read this news at around 5am this morning, I didn't know what to say then and I'm not too sure what I want to say now.

A message to Seonai.

The world is always a sadder place when a good person is taken away, but when the grieving is over it becomes better from fond memories. A passing is inevitable, having a good life and being of benefit to those around you isn't a given, I think you got it just about right babe, comments here are a testament to that.

I rarely do this at this time in the morning, but, I just found one can of cold beer in the fridge, I've just opened it, and I'm raising it to you, your friends and family. Thank you for spending the time with us that you could.

Your upbeat attitude in the face of it all was deeply inspiring, Seonai. May you rest in peace.

R.I.P. Seonai

Taoism: shit happens

Buddhism: if shit happens, it isn't really shit

Islam: if shit happens, it is the will of Allah

Catholicism: if shit happens, you deserve it

Judaism: why does this shit always happen to us?

Atheism: I don't believe this shit

rest in peace Seonai

and if her son ever gets to read this, your mother was clearly a remarkable woman. her life may have been cut short, but she faced it all with such brevity. I hope you can draw on her courage.

her memories will always be with you. it will not be as good as having her around, but it will be something to keep you going.

all the best. always.

Seonai was a great lady who shared a lot with me when we were living on Ko Yao Noi together. we helped each other remain sane at times, i can tell you!

just last week i was talking to Seonai on skype, and some of her last words to me were:

So, know that I'll always have good memories of you and just enjoy thinking of the fun times you had with me... won't be long now dear

Sorry hon please keep your spirits high and always remember that every negative has a positive okay XXX

Here its 1am... let's see how it goes. Very proud of the way you've created a life for yourself

positive to the end.

I am sure that Seonai is at eternal peace now. I will be holding up a Vodka and Tonic in her honour this evening.

May you rest in peace and come back to haunt those who deserve it! I expect you to jump on the end of my bed every now and then to let me know you are OK (Seonai did say that she would do that).

sweet dreams.

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Donna, the last 2 texts for Seonai last week were in the same vein, funny, upbeat, practical;

Had no visitors today so contemplating and now actively making funeral plans & lists of stuff for mates to do when i go. After all thats done bec I can truely chill. I hope you can come down soon so we can have a bit of Seonai & Beccy time to roll over some thoughts & practicalities yeah?

My text back was arranging a visit for this coming sunday 28/06 & her reply;

k. cool. yeah mind is on morphine, valium & wine so this is keeping me on the proverbial toes! Am looking at - crematorium, few speeches, thai monks chanting as I go into the fire, a wee speech to tell the mates & family where to go for party, no black clothes, meddeteranian snacks, white wine & rose wine, gold glitter thrown around by the kids, couple of funny british poems and a bit of thai, a bit of moby and a bit of fat boy...x

We never got to have that chat & how I wish I had gone down on the weekend just gone instead.

If we can go out with half the class she did, we'll have done well.

Seonai was a great lady who shared a lot with me when we were living on Ko Yao Noi together. we helped each other remain sane at times, i can tell you!

I am sure that Seonai is at eternal peace now. I will be holding up a Vodka and Tonic in her honour this evening.

May you rest in peace and come back to haunt those who deserve it! I expect you to jump on the end of my bed every now and then to let me know you are OK (Seonai did say that she would do that).

sweet dreams.

Donna, the last 2 texts for Seonai last week were in the same vein, funny, upbeat, practical;
Had no visitors today so contemplating and now actively making funeral plans & lists of stuff for mates to do when i go. After all thats done bec I can truely chill. I hope you can come down soon so we can have a bit of Seonai & Beccy time to roll over some thoughts & practicalities yeah?

My text back was arranging a visit for this coming sunday 28/06 & her reply;

k. cool. yeah mind is on morphine, valium & wine so this is keeping me on the proverbial toes! Am looking at - crematorium, few speeches, thai monks chanting as I go into the fire, a wee speech to tell the mates & family where to go for party, no black clothes, meddeteranian snacks, white wine & rose wine, gold glitter thrown around by the kids, couple of funny british poems and a bit of thai, a bit of moby and a bit of fat boy...x

We never got to have that chat & how I wish I had gone down on the weekend just gone instead.

I want to send out a big hug to Donna and Boo as well as family, because you were both close mates of hers both in Thailand and at home. I know you are grieving as well; big, close, tight hug to you both. I couldn't sleep last night.

It is a testament to this forum how close I have come to feel to some of you, without ever meeting in the flesh. It goes to show that the spirit is stronger than bone. And that is the exact same reason why the most important parts of Seonai will never die. It is important that her son understand this, which I'm sure he will. Losing a parent so young has a way of deepening people early.

I was going to route my vacation plans through England just to see Seonai (because really - no offense people - but I'd much rather be other places in the summertime than NYC and blighty). I will miss seeing Boo, but I will catch up with her again down the road. Today, I made flight reservations to go to Italy instead! And, I will meet up with a friend in Tunisia! It is wildly impractical right now, and there are a few things to iron out with my job, but, I've wanted to go for so long, and Seonai's passing has inspired me to do something I really want to do, rather than somehting I have to or should do (like visit the folks in NYC, all healthy).

I am going to lift so many glasses of wine to Seonai, flirt with so many gorgeous men and eat and bask in the Med like they are my last days on earth. Seonai kept her inquisitive and life-loving spirit alive until the very end, and she has shown me why it is important to live like that every single day.

You will be missed Seonai, but not forgotten.

So sad. She was still young. I hope someone is able to take care of her son. If there is a money issue here, can someone from TV in Bangkok set up a place in Central Business District where people can anonymously come by and put THB 1,000 in a container for her son? THB 1,000 is a lunch for many of us, so in the aggregate it may add up and be helpful.

One thing i would like is to know her real name. I feel it would give me and others a name to the photo. Which is lovely.

My candle is still lit.

One thing i would like is to know her real name. I feel it would give me and others a name to the photo. Which is lovely.

My candle is still lit.

Patsy,

Seonai is her real name.

As for her surname's I don't feel comfortable putting them on here.

Although if it helps, Seonai is pronounced, the best I can up with, Shown ( Seon ) + ah ( ai ) Shownah ( Seonai ).

this is a photo of Seonai (in the middle) in happier times. I am sure that the others in the pic wont mind it being posted, as it was such a lovely day for all of us. I remember it clearly.

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Seonai sent me that image, and a few more, we had a good on-line laugh together - yes, in happier times.

Am i the only one who finds it a tad suspicous that barely a week after Seonai moves over to the other side, the biggest superstar of this generation follows her?

Seonai, were you really that desperate for that piss up we penciled in to have star billing that you would do such a thing?! Shame on you!

OK, we'll let you keep the moonwalking freak but keep your hands off Dylan, Franklin and Wonder! :)

Am i the only one who finds it a tad suspicous that barely a week after Seonai moves over to the other side, the biggest superstar of this generation follows her?

Seonai, were you really that desperate for that piss up we penciled in to have star billing that you would do such a thing?! Shame on you!

OK, we'll let you keep the moonwalking freak but keep your hands off Dylan, Franklin and Wonder! :)

Not just me thinkin that then.................... :D

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I hope that when it is my time, I can journey with as much class as she did.

RIP.

I hope that when it is my time, I can journey with as much class as she did.

RIP.

That is really a nice thought and so appropriate.

R.I.P. Seonai

Just got over the 500 message limit and ran across this thread... Truly heartbreaking.

I remember giving advice and some encouragement in the health forum I think a year back. I didn't realize it was so grave.

Now in a better place free of suffering and at peace...

A tear from an old grunt. :)

Darrell

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welcome back to the forum GunnyD, how're the babies doing?

The funeral for Seoani is happening today. It has also been one of the hottest weeks in UK so far too so she will get a send off in brilliant sunshine, which seems fitting somehow. Her request for no one to wear black will go very well with such a bright day too.

And I finally get to meet Moss, not in the best situation but it will be nice to put the face to the name none the less.

I hope the funeral is just as she would have wanted it - i'm sure it will be.

Many people around the world will be thinking of her today and of all you guys able to attend the funeral.

Enjoy celebrating her life.

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