To say the least I'm getting tired of this marriage thing fast. My Thai wife is always angry(why are women always angry?). I have no interest in sex with her and she never wants to anyways.

Thinking about doing a midnight runner on her as I can't face divorce. Maybe I'll leave to Phuket or Cambodia.

I'd like to return to the bar scene quite frankly. This thing has gotten tiring.

need a partner in crime ?

im in bkk btw,so i would need to escape to a differnt city .......

why wait till midnight! Get going! Life is way too short and if she finds out your intentions, maybe even shorter.

why wait till midnight! Get going! Life is way too short and if she finds out your intentions, maybe even shorter.

As the man said, life is too short.

I recall an old friend went to a professional counsellor years ago (not in Thailand), he came away with some small cards, each card has one question, in total about 5 or 6 questions.

I found some of the cards, the questions are:

- Be completely honest, does your wife have a human right to expect more from you? Or the reverse.

- Be completely honest, will this situation every change and be better?

I would go to Cambodia, if you stay in Thailand she will find you.

Is this the same wife that wanted to get a job at a go go?

I would go to Cambodia, if you stay in Thailand she will find you.

What makes you think she would want to find him? We haven't heard her side of the story!

Do you think she'll notice?

Do you think she'll remember you, next time you meet?

SC

Quite easy, really. If you find out you made assumptions that proved out to be false ones prior to getting married, recount the facts and if it's not worth it, leave. The method of leaving is up to personal preference, ie. asshol_e or not. End result is the same regardless of style issues.

Easy to avoid too. Just think with your head instead of your dick when starting anything that might last more than 15min (subject to your overall fitness and stamina). As a rule of thumb never marry one before you've gotten into a major fight with the female in question at least twice and had the balls so stand your ground without succumbing to pussy power. Then you'll know that you can make it through the lows as well, without becoming a whipping boy or a snap in the head further down road.

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maybe Chops and Wanna should do a swap.

"I'd like to return to the bar scene quite frankly. This thing has gotten tiring. "

And don't you think the bar scene gets tiring?

ul!In more ways than one maybe you should look at yourself...we all have to do that from time to time,good luck with your midnight run and be careful.

To say the least I'm getting tired of this marriage thing fast. My Thai wife is always angry(why are women always angry?). I have no interest in sex with her and she never wants to anyways.

You get gone; you stay gone; or else you be gone

Pulp Fiction.

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On average, I think about quitting on my g/f about once a week.

The grass is always greener. But one thing I have learned is that the bar scene is a road to nowhere.

To say the least I'm getting tired of this marriage thing fast. My Thai wife is always angry(why are women always angry?). I have no interest in sex with her and she never wants to anyways.

You get gone; you stay gone; or else you be gone

Pulp Fiction.

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On average, I think about quitting on my g/f about once a week.

The grass is always greener. But one thing I have learned is that the bar scene is a road to nowhere.

Not the exotic Thai-Chinese-Indian-Arabic one. Tell us not her!

I would have thought that Phuket would have been the first place to look for you.

As you mentioned in a recent post " Always pay her by the month. NEVER buy her houses and cars for cash. If she wont accept that give her the boot." this is probably why she is pissed off with you, it could be the trust element, as the commitment doesnt appear to be there on your part but you obviously have your reasons.

Unless the woman was totally evil, I personally would leave her a few thousand B's to tide her over and consider another country in SE Asia.

There are two sides to a story obviously and I prefer to be totally upfront as to the reasons why etc so that your partner can get on with her life.

Good luck and maybe keep away from those bars until you are feeling more stable.

A bitch of a thai wife , or, live in cambodia, the thai wife would win , hands down.

Just tell her you are bankrupt and insist she ask her friends, parents, siblings for loans so that you can repay debts or start a business/whatever. No reason to run.

To say the least I'm getting tired of this marriage thing fast. My Thai wife is always angry(why are women always angry?). I have no interest in sex with her and she never wants to anyways.

You get gone; you stay gone; or else you be gone

Pulp Fiction.

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On average, I think about quitting on my g/f about once a week.

The grass is always greener. But one thing I have learned is that the bar scene is a road to nowhere.

Not the exotic Thai-Chinese-Indian-Arabic one. Tell us not her!

Yes, the exotic Thai-Chinese-Indian-Arabic one who also has a Portuguese surname.

The grass is always greener, but we all know that it's not greener at all.

I think it's normal for men in their forties to fantasize about doing a runner and then starting a fresh life with a new model or a younger version.

But these are fantasies. Only fantasies.

Hope that you have never been faithful at least, it's the best way to never regret...

Consult the Paul Simon song: there are 50 ways, at least...

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Or the country song that has the line " take your tongue out of my mouth honey, cause i'm kissing you goodbye".

"The problem is all inside your head", she said to me

The answer is easy if you take it logically

I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free

There must be fifty ways to leave your lover

Is this the same wife that wanted to get a job at a go go?

And the same wife that cut off your beer money??

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Or the country song that has the line " take your tongue out of my mouth honey, cause i'm kissing you goodbye".

Or that famous Thai Visa posters song, "I Would Have Wrote You A Letter, But I Couldn't Spell Yuck."

In TL, its called 'going out for a pack of smokes'.

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Do you think she'll notice?

Do you think she'll remember you, next time you meet?

SC

So true, some guys you've already forgotten, while still looking at them...

Hope that you have never been faithful at least, it's the best way to never regret...

I like that a lot!

Hope that you have never been faithful at least, it's the best way to never regret...

I like that a lot!

Maybe there is hope for Disney world in Thailand after all.

Could've been me who started this thread

why not just man up and dump her?

why not just man up and dump her?

Ah Mr Troll has just crawled out from under his bridge...OP I wouldnt be taking relationship advice from "noturn" based on his current track record