She's Forgiven ... but it's not Forgotten

Your Thai Lady has done you wrong.

But she's the best thing (person) you ever met ... seriously.

Do you forget Her and move on?

or ...

Take it in your stride and Forgive and Forget?

It hasn't happened to me for many a year (in Thailand) ... but the coals still burn.

Maybe I'm an Elephant ... I never Forget ...

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Seems to me you've not really forgiven her.

Not when she had an orgasm, with me absent and not all by herself.

'The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.' Mahatma Gandhi

What does the boss think.

Miss farm girl.

You don't need to remember, even if you don't forget.

SC

David 48.

My post was made in good humour.

Maybe you have lost yours.

I have already read the post you referred to.

I take it that this some past love of yours David.

Life's road can tiresome to walk sometimes,why walk with extra weight in your back pack.

Move on,put it down to experience..........

Also, I go with what I use as my footer...If a man dwells on the past, then he robs the present. But if a man ignores the past, he may rob the future.

David 48.

My post was made in good humour.

Maybe you have lost yours.

I have already read the post you referred to.

Hedghog ... you're forgiven ... but not forgotten ...

You cannot move forward if you keep looking backward.

Learn from experience, anyone can make a mistake, as they saying goes, "a man that cant make a mistake cant do anything" if you dont learn from the mistake then thats the tradgedy!

In my book, if you cant forget it you havnt truly forgiven it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=my7aGsUv4tw

'The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.' Mahatma Gandhi

“Pardon one offence And you encourage the commission of many”.

Publilius Syrus, Great Thinker

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=my7aGsUv4tw

Beat me to it ...

I am a Fan of the Coors ... Pretty Girls they are.

I used to live in Ireland.

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other way round would they forgive you?

or just chop off your hampton

To err is human, to forgive is divine.

Don't blame her for walking away,

There was nothing on offer to make her stay,

You played with her and hurt her pride,

She wanted much more than just a ride,

She knew your game, right from the start,

Money alone can't win her heart,

Honesty and love are so much better,

An unfaithful man will never get her,

You rolled the dice and took a chance,

You lost the game and all romance,

You never thought that your heart could crack,

She walked away and she'll never come back.

This really needs a poll.

and pictures...

Does the OP's current beau know that he's still simmering over an ex's misdemeanours?

Don't blame her for walking away,

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+1

Please forgive me ... I've ran out of likes for the day.

I hope you've forgiven me ... but I've not forgotten ... will return tomorrow with a fistfull.

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Does the OP's current beau know that he's still simmering over an ex's misdemeanours?

It's a question in the general ... not the specific.

'The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.' Mahatma Gandhi

I prefer this one (particularly if she's been screwin' behind your back):

'Forgive all who have offended you, not for them, but for yourself.' Harriet Nelson

No silver bullet here. Only you can answer that question David.

Turn off your heart and your brain for a moment and listen to your gut.

I know this goes against many teachings and philosophies, but I can never forgive unless the offender is sorry and apologizes. If the offender ignores it and continues with life as if he did no wrong...

I prefer...don't get mad get even

Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me

I know this goes against many teachings and philosophies, but I can never forgive unless the offender is sorry and apologizes. If the offender ignores it and continues with life as if he did no wrong...

Wow, so true. However it takes a wise person though make an allowance for the others ignorance to say sorry. When the other has truly hurt YOU, to forgive but not forget is easy to say but deep down the others outspoken awareness of your hurt is needed to make forgiveness complete.

Personally, I like being a sad, lonely old man that just gets ignored. It's much easier than all that palaver pavlova!

God bless her and all who sail in her!

No silver bullet here. Only you can answer that question David.

Turn off your heart and your brain for a moment and listen to your gut.

You obviously know more about his diet than I do...

Happens in every country brother..........the answer is always the same

You might forgive but you never forget..once bitten twice shy

Depends on the nature and severity of the offense of course. In general if I can't forgive and forget then the only other choice is "time for a change girl, go pack your bags".