How To Know If A Thai Gf Use You For Money..?

[billaaa777]

It's easy, you can know if she is after you for your money if she is breathing.

[solid]

hoho

this thread is really funny.

[backflip]

She'll send you an email "from a police station" claiming she was involved in the death of a suspected robber and she needs 400,000THB for bail.

[guardian]

OP's original post nearly 2 months now and he/she/it was last online on 24th dec. Seems he/she/it's having a hearty laugh at reading all the responses, but never posted or replied again. TROLL ?

[DragonQuest]

a thai girl i once knew ask me for 5k-10k baht and she said she will repay me asap lol

a thai girl i was dating ask me to buy her a 500 baht hand bag and when i said no she said "goodbye" to me and walked away lol

[junkofdavid2]

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

[britmaveric]

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

Handsum???

[RAZZELL]

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

Upper class Thai's are racist?

[Donz]

im dating an upper class Thai girl.

But when your me you can date anyone

[DragonQuest]

Why is is that most thai girls stick around when theres only something in it for them, and dont stick around cause its just you?

example/ place to stay/food/clothes/ take them shopping/sex/ I mean when they ask for money its obvious what there after.

Then again if they try to contribute a little bit I think they are worth your time, cause a relashonship works both ways, you give and you take.

I have been with my thai/chinese girlfriend for over 6 years now and its a great relashonship^^

[yoshiki]

....

to me, love is not what she says but what she does.

....

this have stuck me.. though my so called girlfriend says she love me and stuff.. but i always see myself more committed than her.. when asked y she seldom spend time.. she say she needs to study..

" How To Know If A Thai Gf Use You For Money..?"

Good question... a very good question.

There are only two possible outcomes.

1. She is, and you won't realise it until it is too late.

2. She isn't and you will live happily every after.

Tell tale signs..... do you take turns to pay for the noodles, or is it heavily weighted on one side?

//edit/spelling

isnt it the norm whereby it's heavily weighted on one side?

Try this little test and i sugest all you guys out there courting these little money magnets to

do this to check yourself.

Tell her "Oh i had bad luck and lost alot of $$$ (stock market, business collapsed or just make

something up) and play it up big, grab onto her and start fake crying, really pour it on,

go hang off the balcony threatening to jump. Pretend you are going to drink a bottle of bleach.

Hang a noose your living room and put a chair under it and just stare at it the whole time

she is there while mumbling to yourself.

and then immediately CUT WAY DOWN on your spending and cry poor mouth. Dont buy

anything, complain about paying for 20 baht soup moo, etc etc etc , be creative here.

Ask her to pay for stuff. Only have 100 baht in your wallet. Open an account with only

7,000 baht in it and leave the atm receipts out in the open. Visit the ATM and pretend

"no money come out" and walk away sad. Tell her you cant come out tonight because

friday nights are the best nights for begging on Soi Suk.

Keep this up for a few weeks, and i guarantee you - you will see her true stripes. Either

she will be gone searching for the next victim or she will stay with you and you will be able

to trust her more after this. It also sets a good precedent where you wont have to buy her

much in the future because she thinks your broke.

But do this for yourself especially if your considering marriage. This is the land of scams,

be on top of your game.

PM me for more ideas, i'll be glad to help.

-nam

maybe i need more ideas!!

[Tempura]

sorry to sound harsh white boys...

but just a matter of fact:

upper-classed thai girls from upper classed families

(like graduates or students of Chulalongkorn University or Thamassat or Mahidol) RARELY want to date farang men. (yeah, yeah, i know, there are "exceptions")

However, lower-classed and middle classed thai girls seem to like dating farang men just fine.

Why is that?

I won't say anything. You can answer the question for yourselves...

Yeah, it's harsh but true in a sense.

These ladies would even avoid dating white guys coz it might make them look bad.

I know it could be a racist statement, but the fact is there.

There might be cases in which a college girl dating a white guy who's an international student in her college, but well, they both are at their 20s, and I don't think they'll go that far to the point of getting married.

Your case? 48 and marriage? well, the fact is there, once again.

[sriracha john]

The OP... a first time post consisting of 5 sentences with no followup posts, despite 71 subsequent reply posts and 5,000-plus views 3 months later.

An extremely successful troll. Well done, OP.

[jtp]

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,

Bob

Has anyone considered looking around the same age as themselves?I Have a lovely girl,similar age as myself,with child to support.She is not poor,but not wealthy either.I met online,and she would like to have the same living standards as myself?Can you blaim a person for wanting some financial stability in there life?I think she loves me,but it is hard to know a persons heart and mind,but i am sticking with it,and will see where it takes me!Just consider if a young girl would want you in your own country????Try an older lady,if you want true love;Chase a child and you will be sorry,i can assure you,money is THE ONLY THING that makes an old person attractive to a young lady.Did you find a 48 year old,non attractive women appealing when you were 26???But accept that a young lady will happily treat you with love if you can provide for her,and this is the compromise that you must either accept,or not!But i do wish you the best of luck,everybody deserves to feel some love in their lives!

[helicoptor]

The upper class Thai girl was banging on Donz bedroom door last night...but he wouldnt let her out

arf arf

[malcy]

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,

Bob

if you suspect she is involved in the sex trade ( god forbid ) a good indicater is if she can put a condom on with her/his mouth . probably doesn't apply in this case though im sure she loves you slim chap jing jing

[malcy]

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,

Bob

hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?

[ThaiFelix]

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,

Bob

hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?

I think you hit the nail right on the head there Malcy, well done.

I look at it this way. I have been with this terrific girl now for two years. We were married about two years ago. She did have quite a few questions about money in the beginning, and I dont blame her. At the time of meeting her I was spending more than my salary each month, boozing and whoreing around Bangkok. When we talked about her moving in with me, I made a deal with her that she could have my salary each month (less 5000 for savings) and she had to manage with the rest. I expected the same standard of living, holidays etc and she was not to ask for more for family etc...she had all the money now. The biggest condition was that we be completely honest with each other.

Two years down the track I am as happy as a pig in shit. She cooks for me every day, and she is a great cook. I do absolutly nothing, bar wiping my arse and brushing my teeth. She even packs my work bag every morning, polishes my shoes, sees there is money in my wallet, and lines my clothes up to get dressed. She would dress me if I let her. We have holidays away and even go into Nana a couple of times a year, book a hotel, and select a couple of party girls for the night! While jealous at rare times, she trusts me as I have worked real hard proving by example that I am as honest as I say. I dont go to bars as a habit and spend most of my time with her (happily).

The way I see it, it is an agreement. Isnt that what a marriage is? Not sure I love her but have the greatest respect for her because she has kept up her end of the bargain. She never asks for more money, except maybe an advance on next months if we have had a heavy one. And she knows I have had a few pay rises since the original agreement which I keep in the bank. She even asks me if it is ok with me if she send her family some dosh (I think twice) and it has never affected my standard of living. Yes your right, it is a normal thing for the Thai women to handle the finances and it is a lot cheaper too.

Another point is that traditionallyThai women see there fathers as gods. And when they marry, their husbands take that place. I know my wife is with me for the long haul as her father wanted the marriage registered in my home country and I refused more than a village wedding as I was concerned about my assets there (been taken twice already). I explained this and she agreed, going against her father's wishes..that tells me a lot knowing Thais like I do!

It seems a lot of Thai men give their women the run around. A girlfriend on every corner. I know for a fact her previous gave her a hel_l of a time. And what about us Farang? How many times have Farang men promised the world and then gone back home on the next plane never to be heard from again.

But yes be very careful. By the way, I am 55 and my wife is 33 years old.

From a very happy camper!

Ps This Donz bit is a joke right? Or doesnt he know it yet?

[malcy]

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,

Bob

hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?

I think you hit the nail right on the head there Malcy, well done.

I look at it this way. I have been with this terrific girl now for two years. We were married about two years ago. She did have quite a few questions about money in the beginning, and I dont blame her. At the time of meeting her I was spending more than my salary each month, boozing and whoreing around Bangkok. When we talked about her moving in with me, I made a deal with her that she could have my salary each month (less 5000 for savings) and she had to manage with the rest. I expected the same standard of living, holidays etc and she was not to ask for more for family etc...she had all the money now. The biggest condition was that we be completely honest with each other.

Two years down the track I am as happy as a pig in shit. She cooks for me every day, and she is a great cook. I do absolutly nothing, bar wiping my arse and brushing my teeth. She even packs my work bag every morning, polishes my shoes, sees there is money in my wallet, and lines my clothes up to get dressed. She would dress me if I let her. We have holidays away and even go into Nana a couple of times a year, book a hotel, and select a couple of party girls for the night! While jealous at rare times, she trusts me as I have worked real hard proving by example that I am as honest as I say. I dont go to bars as a habit and spend most of my time with her (happily).

The way I see it, it is an agreement. Isnt that what a marriage is? Not sure I love her but have the greatest respect for her because she has kept up her end of the bargain. She never asks for more money, except maybe an advance on next months if we have had a heavy one. And she knows I have had a few pay rises since the original agreement which I keep in the bank. She even asks me if it is ok with me if she send her family some dosh (I think twice) and it has never affected my standard of living. Yes your right, it is a normal thing for the Thai women to handle the finances and it is a lot cheaper too.

Another point is that traditionallyThai women see there fathers as gods. And when they marry, their husbands take that place. I know my wife is with me for the long haul as her father wanted the marriage registered in my home country and I refused more than a village wedding as I was concerned about my assets there (been taken twice already). I explained this and she agreed, going against her father's wishes..that tells me a lot knowing Thais like I do!

It seems a lot of Thai men give their women the run around. A girlfriend on every corner. I know for a fact her previous gave her a hel_l of a time. And what about us Farang? How many times have Farang men promised the world and then gone back home on the next plane never to be heard from again.

But yes be very careful. By the way, I am 55 and my wife is 33 years old.

From a very happy camper!

Ps This Donz bit is a joke right? Or doesnt he know it yet?

you sound like a very lucky man , my wife cant cook although that dosent stop her trying yuuk

[dumspero]

I was having great fun reading all the posts following the obvious troll OP.

But what was the comment about dating someone close to your age? Where did that craziness come from?

I remember meeting an 87 year old man with an 18-year old (she said, but looked younger) Thai wife. He said that's nothing, my brother is 91 and his Thau wife is 17--and it was true! Those men are my gods! Certainly something to shoot for, no pun intended.

[Nhscotsman]

Hello all,

I am a 48 yr german and have currently a thai gf of 26. I meet her a few months ago on msn and visited her some times in bkk. She says she loves me and she want to marry me. How can i know if she really loves me ? Anybody has experience with this ?

Thanks,

Bob

hi i am a 26 year old thai girl and have recently met a 48 year old german man. how can i know if he loves me or just wants me for my fit young brown well toned body ? ps i have an arse like a ten year old fillipino boy do you think this is a factor ?

I think you hit the nail right on the head there Malcy, well done.

I look at it this way. I have been with this terrific girl now for two years. We were married about two years ago. She did have quite a few questions about money in the beginning, and I dont blame her. At the time of meeting her I was spending more than my salary each month, boozing and whoreing around Bangkok. When we talked about her moving in with me, I made a deal with her that she could have my salary each month (less 5000 for savings) and she had to manage with the rest. I expected the same standard of living, holidays etc and she was not to ask for more for family etc...she had all the money now. The biggest condition was that we be completely honest with each other.

Two years down the track I am as happy as a pig in shit. She cooks for me every day, and she is a great cook. I do absolutly nothing, bar wiping my arse and brushing my teeth. She even packs my work bag every morning, polishes my shoes, sees there is money in my wallet, and lines my clothes up to get dressed. She would dress me if I let her. We have holidays away and even go into Nana a couple of times a year, book a hotel, and select a couple of party girls for the night! While jealous at rare times, she trusts me as I have worked real hard proving by example that I am as honest as I say. I dont go to bars as a habit and spend most of my time with her (happily).

The way I see it, it is an agreement. Isnt that what a marriage is? Not sure I love her but have the greatest respect for her because she has kept up her end of the bargain. She never asks for more money, except maybe an advance on next months if we have had a heavy one. And she knows I have had a few pay rises since the original agreement which I keep in the bank. She even asks me if it is ok with me if she send her family some dosh (I think twice) and it has never affected my standard of living. Yes your right, it is a normal thing for the Thai women to handle the finances and it is a lot cheaper too.

Another point is that traditionallyThai women see there fathers as gods. And when they marry, their husbands take that place. I know my wife is with me for the long haul as her father wanted the marriage registered in my home country and I refused more than a village wedding as I was concerned about my assets there (been taken twice already). I explained this and she agreed, going against her father's wishes..that tells me a lot knowing Thais like I do!

It seems a lot of Thai men give their women the run around. A girlfriend on every corner. I know for a fact her previous gave her a hel_l of a time. And what about us Farang? How many times have Farang men promised the world and then gone back home on the next plane never to be heard from again.

But yes be very careful. By the way, I am 55 and my wife is 33 years old.

From a very happy camper!

Ps This Donz bit is a joke right? Or doesnt he know it yet?

My girlfriend is the same way as yours sounds. Mine never asks for money and granted we aren't married YET....we plan to be but she always speaks down about thai men and will always discuss whats in the heart is what counts. She was looking for a man other than Thai and I consider myself fortunate to have found her, but even still, I do watch her very closely moneywise. But I never send her money when I'm in the states and when I'm in Thailand with her, I control the money and what is spent. But we're new too compared to some that have been together for years. I just play it day by day and if and when she starts asking for money, the wallet will be closed and locked. If there is ever an issue with her when I come to Thailand, I am only a few hours from Pattaya to find more company. Either way though, I like to think there are some genuine Thai women out there looking for a good man.

Chu Chu

[mangoman007]

Read the book Private Dancer by Stephen Leather. It's available everywhere

[Catpian Slackbladder]

Why are you worried? Thai women can very well love a man for his money, they can actually bring themselves to love him, even if he is unattractive and unattentive.

Is it so important WHY she loves you? Even if she is "only" after your money - she probably will love you (as long as you are considered richer than the average Thai yuppie in her environment).

So true, my mates missus undoubtedly loves him for the 30,000 baht of gold every few months, the rent free accomodation and the paying of international school fees for HER children! And this is before he is ALLOWED to meet the family up country.... which he can't do until he buys her a brand new top of the range Fortuner...... which he is taking delivery of today! Oh and he can't drive.... I'd say thats a bargain in exchange for a little bit of ironing!

[kiakaha]

this applys to women worldwide...

the only sure way to know is have an accountant audit her net worth, if it is greater than yours, then you are probably safe

[RAZZELL]

What happened to the Troll...oops sorry...OP?

RAZZ

[paulsmithson]

Thai felix!

mine puts the toothpaste on the brush then lovingly brushes and flosses my teeth as I sit on the toilet having my daily dump!!!

She refuses to whipe my bum but she does tenderly pat it dry after she has washed it with the spray hose!!

There is nothing she does not do for me-----even brings me and my current' bit on the side' a cup of coffee in bed in the mornings and ands me her aTM card in case I need money for beer whilst she is out then she heads off to work.

[malcy]

Thai felix!

mine puts the toothpaste on the brush then lovingly brushes and flosses my teeth as I sit on the toilet having my daily dump!!!

She refuses to whipe my bum but she does tenderly pat it dry after she has washed it with the spray hose!!

There is nothing she does not do for me-----even brings me and my current' bit on the side' a cup of coffee in bed in the mornings and ands me her aTM card in case I need money for beer whilst she is out then she heads off to work.

lol

[sriracha john]

The now 4 month-long troll thread just keeps rolling merrily along....

[LaoPo]

The now 4 month-long troll thread just keeps rolling merrily along....

Good old Bob1900-with-1-post was: " Last Seen: 24 Dec 2006 "

Hmmm...maybe he's too busy on Bangla rd in Phuket..

LaoPo

[davidjtayler]

The now 4 month-long troll thread just keeps rolling merrily along....

Good old Bob1900-with-1-post was: " Last Seen: 24 Dec 2006 "

Hmmm...maybe he's too busy on Bangla rd in Phuket..

LaoPo