Superme Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 Hello everyone. Before you roast me for adding another boring (for guys topic) please read I promise I searched other forums and website but mostly I find a bad things about Thai girls. Can someone please share opinion about this. I have a girlfriend in Thailand. I saw her twice only. We chat on LINE, messenger everyday a lot during day and night. She send me a tons of pics. She don't mind spread the love all over social medias to me. She is crazy about me. She wants come to me and have children and family with me. We both 35. She really pushing me for a child and marriage which I'm happy to do but just one thing bugging me. Is it love or just visa. I'm not rich, quite good looking guy. I have no experience with Thai girls. Is it normal that they fall in love so fast? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 Big wheel keep on turning, Proud Mary keep on burning. Trolling, Trolling, Trolling, Trolling. Trolling on a river. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Superme Posted September 29, 2016 Author Share Posted September 29, 2016 3 minutes ago, starky said: Big wheel keep on turning, Proud Mary keep on burning. Trolling, Trolling, Trolling, Trolling. Trolling on a river. Hey people what is wrong with you about this trolling thing. This is a second post I read this crap. If you have nothing to say in this matter then just don't waste my time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prestburypark Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 (edited) Hey I married my Thai girlfriend 11 years ago, we had only met twice too, I took a chance and here we are 11 years later so happy it is unbelieve-it-able. So I suggest that you start proceedings immediately to ensure that you do not make the mistake of letting her slip out of your hands, do this: Start with a small monthly payment to help her out a little financially , maybe just 20-30,000 baht. Buy land in her village, preferably from her family , who will ensure that no-one rips you off, engage a builder locally and allow you soon-to-be wife to manage the design and build. Remember that she must show face to the family and village, have a nice car, Fortuner or a good Honda , few motorcycles, and a never-ending supply of whisky and beer. Buy her mum 3 or 4 baht of gold, improve mum's house and get her a new motorcycle, she will hate you slightly less for it...wait happiness is just around the corner.... have children , at 35 she has had practise at this and there will be on or two to support from her previous life, hell, thats fine, have some more. Job done, you are now officially happy with one of the best girls in the world you could possibly imagine, you must not forget the amazing wedding party in the village with the Lao band and dancing girls, free booze for the village and Sin -Sod for the mum, happy trails. Edited September 29, 2016 by prestburypark Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 1 hour ago, prestburypark said: Hey I married my Thai girlfriend 11 years ago, we had only met twice too, I took a chance and here we are 11 years later so happy it is unbelieve-it-able. So I suggest that you start proceedings immediately to ensure that you do not make the mistake of letting her slip out of your hands, do this: Start with a small monthly payment to help her out a little financially , maybe just 20-30,000 baht. Buy land in her village, preferably from her family , who will ensure that no-one rips you off, engage a builder locally and allow you soon-to-be wife to manage the design and build. Remember that she must show face to the family and village, have a nice car, Fortuner or a good Honda , few motorcycles, and a never-ending supply of whisky and beer. Buy her mum 3 or 4 baht of gold, improve mum's house and get her a new motorcycle, she will hate you slightly less for it...wait happiness is just around the corner.... have children , at 35 she has had practise at this and there will be on or two to support from her previous life, hell, thats fine, have some more. Job done, you are now officially happy with one of the best girls in the world you could possibly imagine, you must not forget the amazing wedding party in the village with the Lao band and dancing girls, free booze for the village and Sin -Sod for the mum, happy trails. Awesome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 I married 10 years ago never got pressure for babies or money or house or payments to family or a car or bike or living in my homeland.........................where did I go wrong??????? confused of Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedghog Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 "Spreads the love on social media". Craigslist has plenty spreading the love, for a small fee. Line is a common media for students wishing to earn a little extra,spreading the love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grumbleweed Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Nothing like a "How can anyone be so stupid moment?" with the morning coffee OP, this is the reason people are calling you a troll. Actually they are being kind. If they said what they really thought of someone considering marriage after 2 meetings you'd probably need therapy. At least we all know she's not marrying you for your brains Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxman71 Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 I believe it was Rod Stewart who made this quote, "If I ever want to get married again, I'll just find a woman I don't like and give her a house."...In Thailand, getting away with just a house to your love-of-your-life-after-two-face-to-face-meetings, you're getting off cheap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 She's different. Carry on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helloagain Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 6 hours ago, Superme said: Hey people what is wrong with you about this trolling thing. This is a second post I read this crap. If you have nothing to say in this matter then just don't waste my time. Your a meal ticket Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbbooboo Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 5 hours ago, prestburypark said: Hey I married my Thai girlfriend 11 years ago, we had only met twice too, I took a chance and here we are 11 years later so happy it is unbelieve-it-able. So I suggest that you start proceedings immediately to ensure that you do not make the mistake of letting her slip out of your hands, do this: Start with a small monthly payment to help her out a little financially , maybe just 20-30,000 baht. Buy land in her village, preferably from her family , who will ensure that no-one rips you off, engage a builder locally and allow you soon-to-be wife to manage the design and build. Remember that she must show face to the family and village, have a nice car, Fortuner or a good Honda , few motorcycles, and a never-ending supply of whisky and beer. Buy her mum 3 or 4 baht of gold, improve mum's house and get her a new motorcycle, she will hate you slightly less for it...wait happiness is just around the corner.... have children , at 35 she has had practise at this and there will be on or two to support from her previous life, hell, thats fine, have some more. Job done, you are now officially happy with one of the best girls in the world you could possibly imagine, you must not forget the amazing wedding party in the village with the Lao band and dancing girls, free booze for the village and Sin -Sod for the mum, happy trails. Lol.....so funny.You forgot the "brother" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SOUTHERNSTAR Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 OP do you think it is normal for her to be head over heels in love with you ? Do you think meeting her twice is enough for you to make a life long commitment on? Do you think it is fair towards any future child that you and the gf have children even before you know each other, as the potential of a divorce is much greater if the couple don't know each other? Think with your head and not your ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 4 hours ago, starky said: Awesome Yea, thanked for the lolz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 No, it is rarely just visa - mostly, it is promise of Western cash and earning potential... a child is a lifelong commitment of payments for most Western guys who are less likely to abandon a kid... your looks and age [being young and handsome] have very little to do with it... the opportunity you afford, is 99% of it, especially if you are willing to marry and pay sin sod to her family... how much do you really know about her life? Any kids? Work? Thai ladies are very charming flirts... But, that would just be the stereotypical answer as I do not know either of you... but to answer your question, do Thai ladies fall in love that quickly - no, not usually. After 30, especially if they have had a kid or two, it can be difficult for them to find a guy... but they are not naive... I was at a wedding, before the ceremony, sitting about with the 35 yr old Thai lady and asking her what she really thought of the new husband... though gazing at him lovingly, she told me she wasn't sure yet... but, he seemed like a good guy and I think she will make a good wife for him... but love at first internet contact - - not really... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meatboy Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 5 hours ago, prestburypark said: Hey I married my Thai girlfriend 11 years ago, we had only met twice too, I took a chance and here we are 11 years later so happy it is unbelieve-it-able. So I suggest that you start proceedings immediately to ensure that you do not make the mistake of letting her slip out of your hands, do this: Start with a small monthly payment to help her out a little financially , maybe just 20-30,000 baht. Buy land in her village, preferably from her family , who will ensure that no-one rips you off, engage a builder locally and allow you soon-to-be wife to manage the design and build. Remember that she must show face to the family and village, have a nice car, Fortuner or a good Honda , few motorcycles, and a never-ending supply of whisky and beer. Buy her mum 3 or 4 baht of gold, improve mum's house and get her a new motorcycle, she will hate you slightly less for it...wait happiness is just around the corner.... have children , at 35 she has had practise at this and there will be on or two to support from her previous life, hell, thats fine, have some more. Job done, you are now officially happy with one of the best girls in the world you could possibly imagine, you must not forget the amazing wedding party in the village with the Lao band and dancing girls, free booze for the village and Sin -Sod for the mum, happy trails. what a story,im sure i have seen this post many many times before,but you did forget to mention that her BROTHER lives with you aswell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phantomfiddler Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 6 hours ago, Superme said: Hey people what is wrong with you about this trolling thing. This is a second post I read this crap. If you have nothing to say in this matter then just don't waste my time. But Starky is spot on, you can,t criticize someone for being right :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phantomfiddler Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 I had a girl fall in love with me before my wallet hit the ground ! but when you are as witty, charming, and handsome as I am you just get used to it :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farang99 Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 4 hours ago, kannot said: I married 10 years ago never got pressure for babies or money or house or payments to family or a car or bike or living in my homeland.........................where did I go wrong??????? confused of Thailand Glad to read another happy story. I got married 18 years ago to a girl I had known for 6 months. Registered the marriage at the amphur (no expensive religious ceremony or party) and have lived contentedly and mostly happily ever since. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucifer666 Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 People should be given a I.Q test before coming here. Just buy her a house and send her your bank/credit card details. This will guarantee to cut out many wasted years of misery and a million posts on TVF asking " Where did i go wrong?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
williamgeorgeallen Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 6 hours ago, starky said: Big wheel keep on turning, Proud Mary keep on burning. Trolling, Trolling, Trolling, Trolling. Trolling on a river. man that made me laugh. trollin on thai visa. but seriously most of the thai girls willing to date western men see us as a job opportunity. if you like thai girls then you have a lot of options so she will try to land you as fast as possible. just keep it casual for 6 months and see if she asks for money. if she dosent then you have probably have found one of the better ones. dont be in to much of a hurry. my girl had out 2 kids at the age of 38 and 41. probably best to avoid the marriage thing. dont buy or build a house in her name and as a general rule thais are happier in thailand. good luck. dating a thai is not easy if you are looking long term. very few thai/western relationships go past 10 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bark Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Sorry, but your GF works at Nana Plaza. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bark Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 4 minutes ago, williamgeorgeallen said: man that made me laugh. trollin on thai visa. but seriously most of the thai girls willing to date western men see us as a job opportunity. if you like thai girls then you have a lot of options so she will try to land you as fast as possible. just keep it casual for 6 months and see if she asks for money. if she dosent then you have probably have found one of the better ones. dont be in to much of a hurry. my girl had out 2 kids at the age of 38 and 41. probably best to avoid the marriage thing. dont buy or build a house in her name and as a general rule thais are happier in thailand. good luck. dating a thai is not easy if you are looking long term. very few thai/western relationships go past 10 years. I heard a Chinese singer try to sing this song, once. Couldn't say the "R's" It was Lolling, Lolling, Lolling on the River. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i claudius Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 5 hours ago, kannot said: I married 10 years ago never got pressure for babies or money or house or payments to family or a car or bike or living in my homeland.........................where did I go wrong??????? confused of Thailand Same thing happened to me , but then we were "courting for nearly a year before we got married . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimbo1964 Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Love in Thailand is not the western type of love, its more security for her and her family. So yes she loves you, your money and the security that she thinks she might get from you / your money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laughing Gravy Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 I have to say no wonder you are getting roasted. Would you come on a forum asking for help on your internet relationship. If so, you deserve the flaming. Your who question reeks' of being a troll, with two posts to your credit. I am surprised the Mods haven't closed this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Sorry, but your GF works at Nana Plaza.At 35? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bark Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Just now, brewsterbudgen said: At 35? Yes, maybe ur right. His GF works outside Nana Plaza, and gets all the Old Arab men, that the Real Hot 20 years Thai girls will not touch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petermik Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Superme Go for it........ she sounds like the type of thai girl I met many years ago,I told her I had absolutely no money and it was never a problem as she has her own business and it comfortably takes care of both of us,she even gives me a 5,000 baht weekly "entertainment" allowance I,m in my early 60,s and teerak is 34 with no children and an absolute animal in the bedroom,I,ve never experienced anything of the like before,she funded our home and I supervised the build as I no longer work and what a place its turned out to be. She even has funded my sons from the UK to come and visit,what a diamond I have found.....sounds like your lady is made from the same mould. Grab her while you can. Dreams.............that,s what life is all about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donutz Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 OP it may come as a surprise but Thai people are human beings and not from a different planet. The odds of a person falling in love with you, wishing a baby etc. are just as big or small as this happening in your local hometown. So it's simple really, follow your brain and heart. Assuming you are not stupid you should be able to figure out how genuine the relationship is, and simply don't put more into it than you are willing to lose. Ignore the silly posts in this topic, use common sense and you should be fine. Since common sense is the answer here some do seem to question if your topic is a genuine one. Good luck figuring things out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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