Been there done that Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 An honest poster wrote this on a topic. I am nor married nor have a steady gf. Nevertheless How about yours, does she stay with you for the money ? Honest replies appreciated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommysboy Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Obviously, it is a major factor initially, simply because of the way life is out here. But as the relationship develops then normal motives come in to play. I think one has to be honest and say that in a perfect world, many young woman would not choose to be with a man past his prime for the same reason most men prefer a younger woman over a more mature one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 One of those topics that the OP knows will obtain lots of replies. Is he referring to Thai women or all female partners in general? The OP seems to be suggesting that women are gold diggers, if not he would not be asking the question. Men get the women they deserve and if guys let women or anyone else use them as biological ATMs, then more fool them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 A Male Farang at 65 looks old. A Female Farang at 65 looks VERY old. A Female Thai at 65 looks not so old. A Female Thai at 45 looks far better than a Male Farang at 65. At this point, money comes into play. All said. If that's not an honest answer, then I don't know what is. Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mduras01 Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Mine never brought up money, sin sod, etc. Felt like a regular western style relationship where family and her put no financial pressure whatsoever, which I appreciated. However they did want to make sure I was stable in life, no shadiness, etc—same questions I was asked in the States by exs’ parents. She’s from Chiang Mai, artist. I think there are plenty like her out there.Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 (edited) 4 minutes ago, swissie said: A Male Farang at 65 looks old. A Female Farang at 65 looks VERY old. A Female Thai at 65 looks not so old. A Female Thai at 45 looks far better than a Male Farang at 65. At this point, money comes into play. All said. If that's not an honest answer, then I don't know what is. Cheers. The OP has not specifically mentioned Thai women, so how is this topic even Thailand related? In-fact this is rather derogatory against women. Why not ask, does your husband treat you like a servant and only want`s you for sex. Edited October 30, 2017 by cyberfarang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 7 minutes ago, cyberfarang said: The OP has not specifically mentioned Thai women, so how is this topic even Thailand related? Because OP has posted in a Thai-Forum. Cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Been there done that Posted October 30, 2017 Author Share Posted October 30, 2017 17 minutes ago, cyberfarang said: The OP has not specifically mentioned Thai women, so how is this topic even Thailand related? In-fact this is rather derogatory against women. Why not ask, does your husband treat you like a servant and only want`s you for sex. Good idea for a next topic. Coming up soon on your forum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommysboy Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 15 minutes ago, swissie said: A Male Farang at 65 looks old. A Female Farang at 65 looks VERY old. A Female Thai at 65 looks not so old. A Female Thai at 45 looks far better than a Male Farang at 65. At this point, money comes into play. All said. If that's not an honest answer, then I don't know what is. Cheers. Relative attractiveness certainly plays its part, but there are other imbalances to do with age, and life experience, eg, outlook regarding kids, life plans, and just what one finds interesting and the other not. That's not to say that some are not perfectly suited, and, after all, many ideal matches within peer age groups falter too. All people tend to look old as they age Some age better than others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Been there done that Posted October 30, 2017 Author Share Posted October 30, 2017 2 hours ago, mommysboy said: Obviously, it is a major factor initially, simply because of the way life is out here. But as the relationship develops then normal motives come in to play. I think one has to be honest and say that in a perfect world, many young woman would not choose to be with a man past his prime for the same reason most men prefer a younger woman over a more mature one. I strongly disagree with your last sentence. Personally i prefer mature women over young women who look good. More sustainable in my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommysboy Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 1 minute ago, Been there done that said: I strongly disagree with your last sentence. Personally i prefer mature women over young women who look good. More sustainable in my opinion. I said 'many' and 'most'. I didn't say all. I would suggest that there is a minority who are sexually attracted to older partners- whatever floats your boat. But it surely would be true to say that most people would go with the conventional route of a small age difference either way if available. At 56, I can certainly understand why most women under 45 would not find me at all attractive by age alone, and that's before other factors are considered. One has to be aware of these things or there could be a great deal of emotional pain to come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycjoe Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Sex for security. Age old formula. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 No. My wife married me because she wanted to brag about my Serbian sausage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 1 hour ago, swissie said: A Male Farang at 65 looks old. A Female Farang at 65 looks VERY old. A Female Thai at 65 looks not so old. A Female Thai at 45 looks far better than a Male Farang at 65. At this point, money comes into play. All said. If that's not an honest answer, then I don't know what is. Cheers. It's a universal concept that has been in place for at least the 6000 years (Thailand included). - I am prepered that soon the "my wife is diffent from the rest" brigade will join in, claiming that an age difference of 25 years has nothing to do with any sort of financial constellations whatsoever. Very funny! Not critizising the concept as it were. Far better to wake up in the morning to a 45 year old Thai-Female than a 65 year old caucasian woman. As long as the Farang can uphold and finance this concept. OP asks for "honest answers". I just did. You? Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NickJ Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Hard to figure most women out. I do know that I have a hard time trusting any of them. Even my current one. I have been with her four years now and never a money issue. I'm back in the US for awhile banking big money. Here five or so months so far. Planning on being there soon for six weeks and she doesn't want me to bring her much at all. Maybe she sees the big picture. The long con. Maybe she is really a good choice. I just have twenty five years of living there full time under my belt and have become very pessimistic towards them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 15 minutes ago, swissie said: It's a universal concept that has been in place for at least the 6000 years (Thailand included). - I am prepered that soon the "my wife is diffent from the rest" brigade will join in, claiming that an age difference of 25 years has nothing to do with any sort of financial constellations whatsoever. Very funny! Not critizising the concept as it were. Far better to wake up in the morning to a 45 year old Thai-Female than a 65 year old caucasian woman. As long as the Farang can uphold and finance this concept. OP asks for "honest answers". I just did. You? Cheers. Personally I think my wife appreciates my attitude, to life, to our children, to her, to her family, to Thailand, to work....oh yes and to money too. Being relaxed is just a good way to be Does that make me a member of the "I am different from the rest" brigade Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 We really don't need another thread about this subject, you can just copy and paste the replies from the other threads. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezzra Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 When coupling and pairing of 2 people has started to form back in the dawn of times, the prerequsits of a female for a prspective male was his abilities to provide for her and her offspring, it's still the same in the animal kingdom, although the concept still evident in choosing a mate now days, is just that greed, lust and selfishness are part of the game now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigfarang1948 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 I have the opinion that any foreigner who has taken a bar girl as a partner is just another ATM machine. Can you really believe any young 20 year old bar girl from Soi 4 is going to fall in love with a 50 or 60 year old Farang booze guzzling geezer? You see it all the time with the old guys and a pretty young girl. She will love you until the money runs out and she will be "friends" with other beer guzzling Farangs, as soon as you are gone for a day or two. Those of us old geezers who have married girls from the small villages, girls who have never worked the bars will probably wind up giving our wife money for a new home, a Rubber Tree farm and money for 20 Rai of land for sticky rice, not to mention money to take care of a sick mom or other extended family member. I know I have done all of that and am still feeling like an ATM machine. Does my wife love me? All I can say is I think so, but in the back of my mind I wonder if she is putting up with me because she knows I have a monthly income of about 180,000 baht. Maybe that is why she does not mind when I have fun with her younger sister; maybe that is why she let her best friend sleep with us, with all the benefits a man could want, for a year. She has never taken money from my wallet or abused my AM card, but still, in the back of my mind I think she puts up with me because I am a good, big hearted foreigner who pretty much gives her what she wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoctorG Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 5 hours ago, theguyfromanotherforum said: No. My wife married me because she wanted to brag about my Serbian sausage. I did not know that you are a chef. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 yes .... money ..... and if it's not in her palm at the end of every month by 5.00pm she's leaving me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jip99 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 2 minutes ago, steven100 said: yes .... money ..... and if it's not in her palm at the end of every month by 5.00pm she's leaving me. Give her a Goldcard like I do, takes the risk away... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Been there done that Posted October 31, 2017 Author Share Posted October 31, 2017 4 hours ago, NickJ said: Hard to figure most women out. I do know that I have a hard time trusting any of them. Even my current one. I have been with her four years now and never a money issue. I'm back in the US for awhile banking big money. Here five or so months so far. Planning on being there soon for six weeks and she doesn't want me to bring her much at all. Maybe she sees the big picture. The long con. Maybe she is really a good choice. I just have twenty five years of living there full time under my belt and have become very pessimistic towards them. The long con can be noticed early on in a relationship with a thai person. Pay attention to the details and trust your instincts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 16 minutes ago, Bigfarang1948 said: she knows I have a monthly income of about 180,000 baht. You must have to cut back on some things occasionally i guess. I get around 260,000 but we do eat out alot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OmarZaid Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 Money always comes into play ... old, young makes no difference. No such-a thing as free or unconditional love (which is something that is earned and then falls due for services rendered when you can longer wipe your ass) - contingencies always apply, especially for old farts who want arm candy (which personally disgusts me and a few others I know = delayed pedophilia). That being said, pay up or <deleted>. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InMyShadow Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 Educated middle class thai woman do not fall for old men. The low class dark skin with a life that is not really going anywhere do, makes perfect sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 Educated middle class thai woman do not fall for old men. The low class dark skin with a life that is not really going anywhere do, makes perfect sense. "Low class"! What an uneducated comment. Sent from my SM-G930F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Been there done that Posted October 31, 2017 Author Share Posted October 31, 2017 4 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said: "Low class"! What an uneducated comment. Sent from my SM-G930F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Ohhh, he only states his opinion, why would that be uneducated ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InMyShadow Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 "Low class"! What an uneducated comment. Sent from my SM-G930F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile appOh yeah sorry, buffalo scrubbers are middle classYour dreaming Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 Oh yeah sorry, buffalo scrubbers are middle classYour dreaming "Your dreaming". Proves my point!!Sent from my SM-G930F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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