so, basically im going back to the US for a while. i met a young girl (18) in a bar whilst on holiday in pattaya, i have been here since new year. she said she loves me and wants to be with me forever. i am 58 but she makes me feel like i'm 20. 

 

shes a really sweet girl but does like to party quite a lot. she hangs around and works in one of the bars on walking street but has promised me she wont go with another guy. should i believe her? all her friends also work in the same bars and say they will keep a close eye on her for me so i dont need to worry too much. she also said i can call her anytime. she told me that I was only the 2nd guy she had been with and that she had only been working in the bar for 3 months.

 

i think i love this girl so any help would be appreciated. as it's my first holiday here i'm looking for some advice.

 

thanks.

Yes. Yes, she is going to cheat on you (assuming you are aren't a troll) and no, you should not believe her. 

AWALT, including your mom, sister and daughter.

Lying and cheating, there may be a few in the world who are different, but I haven't managed to meet one yet.

 

PS. First week in the bar, you've obviously got a good one.

Nah she won’t... But just to make sure you should offer her some security... 

Buy her her dream house in Isaan...  ensure she has sufficient funds to decorate and transport.... 

I imagine that you are sitting at home laughing about this made up post and waiting to see what reaction you get, yes?  if so, then you will get the reaction you expect. No she doesn't, yes she will, no they won't, yes you do, no she won't, yes she will,  no you are not, no she hasn't.  I think that just about covers it.    

15 minutes ago, Am I A Fool said:

she said she loves me and wants to be with me forever. i am 58 but she makes me feel like i'm 20. 

Huh, this is the second 0 Post Newbie suggesting he's a Yank but uses "whilst" instead of while.  Yanks don't do that.

Claims to be 58 years old but starts his post like a typical dipshit Millennial, "So, basically".

Confused by a 18 year old bar girl in Pattaya.  

 

 

another nonsense troll post from a 'new' member, there have been too many recently. can't the moderators close them quickly? please.

Most Thai girls will definitely cheat on guys with only 1 post on TV. 

i dont know what i have said tht makes you guys think i am a troll but i am not. i have been reading your site for a few months before coming here and thought now was the time to signup as i have something on my mind.

 

any real advice out there or not?

Just now, Am I A Fool said:

i dont know what i have said tht makes you guys think i am a troll but i am not. i have been reading your site for a few months before coming here and thought now was the time to signup as i have something on my mind.

 

any real advice out there or not?

So, like, basically, like, OMG, like, what kind of topics were you reading on here for 2 months prior to your, eh hem, "arrival" to Thailand?  World News?  DIY Real Estate section?  

Best advice when you come to Thailand  is always think with the big head NOT the small head

Your screen name says it all!

 

send her 20,000bt per month and she will love you even more,dont delay you might lose her.

3 minutes ago, bomber said:

send her 20,000bt per month and she will love you even more,dont delay you might lose her.

she did ask me if i can send her some money when im back home as her mum is sick. i said maybe later once we knoe each other a bit longer.

 

im not sure how i felt about that though so i questioned her and all her friends said yes she very sick and needs money. i felt sorry for her.

5 minutes ago, LennyW said:

Your screen name says it all!

All part of the Troll package.

1 minute ago, Am I A Fool said:

she did ask me if i can send her some money when im back home as her mum is sick. i said maybe later once we knoe each other a bit longer.

 

im not sure how i felt about that though so i questioned her and all her friends said yes she very sick and needs money. i felt sorry for her.

snooze you lose ????   you are breaking her heart and i dont think you realise.

Just now, Am I A Fool said:

she did ask me if i can send her some money when im back home as her mum is sick. i said maybe later once we knoe each other a bit longer.

 

im not sure how i felt about that though so i questioned her and all her friends said yes she very sick and needs money. i felt sorry for her.

Where is your home again?  USA? 

FYI, Yanks don't say "whilst" and they don't spell Mom "Mum". 

 

Marry her!

As soon as you're born your brain starts working 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.

Then as soon as you land in bangkok, it stops working..

1 minute ago, 55Jay said:

Where is your home again?  USA? 

FYI, Yanks don't say "whilst" and they don't spell Mom "Mum". 

 

FYI I was born in the UK but have lived in america since 1980.

 

 

There's no FOOL like an old FOOL.

2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Marry her!

you think i should?

 

we talked about it and she seemed enthusiastic.

35 minutes ago, Am I A Fool said:

i dont know what i have said tht makes you guys think i am a troll but i am not. i have been reading your site for a few months before coming here and thought now was the time to signup as i have something on my mind.

 

any real advice out there or not?

Yes forget her

You should send her 50,000 baht per month, so she can quit her cashier job in the bar.

No, of course she won't cheat on you. She sounds like an angel, you don't want to let her go. Make sure you send her at least 30,000 Baht per month, to keep her out of the bar. And on your next trip it would make sense to build her and her family in Issan a house, no less than 5,000,000 Baht, because you don't want to come across as a Cheap Charlie. Sell your assets, transfer your money into her account to take care of, and live happily ever after with your new Thai family.

 

 

And ... send some photographs, every farang likes a "happy ending".

40 minutes ago, Am I A Fool said:

i dont know what i have said tht makes you guys think i am a troll but i am not. i have been reading your site for a few months before coming here and thought now was the time to signup as i have something on my mind.

 

any real advice out there or not?

I've given you some sage advice and wise  guidance in my reply.  Didn't you read it?  

17 minutes ago, Am I A Fool said:

you think i should?

 

we talked about it and she seemed enthusiastic.

This is getting boring now.  I'll go and mow the grass.  

Lovely story.  Very heartwarming.  It is true love and in Pattaya too.

BTW, I think you forgot to mention that she's really a he.  ????

Oh Please ! 

 

CLOSED

 

Not even a reasonable effort.