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OP you are in a very difficult situation, whatever you do, whatever happens, take good care of your child.

The child is the most important, to hell with your wifes family.

Stand up to your wife, no need for arguments, if she wont compromise, get out.

As long as her family are there pushing her there will never be a solution to your problem.

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9 minutes ago, sanemax said:

You sleep in the same bed as your step children, without the mother being there ?

I sleep in the same bed as my stepson (6) when his mother isn't there. We're father and son, got an issue with that?

 

If you have got an issue you've got serious problems, sicko, in my opinion.

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1 minute ago, Spidey said:

I sleep in the same bed as my stepson (6) when his mother isn't there. We're father and son, got an issue with that?

 

If you have got an issue you've got serious problems, sicko, in my opinion.

I am a sicko and have a serious problem, because I wouldnt sleep in a bed with children who are not mine .......................OK

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49 minutes ago, john69 said:

If you marry a Thai lady, you marry the family.

 

If you expect the child to live in Thailand the rest of its life, let the mother do most of the "parenting".

 

I have a son (14 years old) and let the parenting mostly to my wife, only giving guidance where it pertains to common sense or moral/ethical matters. My son will spend the rest of his life in Thailand. My wife knows best what works for him. 

 

Get over your ego and go with the flow. Just focus on giving and your child will recognize it.

Are you his wife hiding behind a disguise?

 

if he was going to do that best just leave, make money dependent on seeing child, and live a more relaxing life by the sea.

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19 minutes ago, colinneil said:

OP you are in a very difficult situation, whatever you do, whatever happens, take good care of your child.

The child is the most important, to hell with your wifes family.

Stand up to your wife, no need for arguments, if she wont compromise, get out.

As long as her family are there pushing her there will never be a solution to your problem.

Given that he’s living with the in-laws your default advice of an electronic gate doesn’t work with this one Colin? Lol.

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1 hour ago, john69 said:

If you marry a Thai lady, you marry the family.

 

If you expect the child to live in Thailand the rest of its life, let the mother do most of the "parenting".

 

 

 

What a load of nonsense, marry the family ha, ha ,ha.

Sadly the OP is living with his outlaws, if he lived near them he could do as i did, electric gate, nobody comes in without an invite, problem solved.

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7 minutes ago, colinneil said:

What a load of nonsense, marry the family ha, ha ,ha.

Sadly the OP is living with his outlaws, if he lived near them he could do as i did, electric gate, nobody comes in without an invite, problem solved.

I knew it ... the “go to” default advice never fails. Did you ever consider a moat and drawbridge? 

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option 1, crawl back to the shithole and get a mixed company.

option 2, stay in condo with no company.

option 3, stay in condo and get company.

 

too bad coins dont have 3 sides to flip,

i think i would opt for going out and party for a while,

being single does have some nice attributes

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1 minute ago, bkk6060 said:

Thailand is for having fun and enjoying as much sex as possible with many girls.

Too many sad weak stories like the OP.

That is the master plan, but for many people “love”, also known as temporary insanity, gets in the way, followed by babies, followed by emotional blackmail. Paradise lost, so to speak.

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Just now, AlexRich said:

I knew it ... the “go to” default advice never fails. Did you ever consider a moat and drawbridge? 

His advice isn't that bad actually, I think it's an old Scottish proverb that says, 'strong walls make for good neighbours'.

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7 minutes ago, soalbundy said:

When will we hear a weak sad story about you getting aids and not knowing what to do.

I guess you have never heard of or used a condom.

Please, Time to grow up and not be a fool!

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On 3/11/2019 at 6:54 PM, BritManToo said:

Stand your ground, and live your life. Don't argue, don't discuss, avoid her family.

Don't give her or the kid any money, it's gotta be your way or the highway.

In others words "Man up". 

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1 hour ago, john69 said:

Get over your ego and go with the flow. Just focus on giving and your child will recognize it.

I don't think it's about ego. If someone is not happy in a relationship, they're not happy.....ego is not usually part of it.

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26 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

No advice at all then? 

Erh, I think you will find it IS advice. The OP sounds like a real fairyso I gave my opinion on a public forum. He asked for advice and that is mine..he needs to grow a backbone. Are you another lapdog, then? 

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2 minutes ago, mike787 said:

This the BEST advice.  WHY?  Because I tested it.  It happened the same way to me as it did to you.  Then I did what OmarZaid stated,  Everything worked out!  I am solo.  Not getting married.  Kids don't talk to me - fine.  But my door is always open and they know that.  The wife remarried.  And I have peace in me and around me, my bank is full, and  many girls everywhere still chase me - even lady boys chase me. They promise to give me "love" for "money".  I said NO thx...I love myself and my life, don't need or want what you got, and I am not paying sin sot for anything you're selling.  Yep, I love the vagina, but not enough to sacrifice MY life for that.  I tried the sacrifice path, it didn't work for me.  Better to rent/lease it, but NOT buy it.  Get your head right on, accept reality (gradually), move on...everything WILL work out over time...you watch....

It requires a certain amount of hard heartedness but I couldn’t agree more.

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