Dating advice.....possible, but not obvious "Sick buffalo"

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

And you’d never believe this woman was 42 - she has an amazing body.

Yeah we would, most of us can age them to within 5 years.

Although it's actually impolite to do it to their face.

[Elkski]

Welcome to Thailand the land of they look so young for their age.  I actually prefer a 40 year old woman and puts me in the minority for sure. But I'm 58 so 40 seems very nice to me. I think when a woman at 40 has a very nice body it is very meaningful and will carry on into the next 10 and 20 years of their life. When they are 35 and you do not know which way they may go has their body metabolism changes. Mary men's response would be they just trade them in for a new model but I rather research and pick one for the long term.   But I have a 91 and a 2004 vehicle. it is not uncommon to find a 40 year old virgin in Thailand or to meet women who are 40 who have only had one lover.  However I think the warning about their abilities to be actresses I'm love to be some special DNA ability.   And don't forget people can say they have the best relationship but their time is not over yet.

[ericthai]

On 3/13/2019 at 7:37 AM, brokenbone said:

i just realized i forgot to say: dont invest here,

specially not any business

Why?? Did you invest and loose money??

[AlexRich]

4 minutes ago, ericthai said:

Why?? Did you invest and loose money??

 

Sorry Eric, a bit of pedantry from me, if you don't mind. You can "lose" money in Thailand, the knot in your tie can get "loose".

 

"there's a moose loose aboot this hoose" ... Scottish song Hoots Mon.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited March 14, 2019 by AlexRich

[shy coconut]

4 hours ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

Most reasonable response yet. For the record it was only 9000 baht. I don’t care at all for younger women. And you’d never believe this woman was 42 - she has an amazing body. I don’t mean that to brag or anything, that’s not my style, but it is true. I have until now weeded out the rude and cynical and have gotten some sound advice. Not from those you mentioned, but I digress. 

Like me, it seems she's aged a year since the start of this thread!

 

[AlexRich]

1 minute ago, shy coconut said:

Like me, it seems she's aged a year since the start of this thread!

 

Was that a trolling error you spotted?

[shy coconut]

12 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

Was that a trolling error you spotted?

Possibly, although I wouldn't say such a thing out loud!!

[sofreshnsocleanclean]

36 minutes ago, shy coconut said:

Possibly, although I wouldn't say such a thing out loud!!

You guys finished yet? 

[thaibeachlovers]

13 hours ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

Another know it all who doesn't know jack.....

I think SammyT got you right.

You apparently only want advice that confirms what you want to do, and are not willing to accept contrary advice.

Regardless, I never had to go on an anonymous forum to ask dating advice, so perhaps I do know something.

 

[thaibeachlovers]

7 hours ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

why can't she be a fairly innocent woman and still be a bar business owner?

Seriously?

 

NB. the quote was from a post by Elkski, NOT the OP.

Must be a software glitch

Edited March 14, 2019 by thaibeachlovers

[AlexRich]

7 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Seriously?

No one is that naive, looking more and more like a troll post.

 

 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

9 hours ago, Pravda said:

The part that bores me are your posts where you keep justifying your encounters with this Mamasan as being something completely different and unique in the Land of Smog

The common denominator with all similar threads is that the newbie really thinks "his" new Thai GF is different from all the rest.

Those of us been on TVF for a few years have heard the same story told many times, each just subtly different.

Speaking as one that has been conned more times than I'd like to admit, the only way to find out if the new beloved is indeed lovely, or not, is to jump in, use a condom, never meet the family and keep the wallet safe.

[thaibeachlovers]

6 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

No one is that naive, looking more and more like a troll post.

 

 

 

See post from me that you responded to. Attributed to wrong poster by software.

Edited March 14, 2019 by thaibeachlovers

[thaibeachlovers]

10 hours ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

Ok I think there isn't much more to discuss. We can probably close this thread now. 

I think the lesson here is that, she probably is manipulating me. Fine. As long as I'm aware of it, I can enjoy getting laid by a very attractive woman until the point she "hints" that she needs financial assistance again. At which point, I'm out. 

 

As the thread has 2 additional pages now, perhaps you should PM a moderator to close the thread. Don't use the report button. Moderators don't spend all day reading threads to see if the OPs want them closed.

[Elkski]

90000 baht is nothing.  I bet half the guys posting here sent or soent that much on one if their first LOS women. Maybe it was just a test to set up transfer account info?   Thai people transfter money via ATM machine like I have never seen before.   It is like a weeks wages for a teacher.  And remember support  and generosity is love in their eyes.  Even good girls feel this way.

 

and I can assure you there are family owned  bars in BKK where the family dusters and nieces while run it manage one if the half dozen bars it massage parlors are not in the sex business.  The do have some distant Chinese blood and probably money.     I just don't like to make generalizations because there's always the exception to the rule. you can't say anyone who's worked in a bar or stepped in a bar is bad news and the marriage can't work.  Marriage takes lots of work on both people's Parts.   I don't understand why Sammi and other people are getting butthurt just because you don't say ok!  I'm going to listen  and follow  a or b or c or x person's opinion.  

you sound like you have plenty of caution and a nice brain just go have fun she may turn into the woman of your dreams.  I can't overstate the fact that it is quite rare for a woman to catch a younger man and seven years is a pretty big spread while  a woman 10 years below your age would be nothing.  So she is thinking you can have 25 not 42. 17 yesrs younger.  No wonder she is shy.  Which I'd normal anyway.  She also probably is impressed with your  chivalry that first night.   She probably believes you about nit being a sexpat.   All these must make you look top shelf for her regardless if your finances it education.   Plus they love us AMERICANS  the most. 

Edited March 15, 2019 by Elkski

[Straight8]

I'll go out on a limb and say judging by your (the OP) replies i this thread, by the time you've become victim number x, its all too late.

 

I also think, if you are starting to develop feelings, you're well and truly <deleted>, and no matter what people here on TV say, you aint gonna listen.

 

My advice, enjoy the ride, cause it's gonna last too long if you don't start to pony up say bahtski!!!

[Pravda]

9 minutes ago, Straight8 said:

I also think, if you are starting to develop feelings, you're well and truly <deleted>, and no matter what people here on TV say, you aint gonna listen.

 

If not trolling he defo developed some "deep" feelings for Mamasan. I mean, the angry replies that are not justifying his point of view are proof enough.

 

Head over heels in love ????????‍❤️‍????‍????????????‍????‍???? with a predictable "but she's so hot for a 41 year old".

 

Wondering how cum no one ever mentioned if she had any kids? OP never asked about it? Bet there are few lurking in the shadows.....

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Beatriz]

On 3/13/2019 at 5:59 PM, brokenbone said:

nothing strange about it, you are not yet in full decay,

no loose skin and so on, you are not yet repulsive

I like your remarks. I would think that woman loves sex. If Love is sex and Sex is Love.

[roobaa01]

you are on the verge to become a love clown = du bist auf dem weg zum liebeskasper.

 

wbr

roobaa01

[sofreshnsocleanclean]

12 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I think SammyT got you right.

You apparently only want advice that confirms what you want to do, and are not willing to accept contrary advice.

Regardless, I never had to go on an anonymous forum to ask dating advice, so perhaps I do know something.

 

Apparently you can’t read can you? I’ve already concluded this thread. 

[sofreshnsocleanclean]

Don’t you have a life or anything better to do than to come on these forums and run your arrogant trap?? I looked at your profile and read the things you write elsewhere in the forum. You spend a LOT of time spouting off at the mouth, saying dumb and arrogant crap to all kinds of people, talking like your sh** don’t stink and you are the be all-know all. Is this your hobby or something? 

[sofreshnsocleanclean]

6 hours ago, Pravda said:

 

If not trolling he defo developed some "deep" feelings for Mamasan. I mean, the angry replies that are not justifying his point of view are proof enough.

 

Head over heels in love ????????‍❤️‍????‍????????????‍????‍???? with a predictable "but she's so hot for a 41 year old".

 

Wondering how cum no one ever mentioned if she had any kids? OP never asked about it? Bet there are few lurking in the shadows.....

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don’t you have a life or anything better to do than to come on these forums and run your arrogant trap?? I looked at your profile and read the things you write elsewhere in the forum. You spend a LOT of time spouting off at the mouth, saying dumb and arrogant crap to all kinds of people, talking like your sh** don’t stink and you are the be all-know all. Is this your hobby or something? I bet you get drunk in bars and run your mouth and get beat up at least once a week. Am I right? Are you “that guy”? I bet you are. 

Edited March 15, 2019 by sofreshnsocleanclean

[Nyezhov]

29 minutes ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

Apparently you can’t read can you? I’ve already concluded this thread. 

It aint over till a Mod sings.

 

24 minutes ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

Don’t you have a life or anything better to do than to come on these forums and run your arrogant trap?? I looked at your profile and read the things you write elsewhere in the forum. You spend a LOT of time spouting off at the mouth, saying dumb and arrogant crap to all kinds of people, talking like your sh** don’t stink and you are the be all-know all. Is this your hobby or something? I bet you get drunk in bars and run your mouth and get beat up at least once a week. Am I right? Are you “that guy”? I bet you are. 

Yep. Pravda called it. Too much anger. Ill hit the report post button before you start being mean to me. Im sensitive, unlike the other rhino skinned curs here.

[HighPriority]

6 minutes ago, Nyezhov said:

It aint over till a Mod sings.

 

Yep. Pravda called it. Too much anger. Ill hit the report post button before you start being mean to me. Im sensitive, unlike the other rhino skinned curs here.

Not yet !!

Ive just put some more popcorn on !

[sofreshnsocleanclean]

24 minutes ago, Nyezhov said:

It aint over till a Mod sings.

 

Yep. Pravda called it. Too much anger. Ill hit the report post button before you start being mean to me. Im sensitive, unlike the other rhino skinned curs here.

I’ve been completely respectful to those who were respectful to me. I’ve gotten so many rude and disrespectful replies here that were totally uncalled for, so how would you expect someone to behave? Let’s be realistic at least. 

[Nyezhov]

7 minutes ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

 I’ve gotten so many rude and disrespectful replies here that were totally uncalled for, so how would you expect someone to behave? Let’s be realistic at least. 

Ummm...with good humour? Take your verbal pummeling like a man, when you jump into the s**tpile, you get splashed!

 

Wait....Oh, please dont yell at me sir, please, Im scared *insert sobbing petrified emoji here*

[sofreshnsocleanclean]

7 minutes ago, Nyezhov said:

Ummm...with good humour? Take your verbal pummeling like a man, when you jump into the s**tpile, you get splashed!

 

Wait....Oh, please dont yell at me sir, please, Im scared *insert sobbing petrified emoji here*

Many were indeed with good humor, like yours. Others were downright disrespectful and rude, just for the sake of being rude. Im never rude or disrespectful to anyone who didn’t deserve it. Never. Sorry, not sorry. 

Edited March 15, 2019 by sofreshnsocleanclean

[sofreshnsocleanclean]

7 hours ago, roobaa01 said:

you are on the verge to become a love clown = du bist auf dem weg zum liebeskasper.

 

wbr

roobaa01

Nein, stimmt nicht. Ich bin zu intelligent um ein “liebeskasper” zu sein. Solche Spiel habe ich schon mal erlebt und davon gelernt. Zudem, ich pass schon mal auf. 

[Pravda]

1 hour ago, sofreshnsocleanclean said:

You spend a LOT of time spouting off at the mouth, saying dumb and arrogant crap to all kinds of people, talking like your sh** don’t stink and you are the be all-know all. Is this your hobby or something?

 

Well, yes. Yes it is. Why you judge me like that?

[RJRS1301]

On 3/13/2019 at 11:18 PM, bwpage3 said:

Keep talking yourself into it mate

 

She was a bar girl, now she owns the bars.

 

Good sex with you?

 

At her age she has probably slept with at least 100 farangs

 

You are talking yourself right into something everything is telling you is wrong

 

 

Who cares how many she has slept with, Guys boast that they screw hundreds and think it is ok, woman do the same and are slated for it