40 minutes ago, Tony125 said:

  Wife said she was in love with you.

    Not all bar girls are bad , seen plenty of good Thai and farang women rip guys off.

I don't think the girls I was fond of would of fell in love me I was a lot older than them, they were fun and liked me though I like to think.

Yeah not all bad they need money for different reasons to take on that kind of work and a lot are looking for relationships.

The ones I knew that kept in contact got married. 

1 hour ago, Vacuum said:

In Thailand?

https://gam-legalalliance.com/services/family-law/grounds-for-divorce/

for their business acumen 

3 hours ago, brewsterbudgen said:

"Thank God" is an expression.  How about "Thank goodness"?

 and this gem  

7 minutes ago, mamypoko said:

for their business acumen 

I had a friend who hired a bar girl for his muffler business.  She gave a XXXXXX with every muffler and installation sold.  He did well. 

6 hours ago, Skallywag said:

Better than marrying.  You really think you are not paying/buying a wife? 

In reality it costs half your net worth, and more for all the pain and suffering if she "changes" after marriage 

Until you run out of money

 

ever hear of

 

# prenuptial agreement

# wife of equal or greater economic means

1 minute ago, marcusarelus said:

I had a friend who hired a bar girl for his muffler business.  She gave a XXXXXX with every muffler and installation sold.  He did well. 

Did she blow the "tailpipe"   ????

 

I'd say the 50% of men who date bar girls possibly have more grey matter than the 50% who won't. After all, if one is fat, bald and old, the opportunities for an attractive woman outside the bar scene look fairly limited.

3 minutes ago, atyclb said:

 

ever hear of

 

# prenuptial agreement

# wife of equal or greater economic means

Yes. The second in Thailand is as rare as gold nuggets in a rice field.

2 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I'd say the 50% of men who date bar girls possibly have more grey matter than the 50% who won't. After all, if one is fat, bald and old, the opportunities for an attractive woman outside the bar scene look fairly limited.

As one gets older you may appreciate being helped on and off with your things and showered and having your shoes tied.  My watch has an alarm if my pulse gets too high and I rest for a while.  These ladies are just so darned considerate and helpful.  Sure I tip well but they are very kind to me. 

2 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Yes. The second in Thailand is as rare as gold nuggets in a rice field.

Not on Thai Visa.

Let's say an older guy wants to have a pretty young girlfriend. He wants a happy girl, he wants fun in bed, and he does not mind if she has no proper job.

How would such a guy look for a girlfriend?

 

How would be his success rate if he would try to pick up a normal girl somewhere in a bar, party, online, etc.? How long would he have to go out with her before they maybe have sex and find out if they are compatible? And how does he know that she really loves him and does not play the long game, maybe with a kid and then it's time to pay?

 

On the other hand such a guy can go to the bars. There are lots of pretty young girls. Most of them are available. Obviously many of those girls are there to work any make money with lots of customers. But some of the girls are also interested to meet a decent guy who takes care of them. For some it's about big money but for others it's about living a "normal" life not working in a bar.

 

Now how long will it take our guy to find the girl he wants inside a bar and how long outside? I have no statistic but I know there are enough guys who met their long time gf or wife in a bar and are happy with her.

4 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

As one gets older you may appreciate being helped on and off with your things and showered and having your shoes tied.  My watch has an alarm if my pulse gets too high and I rest for a while.  These ladies are just so darned considerate and helpful.  Sure I tip well but they are very kind to me. 

I wouldn't want a watch telling me I'm getting too excited. Each to his own.

pardon my ignorance on the subject, given I have never taken a bar girl out but.. over the years viewed a few amateur videos on the internet, some of them were bar girls and I seem to remember 90% of them seemed VERY uninterested..

most of them faking or downright bored by it, some of them might as well be sleeping.

 

of course I am not under the impression that this is always the case as I reckon there are certainly some women who are nymphos and quite into it.

however, I am personally not interested in having sex with women who are not into it, big turn off.

 

I like having sex to please my partner mostly, as I can please myself quite easily manually. partner first.

I would be disappointed in myself if I had some girl over and they seemed disconnected or even bored by my performance

 

if we make the false hypothesis that most of the girls are not into it, does that mean that the men would be only into it for their own pleasure/release and don't care if their bar girl orgasms?

 

out of curiosity, I'd like to know the rough percentage of getting a bar girl off happened for you guys.

a guy usually knows (i certainly do).. even if the woman tries to fake it.

 

just curious.

4 hours ago, bkkgriz said:

I can't remember who said it, but it's a great quote. I don't pay women for sex. I pay them to leave after sex.

what was me.

8 hours ago, brewsterbudgen said:

It's not dating if they are working as a prostitute. If they pack in the sex work, then some ex-bargirls can make great girlfriends, long-term partners or wives. One just has to find the right one.

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Entirely agree.

1 minute ago, NCC1701A said:

what was me.

Sorry, I think Nyezhov was before you.

2 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Sorry, I think Nyezhov was before you.

Any chance that Dan (whatever his name is) can be permanently removed from TV ?

6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Every girl I ever had sex with I met in a bar, I have no problem telling my kids that.

This.

 

If being honest, how many of us met our wives or long term girlfriends in a bar or club back in our western societies? OK granted, you likely didn't pay a bar fine for them but at the end of the day meeting partners is how the majority of bars and clubs are setup and have been for the last 40 years in the west.

The only significant change is children.  Other than that the way you spend money is up to you.  Spend it on women, girlfriend, travel, businesses.

52 minutes ago, kekalot said:

out of curiosity, I'd like to know the rough percentage of getting a bar girl off happened for you guys.

a guy usually knows (i certainly do).. even if the woman tries to fake it.

I've never been able to tell, although both nymphos I lived with assured me they did, even though I didn't notice.

I guess I ain't all that sensitive.

 

9 hours ago, Hayduke said:

 

Renting is better than buying.

 

 

Mia Chao v Phanruya (Mia Luang)

Rental wife v Real wife

The sex is free but the laundry is rather expensive. (Old Vietnam War joke).

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

I wouldn't want a watch telling me I'm getting too excited. Each to his own.

I don't imagine you have heart disease.  If you did you may change your mind.  Watch out for Karma......

1 hour ago, kekalot said:

pardon my ignorance on the subject, given I have never taken a bar girl out but.. over the years viewed a few amateur videos on the internet, some of them were bar girls and I seem to remember 90% of them seemed VERY uninterested..

most of them faking or downright bored by it, some of them might as well be sleeping.

 

of course I am not under the impression that this is always the case as I reckon there are certainly some women who are nymphos and quite into it.

however, I am personally not interested in having sex with women who are not into it, big turn off.

 

I like having sex to please my partner mostly, as I can please myself quite easily manually. partner first.

I would be disappointed in myself if I had some girl over and they seemed disconnected or even bored by my performance

 

if we make the false hypothesis that most of the girls are not into it, does that mean that the men would be only into it for their own pleasure/release and don't care if their bar girl orgasms?

 

out of curiosity, I'd like to know the rough percentage of getting a bar girl off happened for you guys.

a guy usually knows (i certainly do).. even if the woman tries to fake it.

 

just curious.

Depends on the man.  If you think you can tell I'd say you are not the one to ask as you most certainly can be fooled. 

Why would 50% of men still date a Thai bar girl?

 

Because its the only way that beer bellied, sandal (with long socks) wearing, 65 year old westerners who wear nylon Man United shirts - otherwise known as 'hansum man' are ever going to get laid.

42 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

I don't imagine you have heart disease.  If you did you may change your mind.  Watch out for Karma......

No, I don't. However, I'm thinking there are worse ways to cark it.

 

11 minutes ago, KhaoYai said:

Why would 50% of men still date a Thai bar girl?

 

Because its the only way that beer bellied, sandal (with long socks) wearing, 65 year old westerners who wear nylon Man United shirts - otherwise known as 'hansum man' are ever going to get laid.

I wear short socks with my sandals.

6 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

No, I don't. However, I'm thinking there are worse ways to cark it.

I'm thinking heart disease can't be worse than BPH.

2 hours ago, kekalot said:

pardon my ignorance on the subject, given I have never taken a bar girl out but.. over the years viewed a few amateur videos on the internet, some of them were bar girls and I seem to remember 90% of them seemed VERY uninterested..

most of them faking or downright bored by it, some of them might as well be sleeping.

 

of course I am not under the impression that this is always the case as I reckon there are certainly some women who are nymphos and quite into it.

however, I am personally not interested in having sex with women who are not into it, big turn off.

 

I like having sex to please my partner mostly, as I can please myself quite easily manually. partner first.

I would be disappointed in myself if I had some girl over and they seemed disconnected or even bored by my performance

 

if we make the false hypothesis that most of the girls are not into it, does that mean that the men would be only into it for their own pleasure/release and don't care if their bar girl orgasms?

 

out of curiosity, I'd like to know the rough percentage of getting a bar girl off happened for you guys.

a guy usually knows (i certainly do).. even if the woman tries to fake it.

 

just curious.

When I was taking out bar girls, I can only remember three who definitely had orgasms with me. About 50% of the rest were enthusiastic, close but no cigar.

I've found most women have their best chance at an orgasm when they are allowed to assume the dominant position, woman on top.

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'm thinking heart disease can't be worse than BPH.

From what you've posted previously, you didn't have BPH. You progressed to the next stage, obstructive prostate. I agree it's no fun being catheterised fully conscious. I have the T-shirt as well.