A friend from my home country Belgium where he also lives is busy on a Thai dating website for a month now.

 

Very interesting stuff going on there.

 

He is beginning 60 and not looking like Richard Geere.

 

The women don't care. Age and looks are secondary.

 

He comes across of 2 types of women.

 

1. The professionals who are sweet talking him and part with his money.

2. The ones with a clear goal.

 

He is now busy with one girl from BKK. They exchange messages every day.

She came back to him yesterday with the following statement: (all written in Thai and translated through google).

 

"My sister found a good person. Her goals to live abroad. The Finnish government has good welfare. My sister studied carefully

from other Thai women who went abroad.

I want to stop talking to you because you are not from Finland. 

 

555

 

Next one:

I only registered 1 week ago on this webpage. My friend told me that it is a good way to find a rich man.

It is nice talking to you but I am not interested.

I want to play the game until I find a man from the USA who wants to marry me.

 

555

 

Next one:

 

You look really handsome. I know you have big money. If you can good take care of my and family, I will come and stay with you.

 

Next one:

 

Thai women who go to work abroad do not need money from men. Because of the western culture men don't give money to women. 

Maybe I can come to you and find a good job with good money but maybe you will help me too. Big hug.

 

Keep you posted;????

1 minute ago, AlfHuy said:

1. The professionals who are sweet talking him and part with his money.

2. The ones with a clear goal..........

..........which is talking him into parting with his money.

I sit with bargirls (as many on here do I am sure) and they receive loads of calls every night from their many boyfriends........I often have the phone thrust into my hand and told to chat with them.......one after the other.......these girls are very good at what they do........every boyfriend thinks he is unique in the girl's life.

No different from what one sees in public here.  (and certainly not every case of course).  In so many conversations (and just in English or Mandarin with a local Thai 'conversation participant' from what I can personally understand) one overhears ....the local party looks/seems to have no idea (and perhaps isn't even listening) to what the foreign party is talking about.   The gist is something like...

 

A. Question requiring something other than a head nod or a "um hmm..." regarding other country politics or some other current news topic.

 

B.  "um hmmm...."

17 minutes ago, Heng said:

No different from what one sees in public here.  (and certainly not every case of course).  In so many conversations (and just in English or Mandarin with a local Thai 'conversation participant' from what I can personally understand) one overhears ....the local party looks/seems to have no idea (and perhaps isn't even listening) to what the foreign party is talking about.   The gist is something like...

 

A. Question requiring something other than a head nod or a "um hmm..." regarding other country politics or some other current news topic.

 

B.  "um hmmm...."

Just say: I am a rich man, own 5 villas, 25 cars, can take care of you and your whole village. Suddenly her English is close to perfect.

1 hour ago, Heng said:

No different from what one sees in public here.  (and certainly not every case of course).  In so many conversations (and just in English or Mandarin with a local Thai 'conversation participant' from what I can personally understand) one overhears ....the local party looks/seems to have no idea (and perhaps isn't even listening) to what the foreign party is talking about.   The gist is something like...

 

A. Question requiring something other than a head nod or a "um hmm..." regarding other country politics or some other current news topic.

 

B.  "um hmmm...."

Have to say, I wouldn't be listening to that foreign party either.

Talk to me about the beer or fried fish I'm ordering, or the after dinner activities in which we're about to partake.

The odd thing is the way the generations have changed their attitudes. My wife's generation (all poorly educated)were all looking for a reliable husband and for 20 year she was harassed by acquaintances and relatives who all wanted to marry a "rich" farang ( all farang were believed to be rich). Our daughter's generation were better educated and wanted to combine a secure marriage with a long time employment. My grand nice (22 years old) and 2 grand daughters (18 and 14) are focussed on obtaining university degrees with the intention of obtaining a well paid career WITH A PENSION. 18 year old questions why she should endure pregnancy and caesarian section just to please a man.

How times have changed.

I am well pleased with them.

Don't need no man, new generation of strong independent women.

6 minutes ago, Maha Sarakham said:

Don't need no man, new generation of strong independent women.

Behind all the woke nonsense, they still need us.

"In vino Internet dating sites veritas."

15 hours ago, Surelynot said:

I sit with bargirls (as many on here do I am sure) and they receive loads of calls every night from their many boyfriends........I often have the phone thrust into my hand and told to chat with them.......one after the other.......these girls are very good at what they do........every boyfriend thinks he is unique in the girl's life.

This little gem is all thats needed.to explain background noise. 

 

"me not working (she is working) me party sister birthday (she is working) I wait only you (she is working) 

Really, would you even bother to talk with them, if they did not have that  certain something?

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Talk to me about the beer or fried fish I'm ordering, or the after dinner activities in which we're about to partake.

If only I could be a woman, so that I, too, might enjoy the heady, whirlwind romance you offer.

 

It's actually good fun to meet some of these girls...if you're not looking for a relationship.  The stuff they tell you about some of these knuckleheads they talk to, how they can convince men they've never met to send them money.  Why do guys do that?  Regardless, I can say that online dating has made it so much easier to meet a wide variety of girls in Thailand than before.  But if you're doing it from overseas, not so much fun.

10 hours ago, Maybole said:

The odd thing is the way the generations have changed their attitudes. My wife's generation (all poorly educated)were all looking for a reliable husband and for 20 year she was harassed by acquaintances and relatives who all wanted to marry a "rich" farang ( all farang were believed to be rich). Our daughter's generation were better educated and wanted to combine a secure marriage with a long time employment. My grand nice (22 years old) and 2 grand daughters (18 and 14) are focussed on obtaining university degrees with the intention of obtaining a well paid career WITH A PENSION. 18 year old questions why she should endure pregnancy and caesarian section just to please a man.

How times have changed.

I am well pleased with them.

Ummm, because the future of the human race depends on it?

“Believe none of what you hear and believe half of what you see”

 

seems appropriate for this activity.

3 minutes ago, ChipButty said:

Thats not exclusive to Thailand, many moons ago I was working in Glasgow doing the very same thing while she was talking to her boyfriend who was working in London, Inter City Sex i called it

Was she a Glaswegian or Aberdonian lassie?

1 minute ago, AlfHuy said:

Was she a Glaswegian or Aberdonian lassie?

I never ask questions she was busy on the phone

1 minute ago, ChipButty said:

I never ask questions she was busy on the phone

I lived ages in Aberdeen. Never fancied 1 of them.

Only thing they were thinking about is to get drunk.

5 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

I lived ages in Aberdeen. Never fancied 1 of them.

Only thing they were thinking about is to get drunk.

Same in Glasgow but a man has to do what a man has to do, any port in a storm

17 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

I lived ages in Aberdeen. Never fancied 1 of them.

Only thing they were thinking about is to get drunk.

I worked on some gardening programme in Aberdeen (Beechgrove Garden) for a week, rained every day.

@ChipButtyMy boss in Glasgow was found dead at her desk one morning, face down in a pool of vomit.

Nice lady, got drunk in the works bar every night until she passed out. I was in Glasgow an entire summer, rained every day. 

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

I worked on some gardening programme in Aberdeen for a week, rained every day.

@ChipButtyMy boss in Glasgow was found dead at her desk one morning, face down in a pool of vomit.

Nice lady, got drunk in the works bar every night until she passed out. I was in Glasgow an entire summer, rained every day. 

Had her clothing been re arranged?

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

I worked on some gardening programme in Aberdeen for a week, rained every day.

@ChipButtyMy boss in Glasgow was found dead at her desk one morning, face down in a pool of vomit.

Nice lady, got drunk in the works bar every night until she passed out. I was in Glasgow an entire summer, rained every day. 

Lived 11 years in Aberdeen. Very good for the money but sh..  weather all year round.

News from the GF.

 

Apparently a friend of hers, living in Germ-any with an old bloke gets 50,000 Baht each month to support her family in Isaan and is planning to build her mom a new house.

Now, everyone talking about it and that and other families encouraging their daughters to get a German as well.

They go to far to say: Don't bring another farang home, we want a German ????

 

Told my GF. Do not believe this <deleted>. Have you actually seen this money, has she shown you her bank statements, have you ever video-called her to see how she lives.

Her: NO

Me: Why not?

Her: She has problems with her phone.

Me: 5555

I actually saw a picture of her gf's friend and her grandfather German BF. I could be wrong but he looked everything but being a rich guy, having at least 50k Baht available to please his 35 years younger GF.

 

But they will never accept the truth. They make a story up and stick to it. Now, all the girls think that they easily get a BF or husband who sponsors them with "at least" 50k a month.

 

Keep dreaming girls.

4 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

News from the GF.

 

Apparently a friend of hers, living in Germ-any with an old bloke gets 50,000 Baht each month to support her family in Isaan and is planning to build her mom a new house.

Now, everyone talking about it and that and other families encouraging their daughters to get a German as well.

They go to far to say: Don't bring another farang home, we want a German ????

 

Told my GF. Do not believe this <deleted>. Have you actually seen this money, has she shown you her bank statements, have you ever video-called her to see how she lives.

Her: NO

Me: Why not?

Her: She has problems with her phone.

Me: 5555

I actually saw a picture of her gf's friend and her grandfather German BF. I could be wrong but he looked everything but being a rich guy, having at least 50k Baht available to please his 35 years younger GF.

 

But they will never accept the truth. They make a story up and stick to it. Now, all the girls think that they easily get a BF or husband who sponsors them with "at least" 50k a month.

 

Keep dreaming girls.

I knew a Lesbian who had a house built for her girlfriend now all the girls in the village want to find a Lesbian, and thats no joke

3 minutes ago, ChipButty said:

I knew a Lesbian who had a house built for her girlfriend now all the girls in the village want to find a Lesbian, and thats no joke

You have her number?

Had a honeymoon near Inverness ! The weather actually described the relationship, mostly rain, occasional storms, sunny patches but always cold and miserable. Divorced !

Just now, CharlieH said:

Had a honeymoon near Inverness ! The weather actually described the relationship, mostly rain, occasional storms, sunny patches but always cold and miserable. Divorced !

It was rather a "nightmare".

2 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

You have her number?

The Lesbian Im talking about, nah you dont want it and she used to ride a Harley Ive not seen her for a while

9 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

Apparently a friend of hers, living in Germ-any with an old bloke gets 50,000 Baht each month to support her family in Isaan and is planning to build her mom a new house.

Now, everyone talking about it and that and other families encouraging their daughters to get a German as well.

They go to far to say: Don't bring another farang home, we want a German

Did she say the 'old bloke' was German?