Good Samaritan lady beaten up after going to help driver - he didn't want her to call the cops because he was drunk

[kimamey]

4 hours ago, hotchilli said:

The first thing my missus taught me when we relocated here.. don't get involved in other peoples troubles.

My sister in law had a stroke in the apartment she was staying in whilst looking after her grandson in Bangkok. Apparently someone heard her crying out but did nothing because they thought she was being hit by her husband. She was on her own so she didn't get help until a neighbour she knew realised something was wrong. She was taken to hospital but never recovered. She was 52.

 

Given that sometimes people do need help I hope I would help as this woman did.

 

Actually whilst typing this I remember about 3 years ago at night on a major road into Mahasarakham I was with my wife and her daughter and we saw a man lying in the bike lane but it was too late to stop so we did 2 u turns and as we were arriving we saw anther vehicle stop but then it drove off. I got out to look and he was lying on his back with his hat a few feet away and some food bags in his hand. I couldn't smell alcohol. My wife phoned for an ambulance but they said one was already coming. I guessed this was probably called by whoever was in the other vehicle that stopped. The ambulance arrived and looked him over and he seemed better by then. He lived down the road and he always came to the nearby market just before it closed to get food for his dogs which was what he was carrying. I've no idea what had happened but I don't think he was drunk so maybe he just tripped.

 

If either of those were people that you knew would you rather they were ignored. I understand the problems that can come from helping but that isn't always the case.  

[kimamey]

30 minutes ago, billd766 said:

So why did you bother to read it and then make a comment?

A questionable comment at that.

[RandiRona]

Real unfortunate what happened with this woman but there are several other example of when people stop and saved others from imminent death including me when I had a head on collision with a truck and was saved due to good samaritans intervention. Also remember you or someone you love may need help and that time you would expect people to stop and help so keep doing what is right. Good Karma always multiply...telling you from experience.

[Flink]

10 hours ago, NE1 said:

500 baht

If that! If it's only a 4000 baht fine for killing a doctor on an unlicesed bike and leaving the scene.....

[BangkokReady]

10 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

There is always lots of comments on this forum criticizing Thais for not stopping to help at accidents.

Now you know why.

You could put yourself at risk trying to be the good Samaritan here.

 

10 hours ago, kotsak said:

First rule for survival here is MYOB.

True.  The "don't get involved with other people's business" attitude so common in Thailand is not solely about being chilled out.  It's to protect people from liability, blame and psychopaths.

[BangkokReady]

5 hours ago, dallen52 said:

The country needs to bring in international law enforcement experts and seriously look at the introduction of a proper police system. 

How do you imagine Thai society functioning if just the police force was "made proper"?

 

Presumably "fixing" the police would mean an end to any corruption that they facilitate.  Do you think the Thai populace would be happy with that?  How long would it take for people and businesses to adapt?

 

Of particular interest would be how the Thai people would deal with suddenly facing the consequences of their actions and being lumbered with considerable fines, criminal records that leave them unable to work, and the loss of many people's driving licences almost instantly. ????

[hotchilli]

8 hours ago, kimamey said:

If either of those were people that you knew would you rather they were ignored. I understand the problems that can come from helping but that isn't always the case.  

Accidents yes, you can observe the situation and call for help..

As for confrontations stay well away.

[metisdead]

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[jacko45k]

17 hours ago, Phuketshrew said:

Very drunk on just 6 cans of beer?  

Sounds like 6 cans of wife beater Stella!

[JeffersLos]

18 hours ago, Will B Good said:

I am a bit surprised he was panicking.......the penalty for DUI here is hardly any kind of deterrent .

Yeah, it usually ends with the cops asking if he can finish their shift for them so they can get drunk. 

[cdemundo]

16 hours ago, grandpa said:

The concept of being a Good Samaritan and helping others in need is a Christian philosophy and one of the Parables of Jesus Christ.  Thai Buddhism is entirely self-centred!  This lady was indeed someone with good intent to her fellow human beings.  I applaud her for that.  The police should immediately arrest the perpetrator and bring him to justice for assault!   Removing an Army sticker from his vehicle is not the answer or adequate punishment!

 

[phetphet]

19 hours ago, Will B Good said:

I am a bit surprised he was panicking.......the penalty for DUI here is hardly any kind of deterrent .

Might depend on how many times he has been caught before.

[mikebell]

Yesterday it was a disabled lottery ticket seller.  Thainess is becoming all the rage.

[kimamey]

5 hours ago, hotchilli said:

Accidents yes, you can observe the situation and call for help..

As for confrontations stay well away.

In the first example it was assumed to be a confrontation but wasn't. 

Also a confrontation can end up in serious injury or death,  possibly murder. 

You can always call the police of course. I've no experience of what they would do but there's no harm in trying. 

Edited April 28, 2022 by kimamey

[sammieuk1]

Has she been dinking to ..prosecuted to the full extent of the law.????

[digger70]

Lady digger says ,Never stop for anything that hasn't got anything to do with us. Amen.

[bbko]

I wonder if those saying "mind your own business" will have the same feeling if/when they're in need of help.

[NoshowJones]

On 4/27/2022 at 12:52 PM, Dmaxdan said:

There is always lots of comments on this forum criticizing Thais for not stopping to help at accidents.

Now you know why.

You could put yourself at risk trying to be the good Samaritan here.

 

I think I would find it very hard to ride by a lone person who was obviously in some difficulty. There are times when you may have to think of someone else before yourself.

[Red Forever]

21 hours ago, RocketDog said:

Good comment except for the irrelevant reference to mythical beings and their purported philosophies.

Agreed. Since when did we atheists credit "christian philosophies" for doing the right thing.

[tubber]

On 4/27/2022 at 4:23 PM, brianthainess said:

Special Brew or Party Eights ?

Party Eights???.......... now you're showing your age ???? Do you still get either?

[FritsSikkink]

On 4/27/2022 at 1:20 PM, Phuketshrew said:

Very drunk on just 6 cans of beer?  

Depending on the size of the cans that could be 2 or 3 liters of beer. Non alcoholics can get very drunk from that.

[Rimmer]

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