Why do men like ladyboys?

[KhaoYai]

5 hours ago, JeffersLos said:

You've obviously spent a lot of time around them, faffing with their hair.

 

 

Is the word 'mirror' some type of slang? 

Not even worth answering.

[EVENKEEL]

5 hours ago, KhaoYai said:

He's drunk! I'm not going to put a figure on it but a very high percentage of LB's are obvious - if not by their looks then by their actions. Most faff with their hair all the time, get their mirror out, etc, etc. - more feminine than a real woman.

 

Seriously, I'm pretty sure I'd know but to be fair if the LB was convincing looking (and there are a few) I might have to get well into proceedings before I'd know. At that point I'd slit his throat - just before I threw up everywhere.  There are certain things that surgery cannot endow them with.  I'm also reliably told (by a guy that does go with LB's) that in terms of 'hardware', the surgeon's attempt at creating a 'front bottom' is pretty obvious so unless you've never seen one before - in close up, you're gonna know there's something wrong.  That said, I would guess that it happens on occasion - some guys don't spend too long on the 'procedure' - they just want to 'wash & go' (if you don't understand that, its from a TV advert for a shampoo/conditioner rolled into one)

 

Those LB's that don't tell guys what they are, run a real chance of injury.  I doubt too many fully hetro males would take too kindly to finding their date is a man.

 

Whatever, I stick to my guns - if you knowingly have sex with someone of the same sex, you are eithe Gay or Bi. And I also repeat, I have nothing against Gay's or Bi's, we all have an equal place in society.  I also don't see the problem with 'labels' either - many people who object to 'labels' seem to think they are derogatory, I just use them as a means of description.

Bout 4-5 yrs back in Olongapo, PI a guy drowned a ladyboy in the toilet after he found out about the accessories.

[LarrySR]

1 minute ago, EVENKEEL said:

Bout 4-5 yrs back in Olongapo, PI a guy drowned a ladyboy in the toilet after he found out about the accessories.

It’s easy to spot the ladyboi.
They giggle when you kiss them. 

[KhaoYai]

1 hour ago, poohy said:

I personally have been with several ladyboys for sheer lust and pleasure but consider my self a healthy heterosexual not sure i would go with a post op one though

You can consider yourself what you want - if you've been with a LB, you're not hetrosexual.

 

Oxford Dictionary:

 

heterosexual

adjective

(of a person) sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.

 

Nowhere, in any definition will you find a statement that says: a person sexually attracted to the opposite sex and the same sex that look and dress like the opposite sex.

 

I suggest you get used to the fact that you are not straight - you can get counselling if that disturbs you.

Edited May 8, 2022 by KhaoYai

[ezzra]

Too late in the discussion to use couple of really good zings for such topic, I'll leave for next time...

[poohy]

13 minutes ago, KhaoYai said:

You can consider yourself what you want - if you've been with a LB, you're not hetrosexual.

 

Oxford Dictionary:

 

heterosexual

adjective

(of a person) sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.

 

Nowhere, in any definition will you find a statement that says: a person sexually attracted to the opposite sex and the same sex that look and dress like the opposite sex.

 

I suggest you get used to the fact that you are not straight - you can get counselling if that disturbs you.

Not vaguely disturbed your opinion counts for nothing IMHO now then

Fancy a kiss big boy?????????????????

[KhaoYai]

1 minute ago, poohy said:

Not vaguely disturbed your opinion counts for nothing IMHO now then

Fancy a kiss big boy?????????????????

A definition given in a dictionary is not an opinion, its a fact - sorry to burst your bubble.

[LarrySR]

40 minutes ago, chalawaan said:

No idea what this is supposed to mean, Larry.

Are you trying to put down someone who likes a little alternative action now and then?

Keep trying ???? your opinion really means so much to me, Larry! ????

You don't like me or my kind?

Suck it up! We're everywhere. No putting that genie back in the bottle.

But, never fear, there are still fun places where time stood still.

Russia, Kenya, and Saudi Arabia come to mind.

Or, you could keep enjoying LoS and hold a mirror up to your own reasons for being here.

As the saying goes, when you point the finger, there's three points back at you.

So yeah, round lips, square heads, bring on all the lame good ol boy playground insults.

Frankie says you need to learn to RELAX. ????

 

You can try to school me all you want but I’m not gonna get sucked into the lifestyle. 

[chalawaan]

8 hours ago, CG1 Blue said:

Or maybe 'such men' just happen to like real women, and are not attracted to trans women / LBs? 

Yes, agree. But that's not the point he was making. 

And I think the real issue here is that purely hetero men just would not be on this thread at all. 

 

Yes, I'm calling out every one of you including the OP.

 

Let's put it this way;

Suppose you saw a thread on here about knitting, now you're going to do two things:

1. Ignore it.

2. Join in because you like knitting.

 

Would you go on that knitting thread and troll and make dumb knitting-phobic comments, or ask anyone to explain why they like knitting?

 

Nope.

 

So everyone on here either:

1.  Openly likes ladyboys.

2. Has unresolved sexuality issues.

 

Because you cannot hate what you do not fear.

 

And why fear something that cannot harm you? 

 

If you're 100% straight coming on here to comment makes as much sense as going on a knitting thread to comment.

 

There are only two frameworks, two outcomes, two paths we take in life. Love or fear.

 

A true straight man is too busy chasing skirt to waste time on here baiting others, or giving ANY opinions on ladyboys.

 

Anyone who denies this argument denies their own unresolved issues.

 

You either identify with this reasoning, or you have unresolved issues.

 

Now, I don't put these guys down. It's a bit tragic they'll never get to truly know themselves.

 

I dealt with my own homophobia when I unwittingly fell for a stunning trans back in Sydney, in the early 90s

She looked like Whitney Houston. Not a Thai ladyboy. She was my barber.

 

I eventually got up the courage to ask her out, and took her for a date, and there, she confessed.

 

I was stunned, but asked lots of questions. I learned a lot, but I still couldn't go thru with it. 

I stopped going there for haircuts.

But it blew apart my thinking. My shame at liking what I thought to be a woman -then wasn't. What was going on here?

 

Second time was in Soi Cowboy, I took a stunning spinner back to my room, by the time I figured it out, the bars had closed. And I thought, let's see what's going on here.

We had a lot of fun, it was like your first ever time being sexual with a female, like when you're eleven and some girl you like in class and you end up showing each other your "bits" in the woods, or innocently kissing and awakening to your new maturity.

 

I had to face myself honestly.

 

It took years to get comfortable with me.

 

Even just a few years ago I would not have outed myself on this thread.

 

Now, I wouldn't be a man if I didn't stand up and say, there's a side of me I hid just because my society is the messed-up thing, not me!

 

I hope most of you find peace with yourselves, especially they guys here with the biggest beef against ladyboys.

 

That does not happen in a vaccuum, no matter how deep in denial you are, that's just your sexual tar-baby and you'll never be free until you stop fighting yourself, and hating people irrationally.

 

There's nothing irrational about it. You're at war with yourselves, and anyone who's gone through that can see it as if it's tattooed on your forehead.

 

Now, back to your knitting, boys! 

 

Edited May 8, 2022 by chalawaan

[PoodThaiMaiDai]

I just read 6 pages of some very interesting comments.

 

There are some very good and educated answers here.

 

Yes, there are some really bad and uneducated answers as well.

[bert bloggs]

2 hours ago, chalawaan said:

You're screwed on a plane then, I guess...

Ah yes but men and women and " they" ( must be inclusie????) are not in there at the same time are they?

[chalawaan]

8 minutes ago, LarrySR said:

You can try to school me all you want but I’m not gonna get sucked into the lifestyle. 

I'm not to here to school anyone.

I'm just here in my truth, and really don't care what anyone thinks. But hope they'll maybe start actually thinking!

 

You don't get sucked into the lifestyle. It's not quicksand.

 

The worst that can happen is you learn something about yourself.

 

And learning something about yourself you've been taught to hate and despise takes visceral courage, and in my case, an entire lifetime.

 

Peace.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Tod Daniels]

You know what they say about thai ladyboyz

[chalawaan]

15 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

"Admit" was the correct word, this thread being a perfect example, where are all the LB lovers to explain why they like LBs? they are in hiding like they always are when these threads come up.

 

The other odd thing is guys who like LBs still want to consider themselves as heterosexual, which of course they are not, they come under Q of LGBTQ

Yup I'm Queer. 

Mostly I like women.

I've never moved in with a Trans and likely ever will.

But I'm Queer. Tried to hide it but born that way.

When you're ready, we'll welcome you home, Scuba! ????????????✌????️‍⚧️

Edited May 8, 2022 by chalawaan

[Tod Daniels]

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[Henryford]

They are better looking and more feminine than the ladies. Go into any bar and the girls will be in jeans, loose t shirt and flip flops. The LBs will be in a tight dress, high heels and full make up.

[LarrySR]

Women in Thailand are like a box of chocolates

You never know which one has nuts.

[phetphet]

I recall a story here on TV several years ago about a drunken guy who took what he thought was a girl back to his room.

He/she drugged him. He woke up with the person doing to him what he had been hoping to do to the supposed girl..

He fought him/her off and when alone found they had stolen several thousand dollars.  He called the police who caught the "intruder", but apparently only managed to recover 50% of the stolen money.

 

 

I also personally know of one guy who came to Thailand on holiday, spent about a month with what he thought was a girl, invited her to visit him back in his home country for a holiday, and when was sent a copy of their passport, replied, "You have sent me the wrong passport. this one is for a man."

You can imagine his shock when told the truth.

[4MyEgo]

15 hours ago, The Hammer2021 said:

He's not  gay. He likes sex with  girls. He prefers ladyboys. He would never have sex  with a man. Yes. It's complicated!

It's not complicated at all, why, because a ladyboy is born as a boy and will die as a boy, so him saying that he would never have sex with a man is a charade. 

 

I will agree, some ladyboys are prettier than a lot of Thai women, and I have seen some beauties, and have thought like others, oh yeh, but then you have to be deeply honest to yourself and ask, am I still going to sit on the fence or am I going to go for whatever it is that is creating this feeling and get off the fence.

 

For me, it's not on my bucket list because I control the feeling for this illusion, why, because the illusion is a bloke, not matter how many times you say to yourself it isn't, it is a bloke, a bloke, yes a bloke that looks like a women, hence the term ladyboy, a pretty ladyboy, but it's still a bloke, and I like women, damn ????

 

End of story ????

 

[chalawaan]

1 hour ago, KhaoYai said:

You can consider yourself what you want - if you've been with a LB, you're not hetrosexual.

 

Oxford Dictionary:

 

heterosexual

adjective

(of a person) sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.

 

Nowhere, in any definition will you find a statement that says: a person sexually attracted to the opposite sex and the same sex that look and dress like the opposite sex.

 

I suggest you get used to the fact that you are not straight - you can get counselling if that disturbs you.

See the whole tone of this is troublesome.

You're telling someone you know nothing about -who they are; and your "evidence" is a language definition!

Then you condescendingly suggest they get counseling if they're in denial.

 

So my question is, why do you see the need to even comment? 

 

It's almost like you're trying to convince yourself.

 

Because apart from that, the post insults almost everyone's intelligence, and belittles your own.

[metisdead]

A post with a nude image has been reported and removed. 

[chalawaan]

9 minutes ago, phetphet said:

I recall a story here on TV several years ago about a drunken guy who took what he thought was a girl back to his room.

He/she drugged him. He woke up with the person doing to him what he had been hoping to do to the supposed girl..

He fought him/her off and when alone found they had stolen several thousand dollars.  He called the police who caught the "intruder", but apparently only managed to recover 50% of the stolen money.

Because there never was a drugged robbery pulled off by a woman. Right?

A good friend of mine was murdered because he invited a female escort he'd seen several times, back to his home, and that moronic cum dumpster decided it would be the crime of the century if her halfwit homies were let in while he was in the shower afterwards. 

They're all facing forever in jail right now. 

And that guy you know who spent a MONTH with a LB and never found out? 

Hmmmm. Sounds a bit hard to swallow, if you get my drift! ????

[SAFETY FIRST]

18 hours ago, bert bloggs said:

for the life of me cannot understand why any guy goes with one

DITO

 

I can not see what they see in a ladyboy. ????

 

Why, why?????, so many beautiful Thai ladies, bloody beautiful sexy little things. 

 

My recent post

 

https://aseannow.com/topic/1245677-thailand-the-most-beautiful-girls-in-the-world /#comment-17095295

 

Early mornings, around 5 or 6, beach side of Pattaya Park, beside Sea Rescue, you'll see 100's of misfits, drunk playing beach volleyball, dozens and dozens of ladyboys, they just look horrendous.

 

A few years ago I was drinking with a guy at the bar, a few ladyboys walked past and I said what do guys see in them, the guy I was drinking with said he like to perform oral sex on the lb, blow the lb, shortly after I paid my bill and found another bar.

 

I prefer to sleep, eat, shower, shopping, visit friends, enjoy my time with a lady, two X chromosomes, not one X and one Y chromosome, to each their own.

 

 

[chalawaan]

1 hour ago, KhaoYai said:

Not even worth answering.

Denial is not a river in Egypt. 

And...

You're always the last to know.

????️‍⚧️????

Otherwise why are you on here raging and rampaging?

Hangry?

It's a beautiful Sunday morning, go get some brunch.

Grab the waitress' crotch just to make sure tho.

Faff around and find out! ????????

 

[bert bloggs]

Bloomin ek,! 6 pages already ,i only posted because the wife and i watched a 10 yr old tv show and i thought it would be something to chat about, why do some people think though just because you start a subject your secretly wanting to try it out? In my many many years in Thailand ive spoken to a load of ladyboys( one in a chemists i go to) but never wsnted to sleep with one.

[chalawaan]

15 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

DITO

 

I can not see what they see in a ladyboy. ????

 

Why, why?????, so many beautiful Thai ladies, bloody beautiful sexy little things. 

 

My recent post

 

https://aseannow.com/topic/1245677-thailand-the-most-beautiful-girls-in-the-world /#comment-17095295

 

Early mornings, around 5 or 6, beach side of Pattaya Park, beside Sea Rescue, you'll see 100's of misfits, drunk playing beach volleyball, dozens and dozens of ladyboys, they just look horrendous.

 

A few years ago I was drinking with a guy at the bar, a few ladyboys walked past and I said what do guys see in them, the guy I was drinking with said he like to perform oral sex on the lb, blow the lb, shortly after I paid my bill and found another bar.

 

I prefer to sleep, eat, shower, shopping, visit friends, enjoy my time with a lady, two X chromosomes, not one X and one Y chromosome, to each their own.

 

 

That's a lot of words just to let all of us complete strangers (who don't give two hoots) your str8 credentials!

 

We Queers stopped wondering and saw the wonder.

The wonder is:

You lose nothing but your fear and denial.

And gain far more than you can even begin to imagine.

He who conquers himself is greater than he who conquers a city.  

To each their own indeed! ????

 

[chalawaan]

9 minutes ago, bert bloggs said:

Bloomin ek,! 6 pages already ,i only posted because the wife and i watched a 10 yr old tv show and i thought it would be something to chat about, why do some people think though just because you start a subject your secretly wanting to try it out? In my many many years in Thailand ive spoken to a load of ladyboys( one in a chemists i go to) but never wsnted to sleep with one.

Whatever. Been there done that, see through it a mile off mate. ????????️‍⚧️✌????

[Sparktrader]

9 hours ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

Nope--havent had sex or have a desire too----have gotten oral from one---a mouth is a mouth

You sound like Clinton

[Sparktrader]

Sex is sex. I dont think it's anymore than that. The Greeks used to have big orgies.

 

 

[bert bloggs]

15 minutes ago, chalawaan said:

Whatever. Been there done that, see through it a mile off mate. ????????️‍⚧️✌????

So if i start a thread about how dirty the sois are in Thailand,it means i want to become a street cleaner?  Sorry you try to hard to convince us that we all want a bit of something different ,if thats your choice,up to you.