I'm happy to tackle your question... Again, you use the words always. That is not true, is it? The reality is that I have used the term where I think it is appropriate. Wherein it seems the writer has lost control of themselves, in the written word and in their behaviour. Of course I am not allowed to discuss certain aspects of such behaviour here, so we will have to leave that to the imagination. Have you considered that the same issues are being brought up, because the same behaviour has reared itself again? That's logical, isn't it? It's how you deal with it that matters. As to my own reactions and behaviour, I would hope that they stay within acceptable boundaries. No crass abuse, no deliberate lies and attempts to mislead etc. Just honest conversation. We teach each other. Just some prefer to appear that they don't need to learn anything from others. I learn a lot from others and don't feel the need to become defensive and abusive.
