Thai woman says she was drugged by a friend - woke up naked next to a "rich" man in a hotel

[cdemundo]

2 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Sometimes i have to remind myself that some folks here believe everything what is being claimed / posted and never question things to check if there is a grain of truth in the story.

QED

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, soi3eddie said:

Is there a single mention of the police in this story? Most western countries the police would already have arrested any and all in the alleged rape. Did she even report it? No excuse for sex without consent, even if high on drugs or alcohol. 

 

 

In thailand the natural response is it your own foult if you get raped! Simple as that! And many members  here think that is okay obviously ???? 

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, FritsSikkink said:

Who says it was rape and she was unconscious? She can't remember, that happens when you are knowingly getting drunk / stoned. Why go to a party as entertainment girl and do drugs. Now she knows the guy is rich, she screams rape.

Thats an good explanation to your young daughter when she coming home from a party telling you she believe she was raped! 

[jacko45k]

So the fact he is rich is what, compensation?

[Hummin]

54 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

There is a lot more unclear. She took 1 sip of beer and passed out. How did she get in the hotel room while passed out?

You looking for evidence to justify she was taken advantage of! Im sure you and me would had been best friends meeting over a beer! 
 

obs Irony

[jacko45k]

2 hours ago, n00dle said:

excellent pro rape response. She was probably dressed a bit sexy and was asking for it too, right?

She may well have been asking for it, yes. If she cannot remember we are not sure how she behaved, or if the man knew her to be under the influence of these drugs.... tricky scenario.

[jacko45k]

1 hour ago, n00dle said:

I tell you, there are some frightening attitudes on this site.

Yours is too.... you are labeling this guy a rapist based on very little.

[FritsSikkink]

15 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Thats an good explanation to your young daughter when she coming home from a party telling you she believe she was raped! 

My daughter doesn't go to drug taking parties where she needs to entertain the guys there.

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

Naen thinks that she was drugged and raped in that it was without her knowing consent. 

She took knowingly illegal drugs.

Maybe now she will remember that that is not a good idea.

[jacko45k]

36 minutes ago, Elkski said:

I think it's best to wait for the facts to come out.  If he is rich I'm sure his hotel has CCTV. 

Doubt it would show what happened in the room. If he dragged her in there by the hair case proven... if she appears to go in there willingly, nothing proven.

[steven100]

sounds to me like she had one heck of a night  !     what's she complaining about ..... 

[riclag]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

The Thai police would consider her taking drugs as consent. 

Admission of taking drugs would probably get her 3-5 years in jail, so probably best she not shout about it too much. 

Very little info on the drug she consumed ! Some of these date rape drugs screw with your memory!

Its possible she did agree to many suggestions while in the company of a bad  sleazy male acting out his desirers !

Stupid people taking drugs, stupid is as stupid does!

 

No signs of a violence either!

Edited January 4, 2023 by riclag

[Bravefart]

I could be wrong but I am fairly sure that a woman would know if she has had sex or not without forensics , there would be no reason to risk going to jail herself "if" they did take her to hospital for a check up to see if sex had taken place. There are a fair few wanna-be`s on here who seem to think they are either inspector Clouseau,inspector Morse and probably inspector gadget`s. Regardless of what anyone thinks of the Thai police force or Thai authorities this case like all others will follow its due course and I assure you they will reach a conclusion and perhaps an warrant or two ,  all without the expertise of the Asean Now police force.  ????

[Bravefart]

3 minutes ago, steven100 said:

sounds to me like she had one heck of a night  !     what's she complaining about ..... 

perhaps karma may very well pay you a visit and you wake up next to a rich man      

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, riclag said:

Very little info on the drug she consumed ! Some of these date rape drugs screw with your memory!

Its possible she did agree to many suggestions while in the company of a male acting out his desirers !

Stupid people taking drugs, stupid is as stupid does!

 

No signs of a violence either!

Im sure no one here ever had a black out on alchohol and willing to admit they had a black out? And some of those who had a black out, deleted up their night, reputation and was ashamed after, and a few <deleted> up their life? 
 

It happens, and when a woman tells her story, she deserve to be heard, same as the rich man is innocent to guilt proven! Why is it so hard for some  to accept simple things like that? Instead you guys put blaim on the woman whos story is second hand information, or most likely third hand through the police. 
 

 

Edited January 4, 2023 by Hummin

[OneMoreFarang]

35 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Im sure no one here ever had a black out on alchohol and willing to admit they had a black out? And some of those who had a black out, deleted up their night, reputation and was ashamed after, and a few <deleted> up their life? 

I don't think I ever had a 100% blackout. But I had a couple of nights where on the next day I had to think a little longer about what happened in which order and how I got home.

And I learned from that that it's not a good idea to get wasted. Because in that condition we don't really know what we do and possibly we do stupid things. And possibly other people take advantage of us.

And that risk is obviously a lot higher for women.

If I did stupid things after I got intoxicated, then I would think after that: I should have made sure I don't get that intoxicated. And if I ever get that intoxicated and bad things happen then it's my own fault. 

[mikeymike100]

2 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

There is a lot more unclear. She took 1 sip of beer and passed out. How did she get in the hotel room while passed out?

Surely if she thought she had been sexually assaulted she would go to the police and report it, they in turn would get a hospital to do a medical examination? Secure specimens etc. The police would arrest the alleged perp and question him? Was any of this basic stuff undertaken?

[SGD]

There are few facts in this case and no evidence of sexual activity.

 

However, we do know that this woman and her friend are used to going to parties with strange men they do not know. They admit knowing that drug taking would happen and they admit drugs were freely offered and taken.

 

I suspect nothing would be heard from this girl if she had woken up with some money in her purse and that her claims stem from not being paid. She now accuses her friend of possibly being paid but not passing on her share and her friend responds by telling her that the guy involved is rich.

 

There is a word for girls who get paid for sex and that word is prostitute; someone who exchanges sexual favours for money and there is an old (and inappropriate for woke folks) joke about how does a prostitute know she has been raped and the answer is when the cheque bounces. For the uninitiated, that means that the "rape" is only claimed when the payment doesn't materialise and that had the money been paid, then there would have been no "rape".

 

This is a story of a hooker who has not been paid or her also hooker friend didn't pass on her share. In so far as you can believe any of it of course.

[giddyup]

2 hours ago, Hummin said:

Thats an good explanation to your young daughter when she coming home from a party telling you she believe she was raped! 

It's not like women never lie about being raped.

[lamyai3]

4 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

But on this occasion she was given a white pill caled "Yaa Five" in Thai.

Shouldn't that be "Yaa Hah"? 

[Hummin]

36 minutes ago, giddyup said:

It's not like women never lie about being raped.

 ever heard about a man admitting he raped a woman? 

 

I even heard someone say, she asking for it, for being at the wrong place at the wrong time. The way she dress, there is no doubt, and entertaining men for a evening, case closed! Even a bar girl, have the right to say no, even you paid her to follow you home! Or, did I get it wrong?

Edited January 4, 2023 by Hummin

[stoner]

3 hours ago, Elkski said:

I think it's best to wait for the facts to come out.  If he is rich I'm sure his hotel has CCTV. 

fortunately the cameras were not working during whatever time it is the incident in question happened. 

[Elkski]

15 minutes ago, stoner said:

fortunately the cameras were not working during whatever time it is the incident in question happened. 

Is this in the news now?  Of course as I typed "if he is a rich man" he can get the CCTV tape lost. 

[mikeymike100]

3 hours ago, jacko45k said:

Yours is too.... you are labeling this guy a rapist based on very little.

Quite so, what evidence is there, only circumstantial that would not hold up in court?

 

[giddyup]

48 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 ever heard about a man admitting he raped a woman? 

 

I even heard someone say, she asking for it, for being at the wrong place at the wrong time. The way she dress, there is no doubt, and entertaining men for a evening, case closed! Even a bar girl, have the right to say no, even you paid her to follow you home! Or, did I get it wrong?

There are a lot of men who have done lengthy jail sentences on a false accusation of rape.

[Hummin]

9 minutes ago, giddyup said:

There are a lot of men who have done lengthy jail sentences on a false accusation of rape.

Everyone in jail is innocent, everyone knows that! 

 

Have a good evening sir! 

Edited January 4, 2023 by Hummin

[KhunLA]

Another she said ... he might chime in story.

 

Drugged ... volunteering to take drugs, isn't being drugged.

 

Raped ... maybe, but apparently, she doesn't even know.  May have had a great time, just don't remember.  I'd be surprised if police and or prosecutor touch this one, as that's one weak case to win.

 

Hopefully lesson learned if she doesn't want a repeat night.

Edited January 4, 2023 by KhunLA

[stoner]

1 hour ago, Elkski said:

Is this in the news now?  Of course as I typed "if he is a rich man" he can get the CCTV tape lost. 

no thats just the typical response when this sort of thing happens. 

[steven100]

6 hours ago, n00dle said:

excellent pro rape response. She was probably dressed a bit sexy and was asking for it too, right?

so she takes the drugs thinking everything is good. ...  she is stupid.

[sleepwalker999]

6 hours ago, VocalNeal said:

But she knowingly swallowed the pills????

Ew, condone a bit of rape now do you?