Where to find a girl friend in Thailand?

[The Cobra]

At the turn of the century, having been divorced a number of years and not impressed with caucasian women generally, I was watching a channel 4 documentary in Uk, on "Thai brides" , and thought, why not !

Contacted an agency in Bangkok, never been to Thailand before, they met me at the airport, chaporoned me for week.Gave me a folder of many Thai ladies and asked me to pick 6.I did and over the week kind of interviewed the  6 and reduced to 1.

 

I stayed in a relationship with her for over a year, we separated from what later was discovered as a total misunderstanding and translation issue. Great girl and was sorry to have lost her.

 

No longer a virgin to Thziland and its somewhat unique  offerings, I travelled back n forth many times, before arranging to meet a girl via a dating website, "date in asia" , met her in Udon Thani, been married 17 years ! 

Best decision I ever made relationship wise.

 

Edited January 8, 2023 by The Cobra

[OneMoreFarang]

It obviously depends a lot on what we want.

 

If I would want a normal woman in my age group who has a decent job, then I wouldn't look in a bar. 

 

But if I want a pretty young cute girl then it is unlikely that I will find her at work. And even if I would find such a girl at my work then probably she wouldn't select the (almost) oldest guy in the office.

 

I would look in bars and other places for girls who just started in that business and who are shy and who like a nice lifestyle but who are not yet used to bar business. If they don't know a word of English that is perfect. Take her out, make her happy, and never let her return to the bar - at least not alone for an extended time.

 

[SuperSilverHaze]

What do YOU enjoy doing or a place you enjoy being? Go there, do that. She will show up - don't be shy.

[Shop mak]

The word 'girlfriend' in Thailand can be interpreted differently.

Rent a gf is available everywhere around the country.

 

A true love gf, might be very easy before we reach age 45-50.

After that it's a downhill futile search, as thai women seem obsessed with younger men.

 

Easy only if she less than 10 years younger than yourself.

 

If one belive in the formula 'your age divided by 2 and + 7', the search will last a very long time, when age 55+.

 

Some friends and myself tested many options in the poll. No clear winner here, but at their work and simply by coincidence, was easier than the other option in the poll.

 

Wanting a normal women without former experience with foreigners, and little or no english (we all speak thai at different level) we thought the countryside was a obvious advantage, we was so wrong. None of us found a gf when we lived up north.

 

Most of us are still single, and we will egerly follow this topic, if men age 55+ share their secret with us - in the search for a non-pro normal working women who have 'true love'.

 

Until then, we believe in by coincidence as the easiest way to find the one.

[Adumbration]

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Essentially, without bars I'd probably still be a virgin.

And wealthy.

[Adumbration]

Survey is flawed because it does not include the weekly fresh market as a primary option.

 

Girls at the produce markets are often stunning but they are practical, good cooks, good with money, not pretentious and not coated in layers of makeup.

 

[Hummin]

24 minutes ago, Shop mak said:

The word 'girlfriend' in Thailand can be interpreted differently.

Rent a gf is available everywhere around the country.

 

A true love gf, might be very easy before we reach age 45-50.

After that it's a downhill futile search, as thai women seem obsessed with younger men.

 

Easy only if she less than 10 years younger than yourself.

 

If one belive in the formula 'your age divided by 2 and + 7', the search will last a very long time, when age 55+.

 

Some friends and myself tested many options in the poll. No clear winner here, but at their work and simply by coincidence, was easier than the other option in the poll.

 

Wanting a normal women without former experience with foreigners, and little or no english (we all speak thai at different level) we thought the countryside was a obvious advantage, we was so wrong. None of us found a gf when we lived up north.

 

Most of us are still single, and we will egerly follow this topic, if men age 55+ share their secret with us - in the search for a non-pro normal working women who have 'true love'.

 

Until then, we believe in by coincidence as the easiest way to find the one.

I see where you might have failed.

 

Women who have experience and know english, is better options for happy life. My two cents

 

Also age vise not to young, and do not care to drink to much. If the woman drinking thai whiskey and coke, there is a no go! Hopefully she have learned some western culture and enjoy a few glass of wine, but thats it.

 

When you visit her home, and her friends shows up, abd you are the one who pay the lao kao, thai whiskey and the food! You know this is a no go unless you enjoy it as much as them. Good luck ????

[Hummin]

9 minutes ago, Adumbration said:

Survey is flawed because it does not include the weekly fresh market as a primary option.

 

Girls at the produce markets are often stunning but they are practical, good cooks, good with money, not pretentious and not coated in layers of makeup.

 

Sorry, I only put marked as an option, should of course added fresh morning marked. The best girls is early up in the morning to get the best quality ????

[PETERTHEEATER]

4 hours ago, proton said:

Met mine in a language school 20 years ago, I still can't speak Thai ????

That's because it was a Mandarin class. Your mind was elsewhere........????

[grego49]

4 hours ago, Caldera said:

I'm not in the market for a Thai girlfriend, but I couldn't help but notice that Café Amazon girls are, more often than not, polite and beautiful. Some are also quite flirty.

Ageed but their coffee is <deleted>.555555

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Shop mak said:

If one belive in the formula 'your age divided by 2 and + 7', the search will last a very long time, when age 55+.

55/2+7=34.5

As far as I see basically all Thai women over 30 think they are old. And that means they are not in a position to make demands.

If a guy is not totally ugly/poor/stupid then he should be able to find a 30+ Thai women.

And there are enough of them because most guys don't want old women. ???? 

[GinBoy2]

I feel a bit boring.

 

Met my wife the old fashioned way as an office romance while we were both working in Singapore.

 

Furtive kisses and a little groping here and there, and 20+ years later here we are

 

Both a bit grayer than we were back then, but we still keep that spark alive

[Denim]

No option for all of them or anywhere ?

[Hummin]

10 minutes ago, Denim said:

No option for all of them or anywhere ?

 

[Hummin]

Im quite surprised none checked the shopping mall or marked. I have been approached so many times by girls in shopping malls around Thailand, either by a group of girls or just a girl out with mom or an older auntie. Some excuse themselves and ask if they can talk to me so they can practice their english as their opening line, except from where do you come from, and next do you have a gf? 

Edited January 8, 2023 by Hummin

[Kwasaki]

Well the good thing is you don't have to look like Brad Pitt or Kianna Reeves for example.

[GinBoy2]

10 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

Well the good thing is you don't have to look like Brad Pitt or Kianna Reeves for example.

Well I'm going to diverge here. 

 

But not only is Keanu Reeves a good looking guy, he is an incredible human being.

 

Rich, yet modest.

 

Lives in a regular apartment, rides the subway, incredibly generous with charity.

 

A lot of us should try to emulate him, the world might be an awfully better place if there were more Keanu Reeves.

 

https://www.dontpayfull.com/blog/the-modest-life-of-keanu-reeves

[Hummin]

35 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

Well the good thing is you don't have to look like Brad Pitt or Kianna Reeves for example.

Look like Jason Statham is more than enough actually ????

[Kwasaki]

18 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

Well I'm going to diverge here. 

 

But not only is Keanu Reeves a good looking guy, he is an incredible human being.

 

Rich, yet modest.

 

Lives in a regular apartment, rides the subway, incredibly generous with charity.

 

A lot of us should try to emulate him, the world might be an awfully better place if there were more Keanu Reeves.

 

https://www.dontpayfull.com/blog/the-modest-life-of-keanu-reeves

I concur my daughter wants to marry him. 

Had a fun time with one of my wife's friends she said I was still handsome, and i put my wallet over my face with a Visa card showing and what do you think now ? "You are beautiful ". ????????????

[Kwasaki]

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Look like Jason Statham is more than enough actually ????

Nah you can look like a pit bull terrier as long as you have money. 

[Doctor Tom]

6 hours ago, Celsius said:

knows more about cars than any of you,

yep, that's really important in any relationship, if not exactly top of my list in a potential mate, in fact, its not on my list at all. ????

[Hummin]

13 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

Nah you can look like a pit bull terrier as long as you have money. 

Still it helps to look a little bit hansume, even in Thailand. 

[Kwasaki]

8 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Still it helps to look a little bit hansume, even in Thailand. 

Yeah as old as i am i still get hit on, i luv it keeps me young. ????

[SuperSilverHaze]

3 hours ago, Hummin said:

Im quite surprised none checked the shopping mall or marked. I have been approached so many times by girls in shopping malls around Thailand, either by a group of girls or just a girl out with mom or an older auntie. Some excuse themselves and ask if they can talk to me so they can practice their english as their opening line, except from where do you come from, and next do you have a gf? 

Definitely not central Bangkok ????

[ripstanley]

Go to any establishment that is bar, restaurant market coffee shop or wherever and sit down. Then place your very fat wallet (you can add some paper to make it thicker) on the table. You will have a girlfriend very quickly. 

[Haveasay]

Learn the Thai language and be very familiar with their culture first.

[habuspasha]

13 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I would look in bars and other places for girls who just started in that business and who are shy and who like a nice lifestyle but who are not yet used to bar business. If they don't know a word of English that is perfect. Take her out, make her happy, and never let her return to the bar - at least not alone for an extended time.

That's exactly what I did.  I didn't actually look for her in the bar.  She called me to join her as she entered the bar.  I couldn't take my eyes off her for the next ten days.  She didn't want to return to the bar.  She would have worked elsewhere if I didn't support her.  It's been almost ten years.  We make each other very happy.

[OneMoreFarang]

3 hours ago, Haveasay said:

Learn the Thai language and be very familiar with their culture first.

And what is the fastest way to do exactly that?

Find a Thai girlfriend and live with her!

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, habuspasha said:

That's exactly what I did.  I didn't actually look for her in the bar.  She called me to join her as she entered the bar.  I couldn't take my eyes off her for the next ten days.  She didn't want to return to the bar.  She would have worked elsewhere if I didn't support her.  It's been almost ten years.  We make each other very happy.

Great!

But it obviously brings up the question: What did you and your eyes do on day 11? ???? 

[habuspasha]

7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Great! 

But it obviously brings up the question: What did you and your eyes do on day 11? ???? 

I had to go home to my wife.