Where to find a girl friend in Thailand?

[d4dang]

the less you look the better the finds

[Elkski]

5 hours ago, Hummin said:

What you cant have, is often what you miss most, and thats why people of both gender searches for substitutes. You often mention you like to go to bars and chat up young ladies? Right? 

Mia noi'sand giks are somewhat accepted here. 

[Kwasaki]

33 minutes ago, Elkski said:

Mia noi'sand giks are somewhat accepted here. 

Unless the No. 1 wife finds out. 

[OneMoreFarang]

6 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

Well here am I a bleeding heart Liberal, and she likes Tucker Carlson! 

 

Got the picture?

She must be otherwise the perfect woman if you can accept THAT. 

[GinBoy2]

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

She must be otherwise the perfect woman if you can accept THAT. 

Well as the saying goes,

 

Opposites Attract

[OneMoreFarang]

6 hours ago, Hummin said:

What you cant have, is often what you miss most, and thats why people of both gender searches for substitutes. You often mention you like to go to bars and chat up young ladies? Right? 

Yes, right - but I am also getting older and don't do that so much anymore.

I don't know why you wrote above. I think it is perfectly ok to know intellectuals and talk with them about difficult questions and also enjoy the company of young girls who are not well educated and all in between. And the beauty of Thailand is that it is easily possible to find and interact with all kinds. 

[Kwasaki]

17 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

She must be otherwise the perfect woman if you can accept THAT. 

What !!!  No man can live with the same woman for more than 20 year it just ain't natural. ????

[GinBoy2]

7 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

What !!!  No man can live with the same woman for more than 20 year it just ain't natural. ????

Well by your thinking we've defied the odds.

 

24 years, scary huh?

 

[Kwasaki]

40 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

Well by your thinking we've defied the odds.

 

24 years, scary huh?

 

You have my respect,  i am called a butterfly here in Thailand and having to in honesty to myself except it, only to reply i should of been born an Arab. ????

[JensenZ]

On 1/8/2023 at 12:55 PM, Celsius said:

 

Yes. I guess it's hard to believe if you live in a bar.

Anyone can say anything they like on here as there is no burdon of proof, but I'm calling bs on your story that yours is different and that SHE supports you. You invited someone to call you out, so here you go. Enjoy!

[JensenZ]

On 1/8/2023 at 12:40 PM, Screaming said:

Most expats hire girlfriends for long time:

What would you expat an old expat (most are at least at retirement age) to get? I think most expats are aware of the situation well before they arrive in Thailand. There seems to be a lot of dreamers on this forum that think they are in a real relationship with someone that loves them. Sure, your partner is different. A contractual relationship is not a bad thing at all. It's an improvement on being deluded that your relationship with a Thai woman is genuine... and in most cases it can be cheaper. Contracts can be easily disolved and that's freedom. You pay for freedom.

[thaibeachlovers]

On 1/8/2023 at 5:15 PM, Celsius said:

 

People can post this stoopid batman meme as much as they like, but I did meet my Chinese Thai wife on Tinder. She works in industrial manufacturing, knows more about cars than any of you, in the old days opened dozens of 7/11 franchises for her clients and makes a lot more money than your British government pension. 

 

I also never paid for sinsod, never asked me for a single baht and since she is a pure Chinese she hates everything about Thai women including sending money for sick buffalos, brothers with pickup trucks, doesn't lend money to anyone and takes care of me 100%.

 

Can't wait for a bunch of trolls to start posting the obvious how she must be old and ugly.... probably from the same people who pay to be touched.

 

Hmmmmmm. If she's so rich, what is it that you bring to the party?

[thaibeachlovers]

14 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

What would you expat an old expat (most are at least at retirement age) to get? I think most expats are aware of the situation well before they arrive in Thailand. There seems to be a lot of dreamers on this forum that think they are in a real relationship with someone that loves them. Sure, your partner is different. A contractual relationship is not a bad thing at all. It's an improvement on being deluded that your relationship with a Thai woman is genuine... and in most cases it can be cheaper. Contracts can be easily disolved and that's freedom. You pay for freedom.

It was the ideal situation for me. I had someone that knew my druthers, and was able to go with me for two weeks whenever I chose to go on holiday. No need for them to get holidays from work.

P S I didn't give her money to "not work in bar" while I was away. She never asked and I knew that scam so wouldn't have if she did ask me.

 

When I got married I couldn't go to the beach with my wife, as she worked in a proper job and got hardly any days off other than one day a week.

[spidermike007]

Anywhere. Everywhere. Unlike in the west, I have never encountered a group of women who are easier to approach and engage. All you need is some game, courage, a great sense of humor (the sooner you can make them laugh, the better), and a decent appearance. Helps if you have some bling, or are in good shape financially, or are handsome! 

 

The worst you get here is a polite rejection of some sort. Not like the cold and vicious reactions you get in the west from women who would not recognize their own femininity if it bit them on the rump. 

[JensenZ]

4 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

It was the ideal situation for me. I had someone that knew my druthers, and was able to go with me for two weeks whenever I chose to go on holiday. No need for them to get holidays from work.

When I got married I couldn't go to the beach with my wife, as she worked in a proper job and got hardly any days off other than one day a week.

So after you got married, did you pay the other woman to accompany you to the beach?

[JensenZ]

4 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Anywhere. Everywhere. Unlike in the west, I have never encountered a group of women who are easier to approach and engage. All you need is some game, courage, a great sense of humor (the sooner you can make them laugh, the better), and a decent appearance. Helps if you have some bling, or are in good shape financially, or are handsome! 

 

The worst you get here is a polite rejection of some sort. Not like the cold and vicious reactions you get in the west from women who would not recognize their own femininity if it bit them on the rump. 

The only difference is how much "bling" you need to get the attention you want. It's just a lot cheaper in Thailand.

[thaibeachlovers]

Just now, JensenZ said:

So after you got married, did you pay the other woman to accompany you to the beach?

That relationship ended when she found some rich guy to marry her, so no.

[talahtnut]

Try to avoid finding one,

see how long you survive.

 

[Celsius]

6 hours ago, JensenZ said:

Anyone can say anything they like on here as there is no burdon of proof, but I'm calling bs on your story that yours is different and that SHE supports you. You invited someone to call you out, so here you go. Enjoy!

 

So, you really think it is impossible to find a woman in Thailand that has a career and does not ask for money? Interesting comment since most of the bargirl brigade always claims that women always pay for their lazy Thai boyfriends. 

 

If it makes you feel any better, she is not 30 years younger than me, only 7 years.

 

 

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

6 hours ago, JensenZ said:

Anyone can say anything they like on here as there is no burdon of proof, but I'm calling bs on your story that yours is different and that SHE supports you. You invited someone to call you out, so here you go. Enjoy!

Statistically there must be some wives who are richer than their husband. 

Some guys may like that, and if such a wife would share her wealth with me, I would probably like it.

But often relationships where one person has the money have a certain dynamic - that is obviously one reason why lots of guys are happy to have a poor girlfriend.

[Celsius]

5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Hmmmmmm. If she's so rich, what is it that you bring to the party?

 

Who says she's rich? You. I never said such a thing. 

 

 

[Elkski]

Stop the bickering boys.   

I can promise you I could have hooked up with a few women who would have supported me in an above average lifestyle in Thailand if I choose.   1 wanted to pay for us to go on her dream cruise.  

I used dating sites pre COVID. I'm sure they are more full of pros now. I was pretty good at weeding out the working gals.  A couple slipped through me screenings luckily.  Some asked right off what support I could give them.  At that time it really was a red flag.  But now that I understand Eastern couples dynamic more I understand they just wanted to know if you were a broke tom or dick or going to be able to care for her.    One appointment halfway between BKK and Cm was very good looking and a great outdoor restaurant dinner date.   Smiling and talking and laughing like we were a thing.  I've never hired an escort but it must be like this.  She had a car and dressed nice.  We talked about how the next day we would buy her some items at the store and fill her car up with petrol.   She didn't ask for cash.  When she couldn't sleep at 2am and still not at 4am. And she got up and said she had to go home.  Something about not being able to sleep in a strange place.  I figured then it was her normal work schedule and she had to home to her bf or husband.   I got on the early bus to my next appointment and bugged out without buying her a thing.  Maybe spent 1500 baht on nice dinner and beers.   She was a shapely looker.  

Some guys may need to lower their standards in the looks am6d slender categories but if you do that there are some wonderful kind  Thai women who would treat you like a king ( but no harem) and not ask for much in return.  

[BritManToo]

8 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Anywhere. Everywhere. Unlike in the west, I have never encountered a group of women who are easier to approach and engage. All you need is some game, courage, a great sense of humor (the sooner you can make them laugh, the better), and a decent appearance. Helps if you have some bling, or are in good shape financially, or are handsome! 

I don't have any game!

I don't have any sense of humour!

I don't have a decent appearance!

I don't wear bling!

I'm not in good shape financially!

I'm not hansum!

 

But the 1,000bht note in my wallet seems to make up for all of that.

[Elkski]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I don't have any game!

I don't have any sense of humour!

I don't have a decent appearance!

I don't wear bling!

I'm not in good shape financially!

I'm not hansum!

 

But the 1,000bht note in my wallet seems to make up for all of that.

29.95$ at today's 33.4 rate

[GinBoy2]

10 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Statistically there must be some wives who are richer than their husband. 

Some guys may like that, and if such a wife would share her wealth with me, I would probably like it.

But often relationships where one person has the money have a certain dynamic - that is obviously one reason why lots of guys are happy to have a poor girlfriend.

Well, nowadays my wife is the power part of our couple.

 

My retirement gig is working for an airline, and remember next time you book a flight why it is so cheap, versus 30 years ago, it's because most of us are paid like cr*&*p

 

Now Mrs G on the other hand is a Federal DoD contractor and gets the perks associated with that.

 

So I guess after 20+ years with this feisty, infuriating as Hell, yet damn sexy woman I better stick with her for the money. LOL

[spidermike007]

15 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I don't have any game!

I don't have any sense of humour!

I don't have a decent appearance!

I don't wear bling!

I'm not in good shape financially!

I'm not hansum!

 

But the 1,000bht note in my wallet seems to make up for all of that.

Funny. But, I was referring to civilians and having success outside of the "professional arena", which is a charmer for some of us, due to the lack of effort involved. 

[Lucky Bones]

Just hang around a ATM & do multiple smallish withdrawals.

New potential GF's will start lining up.????????

 

[SuperSilverHaze]

On 1/8/2023 at 11:20 AM, BritManToo said:

Nearly every woman I ever had sex with I met in a bar.

1st time, met her in a Bar during a church youth club camping trip to Alderney.

1st wife met her in a University bar Bath.

1st Thai lover, met her in a ChiangMai bar.

 

 

Essentially, without bars I'd probably still be a virgin.

Someone many years ago told me that bars were the worst place to meet women. I said - wait a minute, I'm a quality person and I go to bars ... I can meet a quality person in a bar. He said - nope, doesn't work that way. Every romance come out of a bar is doomed. In retrospect, he was right.

 

I did not meet my wife in a bar and in fact she's alergic to alcohol

[d4dang]

a gf in Immi would be a good start

 

[SuperSilverHaze]

On 1/9/2023 at 5:15 PM, OneMoreFarang said:

Yes, right - but I am also getting older and don't do that so much anymore.

I don't know why you wrote above. I think it is perfectly ok to know intellectuals and talk with them about difficult questions and also enjoy the company of young girls who are not well educated and all in between. And the beauty of Thailand is that it is easily possible to find and interact with all kinds. 

I think the intellectuals in very short supply so I'm going to disagree. Even amongst teachers it's pretty much plod