Popular Post Raymonddiaz Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 I am writing on behalf of a friend who had an ex boy friend who doesn't want to leave her condo even though they don't leave together anymore. The ex boyfriend refuses to leave after being ask multiple times. What are her options in order to kick him out. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lucky Bones Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 Call her brother. Problem solved. (and do not write on behalf of another.)???????? 1 3 3 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 (edited) Does she own the codo or is the rent contract in her name? If yes, then she should tell him to leave or else she will tell the security guards to remove him. Maybe the guards will do it as part of their job, or maybe they like a little incentive. Problem solved. Edited April 8, 2023 by OneMoreFarang 5 1 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Will B Good Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 (edited) Whose name is on the contract? is the property owned or rented? Plenty of people would persuade him to leave for as little as 1000 baht. Edited April 8, 2023 by Will B Good 3 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Henryford Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 If her condo change the locks when he is out - 300 baht. 3 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post brianthainess Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 Soon as he goes out, change the locks, install new big strong boyfriend. 4 3 3 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post scubascuba3 Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 Maybe he's on overstay? 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Celsius Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 38 minutes ago, Raymonddiaz said: friend who had an ex boy friend who doesn't want to leave her condo even though they don't leave together anymore. Are they both foreigners? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FriendlyFarang Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 If it's her condo (or she rents it in her name), she could just call police who would give him the choice to leave voluntarily or get arrested. But I don't see why she would have to ask you to ask here to be told this. So are you certain that it's actually "her" condo? Maybe it's actually "their" condo, for example both have been renting it together? 9 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lucky Bones Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 4 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said: Maybe he's on overstay? Doubt it. Most overstayers go on the roof and throw things.???????? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Tropicalevo Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 Call immigration and get them to check his TM 30 and visa. Then tell him that they are on the way. 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 Did he buy the condo in her name? 2 2 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangkokReady Posted April 8, 2023 Share Posted April 8, 2023 Tell him that you'll tell a Thai person if he doesn't leave. He should know that foreigners have few rights and little protection in Thailand. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post biervoormij Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 (edited) Just stay out of it. I am sure you are not getting the whole story. If she really wants him out he would be gone. I think she is telling you a lie and you believe it. Edited April 8, 2023 by biervoormij typo 11 6 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markclover Posted April 8, 2023 Share Posted April 8, 2023 Why are you so afraid of calling the cops? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post brianthainess Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said: Maybe he's on overstay? Certainly on overwelcome. Some clue to the ex bf nationality could help. 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted April 8, 2023 Share Posted April 8, 2023 Thai (ex) boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JimmyJ Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 I'm sure doesn't apply here, but in the USA it's not simple if the person has been there for x amount of time, I think 30 days but it could be less. They cannot be removed without a court order, whether it be a relative, friend, house guest, ex gf or bf, etc. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FritsSikkink Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 7 minutes ago, JimmyJ said: I'm sure doesn't apply here, but in the USA it's not simple if the person has been there for x amount of time, I think 30 days but it could be less. They cannot be removed without a court order, whether it be a relative, friend, house guest, ex gf or bf, etc. The law in the USA doesn't apply here, so no need to refer to that. If i owned the place, I would throw his stuff on the street and close the door when he is going to get it. 3 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Berkshire Posted April 8, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2023 3 hours ago, JimmyJ said: I'm sure doesn't apply here, but in the USA it's not simple if the person has been there for x amount of time, I think 30 days but it could be less. They cannot be removed without a court order, whether it be a relative, friend, house guest, ex gf or bf, etc. As an American, I have no freakin idea what you're talking about. 1 1 1 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidneybear Posted April 8, 2023 Share Posted April 8, 2023 17 hours ago, FriendlyFarang said: If it's her condo (or she rents it in her name), she could just call police who would give him the choice to leave voluntarily or get arrested. But I don't see why she would have to ask you to ask here to be told this. So are you certain that it's actually "her" condo? Maybe it's actually "their" condo, for example both have been renting it together? I'm also thinking that it might not really be 'her' condo. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymonddiaz Posted April 9, 2023 Author Share Posted April 9, 2023 On 4/8/2023 at 11:14 AM, OneMoreFarang said: Does she own the codo or is the rent contract in her name? If yes, then she should tell him to leave or else she will tell the security guards to remove him. Maybe the guards will do it as part of their job, or maybe they like a little incentive. Problem solved. Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymonddiaz Posted April 9, 2023 Author Share Posted April 9, 2023 On 4/8/2023 at 11:46 AM, FriendlyFarang said: If it's her condo (or she rents it in her name), she could just call police who would give him the choice to leave voluntarily or get arrested. But I don't see why she would have to ask you to ask here to be told this. So are you certain that it's actually "her" condo? Maybe it's actually "their" condo, for example both have been renting it together? She is the sole owner 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted April 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 9, 2023 2 minutes ago, Raymonddiaz said: She is the sole owner Then it should be no problem to tell the security guards to remove the unwanted "guest". If the security guards try that and the "guest" attacks them, then they have a reason to call the police, and they should do that. I would not recommend letting anybody else forcibly remove the person. That can easily go wrong in many ways. 7 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralf001 Posted April 9, 2023 Share Posted April 9, 2023 On 4/8/2023 at 11:33 AM, worgeordie said: Tell her to <deleted> in his bed ,he will soon get the message. regards worgeordie thats harsh. i prefer to take off their pillow case... turn it inside out and use it to wipe my ass.... then re-fit back to pillow 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jaideedave Posted April 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 9, 2023 55 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: Then it should be no problem to tell the security guards to remove the unwanted "guest". If the security guards try that and the "guest" attacks them, then they have a reason to call the police, and they should do that. I would not recommend letting anybody else forcibly remove the person. That can easily go wrong in many ways. Correct...he could very well retaliate when she's alone.Get the police involved if necessary.They will want a tip for services rendered ,otherwise they don't give a sod.She may have something to hide and don't want the coppers sniffing around.There are most likely other circumstances here I'm thinking. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted April 9, 2023 Share Posted April 9, 2023 4 minutes ago, jaideedave said: Correct...he could very well retaliate when she's alone.Get the police involved if necessary.They will want a tip for services rendered ,otherwise they don't give a sod.She may have something to hide and don't want the coppers sniffing around.There are most likely other circumstances here I'm thinking. I am not sure if it is the job of the police to get the guy out. If the security guards try, and the guy attacks the security guards, then I am pretty sure they can call the police. But if he just doesn't want to move, not sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted April 9, 2023 Share Posted April 9, 2023 A multitude of trolling posts advising of use of force and supporting it have been removed. As a reminder here are forum rules 9 and 10 for you all to review. 9. You will not post disruptive or inflammatory messages. You will respect other members and post in a civil manner. Personal attacks, insults or hate speech posted on the forum or sent by private message are not allowed. 10. You will not post troll messages. Trolling is the act of purposefully antagonizing forum members by posting controversial, inflammatory, irrelevant or off-topic messages with the primary intent of provoking other members into an emotional response or to generally disrupt normal on-topic discussion. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted April 9, 2023 Share Posted April 9, 2023 1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said: Then it should be no problem to tell the security guards to remove the unwanted "guest". If the security guards try that and the "guest" attacks them, then they have a reason to call the police, and they should do that. I would not recommend letting anybody else forcibly remove the person. That can easily go wrong in many ways. Security have no power, and it should be the police after court order remove him. If she owns the appartment, why dont she just change the locks? Court order can take time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JimTripper Posted April 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 9, 2023 (edited) Wait until he leaves. Put his stuff out. Change the locks (locksmith may want to see you are on the lease and check your id). When he returns security is responsible for removing him from the hallway. Alternatively, wait until he leaves, put his stuff out, jam the lock with small nails in the keyhole so he can’t get in. Call security to remove him from hallway. Have the locks changed after he is off the property. Edited April 9, 2023 by JimTripper 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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