Popular Post Nemises Posted July 6, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 6, 2023 If she accepted it and your relationship with your daughter didn’t suffer, then good for you!However, interested in hearing from those whose daughter’s did not approve. Still not talking with the daughter? What about her children (the grandkids)? Miss not knowing them? Did other family members take the side of your daughter? 2 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GinBoy2 Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 (edited) Thankfully I have never experienced this, both my American and Thai wife's are roughly the same age as are our assorted adult kids, and we all kinda work it out. But I've got a couple friends, who's adult kids never spoke to their Dad again. One especially after he had a child with his younger than his farang daughter Thai wife. He now lives back in the UK, 20 miles away from his daughter, and the last time I spoke to him, she still refuses to speak to him Edited July 7, 2023 by GinBoy2 2 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 28 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said: He now lives back in the UK, 20 miles away from his daughter, and the last time I spoke to him, she still refuses to speak to him Can't say I bother with my kids once they've moved out. Guess I'm a bad person. 5 5 1 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Henryford Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 The problem is when your grand daughter finds out your Thai GF is younger than her. 2 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kwasaki Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 Another where personal men's lives and situations can be so different. What was the outcome family and friends love my wife and are please that I am happy. Briefly I took my future wife for a 6 month holiday the first length of stay given to her at the time to UK to meet the family and my 2 youngest who lived with me 10 and 16yr old. My eldest son is same age as my wife. My eldest daughter is 2years younger. My middle son 12 years younger. When my wife was able to get the 2 year uk visa it was a great help with my to youngest while I was planning my retirement. She met my previous 3 wives except one, met all my friends and when we returned to Thailand together and me retiring here, family mostly and friends have come to Thailand on holidays to see us every year except covid time. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FruitPudding Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 My friend's eldest daughter was not happy at all when she found out he'd married a TG the same age as her (or maybe a bit younger.) ???? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thaibeachlovers Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 More to the point, how many farangs with very much younger wives, girlfriends would give them up because someone else didn't approve? Personally, I'd tell them if they didn't like it to bog off. 12 3 2 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Grumpy one Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 My ex found out I had a g/f who was 3 years older than our daughter. It wasn't long before my kids started treating me like a leper. I then did the right thing and married said g/f, and had a clearing sale of all my possessions in Aus Now we live in bliss with no contact from the ex or the kids 8 6 1 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 20 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: More to the point, how many farangs with very much younger wives, girlfriends would give them up because someone else didn't approve? Personally, I'd tell them if they didn't like it to bog off. I agree. If a guy is happy with his young girlfriend or wife, then he is happy. Should he marry an old woman only to make other people happy? Sure not! It's not his problem when the other people don't like it. It's their home-made problem. 7 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 6 minutes ago, Grumpy one said: My ex found out I had a g/f who was 3 years older than our daughter. It wasn't long before my kids started treating me like a leper. I then did the right thing and married said g/f, and had a clearing sale of all my possessions in Aus Now we live in bliss with no contact from the ex or the kids That reminds me of a rich guy I know who has a great young girlfriend. His kids don't like it. But the kids still want that he helps them with their investments and the kids still want to inherit everything. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JeffersLos Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 Maybe pay the daughter the same monthly amount you need to pay the 'wife' and she'll pretend to like you too? 1 1 1 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chalawaan Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 I think the real question is why didn't you all get a vasectomy 20-40 years ago? I had to fight the system for it, but by god it's been worth the struggle. Also, if you are over 40, and your wife is not menopausal, then seriously do it! If you can hold down a female tiger younger than your first kid, more power to you, but it's just perplexing seeing a grey geezer with pre-teens and a fertile wife in tow. Suckers for punishment. 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chalawaan Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 27 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: That reminds me of a rich guy I know who has a great young girlfriend. His kids don't like it. But the kids still want that he helps them with their investments and the kids still want to inherit everything. The girlfriend is a serious wealth threat to the kids. Another drama nobody needs in their lives. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tropicalevo Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 This is not just a TG thing. My daughter stopped speaking to me when I married my second wife who was only a few of years older then her. Wife #2 was English. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 I guess often it's all about the money. Should that young Thai sl$#% get the money or we kids, who obviously deserve it? IMHO the kids should have the happiness of the father in mind. If his young gf makes him happy, fine. But then, I am sure that kids are also more able to detect gold diggers. And I am sure if they do detect such a gold digger then they don't like that scenario in many ways. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BusyB Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 It sure as hell felt strange when I met my Thai girlfriend's parents who were the same age as me. Weird feeling. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seeall Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 8 hours ago, Nemises said: If she accepted it and your relationship with your daughter didn’t suffer, then good for you!However, interested in hearing from those whose daughter’s did not approve. Still not talking with the daughter? What about her children (the grandkids)? Miss not knowing them? Did other family members take the side of your daughter? they will be poisoned by all the relatives, waste your life fighting it.. doenst matter what is true or what you say.... I have a GF 3 x younger.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bignok Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 5 hours ago, Grumpy one said: My ex found out I had a g/f who was 3 years older than our daughter. It wasn't long before my kids started treating me like a leper. I then did the right thing and married said g/f, and had a clearing sale of all my possessions in Aus Now we live in bliss with no contact from the ex or the kids Then she dumps you 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bignok Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 4 hours ago, JeffersLos said: Maybe pay the daughter the same monthly amount you need to pay the 'wife' and she'll pretend to like you too? Yes it is all money. Fake gf, kids pretending to like dad. Most farangs are delusional. Kidding themselves. Love to see photos of all these so called gfs. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yellowtail Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 Another wind-up then? Okay, when my daughter (your granddaughter) found out, she was relived because she was tired of you molesting her and thought my new wife might help her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoilSpoil Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 Let's turn the question around. What if your daughter dates someone 30 years older. Would you have any problem with that? I would and that's why I would never date a TG much younger than me. 1 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoilSpoil Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 16 minutes ago, bignok said: Yes it is all money. Fake gf, kids pretending to like dad. Most farangs are delusional. Kidding themselves. Love to see photos of all these so called gfs. I bet you do. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 26 minutes ago, bignok said: Love to see photos of all these so called gf can see mine on only fans ???? fan indeed! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Muhendis Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 After the initial blown gaskets my adult kids couldn't give a monkeys about age difference and are quite pleased I have someone young enough to take care of me. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reginald Prewster Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 Daughter: (Step) Mom (mae, chang mai mi tang) I am a bit broke, can you borrow me a 100 quit? You know when I ask Dad he is always angry and blames me why I cannot handle money... New wife: ok I go to Western Union in one hr you got, is 300 EUR enough? We tell Dad next week... Did you learn from your mistake? Daughter: Yes I did, Thank you mom, I'll be at western in about 30 minutes.. Happened not only one time behind my back... And when I complained my wife would say I am a bad father... Lucky its about 15 years ago, they are now sorted, have good jobs and don't ask anymore... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukKrueng Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 I never discuss my girlfriends with my daughter not with my wife! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lacessit Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 I don't have a daughter. If I did, her reaction to my GF ( 23 years younger ) would be irrelevant to me. It's my life, not hers. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinBoy2 Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 1 hour ago, SoilSpoil said: Let's turn the question around. What if your daughter dates someone 30 years older. Would you have any problem with that? I would and that's why I would never date a TG much younger than me. Well ditto that. I would have serious issues if either of my daughters were dating a man my age. Of course my daughters are American, so the money/power dynamic doesn't really come into play as in so many(most) Thai/Farang older man younger woman relationships. I know the fantasy is that when you take your 'younger than my daughter' wife/gf home, other men are envious. Truth is men and women find it kinda creepy 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bangkok Barry Posted July 7, 2023 Share Posted July 7, 2023 9 hours ago, GinBoy2 said: But I've got a couple friends, who's adult kids never spoke to their Dad again. One especially after he had a child with his younger than his farang daughter Thai wife. He now lives back in the UK, 20 miles away from his daughter, and the last time I spoke to him, she still refuses to speak to him Has she told him why? Before she stopped talking to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted July 7, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 7, 2023 7 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said: Truth is men and women find it kinda creepy I find the thought of having sex with a 60+ year old woman 'kinda creepy'. 2 1 1 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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