How much monthly salary should you pay for rescuing a bar girl?

[kingstonkid]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Men not people ....... Women rarely buy life insurance, they don't care about their family after they die.

Life insurance is to replace lost income in most cases it is the man that has the higher salary 

[bignok]

21 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

You've not heard of man drinks? i.e. on soi 6, buy a manager a drink and it's man drink, more expensive than a normal drink

What for? 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

You are a prime example to follow! Hero you are

And you are a prime 'soft lad'.

[BritManToo]

43 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Emails not used on TF... chat feature.

I suspect BM was telling porky pies.

Quite often their TF 'name' is their LINE address.

And if it isn't their LINE address will be offered in the first chat.

I always found TF to restrictive for anything but initial contact (I ain't gonna pay).

[SAFETY FIRST]

17 minutes ago, bignok said:

What for? 

It's a scam. 

 

The foreigner bar managers are paid peanuts, they need an extra income to survive. 

 

They're always begging for a drink 

[bignok]

1 minute ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's a scam. 

 

The foreigner bar managers are paid peanuts, they need an extra income to survive. 

 

They're always begging for a drink 

Stuff that. My mate she beers are 200 baht in girly bars for customer. Crazy if more for others.

 

 

[Hummin]

15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

And you are a prime 'soft lad'.

If you knew me in real life, then you might had another impression. 

 

But I can live with that, and care no hatered against my previous experiences. I live today, not yesterday since it is all about become a better version of ourselves and learn from our mistakes. 

[bignok]

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

If you knew me in real life, then you might had another impression. 

 

But I can live with that, and care no hatered against my previous experiences. I live today, not yesterday since it is all about become a better version of ourselves and learn from our mistakes. 

Today is the only day we have.

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

If you knew me in real life, then you might had another impression. 

 

But I can live with that, and care no hatered against my previous experiences. I live today, not yesterday since it is all about become a better version of ourselves and learn from our mistakes. 

I've actually become a worse version of myself, after learning from my mistakes.

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I've actually become a worse version of myself, after learning from my mistakes.

Do you drink much?

[scubascuba3]

33 minutes ago, bignok said:

What for? 

Loser farang like talking to managers and owners so buy them drinks, I don't think any groping is included unlike with ladies

[thaibeachlovers]

4 hours ago, XB12X said:

Why do you want to live with a prostitute? Would you do it in your own country?

I knew a few prostitutes in home country before I discovered LOS, and they were very nice, also beautiful. I'd have lived with one of them in preference to the "no sex here" woman I did live with in a heartbeat.

[BritManToo]

4 hours ago, XB12X said:

Why do you want to live with a prostitute? Would you do it in your own country?

I couldn't afford a 'live-in' prostitute in my home country!

[NextG]

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Since we are our own masters of our own realities, he got his reality to live with, we got our own. Simple as that. Im happy being delusional living with my best friend, and as long it lasts, thats the fact. Live today, not in the past!

That’s the real issue. That most don’t have that kind of relationship with their partner and cannot even conceive such a relationship. 

[bignok]

14 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I knew a few prostitutes in home country before I discovered LOS, and they were very nice, also beautiful. I'd have lived with one of them in preference to the "no sex here" woman I did live with in a heartbeat.

25 years ago i met a hooker. She was hot. Had a job as a hairdressor as well. Only hooker i could have lived with. 

 

But if she wanted money then yes too expensive.

[scubascuba3]

19 minutes ago, NextG said:

That’s the real issue. That most don’t have that kind of relationship with their partner and cannot even conceive such a relationship. 

Wait until you get older though, things change when you get old fat and ugly, I'm not there yet

[bignok]

At 70yo i might not care about sex. Just have a women to hang with.

 

I had so much sex 21 to 45 i dont care so much anymore.

[Hummin]

36 minutes ago, NextG said:

That’s the real issue. That most don’t have that kind of relationship with their partner and cannot even conceive such a relationship. 

Im someone cared as much about finding the right one, researching, cultivate the relatioship as some do with their pot plants, they would might have different experiences. 

 

Growing and making good quality pot, takes time, effort, passion and care. 

[Hummin]

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Im someone cared as much about finding the right one, researching, cultivate the relatioship as some do with their pot plants, they would might have different experiences. 

 

Growing and making good quality pot, takes time, effort, passion and care. 

You do not succeed by just giving water. 

[NextG]

31 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Wait until you get older though, things change when you get old fat and ugly, I'm not there yet

What has being fat and ugly got to do with having a partner as a best friend? Keep up ????

[NextG]

18 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Im someone cared as much about finding the right one, researching, cultivate the relatioship as some do with their pot plants, they would might have different experiences. 

 

Growing and making good quality pot, takes time, effort, passion and care. 

They want quick results. Instant gratification. 

[hotandsticky]

5 hours ago, NextG said:

No… Though it seems that you do. 

I've paid all my life.........................no secret there.

[NextG]

57 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I couldn't afford a 'live-in' prostitute in my home country!

I did it… but I lived with her ☺️
I did try to talk her out of it, but at 15/16 or however old I was, I didn’t have an alternative to offer. Luxury apartments close to Selfridges didn’t come cheap. 

[hotandsticky]

2 hours ago, VinnieK said:

Not if you shack up with an older rich woman.

Granted, this is not feasible for old guys.

Age constraints etc

Oh dear......I wouldn't want to be someone's whore.....or Toyboy.

[Hummin]

15 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

Oh dear......I wouldn't want to be someone's whore.....or Toyboy.

Exactly ????

 

Could be ok for a few nights, but thats it, so, the question is, why should anyone like to be

[NextG]

11 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

Oh dear......I wouldn't want to be someone's whore.....or Toyboy.

That’s a bit disgusting. If you think being someone’s ‘whore’ or ‘toy boy’ is undesirable, then how could you in good conscience subject someone to that experience?

You clearly haven’t got a clue anyway as to how it can be. Even though I’ve been the younger one or at least less financially stable in some of my relationships, I don’t have negative feelings of being used or treated in a negative manner. Plus of course they weren’t actually old in the first place. I was just young, at perhaps fifteen or sixteen, whilst having girlfriends in their mid twenties. I also had girlfriends closer to my age at the same time. 

[transam]

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Exactly ????

 

Could be ok for a few nithgs, but thats it, so, the question is, why should anyone like to be

We are all different in our approach to near anything, others looking down their nose at others on this type of topic is a bit, eeeeeeeeeeer, strange..????

 

Besides, this is a baiting thread, one of many by the OP to dribble over......

[thailandsgreat]

The argument for shop girls is mainly that they are used to a moderate salary and doing duty "9 to 5". They have more realistic expectations of life than someone who tries to catch the highest spending punter, chat with friends all day and chat with men all evening. But there are good bar girls too, especially when they come of age. A young looker is the queen of the bar, guaranteed spoilt.  But younger non bar girls come with various mindsets.

[Hummin]

4 minutes ago, transam said:

 

 

Besides, this is a baiting thread, one of many by the OP to dribble over......

And it works, BigNok have become a forum influencer, and I wondering how much they pay him. 

 

Im soon out of here for detox

[spidermike007]

2 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

LOL. Disagree 100%.

Chances of a lasting marriage are 50% or lower. It's all about luck. If I had to check up on someone before asking them to marry me I wouldn't marry them.

Well, since the divorce rate in many countries is 50% anyway, I think you are saying it might be a marriage, with a typical outcome. What I do not understand about what you are saying is, would you avoid marrying a bar girl? Or would you marry one, and simply take her word for all she told you about her history or her background?