Interesting insight to old tourists marrying bargirls.

[Goat]

https://fb.watch/mtvovzWag3/

 

 

SOme deep thoughts from a long time Thailand expert.

Edited August 17, 2023 by Goat

[bob smith]

Hi Goat.

[transam]

Just now, Goat said:

https://fb.watch/mtuSCPlt98/?mibextid=KPDiXm

 

SOme deep thoughts from a long time Thailand expert.

Not you then..................????

[Goat]

Just now, bob smith said:

Hi Goat.

Gday Bogs.

Apparently it is a fair trade.

Her youth for his cash.

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, Goat said:

Her youth for his cash.

ive got both, luckily.

 

yeaaaaa boiiiiiii ????

[Goat]

21 minutes ago, bob smith said:

ive got both, luckily.

 

yeaaaaa boiiiiiii ????

That a boy

[KannikaP]

29 minutes ago, Goat said:

https://fb.watch/mtvovzWag3/

 

 

SOme deep thoughts from a long time Thailand expert.

Expert at what?

[bkk6060]

Same old rhetoric heard for 40 years.  Who cares people can do what they want much better then living out your golden years with some no makeup stuffy old western stuck up hag with a bad attittude.

[Goat]

8 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

Expert at what?

Thailand exspurt.

Anything you want to know, just ask him.

[Goat]

6 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

no makeup stuffy old western stuck up hag with a bad attittude.

The blokes or the women?

[OneMoreFarang]

43 minutes ago, Goat said:

https://fb.watch/mtvovzWag3/

 

 

SOme deep thoughts from a long time Thailand expert.

I have a suggestion for the admins.

Can we please ban post with a link and not much more.

If there is a story and then a link for more information, fine.

But if it is necessary to click on a link, which could go to any malicious site, just to know what the comment is about, then I suggest we don't need them. Especially as first posts in a thread.

[Dcheech]

7 minutes ago, Goat said:

Thailand exspurt.

Anything you want to know, just ask him.

He is the last person I would trust. 

[Andrew Dwyer]

Seems like the OP has an obsession about bar girls ….. 2nd topic on the subject this week !

[2baht]

58 minutes ago, Goat said:

 SOme deep thoughts from a long time Thailand expert.

Which hand do you use, Goat, left or right? ????

[Goat]

12 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I have a suggestion for the admins.

Can we please ban post with a link and not much more.

If there is a story and then a link for more information, fine.

But if it is necessary to click on a link, which could go to any malicious site, just to know what the comment is about, then I suggest we don't need them. Especially as first posts in a thread.

I would have liked to have posted the video rather than the link.

But i dont have the skills to do it. If you do, post it and i will edit it into the OP. 

 

The video is from a prominent blogger, influencer and businessman who has lived in pattaya for nearly two decades.

It is mostly about old farang men with youthful Thai prostitutes, how their families take it and about sharing a sauna together in pattaya with Brit, Russian and Indian men in Pattaya.

 

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, 2baht said:

Which hand do you use, Goat, left or right? ????

Both.

When you are as big as me you need to.

[Goat]

9 minutes ago, Andrew Dwyer said:

Seems like the OP has an obsession about bar girls ….. 2nd topic on the subject this week !

I want to get married soon, settle down in Issan build a house on her land, have a family and look after her family.

Just searhing for the right one.

[spidermike007]

I did not consider any of those thoughts particularly deep. Same old, same old. The best advice relates to any women here, bar girl or not. It is simply to take your time getting to know her, before you commit, or devote any real money to her, or her family. Time is ALWAYS our ally, and never theirs. So take you time, get to know who they really are, and how they act under different sorts of circumstances, and how they act when they do not get their way. LOL. Take as much time as you need. The longer, the better. If she walks, let her walk.

 

They usually want to push the timetable, and you have to be able to say no. From my many years of experience, with Thai women, and friends who have asked for advice, and whom I have witnessed, most relationships have a "witching hour". A time that they start demanding more. A house, a car, a condo, or something quite expensive. This is very common. If you are not going to build my family a house, at least give me some gold. Or this, or that. 2 years, or longer, is a fairly long amount of time, and usually sufficient to find out who she really is, what she is made of, what her parents and siblings are like, etc. If she starts pushing after just a few months, push back, and if she keeps on it, let her go!

The real question is, do you have long term intentions with this woman? Do you see yourself living here with her into the future, and making a life with her? How well do you know her family? Do you like and trust them? If you answered yes to these questions, the first thing I would do, is look into her background, if she was a bar or massage gal. Trust your instincts. In terms of personal pride, self esteem and just paying tribute to your gender, you DO NOT want to be the next guy who got taken for a ride!

Many gals have stories. We have all heard that story before. My family owns 25,000 rai of land. But, I need 20,000 a month to send to them, because all their wealth is tied up in their land, which they won't sell! Most have stories. Without the use of a good private detective (astonishing that more men do not use their services here), who can find out if she is online with profiles, dig up info about her past, etc. If you already harbor suspicions about her, they may be warranted. I would always question her claims of being hi-so (whatever that silly term means), or being a high earner. Can I see a pay stub? Always question the narrative! 
 

The vast majority of Thai people are way immature for their age. And many women and men are emotionally undeveloped, and really just 13 year olds, who look like adults. There is something about this society that does not allow most people to grow up with an understanding of themselves. I think face has something to do with it. The utter refusal to take responsibility for one's actions and the unwillingness to "own" a situation, and man up when you screw up. That and the inability to question people, and situations. And the subsequent lack of curiosity. It is all a perfect storm, when it comes to preventing alot of people from becoming well developed human beings, with communication skills, and the tools needed to conduct meaningful relationships, beyond the surface. Do you want to end up devoting yourself to someone like that?

Edited August 17, 2023 by spidermike007

[Goat]

3 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

I did not consider any of those thoughts particularly deep. Same old, same old. The best advice is simply to take your time getting to know her, before you commit, or devote any real money to her, or her family. Time is ALWAYS our ally, and never theirs. So take you time, get to know who they really are, and how they act under different sorts of circumstances, and how they act when they do not get their way. LOL. Take as much time as you need. The longer, the better. If she walks, let her walk.

 

They usually want to push the timetable, and you have to be able to say no. From my many years of experience, with Thai women, and friends who have asked for advice, and whom I have witnessed, most relationships have a "witching hour". A time that they start demanding more. A house, a car, a condo, or something quite expensive. This is very common. If you are not going to build my family a house, at least give me some gold. Or this, or that. 2 years, or longer, is a fairly long amount of time, and usually sufficient to find our who she really is, what she is made of, what her family is like, etc. If she starts pushing after just a few months, push back, and if she keeps on it, let her go!

The real question is, do you have long term intentions with this woman? Do you see yourself living here with her into the future, and making a life with her? How well do you know her family? Do you like and trust them? If you answered yes to these questions, the first thing I would do, would be to spend a mere 20,000 baht to hire a private detective to look into her. They can find out if she is online with profiles, they can dig up info about her past, etc. If you already harbor suspicions about her, they may be warranted. Trust your instincts. Although 200,000 does not seem like alot of you, it is a good deal of money, and in terms of personal pride, self esteem and just paying tribute to your gender, you DO NOT want to be the next guy who got taken for a ride!

Many gals have stories. We have all heard that story before. My family owns 25,000 rai of land. But, I need 20,000 a month to send to them, because all their wealth is tied up in their land, which they won't sell! Most have stories. Without the use of a good private detective (astonishing that more men do not use their services here), a copy of her paystub, or other evidence, I would greatly question her claims of being hi-so (whatever that silly term means), or being a high earner. Always question the narrative! 
 

The vast majority of Thai people are way immature for their age. And many women and men are emotionally undeveloped, and really just 13 year olds, who look like adults. There is something about this society that does not allow most people to grow up with an understanding of themselves. I think face has something to do with it. The utter refusal to take responsibility for one's actions and the unwillingness to "own" a situation, and man up when you screw up. That and the inability to question people, and situations. And the subsequent lack of curiosity. It is all a perfect storm, when it comes to preventing alot of people from becoming well developed human beings, with communication skills, and the tools needed to conduct meaningful relationships, beyond the surface. Do you want to end up devoting yourself to someone like that?

That is deep dude.

[jayboy]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

https://fb.watch/mtvovzWag3/

 

 

SOme deep thoughts from a long time Thailand expert.

I'm sorry but he is very far from being a long term Thailand expert.

[stoner]

17 minutes ago, Goat said:

I want to get married soon, settle down in Issan build a house on her land, have a family and look after her family.

Just searhing for the right one.

barf. you're trying too hard. 

[BE88]

30 minutes ago, Goat said:

I want to get married soon, settle down in Issan build a house on her land, have a family and look after her family.

Just searhing for the right one.

I can advise you to reflect and well to say it's not your problem because if you are looking for advice here that means that you are not sure you are making the right choice then listen to what your inner voice tells you.

You have a big problem then if you seriously think about doing all this.

 

[Stocky]

Another day, another bar girls thread from Goat.

[tkramer]

Bottom line is...if you weren't having successful female relationships in your home country...

 

you won't be having them here. You're still a loser.

 

Back home in Nebraska or Manchester, would you be bringing home a 23 year-old hooker to meet your family...?

 

Who professionally screwed at least one guy a day...30 guys a month...360 guys a year, and say..."Mom and Dad, this is my new girlfriend...???!!!"

 

 

Edited August 17, 2023 by tkramer

[Crossy]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Thailand expert

 

"X" is an unknown and a "spurt" is a drip under pressure!

 

My business card says "Specialist".

[Bassosa]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

I want to get married soon, settle down in Issan build a house on her land, have a family and look after her family.

Just searhing for the right one.

No Isuzu D-Max purchase? Otherwise you won't get a good one.

Edited August 17, 2023 by Bassosa

[Sigmund]

These topics may have been discussed but then why comment if some consider they are always the same old issues ?

 

I find it far more absurd to comment and whine bla bla "it's always the same".....rather then sharing views and experience and stop trying to act smart. Everybody knows that most of the foreigners in Thailand entertain bar girls and can get caught in a toxic and costly regular relationship.

 

Reviving such topics is thus a good reminder,  Free to all to chose if they want to get ripped of or not.

 

[Goat]

1 hour ago, jayboy said:

I'm sorry but he is very far from being a long term Thailand expert.

That is debatable.

Head honcho of the number 1 site in Thaiand to help people obtain visas for them to get into Thailand.

And for the thousands who want to take their girlfiends and wives back to their home countries. 

Formerly known as Thaivisa.

 

Edit

He is currently back in Old Blighty. But he couldnt get a visa to take his wife back there with him.

There is some irony in that.

[Sigmund]

38 minutes ago, tkramer said:

Bottom line is...if you weren't having successful female relationships in your home country...

 

you won't be having them here. You're still a loser.

 

Back home in Nebraska or Manchester, would you be bringing home a 23 year-old hooker to meet your family...?

 

Who professionally screwed at least one guy a day...30 guys a month...360 guys a year, and say..."Mom and Dad, this is my new girlfriend...???!!!"

 

 

The main fear is to catch some long term STD....

[Goat]

7 minutes ago, Sigmund said:

Everybody knows that most of the foreigners in Thailand entertain bar girls

Cheesy seems to be saying "Just go for it'

 

The only thing I thought was a bit off was his Russian and Indian sauna experience with everyone "getting along".