First Thai relationship, any advice?

[Autonuaq]

you hit your jackpot I am happy for you.

they are all the same around the world,, only the package is different about the rest all is the same.

just be aware of local customs and laws because local laws have funny unexpected surprises.

like every were else do make sure she is not married, the Thai law has some funny things in mind when she is.

with the girl you comes for free included the family, some work out well other not. Beside this it is also some families do see you as the free family TM.

Anyway keep in mind that the grass looks always greener and more tasty at the other side of the fence.  still is the same

[thaibeachlovers]

The OP doesn't give much info about himself which makes me suspicious.

30s and living in LOS? Is he a teacher with little money and no prospects of a long term relationship or..........................?

How long has he lived in LOS?

Had any long term relationships with a female before?

I need more info before I take this seriously.

[NextG]

9 hours ago, Banana7 said:

I think you have a diamond in the rough. You just need to make a few cuts, shape her into a beautiful personality, and apply a little spit and polish  

 

To help you understand women here is a list of some differences:

GENDER DIFFERENCES MEN	WOMEN
Receive worth largely from work, success and career (significance)	Receive worth from relationships (security and love)
Want honour and respect	Want love verbalized
Goal oriented	People oriented
Love competitive sports	Interested in relationships
Want to feel competent	Not afraid to admit need help
Won’t take advice – want to be in control		Want to help, to support, to rescue
Want to deal with problems in a solution focused, logical rational manner		Want to talk about problems on an emotional level
Tend to withdraw into their ‘caves’ when stressed, to be alone and gain strength and inner calm		Tend to talk and share and want to feel supported when have problems
Men are literal (right brain dominant) and need to be told things (can’t guess)		Woman are intuitive, (left and right brain balanced) emotional, know what people feel and need
Compartmentalise Can concentrate on only one thing at a time Summarise		No clear divisions Everything affects everything else Can do six things at once See whole picture
Observe things generally		See detail
Speak +/- 12 500 words a day		Speak +/- 26 000 words per day
Sex drive motivated chiefly by physical needs. Aroused by sight		Sex drive motivated chiefly by emotional
Sex drive motivated chiefly by physical needs. Aroused by sight			Sex drive motivated chiefly by emotional needs Aroused by mood, ‘atmosphere’ or relationship
Not noticeably affected by hormone changes			Can be dramatically affected by hormone changes
Handle depression by externalizing – blaming, become aggressive, angry			Internalize depression – take blame, guilt, shut down

 Mostly utter nonsense. 

[NextG]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

The OP doesn't give much info about himself which makes me suspicious.

30s and living in LOS? Is he a teacher with little money and no prospects of a long term relationship or..........................?

How long has he lived in LOS?

Had any long term relationships with a female before?

I need more info before I take this seriously.

It seems you are already taking it too seriously. Do you have relationship advice to offer? ????

[connda]

Run Forrest, Run!

[Albaby]

On 8/25/2023 at 8:53 AM, fredwiggy said:

Already did

She found you with a man in a frock?

[Albaby]

On 8/25/2023 at 10:24 AM, fredwiggy said:

I would have said that about him, and now you, Peas in a pod. In your case, a flying monkey.

Oh dear, haven't had your enema today?

 

11 hours ago, GypsyT said:

Stick to her, don't give up!

Once I had a girl who had 5 others. My friends said "RUN" but I didn't see it like that.

What else is better proof she's good, even great, than having so many?

 

Yuck, batting on a sticky wicket ?

[fredwiggy]

On 8/26/2023 at 11:29 AM, Albaby said:

She found you with a man in a frock?

Teenage wisdom is bountiful here

[fredwiggy]

On 8/26/2023 at 11:36 AM, Albaby said:

Oh dear, haven't had your enema today?

 

Yuck, batting on a sticky wicket ?

Assuming again. Might want to further your education. What you've learned hasn't been helping you.