How to throw out my girlfriend's son out of the house?

[thaibeachlovers]

I've read some stupid threads on this forum but this one is right up there.

 

How many would go beat GF's son up in your own country? None I bet, because we know who would be arrested, yet some advocating that in a foreign country where rule of law does not favour us.

 

Perhaps the big man on here should PM the OP and offer to go evict the son. 555555555555555

[thaibeachlovers]

3 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

The Thai vs Thai story is for people who can't take care of things themselves. I speak Thai, so no need for others to do my battles. Live your life to the max instead of running / hiding all the time.

Why don't you PM the OP and volunteer to deal with the son? You're such a hero I have no doubt you can do the job, go Fritz, go.

[steven100]

Go Fritz  !    there's a job for you up country.  no worries '   a few high low kicks and a couple of arm swings and it'll be all over. 

 

Breaking News from Udon Ubon :    Farang body found hanging in forest tree.

[chippendale]

3 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

I am not worrying about dying, I live my life enjoying it and taking care of challenges in live. I don't run away.

????

 

16 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Better to walk away uninjured than injured. You think 1 farang can beat 10 Thais?

 

9 minutes ago, tubby johnson said:

Our keyboard warrior is back!! 

 

Seriously, Mr Tough Guy ..... it's best not to encourage other people to get into fights. While you're excitedly hiding behind a tree watching the fight take place, the OP could get himself seriously hurt if the older son loses face, or resorts to weapons, or returns with his friends.

 

You're not living in a Steven Seagal fantasy where an obese middle-aged guy beats up everyone -- this is Thailand.

 

Hey, let's not underestimate our Keyboard Warrior friend here! ... Indeed, if he's as manly and heroic as he regularly brags about on this website, then he should come out from behind his keyboard, travel immediately to the OP's hometown, and unleash his karate/jiu jitsu/girls' self-defense elite black belt skills upon the son.

[stoner]

4 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

I have had loads of fights in my life, have a martial arts background same as the OP and used to do a bit of moonlighting as a bouncer in the Amsterdam Red light area. Solved quite a few issues in Thailand too. 

I am still around and get a lot of respect of Thai people as they know I am not a mouse who runs away when there is a little bit of noise around the corner.

i am curious to know what sort of judo chop or arm bar will stop a 9mm flying into your soft brain tissue ? 

 

now go roar like a big lion. 

[FritsSikkink]

47 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Why don't you PM the OP and volunteer to deal with the son? You're such a hero I have no doubt you can do the job, go Fritz, go.

Got better things to do, I work.

[novacova]

5 hours ago, organicman said:

so what will happen if I physically remove him from the house?

As others have mentioned, don’t lay a finger on him and change the the locks. There may be another aspect to the situation to consider is that his mother may not 100% want him out and he may have issues with family members in other households and have no where else to go.

[jaideedave]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

If he attacks the son to throw him out some actions may result:

a/ the son returns with 10 mates

b/ the mother sides with her son and calls the cops

c/ the son calls the cops

d/ the OP gets thrown out by the mother

 

End of the day it's her son and it's her problem to solve. I always asked myself when faced with a problem like that "what would happen if I wasn't there"?

 

Just because he is sleeping with her, it doesn't mean he has to solve her problems, and they ain't even married.

 

If it were me in that situation, I'd tell her to sort it or I'd be leaving, and if she didn't I would leave. Life is too short to get involved in cultural problems that we will likely never understand.

I did have a similar problem and my wife wouldn't deal with it. Not long after I divorced her, which solved that problem.

If he attacks the son to throw him out some actions may result:

a/ the son returns with 10 mates

b/ the mother sides with her son and calls the cops

c/ the son calls the cops

d/ the OP gets thrown out by the mother

"Blood is thicker than water" at the end of the day it's her son and thats all that counts. OP just may be an ATM source. She will take his side even though fighting all the time.I've seen it happen to me in a similar situation.

Sonny boy will have friends and we all know how they like to gang up. I think a lot of them have weapons under that seat.

a/b/c/d/ can apply for sure.

[chippendale]

32 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

Got better things to do, I work.

Keyboard Warrior backed down quickly.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, tubby johnson said:

You're not living in a Steven Seagal fantasy where an obese middle-aged guy beats up everyone -- this is Thailand.

Steven Seagal ..... The only guy that can eat and meditate at the same time.

[Jai Dee]

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[Crossy]

Why did my warped mind immediately think of "Diamonds are Forever" where they throw Plenty out the window into a pool and that old gag about “Good aim!” – “I didn’t know there was a pool there,” (also used in THE WOLVERINE decades later).

 

[steven100]

It's quite simple really .....    LET the GF handle it ....  don't get involved ...

go to a hotel for the weekend .....  tell her you think it's best if he's gone by Monday .....   or you may be gone by Tuesday.  Then she will have to do something.    It's not your business ...

[NanLaew]

6 hours ago, organicman said:

Hehe, she in her mid 40s now where I never wanted a relationship cause I enjoy picking up women all the time. I desire girls in their 20s where I told her she was too old for me. She keep chasing me for years on end while I was with other girls. She use to get jealous but I told her we aren't together but she has accepted me being with other girls now and will do anything for me. I've never had to pay for sex from a girl before where I'm in my early 40s now where I know I'm coming out of my prime in picking up younger women. I had some health problems some years ago and she was there without question. If I'm feeling depressed, she would catch the next plane or bus and come see me. She does anything for me which is hard to find these days. She really looks after me where we can go party and she allows me to be with other Thai girls now hence why I got into a relationship with her. All my friends love her and and my parents and have advise me to not let her go. I've dated a lot of women in my years where I'm not stupid to let my dick to the thinking for me.  

 

I've never seen her cry so much the last week cause of her son where I never got involved with any matters with her family before. I've never seen her so depressed in the 5 years I've know her where she has been there for me and I want to return the favour in kick her son out of the house so she is happy again. 

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That's quite easily the saddest potted biography I've read in a long, long time.

 

[NanLaew]

2 hours ago, novacova said:

As others have mentioned, don’t lay a finger on him and change the the locks. There may be another aspect to the situation to consider is that his mother may not 100% want him out and he may have issues with family members in other households and have no where else to go.

What's with all this 'changing the locks' nonsense. This is Isaan where gates and doors are left unlocked for all and sundry to wander in and out. You only lock up when you are going out of the house or going off to bed. Does the son even need a key to get in and out during the day? Or anyone in the family for that matter?

[brianthainess]

Change the locks simple.

[brianthainess]

7 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

You only lock up when you are going out of the house or going off to bed.

Or if you don't want your son to get in. most locks have a simple inside lock. would you leave your house open, if someone you don't want/like/trouble maker just keeps walking in? I await your answer.........

[richard_smith237]

4 minutes ago, brianthainess said:

Change the locks simple.

Erm..... perhaps read the thread again... 

 

10 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

What's with all this 'changing the locks' nonsense. This is Isaan where gates and doors are left unlocked for all and sundry to wander in and out. You only lock up when you are going out of the house or going off to bed. Does the son even need a key to get in and out during the day? Or anyone in the family for that matter?

Totally agree...   Locks are not going to stop someone who thinks its their right to get into that house. 

[brianthainess]

Just now, richard_smith237 said:

Erm..... perhaps read the thread again... 

 

Totally agree...   Locks are not going to stop someone who thinks its their right to get into that house. 

Then that would be a criminal offence. 

[novacova]

19 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

What's with all this 'changing the locks' nonsense. This is Isaan where gates and doors are left unlocked for all and sundry to wander in and out. You only lock up when you are going out of the house or going off to bed. Does the son even need a key to get in and out during the day? Or anyone in the family for that matter?

Uhmm…

15 minutes ago, brianthainess said:

Change the locks simple.

[NoDisplayName]

10 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Erm..... perhaps read the thread again... 

 

Totally agree...   Locks are not going to stop someone who thinks its their right to get into that house. 

Ummmmm......it IS the boy's right to get into the house.

He's living there with his mother.

Until THE MOTHER directs him to leave, it's his home.

[HandsomeTallFarang]

Hahahahahahhahahahah????

[brianthainess]

6 minutes ago, NoDisplayName said:

He's living there with his mother.

Until THE MOTHER directs him to leave, it's his home.

If you read the OP ''My GF(THE MOTHER) want him kicked out the house''

[Jelli]

You'll never win this.

 

Your gf has to remove him

 

So, you say it's him or me. Easy

 

WTF you living in a woman's home anyway fffs?

Edited September 12, 2023 by Jelli

[NoDisplayName]

2 minutes ago, brianthainess said:

If you read the OP ''My GF(THE MOTHER) want him kicked out the house''

If you read the OP, "My Thai girlfriend wants him kick out of the house."

 

There is no indication that the girlfriend/mother has told him to leave, only that they fight and she is unhappy with the situation.

 

There is every indication that the girlfriend/mother wants Steven Seagull to handle it and take the consequences for her.

[HandsomeTallFarang]

This entire post just screams desperate guy with no experience with women ???? you made SO many mistakes:

1. Getting involved with single mom with adult son. Why? You are presumably the wealthy farrang, your options are innumerable

2. Living with your Thai spouse. Nope, never. What do you have in common except sex? Nothing. Her hobbies are probably terrible Thai soap operas, issan music, Smartphones, and the lottery. Living with your spouse in general is a bad idea, even if they were perfect for you and you had the same language and the same passions/ similarly aligning tastes. That doesn't happen here for the most part. You're only with her to get some action not have discussions and share your passions with each other ????

3. Again, willingly living with her family members. Why? Why not just find another woman who doesn't have so much baggage? Why are you supporting this family of bums? Why must you live in the house with them? So many baffling decsions.

Is this like the first relationship you've ever had or something? All I'm seeing is that this woman is the best you think you could do..never in a million years am I being partners with someone who has an adult son. There's too many options to even consider doing that.

 

Start dusting off the dating profiles. Should have ended it yesterday ????

Edited September 12, 2023 by HandsomeTallFarang

[transam]

3 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

This entire post just screams desperate guy with no experience with women ???? you made SO many mistakes:

1. Getting involved with single mom with adult son. Why? You are presumably the wealthy farrang, your options are innumerable

2. Living with your Thai spouse. Nope, never. What do you have in common except sex? Nothing. Her hobbies are probably terrible Thai soap operas, issan music, Smartphones, and the lottery. Living with your spouse in general is a bad idea, even if they were perfect for you and you had the same language and the same passions/ similarly aligning tastes. That doesn't happen here for the most part. You're only with her to get some action not have discussions and share your passions with each other ????

3. Again, willingly living with her family members. Why? Why not just find another woman who doesn't have so much baggage? Why are you supporting this family of bums? Why must you live in the house with them? So many baffling decsions.

Is this like the first relationship you've ever had or something? All I'm seeing is that this woman is the best you think you could do..never in a million years am I being partners with someone who has an adult son. There's too many options to even consider doing that.

 

Start dusting off the dating profiles. Should have ended it yesterday ????

That is a load of tosh, you are talking about you and your ideas, we are all different, and we may not be above average height and handsome like yourself...................????

[metisdead]

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[connda]

How to throw out my girlfriend's son out of the house?

One hand on the back of his belt, the other on the back of his collar. 

[Toolong]

With respect to your wife ( and yourself), I would advise you to......as much as possible......let her take care of this. (Or she & other family members, if thereabouts and they are on her/your side) Doing so is NOT shirking any responsibility you may (or maybe not) think you have to be the alpha male & so on. (I don't mean that disparagingly! ????)

 

Back off and keep cool. Hold that frustration until the right time to move.....IF you have make that move. And only then. Otherwise, you could start a conflict that in TH, never ends well.