You are the prize! She is not. It's about you, not her. Change your attitude!

[DudleySquat]

Sinsot or Sinsod? The dowry. Buffalo is sick. Grandma is sick. Grandpa is sick. The dog is diabetic. We have heard it all.  There is a thread going now, and it will return soon enough where the usual weak tell you that there is nothing you can do about it, cave in, bend over, and take it. 

 

YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

 

The lowest-income foreigners are still the prize compared to the life many Thais live. Why forget that you are the prize? 

 

So if you encounter the typical greedy family, who will fleece you if you let them, remember there are millions of women here, and many of them are decent non-sex workers.

 

You can almost have anyone. So be objective. Exercise your power instead of rolling over to please the "family."  Don't get sidetracked. You have the power. You can either use it responsibly or be a mark for the relatives to shear each time it gets cold.

 

I can hear them now, the ankle biters who will be aghast that I just said to use your power, your money to go where and with who will treat you best. 

 

Don't be ashamed you have money. That's one tactic used to separate you. 

 

Remember always, they will take from you until you have nothing. Then, ask them for help.

 

See how sympathetic they are.

 

Thoughts? 

 

 

[Gweiloman]

It’s obvious where you hang out and the kind of females you’re familiar with.

 

You can almost have anyone? Lol.

[DudleySquat]

Just now, Gweiloman said:

It’s obvious where you hang out and the kind of females you’re familiar with.

 

You can almost have anyone? Lol.

Did you post to inform or spew non-essential invective? 

[Dmaxdan]

15 minutes ago, DudleySquat said:

YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

Yes, the booby prize!

[HappyExpat57]

18 minutes ago, DudleySquat said:

Did you post to inform or spew non-essential invective? 

 

That latter one - that's what I thought about your post to begin with.

[Stocky]

For pity's sake where does AsinineNow find these numpties?

[FruitPudding]

Damn right.

 

The type of low class woman who goes for farang, only has two choices:

 

1.  Village bloke

2. Farang

[Nick Carter icp]

59 minutes ago, DudleySquat said:

 

You can almost have anyone.

 

 

 

   That is the impression that you get from frequenting seedy bars .

Outside of bars you cannot have almost anyone , you can only get females who view the relationship as being a job for them .

   Many Females are already in relationships and the younger ones wouldn't want to be in a relationship with an older man .

   You can buy younger females from bars or have a relationship with a divorcee your own age and that's about all you can get 

[impulse]

In this context, my money is the prize.  I'd be the compromise that goes along with the money.  The tradeoff.

 

I'd hope that would grow over the years into a mutually beneficial relationship. 

 

But I am a sap.

 

[Walker88]

Prize?

 

The value of an appealing/attractive Thai woman exceeds the value of what many Western men bring to market. Her attributes are valued more by the international market than the skills and talents many Western men bring to their own society or the international market. She is more in demand, he is not. She is rare; too many Western men are cookie-cutter cogs in the international low-wage labor machine: nothing special, nothing unique.

 

The prototypical 'farang' retiree in Thailand---fat, old, on a meager pension---is hardly a 'prize'. Thirty years ago, maybe he was. Those days are dead and gone.

 

To be a 'prize', up your game. Be fit. Be neat. Be clean. Have a personality. Be skilled. Be successful. Being a white male is no longer enough. Sorry, losers. Bring something of value to the table, and maybe you will find a partner.

[DudleySquat]

It amazes me how you all set the bar.  All the nonsense posters with nothing to say project BETA Male.

[DudleySquat]

1 hour ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   That is the impression that you get from frequenting seedy bars .

Outside of bars you cannot have almost anyone , you can only get females who view the relationship as being a job for them .

   Many Females are already in relationships and the younger ones wouldn't want to be in a relationship with an older man .

   You can buy younger females from bars or have a relationship with a divorcee your own age and that's about all you can get 

 

I meet quality women all the time. Perhaps a change of venue for you is needed.

[DudleySquat]

19 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

Prize?

 

The value of an appealing/attractive Thai woman exceeds the value of what many Western men bring to market. Her attributes are valued more by the international market than the skills and talents many Western men bring to their own society or the international market. She is more in demand, he is not. She is rare; too many Western men are cookie-cutter cogs in the international low-wage labor machine: nothing special, nothing unique.

 

The prototypical 'farang' retiree in Thailand---fat, old, on a meager pension---is hardly a 'prize'. Thirty years ago, maybe he was. Those days are dead and gone.

 

To be a 'prize', up your game. Be fit. Be neat. Be clean. Have a personality. Be skilled. Be successful. Being a white male is no longer enough. Sorry, losers. Bring something of value to the table, and maybe you will find a partner.

 

You seem to suffer from low-esteem.

[Nick Carter icp]

30 minutes ago, DudleySquat said:

 

I meet quality women all the time. Perhaps a change of venue for you is needed.

 

   I am not looking for a woman , btw , if I change my mind , what venues should I go to to find one ?

[Walker88]

1 hour ago, DudleySquat said:

 

You seem to suffer from low-esteem.

 

.....vs delusions of grandeur? "Prize"?

 

Most expats I see, ostensibly 'living the dream', are obese, tatted-up, Chang wife beater-wearing, guys thinking they are doing Thai women a favor.  They wouldn't be a prize in a carnival ring toss game.

 

Like I said, be fit, be neat, be clean, have a personality, ideally be financially sound...and just maybe one can be an actual prize, or at least be on a level playing field with lovely Thai women.

 

It's not hard to do. Maybe you might consider giving it a shot.

 

 

[Walker88]

1 hour ago, DudleySquat said:

 

I meet quality women all the time. Perhaps a change of venue for you is needed.

With the attitude you evidenced in your opening statement?

 

I'll take the other side of that bet.....and give odds.

 

 

[novacova]

4 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

There is a thread going now, and it will return soon enough where the usual weak tell you that there is nothing you can do about it, cave in, bend over, and take it. 

Many come here with aspirations of a hunt to nab them selves a trophy, yet all the while they’re the prey being hunted and find themselves snared and trapped and lose any wherewithal to escape.

[chickenslegs]

4 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

Sinsot or Sinsod? The dowry. Buffalo is sick. Grandma is sick. Grandpa is sick. The dog is diabetic. We have heard it all.  There is a thread going now, and it will return soon enough where the usual weak tell you that there is nothing you can do about it, cave in, bend over, and take it. 

 

YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

 

The lowest-income foreigners are still the prize compared to the life many Thais live. Why forget that you are the prize? 

 

So if you encounter the typical greedy family, who will fleece you if you let them, remember there are millions of women here, and many of them are decent non-sex workers.

 

You can almost have anyone. So be objective. Exercise your power instead of rolling over to please the "family."  Don't get sidetracked. You have the power. You can either use it responsibly or be a mark for the relatives to shear each time it gets cold.

 

I can hear them now, the ankle biters who will be aghast that I just said to use your power, your money to go where and with who will treat you best. 

 

Don't be ashamed you have money. That's one tactic used to separate you. 

 

Remember always, they will take from you until you have nothing. Then, ask them for help.

 

See how sympathetic they are.

 

Thoughts? 

 

 

What a crock of <deleted>. This is why we need a thumbs down emoji.

[noobexpat]

2 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

 

I meet quality women all the time. Perhaps a change of venue for you is needed.

 

I'm an absolute prize catch.

I rarely meet any women who i would pitch even remotely close to my level of resources and life achievements.

 

What are these venues?

 

[reefsurfah]

Just here for the comments. 

[PingRoundTheWorld]

Amazing how many loser self-defeating foreigners live in Thailand. You are ABSOLUTELY the prize when compared with other options most women here have. True that you can't get any woman you want, and if she's young and attractive she will have more choices, but there's just SO MANY women here who are very attractive yet cannot find a mate due to societal reasons (single mom, over 30, etc) that the pool of options for a falang here are virtually endless.

 

Obviously you should work out, take care of yourself, and strive to bring more to the table than money - but if you take care of yourself the dating pool is probably the best in the world (for us) here.

[Nick Carter icp]

34 minutes ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

Amazing how many loser self-defeating foreigners live in Thailand. You are ABSOLUTELY the prize when compared with other options most women here have. True that you can't get any woman you want, and if she's young and attractive she will have more choices, but there's just SO MANY women here who are very attractive yet cannot find a mate due to societal reasons (single mom, over 30, etc) that the pool of options for a falang here are virtually endless.

 

Obviously you should work out, take care of yourself, and strive to bring more to the table than money - but if you take care of yourself the dating pool is probably the best in the world (for us) here.

 

 

  If you have your own kids though , would you be willing to pay for and bring up someone else's kid, at the expenses of your own ?

[PingRoundTheWorld]

11 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

  If you have your own kids though , would you be willing to pay for and bring up someone else's kid, at the expenses of your own ?

I don't have kids, but if I did they would of course be priority #1. On the upside- kids in Thailand aren't nearly as expensive as back home. Obviously I wouldn't pay to put someone else's kids through expensive education etc, but basic needs like food etc sure - why not. Back home I would not want to take care of someone else's kids, simply because the cost is prohibitive. In Thailand (to me) it is small money so I don't care.

 

But why even go there? you can easily get a girl who isn't a mom if that bothers you.

[South]

Been married here to an absolute diamond for over 30 years, look in the gutter, you get the dregs. Your choice.

[JensenZ]

9 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

Sinsot or Sinsod? The dowry. Buffalo is sick. Grandma is sick. Grandpa is sick. The dog is diabetic. We have heard it all.  There is a thread going now, and it will return soon enough where the usual weak tell you that there is nothing you can do about it, cave in, bend over, and take it. 

 

YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

 

The lowest-income foreigners are still the prize compared to the life many Thais live. Why forget that you are the prize? 

 

So if you encounter the typical greedy family, who will fleece you if you let them, remember there are millions of women here, and many of them are decent non-sex workers.

 

You can almost have anyone. So be objective. Exercise your power instead of rolling over to please the "family."  Don't get sidetracked. You have the power. You can either use it responsibly or be a mark for the relatives to shear each time it gets cold.

 

I can hear them now, the ankle biters who will be aghast that I just said to use your power, your money to go where and with who will treat you best. 

 

Don't be ashamed you have money. That's one tactic used to separate you. 

 

Remember always, they will take from you until you have nothing. Then, ask them for help.

 

See how sympathetic they are.

 

Thoughts? 

 

 

You are delusional. You're no more a prize than a meal is for a cockroach. The good advice is to stay single and hold onto your money if you have any.

[JensenZ]

1 hour ago, South said:

Been married here to an absolute diamond for over 30 years, look in the gutter, you get the dregs. Your choice.

To even comment on your successful relationship, we'd need to know the age gap, and how old you and your wife were when you got married. In this discussion, age makes a big difference.

[HappyExpat57]

7 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

It amazes me how you all set the bar.  All the nonsense posters with nothing to say project BETA Male.

 

C'mon now - you put up a post hoping it would appear clever and popular, instead you stepped in dookie. Your best bet is to let it go away like a bad smell. Throwing insults merely prolongs the agony.

[thaibeachlovers]

9 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

remember there are millions of women here, and many of them are decent non-sex workers.

BS. There isn't any difference if they are after a farang for his money. Most "decent" Thai women would never, IMO, have anything to do with a farang, as it likely brands them in Thai society.

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, South said:

Been married here to an absolute diamond for over 30 years, look in the gutter, you get the dregs. Your choice.

You were just lucky. Relationships are IMO always a gamble. Apparently 50% of western men gambled wrong and got divorced.

[thaibeachlovers]

3 hours ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

But why even go there? you can easily get a girl who isn't a mom if that bothers you.

Most will want kids- that's what women do.

It's even more important when marrying a farang ATM as it gives them a hook for life, or at least till the kid leaves home.