What is wrong with Thai women (on dating websites) in 2024

[bendejo]

1 minute ago, 2baht said:

28.35g ! 

News flash!!

Thanks to legalized sale of cannabis more Americans than ever now know how many grams are in an ounce.  People now think graham crackers are called that because of what they weigh.

Ok, to keep on topic, one night I'm walking down Suk in Bkk and this gal approaches me, she looks good, I show an interest, and she then tells me what I will do: I will take her and her friend (who didn't seem very receptive), and we will get a different friend's taxi (parked at the curb) and go to another friend's restaurant, and kept on as I walked away.  Do guys really fall for this?

 

[2baht]

2 minutes ago, bendejo said:

Do guys really fall for this?

 

No!

[2baht]

2 minutes ago, bendejo said:

another friend's restaurant

Actually, the food there is really good! 

[Iamloki]

3 hours ago, Nemises said:

 

Disagree! My mate is/will be much better off for marrying a government worker for the huge health care cost benefits - will cost him something like 50 baht for any eventual operation, regardless of duration in hospital. 

She is also a nurse - perfect for his day to day care when required.

She is also incredibly attractive, and oh, about 25 years younger.

Good luck convincing him he is "much better off single".

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just for clarification... My understanding is that it's only marriage to a Nurse or a Doctor who works at a Government Hospital that allows the farang the same healthcare that his wife gets.

 

Marry any other Government Employee - teacher, court, the department of your choice - and there is no medical coverage other than the insurance you purchase.

 

This was told to me by a nurse for a government hospital. Is this information false?

[JimTripper]

It's people looking for money. Most of the Thai's you will come into contact with are broke skint. Just do the math on the wages here.

Edited January 8 by JimTripper

[NedR69]

Maybe you decide to contact the wrong women, or don't recognize any clues as to what type of person she is.  

Back when I was looking, any ink, big boobs, sexy pictures...were reasons to keep scrolling.  You reap what you sow.  

[desdeash]

I'm surprised at your experience. I've been using Thai dating sites for over a decade and have had only a couple of negative results. I've met many lovely ladies in that time, some of whom are still friends/lovers after years.

 

Thai Cupid was a good site but I didn't like the cost. I've been using Tagged for a while now. I'll see a 1,000 profiles, like about 20 of them, get responses from maybe 5 and meet up with 2 or 3. I correspond a few times before coming to Thailand and never try to rush things or even mention sex. If the lady does either, I move on.

 

Maybe a factor is that I'm only interested in women over 35. If you're looking at 20's and are over 60, well "go figger, trigger"

[ignore it]

"What is wrong with Thai women (on dating websites) in 2024"

 

Well the main thing is that they are on dating websites.

 

Look, if you want fresh fish you don't go fishing in polluted water.

[bkk6060]

It has changed over the past 10 years I think.  Many more just ST.

Also, many of these girls can make 50 k a month easy.  And, a lot have other jobs they are getting paid. Why go with some guy for a relationship with a lousy pension or little money who will pay her a lot less.  They have freedom and are making good money it is preferred.

[newbee2022]

13 hours ago, StayinThailand2much said:

As the title says; on dating websites, Thai women pretending to be single and looking for someone for a (serious) relationship, but once you contact them...

 

* A very large percentage seem to just look for customers (s*x, videos, etc.), and...

 

* The ones who then still claim to look for a relationship don't want to meet you if you actually live in Thailand, or don't want to meet at all in person.

 

What is going on?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Did  you show your photo???😂😂😂

[Taco]

A date in Thailand is 2000bt for one hour preferably 30 minutes. Those websites just help you find dates. 

[StayinThailand2much]

28 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

Did  you show your photo???😂😂😂

 

Yes, a few. I also chatted to some women. After 'hello', and 'my name is', very often then came: "I look for customers"/"I sell VDOs"/"I have no money. Can you send me X baht", etc. - And I know that Thai women generally find me attractive, so that's not it.

[StayinThailand2much]

30 minutes ago, Taco said:

A date in Thailand is 2000bt for one hour preferably 30 minutes. Those websites just help you find dates. 

 

Well, I'm lonely, not horny. LOL

[scubascuba3]

41 minutes ago, ignore it said:

"What is wrong with Thai women (on dating websites) in 2024"

 

Well the main thing is that they are on dating websites.

 

Look, if you want fresh fish you don't go fishing in polluted water.

there are women who want to meet falang but don't know how, i have a friend like that, not as if they are out all the time socialising, often working long hours

[StayinThailand2much]

39 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

It has changed over the past 10 years I think.  Many more just ST.

Also, many of these girls can make 50 k a month easy.  And, a lot have other jobs they are getting paid. Why go with some guy for a relationship with a lousy pension or little money who will pay her a lot less.  They have freedom and are making good money it is preferred.

 

Yeah, I saw that even women (some obese and quite unattractive) in their late 40s just want ST. Thailand just a big brothel? - Perhaps reality in 2024...

[Lacessit]

The same thing that is wrong with guys that go looking on those websites.

If I am making a big purchase of goods, I don't go on the internet.

I go to a bricks and mortar store where I can evaluate the quality of what I want, unfiltered.

IMO the same applies to women.

[Freddy42OZ]

12 hours ago, StayinThailand2much said:

 

Actually, they usually write: 'I am single', 'I want fun', 'Looking for friends', or just nothing, while posing as women looking for dates... But, yes, others writing in their profile: "I don't want to meet you in Thailand, but only your country", most probably look for suckers to send them the money for the flight ticket...

 

Anyway, I'm seriously thinking to leave Thailand for good, possibly checking out the Philippines.

 

 

What are you looking for?   

Why can't you find whatever that is in your own country? 

Why are you trawling around Asian countries searching for something that you would be better off finding at home?

[StayinThailand2much]

11 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

 

 

What are you looking for?   

Why can't you find whatever that is in your own country? 

Why are you trawling around Asian countries searching for something that you would be better off finding at home?

 

Serious relationship.

 

Because I'm living in Thailand.

 

See #2.

 

 

[Berkshire]

1 hour ago, desdeash said:

I'm surprised at your experience. I've been using Thai dating sites for over a decade and have had only a couple of negative results. I've met many lovely ladies in that time, some of whom are still friends/lovers after years.

 

Thai Cupid was a good site but I didn't like the cost. I've been using Tagged for a while now. I'll see a 1,000 profiles, like about 20 of them, get responses from maybe 5 and meet up with 2 or 3. I correspond a few times before coming to Thailand and never try to rush things or even mention sex. If the lady does either, I move on.

 

Maybe a factor is that I'm only interested in women over 35. If you're looking at 20's and are over 60, well "go figger, trigger"

A pretty honest assessment.  I also find that dating sites, e.g., ThaiFriendly, are A LOT different in Chiang Mai vs. Pattaya.  Girls in Pattaya are mostly for sale whereas girls in Chiang Mai are actually looking for relationships.  Also, how old is the OP?  Like you say, if he's over 60 looking for 20 yr old hotties, he's not going get anything serious from these girls.  I've also met many of these girls.  They tell me it's hard to find a good foreign man on these sites, most just want free sex.  If you're a young, handsome farang guy, you might find more success getting freebies.  But if you're an old dude, either look for someone closer to your age, or be prepared to pay.

[stoner]

7 hours ago, Henryford said:

Basically they are just on line brothels. Personally i can't see the attraction in ordering up a total stranger, like a KFC, for ten minutes of fun.

 

woah woah woah wait just a minute. the 10 minutes part is all you buddy. you need better stamina. :)

[sidjameson]

5 minutes ago, StayinThailand2much said:

 

Serious relationship.

 

Because I'm living in Thailand.

 

See #2.

 

 

How old are you and how old are the women you message?

My gf has many single friends looking for bf not money. But they're not 20 years old.

[scubascuba3]

20 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

 

 

What are you looking for?   

Why can't you find whatever that is in your own country? 

Why are you trawling around Asian countries searching for something that you would be better off finding at home?

have you not seen the amount of fatties back home?

[JensenZ]

8 hours ago, Nemises said:

 

Disagree! My mate is/will be much better off for marrying a government worker for the huge health care cost benefits - will cost him something like 50 baht for any eventual operation, regardless of duration in hospital. 

She is also a nurse - perfect for his day to day care when required.

She is also incredibly attractive, and oh, about 25 years younger.

Good luck convincing him he is "much better off single".

I'm not here to convince anyone of anything, but that sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen, or it's just bs. Are you talking about an imaginary friend?

 

25 years younger and incredibly attractive, willing to be a nursemaid for an old man? Only if the pay is good.

[stoner]

28 minutes ago, StayinThailand2much said:

And I know that Thai women generally find me attractive, so that's not it.

 

handsum man sexy man where you go. 

[Boycie]

34 minutes ago, StayinThailand2much said:

 

Yes, a few. I also chatted to some women. After 'hello', and 'my name is', very often then came: "I look for customers"/"I sell VDOs"/"I have no money. Can you send me X baht", etc. - And I know that Thai women generally find me attractive, so that's not it.

 

Which dating site?

[Nemises]

2 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

I'm not here to convince anyone of anything, but that sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen, or it's just bs. Are you talking about an imaginary friend?

 

25 years younger and incredibly attractive, willing to be a nursemaid for an old man? Only if the pay is good.

 

Sorry to disappoint, but it’s 100% true and can send you a photo of the happy couple (with her in uniform) to prove it. 

 

FYI 25 years age difference is not uncommon in Thailand. 
 

Your assumption of him being an “old man” is also incorrect. 

Care to elaborate on why “it’s a nightmare waiting to happen” or are you just jealous? I think the latter. 

[BE88]

13 hours ago, tgw said:

 

maybe part of the problem is that we aren't getting any younger as the years pass by

 

And progress does not stop now as in the West they are looking for young, beautiful and rich man.

Better now treat our girlfriend or wife carefully.

 

[KannikaP]

All these answers are off topic as the OP is asking about the last 8 days.

[BritManToo]

41 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:

What are you looking for?   
Why can't you find whatever that is in your own country? 
Why are you trawling around Asian countries searching for something that you would be better off finding at home?

Many of us are avoiding the western divorce experience.

[novacova]

14 hours ago, StayinThailand2much said:

As the title says; on dating websites, Thai women pretending to be single and looking for someone for a (serious) relationship, but once you contact them...

 

* A very large percentage seem to just look for customers (s*x, videos, etc.), and...

 

* The ones who then still claim to look for a relationship don't want to meet you if you actually live in Thailand, or don't want to meet at all in person.

 

What is going on?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why bother with dating websites? There are a lot of good single women that you can meet anywhere. You just have to open your mouth and leave all expectations behind.