Going short-time only, shallow or succulent?

[fredwiggy]

14 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Men sleeping with prostitutes is no different than you surfing PornTube and cranking yourself off on a daily basis. But at least they aren't doing it alone. 

Quite a few differences I would imagine. One, it's free at home. Two, you can't catch a disease from your hand. Three, you won't be ripped off at home or attacked by any friends of a hooker. Four, if you're married or in a relationship with another, you haven't cheated.

[fredwiggy]

14 hours ago, RSD1 said:

According to who?

Those who have had good pizza

[Cameroni]

4 hours ago, NowNow said:

 

Part of your growth....or you could just do what many here did and move to Thailand to buy or rent themselves a woman.

 

You would grow from the experience of betrayal and abandonment. That's true. Many of us, if not all, would have gone through that. But as we saw with the poor poster here who, at 72 just went through a breakup, the pain is real.

 

So, this fantasy of the soul, love, is lovely for a while, but also quite dangerous, when it inevitable comes to an end.

[save the frogs]

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

So, this fantasy of the soul, love, is lovely for a while, but also quite dangerous, when it inevitable comes to an end.

so what do you want? 

a squeaky clean pristine life devoid of any negative emotions?

one girl put me in the emergency room .... I thought I was having a heart attack ... doctor checked me out and said it's fine and then asked if I was having issues with a woman.

happy fun times. 

 

[FruitPudding]

11 hours ago, save the frogs said:

 

Are they enthusiastic because they're trying to secure a long-term boyfriend?

Maybe not all the time, but that's my impression. They're auditioning for being a real girlfriend some of them.

And it works quite well, which is why many men end up dating and marrying them. 

 

 

I don't think so.

 

Many of them just like what they do.

[Cameroni]

On 8/25/2024 at 1:08 PM, save the frogs said:

so what do you want? 

a squeaky clean pristine life devoid of any negative emotions?

one girl put me in the emergency room .... I thought I was having a heart attack ... doctor checked me out and said it's fine and then asked if I was having issues with a woman.

happy fun times. 

 

 

I'm not saying that. What I'm saying is that you have to  guard yourself against taking the beautiful words of women, or indeed men, seriously in any way and recognise that they are just words. You have to guard your soul against the fantasy, which women will want to ignite in your mind. Because once you have fallen into this fantasy of the soul known as "love", many a man has paid with his bank account, his sanity, and sometimes his life. 

 

Like with drugs, the high from love comes at a steep price. You can partake, but you should be aware of the risks. And mostly you need to realise that it will not last long, it will not last forever.

[NowNow]

On 8/25/2024 at 6:02 AM, Cameroni said:

 

You would grow from the experience of betrayal and abandonment. That's true. Many of us, if not all, would have gone through that. But as we saw with the poor poster here who, at 72 just went through a breakup, the pain is real.

 

So, this fantasy of the soul, love, is lovely for a while, but also quite dangerous, when it inevitable comes to an end.

What betrayal? I didn't see anything with regard to any major breakup. He seemed to be palming her off to anyone who dared. Maybe someone dared. Maybe he was just too rude and opinionated. You live and learn.

 

[Cameroni]

12 hours ago, NowNow said:

What betrayal? I didn't see anything with regard to any major breakup. He seemed to be palming her off to anyone who dared. Maybe someone dared. Maybe he was just too rude and opinionated. You live and learn.

 

I wasn't talking about him specifically but rather about relationships generally. Where betrayal is, sadly, a common occurence.

[123Stodg]

On 8/25/2024 at 11:55 AM, fredwiggy said:

Quite a few differences I would imagine. One, it's free at home. Two, you can't catch a disease from your hand. Three, you won't be ripped off at home or attacked by any friends of a hooker. Four, if you're married or in a relationship with another, you haven't cheated.

Not always true.

 

1 - PornTube and other sites cost money for premium content. Some men also pay for online video sex sessions with cam-models. 
2 - You can if your hands are not clean or contain bacteria. You can give yourself a urinary tract infection or nonspecific urethritis. 
3 - People get ripped off at home all the time by clicking on malicious porn links, internet scams, email romance scams, phishing attacks, etc. Some people are also coerced into sending large sums of money to cam-models as gifts. People also occasionally get attacked by home intruders. 
4 - Depends on how you define cheating. Some people may feel violated, deceived or cheated on if their partner is discovered having online video sex sessions, either with a prerecorded video, or by paying for a private sex show with a live cam-model and/or paying a cam-model to provide special custom videos upon request.