Why do unemployed greasy little Thai men always get the hot girls?

[NanLaew]

4 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Standing in a strip club and paying to watch girls take their clothes off and then speaking ill of the girls boyfriend , does appear to be jealousy.

   "Cooor, look at the Juggs on that ,  I would love to grope them and feel her up............................her boyfriend must be a right loser"

 

It does appear that you are lonely this afternoon.

[Nick Carter icp]

4 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

 

It does appear that you are lonely this afternoon.

 

   No need to get personal and start abusive exchanges 

[fredwiggy]

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

When I used to hang with my buddies at Houston's strip clubs, we would label the hot dancers boyfriends as "worthless piece-of-sh*t boyfriend" or WPOSB. The good-looking or ripped WPOSB's were usually what we called 'dick dancers' at the women-only strip club.

 

From customer to entertainer, we are all at some level of loserdom.

Where women and men have independence, meaning a decent paycheck,  as in the US, women will go with men they're attracted to. Those dancers have good looking boyfriends because they fit together, and what makes them losers? As long as they're treating those women well, they deserve what they get from them.

 

If you go looking for women in a normal atmosphere and not in a strip club, where the women see the customers as sleaze, you'll find a completely different scenario for dating. Women like men they're attracted to first, and then look to them as maybe a future provider and father for kids. This of course subtracts the gold diggers, who will go with anyone who has assets.

 

Here in Thailand, the women definitely prefer their own kind, at least until they are close to 30 or older. That's when they've had their share of losers and those who are only there to have sex, then leave, especially if children are born. This is when they look for foreigners as a more stable, better paid choice that will more likely stay after sex. Of course this is the expats that live here and not tourists, as Thai women all hear through the grapevine how tourists are, and most aren't worth their time because they are butterflies. Women , no matter how smart, many times aren't that smart about men and how they are. They fall for bull<deleted> time after time, hoping the next one will stay, and when they don't, their trust level decreases until many think all men are trash, not realizing they just made bad choices. This is why you see so many hot women with men who don't fit them. Thai men know how to play their women, especially the younger ones. If you stay away from strip clubs, you might not think you and others are all at some level of loserdom. Going there doesn't make you a loser. They're there for a reason, and for certain types of people.

[BangkokReady]

Essentially, Thai women are brought up this way.  Thailand is not a nice place for women, and they are raised to believe that they deserve to be treated badly, while they support their loser partners, who get drunk or go out and cheat.  Women literally think that it is their responsibility to take care of their men (along with their family).

 

The sad part is that it's generally limited to Thai men.  Also, as with women like this in the West, the chance of them actually waking up to it and appreciating a guy that treats them well is low.

[BangkokReady]

37 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

"Cooor, look at the Juggs on that ,  I would love to grope them and feel her up............................her boyfriend must be a right loser"

 

 

Sh*it!"  Who told???  😬

[SAFETY FIRST]

53 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

Still not a good look

Says the guy who creates acronyms for strippers boyfriends. 

 

[jayboy]

1 hour ago, FruitPudding said:

 

This is the answer.

 

Low class village girls only have 2 options:

 

1. Low class Thai man

2. A farang. 

 

 

To be fair most of Category 2 are low class as well, IE those that hook up with low class village girls.

 

 

[FruitPudding]

7 minutes ago, jayboy said:

 

To be fair most of Category 2 are low class as well, IE those that hook up with low class village girls.

 

 

 

I would disagree. We are not in Thailand's class system.

[NanLaew]

52 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Where women and men have independence, meaning a decent paycheck,  as in the US, women will go with men they're attracted to. Those dancers have good looking boyfriends because they fit together, and what makes them losers? As long as they're treating those women well, they deserve what they get from them.

 

If you go looking for women in a normal atmosphere and not in a strip club, where the women see the customers as sleaze, you'll find a completely different scenario for dating. Women like men they're attracted to first, and then look to them as maybe a future provider and father for kids. This of course subtracts the gold diggers, who will go with anyone who has assets.

 

Here in Thailand, the women definitely prefer their own kind, at least until they are close to 30 or older. That's when they've had their share of losers and those who are only there to have sex, then leave, especially if children are born. This is when they look for foreigners as a more stable, better paid choice that will more likely stay after sex. Of course this is the expats that live here and not tourists, as Thai women all hear through the grapevine how tourists are, and most aren't worth their time because they are butterflies. Women , no matter how smart, many times aren't that smart about men and how they are. They fall for bull<deleted> time after time, hoping the next one will stay, and when they don't, their trust level decreases until many think all men are trash, not realizing they just made bad choices. This is why you see so many hot women with men who don't fit them. Thai men know how to play their women, especially the younger ones. If you stay away from strip clubs, you might not think you and others are all at some level of loserdom. Going there doesn't make you a loser. They're there for a reason, and for certain types of people.

 

Thanks for the potted exercise in moralization and Thai social structures. I hope someone got something from it.

 

The OP is a bit tongue-in-cheek, but it alluded to a degree of jealousy on behalf of the aging Lothario's that walk among us (you know who you are).

 

My comment simply drew an American strip club parallel with the Thai go-go bar. The WPOSB of Houston is the "unemployed greasy little Thai men" of the OP. I am not sure why some went off on jealousy, but hey, that's maybe their thing.

 

But, while you're asking what made the strippers good-looking boyfriends losers... or WPOSB's? Well, they dance around naked for drunk old women to grab their dicks to start with. At least their bangin' hot girlfriends waited until you were in the VIP Room together before grabbing yours.

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, BangkokReady said:

Essentially, Thai women are brought up this way.  Thailand is not a nice place for women, and they are raised to believe that they deserve to be treated badly, while they support their loser partners, who get drunk or go out and cheat.  Women literally think that it is their responsibility to take care of their men (along with their family).

 

The sad part is that it's generally limited to Thai men.  Also, as with women like this in the West, the chance of them actually waking up to it and appreciating a guy that treats them well is low.

 

It's truly anachronistic for a matriarchal society, isn't it? Maybe if the blokes acknowledged that, it would be better.

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

Still not a good look

Says the guy who creates acronyms for strippers boyfriends. 

 

What else should I call a "dick dancer"?

[scoutman360]

6 hours ago, IC2000 said:

Thailand is very hierarchical. Despite her being a looker - she's low class. Proper men only want a shag from them. They are stuck. Most middle class Thai men don't want a brown, poor girl from Issarn

 

No family name

No education

No future

 

Her fam is nothing but liability and money pit

 

Maybe she's also got attitude too much from her looks - but that ain't gonna work with a regular Thai man

 

Why THAT guy? In Pattaya they support the girls in other ways like picking them up at 4am and basically being their bit*h.

 

Simple

  

I worked amongst educated Thai men for 19 years. You understand this culture perfectly. They say exactly the same thing. 

[Patong2021]

What has changed? It's the way it has always been.Some unattractive guys or girls are genuinely nice people and alot of fun.

In university, one of our hang crew was always spending too much.  There were times when we would go out, and he played the room, letting whomever was around to buy him drinks. He had it down to an art, targeting the lonely mediocre looking girls. The opportunity to hang out with a good looking guy even for a bit was worth it for them. He was so good that he good identify  multiple marks , swoop in and sometimes dangle 2-3 on  a busy night.  When he was not scoring with the ladies, he was open to accepting drinks from men. The way some nights ended though could be cruel. There would sometimes someone hovering near the exit waiting to see if they could hook up. Wasn't going to happen. No matter how much of a rogue he was, he was faithful to his girlfriend. 

[JackGats]

"Why do unemployed greasy little Thai men always get the hot girls?"

 

They don't. Young two-week millionaires from Korea do.

[BruceWayne]

10 hours ago, IC2000 said:

Thailand is very hierarchical. Despite her being a looker - she's low class. Proper men only want a shag from them. They are stuck. Most middle class Thai men don't want a brown, poor girl from Issarn

 

No family name

No education

No future

 

Her fam is nothing but liability and money pit

 

Maybe she's also got attitude too much from her looks - but that ain't gonna work with a regular Thai man

 

Why THAT guy? In Pattaya they support the girls in other ways like picking them up at 4am and basically being their bit*h.

 

Simple

 

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[BruceWayne]

8 hours ago, jayboy said:

 

To be fair most of Category 2 are low class as well, IE those that hook up with low class village girls.

 

 

 

Very true.

 

 

Maybe if the west really goes to **** we'll eventually live to see low class Thais and other Asians holidaying and retiring in our home countries to romance / bang our trailer trash.

 

What a world!

 

[GammaGlobulin]

If there are any girls/ladies who wish to find smart and handsome Thai men, who are definitely NOT greasy.....

 

Then, I suggest you join our group:

 

 

=====

 

The only problem might be....

 

Most guys on TV do not have a decent college education, seemingly....maybe....

 

Therefore, most TV members would be completely ineligible to join our Ivy League group.

 

Also, one must have a decent IQ.

 

AND, most importantly, one should have the smarts to not insult Thai People, obviously.

 

There are many super-smart and clean-cut Thai men in Thailand....

 

So unfortunately, though, most Thai men of this caliber never hang in the same circles as the likes of the Farang of the TV Farang Pub....and....

 

YOU GUYS.....

Know that this is TRUE.

 

You guys could NEVER even qualify to to be admitted into our select group of handsome men, Thai men, Asian men, and White Men, who are just ..... not as greasy as you.

 

Just sayin', but I really do not care about it, that much.

 

I stay in my own rarefied bailiwick, which most of you would know nothing about.

 

Regards,

Gamma

 

 

 

Edited November 3 by GammaGlobulin

[Purdey]

It depends on the people you know. Many of my Thai friends are middle class or very rich  and they take their girls out in BMWs. This explains why you don't see them.

[Scouse123]

48 minutes ago, Purdey said:

It depends on the people you know. Many of my Thai friends are middle class or very rich  and they take their girls out in BMWs. This explains why you don't see them.

🥱🥱 Yawn!

[Scouse123]

I grew out of the shallowness of expecting love, sincerity or romance from go go girls a very long time ago. It's a fantasy dreamworld.

 

I was in that industry in Pattaya many moons ago. 

 

What I can say is my maids for the hotel were paid twice monthly, and I can guarantee you that on those two days, there would be a number of motorbikes outside coming to collect their wives/girlfriends from work.

 

Regarding somebody's comment above about Thai loser males collect go go bar girls at 4am, that used to be normal as well, as the men were coming to relieve the women of any cash they had earned that night.

 

In the very early days, women were more than happy to spend every waking hour with you, mainly to ensure a rival didn't get their hands on you. With the tourist boom, and foreigners plentiful, that has become a thing of the past.

 

In recent times, how many times have you heard the girl say they can't stay all night, and want ' silly money ' if they do. That never used to be the case.

 

To me, the attitude displayed by the Thai men, few of whom worked, was all very mercenary.

 

These women tolerated and accepted it.

 

The men were the bottom end of the barrel, not working, unkempt and many tattooed up, but these seemed to be the limit of interest these girls could attract in Thai males.

 

 I myself have witnessed middle class Thai men talking with these girls, and one thing they don't give them in any shape or form, is........... respect.

 

There is plenty of male schoolboy, giggly, drunk conversation from this class of Thai male with these girls, but nothing meaningful takes place. 

 

They take and treat them for what they are.

 

 

 

 

 

Edited November 4 by Scouse123

[Tarteso]

18 hours ago, Chris Daley said:

I think I might have to make some changes with my lifestyle.  Maybe quit my job and send the wife out to work.  Start sniffing glue and sleeping all day.  Sit in the road all night drinking beers.  Come in the tin shed and start screaming.

All these things for a nice lady? 🤔

[Berkshire]

19 hours ago, Chris Daley said:

i have noticed the bigger the loser you are the hotter the women.  Rotund shirtless Thai men with incredible women.

 

I think I might have to make some changes with my lifestyle.  Maybe quit my job and send the wife out to work.  Start sniffing glue and sleeping all day.  Sit in the road all night drinking beers.  Come in the tin shed and start screaming.

 

How about you?  Are you still a handsome quality tourist, or have you fully embraced the Thai male culture?

Jealousy is unbecoming.  There's plenty of females to go around.  But the truth is charm and personality goes a long way in Thailand.  Thai girls love a witty guy....in the Thai language of course.  I've seen many charming Thai guys who can literally talk the panties off of the hottest girls.  So this myth that Thai girls are only about money is not entirely accurate.  Well, most of the Thai girls who are after farangs may be about money.  But the other 90%+ of Thai girls prefer a guy with some personality (again, in the Thai language).   

[john donson]

money?

[Freddy42OZ]

17 hours ago, IC2000 said:

Thailand is very hierarchical.

 

Despite her being a looker - she's low class. Proper men only want a shag from them. They are stuck. Most middle class Thai men don't want a brown, poor girl from Issarn

 

No family name

No education

No future

 

Her fam is nothing but liability and money pit

 

 

Yes do many western guys come and get involved with low class peasants.

 

Would these guys date and marry down in their own countries?

[mdr224]

Hot girls are nice until you have one, then you just want someone else

[Yagoda]

Im basically a bearded febrile pustule but I get tons of hot girls.

 

My wallet is like Timothy Cameltoes (or whatever the Dune hearthrobs name is) endowed like Ron Jeremy, the hot girls swoon when they see it.

[IC2000]

3 hours ago, Freddy42OZ said:

 

 

Yes do many western guys come and get involved with low class peasants.

 

Would these guys date and marry down in their own countries?

 

Men always date down for beauty. Women try and date up for money.

 

When a bump into somebody and they prattle on about their gf / wife having a phenomenal job, money they should start the sentence with ... While she's middle aged and not much to look at...

 

Usually these guys are despised by family members especially her children. Often have no access to her money. Absolute idiots.

 

I stopped trying to have relationships with smart women decades ago. Give me an attractive, fun woman every time.

Edited November 4 by IC2000

[IC2000]

3 hours ago, mdr224 said:

Hot girls are nice until you have one, then you just want someone else

 

17 hours ago, NanLaew said:

My comment simply drew an American strip club parallel with the Thai go-go bar.

I don't think there's a comparison at all other than the obvious.

 

In US I'd only been in one strip club in my life and that was tagging along with my business buddies night out crawl. There's nothing really lighthearted about strip clubs in States. They are really expensive. I'm not at all attracted to stripper types in general but especially in US

 

Happened to know something about US club because I lived in a shared house decades ago. It started off with a bunch of students which I was one and ended up when I left was a bunch of strippers. One of them had gonorrhea in her eye or something. They were nothing but drama and banging around late at night high as kites every night

Edited November 4 by IC2000

[IC2000]

3 hours ago, Freddy42OZ said:

Yes do many western guys come and get involved with low class peasants.

Most foreign western men in Thailand are not especially well educated, degreed and are solidly working and or possibly middle class.

 

They wear <deleted>*y old clothes, cargo shorts, t shirts and usually black or camo (I honestly don't know which is worse) as well as some ragged ass footwear. Oh, I do love the handsumn men out in long sleeved black shirts. Bring back the 80s!! Black hasn't been cool since forever. Football jersey.. yeah if you're trying to impress the Thai ladies with that one that's a miss.

 

 

Edited November 4 by IC2000

[khunPer]

23 hours ago, Chris Daley said:

i have noticed the bigger the loser you are the hotter the women.  Rotund shirtless Thai men with incredible women.

 

I think I might have to make some changes with my lifestyle.  Maybe quit my job and send the wife out to work.  Start sniffing glue and sleeping all day.  Sit in the road all night drinking beers.  Come in the tin shed and start screaming.

 

How about you?  Are you still a handsome quality tourist, or have you fully embraced the Thai male culture?

Indeed I'm still both cool and handsome...😎😀

 

I think you misunderstood the "unemployment"-situation. Being "unemployed" means that one has enough funds not to work and values time spending money, which seems like unlimited. The latter is like a super-magnet for gorgeous Thai-chicks...

Being shirtless or proper dressed like a real billionaire – which mean relaxed, but appropriate clothes – doesn't matter in Land of Smiles. It's the pile of 1000-baht-notes filling your breast pocket – or whereever you keep them visible enought for the chicks if you are shirtless – that matters...😉

 

Try for yourself, it actually works quite well in real life...👍