Just now, Hummin said:

Whatever your illusion is, it yours only. It is a bless or curse, your choice, your life

 

Good luck

Yours is special

15 hours ago, camper star said:

It started off like meeting the end of the rainbow, which we all we can't do.

My question is, how do I handle the subject when financial help for the family is needed.

It started off with some sort of mysterious general statement and ended in a question without question mark.

14 hours ago, Jim Blue said:

Does anyone actually keep buffaloes any more ?

Actually they do. My wife just bought one for 90,000 a week later flipped it for 140,000 baht . She don't need my money.

 

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Yours is special

Hehe, in fact she is, indeed ❤️

 

But I only have to convince myself, not you, or anyone else on this forum. 

 

It is my blessing have a good life, and my best 10 years soon, and I know my wife thinks the same. And I wish you experinced som synshine to, you need it, and many more here at the forum who turned sour from their earlier experiences

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

Hehe, in fact she is, indeed ❤️

 

But I only have to convince myself, not you, or anyone else on this forum. 

 

It is my blessing have a good life, and my best 10 years soon, and I know my wife thinks the same. And I wish you experinced som synshine to, you need it, and many more here at the forum who turned sour from their earlier experiences

So she's a he.

15 hours ago, it is what it is said:

 

20 odd years here, never, ever had a thai woman who wanted money, same as when i dated back home. current gf has five cars, seven houses and condos and runs, at the last count - it's hard to keep up, seven or eight businesses.

 

i honestly have no idea why guys here pay for women, can only surmise it must be because they want to - makes them feel powerful/stokes their ego, or because they're mugs. the honest truth is you don't have to pay a penny if you don't want to. as the locals say, up to you.

You mus be very han sum man

11 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

So she's a he.

didnt you say you got suspended?

what are you doing here? 

 

meeting a lady that doesn't need your money

 

They Don't Need it ,  they just Want it,   up to you if you give it or not .

15 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

So she's a he.

Whatever float your boat, have a nice day 

15 hours ago, Cameroni said:

The really cunning thing is , for ONE WHOLE YEAR they won't ask. Then after 18 months, it won't stop. Mother's rent, my funeral fees in my dad's land, I need Durian....

Right.And i never meet a foreigner that tell the truth that their gf/wife was a bar girl.My lady is different is the standard answer and she worked as a cashier and never go with customers.I meet a foreigner in Pattaya who had meet his gf in Tesco Lotus where she worked.She was a beautiful lady.I used to visit them for some drinks in his rented condo.I speak thai well so i asked her if she had go with other foreigners and she said yes.One day she called me and ask if i could come and see her at a hair Salon.I went there and we sat down and talked.She was wery happy because she just get approved her visa to Canada and was leaving after few days.The person she was going to meet in Canada was her boyfriend she told me.I promised her to not tell the foreigner she stayed with anything about this.After some days the foreigner called me and wanted to see me for a beer.He was sad because he couldn't get in touch with the lady.Her phone was off and they told him in Tesco Lotus that she had quit working there.

Of course there is good ladies in Thailand who is faithful but almost everyone wants our money.I hear and read stories about good and bad relationships.My advice is that don't invest more than u can afford to loose.

 

13 minutes ago, norsurin said:

Of course there is good ladies in Thailand who is faithfu

 

There's got to be one or two.

 

At least.

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

Pretend wife

Proper cnut.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

There's got to be one or two.

 

At least.

20 or 30.

12 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

20 or 30.

 

Sure. But what do they look like?

 

It's easy to be faithful when nobody wants you.

 

What I'd like to see is a 24 year old that looks like  Yuyu Sai who is actually faithful, despite having tons of options.

 

 

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Sure. But what do they look like?

It's easy to be faithful when nobody wants you.

What I'd like to see is a 24 year old that looks like  Yuyu Sai who is actually faithful, despite having tons of options.

 

 

  I thought that you would prefer promiscuous girls .

Girls who remain faithful would be being faithfully to someone else and you wouldn't get the bang them 

20 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Sure. But what do they look like?

 

It's easy to be faithful when nobody wants you.

 

What I'd like to see is a 24 year old that looks like  Yuyu Sai who is actually faithful, despite having tons of options.

 

 

I googled her. She's got an attitude.

In theory, giving them money should give that person giving some sort control.  But, too many Simps out there setting a bad precedent giving them money and the lady controls everything.  WWM- Weak western males Thailand is full of them.

 

3 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

In theory, giving them money should give that person giving some sort control.  But, too many Simps out there setting a bad precedent giving them money and the lady controls everything.  WWM- Weak western males Thailand is full of them.

 

 

  What control do you get when giving them money ?

6 hours ago, HappyExpat57 said:

You left out Susan.

I think Susanlea is reincarnated as yabadoo or arrisbum.

22 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

I thought that you would prefer promiscuous girls .

Girls who remain faithful would be being faithfully to someone else and you wouldn't get the bang them

 

That's crazy talk.

 

Who wants a girl that's been railed by a hundred guys? "Oh you got railed by a hundred guys, but we should get together? Yeah...great idea"...Nobody ever said that.

 

Sure there are girls who are in a rel with someone and therefore you can't bang them. So what? There's billions of women are not in a rel, for a variety of reason, and many of them do want to bang you. 

 

Just because a girl is in a rel doesn't mean she will be forever, sometimes it ends due to reasons that have nothing to do with the girl, the guy cheated, he didn't committ, have enough money, he wasn't good in sex...could be anything, women are very quick to pull the trigger. And the hottter they are the quicker they pull it. 

28 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

In theory, giving them money should give that person giving some sort control.  But, too many Simps out there setting a bad precedent giving them money and the lady controls everything.  WWM- Weak western males Thailand is full of them.

 

 

It can do. If you are so well off that you give her so much money, so reliably that she can count on it, she will come to realise that you are indispensable and replacing you could become difficult or impossible.

 

However, as a general rule, if you give a woman anything, money, gifts, you will get no credit after she reaped the benefit, and it will give you no control. With the above caveat.

31 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I googled her. She's got an attitude.

 

She does. YuYu Sai is a dream come true. At least on video, in real  life she maybe a total nightmare. In fact I'm pretty sure she is, because she knows how hot she is, and she's wealthy on top now. She can't be pleasant to be around. Bit like Taylor Swift.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

. So what? There's billions of women are not in a rel, for a variety of reason, and many of them do want to bang you. 

. 

 

  Can you ask them to contact me, please . 

1 minute ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

  Can you ask them to contact me, please . 

 

You'll have to optimize your Insta.

 

Or just approach them.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

You'll have to optimize your Insta.

 

Or just approach them.

 

   You will find that most females in Thailand are in relationships and its only the promiscuous females who would bang you .

   Those faithful girls are staying faithful to someone else .

Are you currently looking for a partner ?

Getting married and living happily ever after ?

4 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 You will find that most females in Thailand are in relationships and its only the promiscuous females who would bang you .

   Those faithful girls are staying faithful to someone else .

 

We, males and females, are all humans, and closely related to the Bonobos, we are about as promiscuous as it gets. FACT.

 

It's a fallacy that all faithful girls are in rels, that's obviously not the case. As I explained above, she could have been faithful and in a rel with a guy who....had a boring life, was not good at sex, cheated, was not committed or did any of the numerous things that can cause any girl to end the rel. So then she's, guess where....on Thaifriendly waiting for you to text her.

 

Plus, there's 18 year olds, before they even get in a rel they try to date.

17 hours ago, it is what it is said:

20 odd years here, never, ever had a thai woman who wanted money, same as when i dated back home. current gf has five cars, seven houses and condos and runs, at the last count - it's hard to keep up, seven or eight businesses.
...

How did you meet?  Seems what the OP needs to find out.

34 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's crazy talk.

 

Who wants a girl that's been railed by a hundred guys? "Oh you got railed by a hundred guys, but we should get together? Yeah...great idea"...Nobody ever said that.

 

Sure there are girls who are in a rel with someone and therefore you can't bang them. So what? There's billions of women are not in a rel, for a variety of reason, and many of them do want to bang you. 

 

Just because a girl is in a rel doesn't mean she will be forever, sometimes it ends due to reasons that have nothing to do with the girl, the guy cheated, he didn't committ, have enough money, he wasn't good in sex...could be anything, women are very quick to pull the trigger. And the hottter they are the quicker they pull it. 

You tink to mutt! 

I always told them that they are only my Gf. I do not mind spending money on them to make a happy time for us when we are together. But it is not my responsibility to take care of them or their family. They worked and took care of themselves before me without any problems. So, why should I be paying them or their family just for us to be together. 

If we are living together then I am already supporting her and her money earned it more already so she should have money extra to send to family. 

 

Here is where the problem lies. Once you begin sending them money or supporting them financially even if it is to help their family, the are no longer just your Gf. They become your prostitute and your burden instead of someone you want to love and care for. Just don't do it. It effects your feelings towards her as well as how she views you. Your money is yours. Once you begin paying her she will become dependent on using you for this. You will no longer be a man she is trying to love and make a future together. You are now her sugar daddy who she can turn to for more and more help if using the right excuse to demand it from you. If you do not pay, her feelings will change and she will use it as well to make you suffer and perhaps even end it with you. 

6 minutes ago, thesetat said:

I always told them that they are only my Gf. I do not mind spending money on them to make a happy time for us when we are together. But it is not my responsibility to take care of them or their family. They worked and took care of themselves before me without any problems. So, why should I be paying them or their family just for us to be together. 

If we are living together then I am already supporting her and her money earned it more already so she should have money extra to send to family. 

 

Here is where the problem lies. Once you begin sending them money or supporting them financially even if it is to help their family, the are no longer just your Gf. They become your prostitute and your burden instead of someone you want to love and care for. Just don't do it. It effects your feelings towards her as well as how she views you. Your money is yours. Once you begin paying her she will become dependent on using you for this. You will no longer be a man she is trying to love and make a future together. You are now her sugar daddy who she can turn to for more and more help if using the right excuse to demand it from you. If you do not pay, her feelings will change and she will use it as well to make you suffer and perhaps even end it with you. 

Oh my, well everyone has their demons, good luck with your life