4 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Agree

 

I don't give my girlfriend money, I spoil her to death, I enjoy buying her gifts, she's beautiful. 

 

 

Money is not even an issue! And it is delightful 

Upstairs Soi 6, she said she just arrived the day before and that swung the marraige proposal.

12 minutes ago, hughrection said:

Nope, not in all cases BUT isn't every woman a kind of hooker anyway. Money does seem to be the driving force for the majority. 🙂

In our genes, men prove they are able to take care, provide, and make woman and their offsprings safe, and woman by the resources the man have, manage to make the men an better version of themselves by caring and organizing their life and home. 

 

Somewhere on the road, something went horrible wrong for most

 

 

I met my wife when she worked at 'The Slip it Inn'.

In a ladyboy bar! 😉🫣

Her name was Gerald, but now Geraldine.

6 hours ago, simple1 said:

Phuket 27 years ago.

Phuket 28 years ago.

In front of the former Glow nightclub in 2018.  We were trying to get in but there was a curfew going on at the time and as we were in line the place was getting shut down for the night. 

We both went for the same cab at the same time  so I asked where her and her friend were going.  Turns out they were  going to the same place so we rode there together.    When we got to the next place we got a table and she handed me her business card.  I think that was her attempt to make it known to me she had a career and wasn't some pick-up girl.  I was impressed.  And that was the beginning of it.

 

We colloquially started calling it 'BK Taxi Love Story' after our first year.  Married in 2020

9 hours ago, hughrection said:

In CM airport. She was selling hotdogs and that bubble tea drink. I was a little drunk and she was gorgeous.

 

Made a dick of myself according to friends but she had enough English to know that I was inviting her to come see me at the CM sixes cricket tournament.

 

Surprisingly , she turned up and it went from there. 20 years together now and counting.

 

Good times, good times. 🙂

I love insulting girls when I first meet them.  If they stick around you now they're legit 🙂. Great story mate.

7 minutes ago, happydreamer said:

In front of the former Glow nightclub in 2018.  We were trying to get in but there was a curfew going on at the time and as we were in line the place was getting shut down for the night. 

We both went for the same cab at the same time  so I asked where her and her friend were going.  Turns out they were  going to the same place so we rode there together.    When we got to the next place we got a table and she handed me her business card.  I think that was her attempt to make it known to me she had a career and wasn't some pick-up girl.  I was impressed.  And that was the beginning of it.

 

We colloquially started calling it 'BK Taxi Love Story' after our first year.  Married in 2020

Sweet

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Some is so insecure of their previous boy friends, they will never be able to find anyone. 

Its not insecurity. If youre not her first then the experience is degraded. Ive had enough experiences to know

11 minutes ago, IvorBiggun2 said:

I met my wife when she worked at 'The Slip it Inn'.

Sounds like a true love story

 

Pretty woman

 

 

1 minute ago, hotsun said:

Its not insecurity. If youre not her first then the experience is degraded. Ive had enough experiences to know

Well, When I was younger I reckoning your feelings, but not as an matured middle aged man. I have my experiences for good and bad, as same she has, 

 

Seems we both learned what we both needed to know, which makes our relationship unique. At least for us

 

Sloppy second seems so ,,,, cheap, and a poor try to humiliate the debate on purpose 

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Well, When I was younger I reckoning your feelings, but not as an matured middle aged man. I have my experiences for good and bad, as same she has, 

 

Seems we both learned what we both needed to know, which makes our relationship unique. At least for us

 

Sloppy second seems so ,,,, cheap, and a poor try to humiliate the debate on purpose 

Like i said whatever works for you. I had a choice when i was younger with someone older who made more and was more well travelled but i chose someone instead who had no experience with foreigners

1 minute ago, hotsun said:

Like i said whatever works for you. I had a choice when i was younger with someone older who made more and was more well travelled but i chose someone instead who had no experience with foreigners

One simple question are you in a relationship? 

 

Second question, how old are you? 

Just now, Hummin said:

One simple question are you in a relationship? 

 

Second question, how old are you? 

Wife and two kids. 37

14 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Wife and two kids. 37

Well, your age explains some of your opinions, so time will work for you, if you have to restart one day closer to 50, you might change your criteria.

9 hours ago, Gandtee said:

In 1984, my Thai was the boss of a painting and gilding company working on the Sultan's Palace in Brunei. My English wife died in 1982. We have been married for thirty-eight years.

 

The only  response, I really needed to see or actually wanted to see. Thank you for sharing your stability and sanity.

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Well, your age explains some of your opinions, so time wilm work for you, if you have to restart one day closer to 50

Theyre all more or less the same. If it doesnt work out im not doing it again

4 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Theyre all more or less the same. If it doesnt work out im not doing it again

Get ready for some important information. I was not supposed to ever marry a Thai in my mind, but here I am. 

 

Same for every people on this planet, we all chamge our minds the older we get

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Get ready for some important information. I was not supposed to ever marry a Thai in my mind, but here I am. 

 

Same for every people on this planet, we all chamge our minds the older we get

Yes. I had someone tell me not to get married and i believed him. But i got sick of dating. Now im sick of marriage. Maybe my next step is men

2 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Yes. I had someone tell me not to get married and i believed him. But i got sick of dating. Now im sick of marriage. Maybe my next step is men

There is a limit 😁 if you are in to men, I guess you would know  by now. So do not get to high hopes 

Are you the Thai, "where did you get your girlfriend from police"?

If not - none of your business.

57 minutes ago, hotsun said:

It’s not insecurity. If youre not her first then the experience is degraded. Ive had enough experiences to know

You can always tell when they have been soiled by other men.

3 minutes ago, Bundooman said:

Are you the Thai, "where did you get your girlfriend from police"?

If not - none of your business.

I am actually, so fess up.

Both were doing PhDs in Washington State. 

 

She was headhunted by a MNC with offices and production facilities in Thailand and has been with them ever since. 🙂

 

> Gogo, massage, beer bar or coconut bar

 

Kinda offtopic, but what's coconut bar? Sounds like fu👑 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bounty_(chocolate_bar) 555

I met my Thai wife when she was a graduate student in my home country in 1979.  We got married in 1982.  We also have two luk krung sons.  Spent 12 years living and working in Bangkok.  Unfortunately, wife passed away from brain cancer in 2005.  

Met my wife on Facebook, still married after 22 years 

1 minute ago, still kicking said:

Met my wife on Facebook, still married after 22 years 

When was Facebook available you say?

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

When was Facebook available you say?

2004 I think