Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

[Ralf001]

4 minutes ago, transam said:

If you are referring to me, it's transam, plus, your assertion is totally wrong...

it was a bar lad ?

[MalcolmB]

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I know several who behaved and moved on in life, and maybe as much as 80% of all ladies abroad is picked up in bars or from the freelance scene 

 

Maybe not 80% but a least the majority. 

 

 

I think that estimation would be on the money.

A recent poll showed about 50% of expats end up with one, the tourists have less opportunity to meet real girls on their holidays than expats and are lonely when they get back to the real world.

The girl then goes about grooming them for the long game and as often successful. 

[MalcolmB]

Just now, Ralf001 said:

it was a bar lad ?

Post op?

[quake]

19 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I know several who behaved and moved on in life, and maybe as much as 80% of all ladies abroad is picked up in bars or from the freelance scene 

 

Maybe not 80% but a least the majority. 

 

Also dependes of the punter who picks them up.

 

I would say about an 80% or more failure rate for those that take them out of Thailand.

I know of only 1 couple out 7 that are still together 15  years latter.

Some Thai's don't travel well.

 

 

[transam]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Paid the barfine?

Which I reckon you have done a zillion times. 

 

Your threads are based around bar sex stuff, you are probably getting old with no soul mate, so baiting those who do have a life is your only comfort, true, yes/no..........🤭

[transam]

2 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

it was a bar lad ?

Sorry, don't understand..........?  🤔

[MalcolmB]

1 minute ago, transam said:

Which I reckon you have done a zillion times. 

 

Your threads are based around bar sex stuff, you are probably getting old with no soul mate, so baiting those who do have a life is your only comfort, true, yes/no..........🤭

No I am having a lot of fun.

Much more fun than being shacked up in Nakon Nowhere with an elderly woman and her grandkids from another man, no really my scene.

[quake]

Some people are just easily triggered on this type of thread. 

 

[Hummin]

4 minutes ago, quake said:

 

I would say about an 80% or more failure rate for those that take them out of Thailand.

I know of only one couple out 7 that are still together 15  years latter.

Some Thai's don't travel well.

 

 

The few of them I referred to where all polite, didn't drink much or at all, and where doing some kind of sports. They had a plan and managed to get out. 

 

I never traveled with those partygirls animals crazy rude ball rubbing girls who only wanted to take you on a tour in the red-light district for more drinks.

 

I befriended a few also living in the same appartment building in my younger days , so I dare to say, not all of them are bad. 

 

I know more success stories than, bad, but I was never attached to the bar scene. Just a couple of days partying before moving on traveling. 

[Cameroni]

56 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

When you sleep with hordes of men, it affects you on a deep level.

 

Sleeping with a lot of men affects women much deeper than most people realise. 

 

Every time a woman has sex with a man she absorbs his DNA which enters her blood stream. Studies have shown that women have male DNA in their brains.

 

"Sexual intercourse involves the intimate physical union of

two individuals, and it is a means of reproduction in many

organisms, including humans. During this process, genetic

material can be exchanged between partners. The research

conducted at the University of Seattle has shed light on the

extent and significance of this genetic material transfer.

 

The study suggests that during sexual intercourse, small

amounts of DNA from one partner can be found in the 

bloodstream of the other partner. This phenomenon, known

as microchimerism, indicates that genetic material can cross

over from one individual to another. While this concept

is not entirely new, the research has provided a deeper

understanding of the extent of DNA transfer and its potential

implications (Chan et al., 2019).

 

The implications of DNA exchange through sexual intercourse

are profound. It challenges the traditional notion of genetic

individuality, as it suggests that individuals can carry traces

of DNA from their sexual partners within their own bodies.

 

The implications extend beyond individuals to their offspring as well.

        

The research suggests that the genetic material transferred during sexual intercourse could

have consequences for future generations. It opens up the possibility that DNA from previous

sexual partners may influence the genetic makeup of children conceived in subsequent

relationships."

 

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/378036105_Sexual_Intercourse_and_Genetic_Integration_A_Philosophical_Exploration_of_the_Mysteries_of_DNA

 

So if you have a bar girl who's slept with 20, 30, 40, or 50 men, she will have traces of their DNA in her brain, her blood and would pass on the DNA of these other men to your own children.

 

 

[quake]

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The few of them I referred to where all polite, didn't drink much or at all, and where doing some kind of sports. They had a plan and managed to get out. 

 

I never traveled with those partygirls animals crazy rude ball rubbing girls who only wanted to take you on a tour in the red-light district for more drinks.

 

I befriended a few also living in the same appartment building in my younger days , so I dare to say, not all of them are bad. 

 

I know more success stories than, bad, but I was never attached to the bar scene. Just a couple of days partying before moving on traveling. 

 

4 of the guys I know, have come back and done it all over again.

Just this time they ended up with right fat birds.

Got to laugh.

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Every time a woman has sex with a man she absorbs his DNA which enters her blood stream. Studies have shown that women have male DNA in their brains.

 

Stop it man.

You're creeping me out. 

 

[SAFETY FIRST]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

Generally speaking of course, there are always exceptions.

The problem is that some never seem to grow up. 

 

There's a few guys here have the same problem 😂

 

 

[SAFETY FIRST]

3 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

@save the frogs

 

No personal pics please, stay incognito. 

 

[quake]

15 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Every time a woman has sex with a man she absorbs his DNA which enters her blood stream. Studies have shown that women have male DNA in their brains.

 

Thought most of it would be found in the stomach. 

Good girl. 

[MalcolmB]

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

When you sleep with hordes of men, it affects you on a deep level.

I hope you can get over it one day.

 

But seriously I think sleeping with hordes of men THAT YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO is the next level as opposed to a girl who is a slut and sleeps with men who she wants to.

Plus men who are paying for it are not interested in the slightest about how the girl feels and they are there to provide him with his sickest fantasies that he couldn’t do with a wife or girlfriend.

[thesetat]

1 hour ago, blaze master said:

Mine is different.

For now she may seem to be different. Tell the same in 10 years ok.. When she is too old to return to her bar lifestyle.

[MalcolmB]

13 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

The problem is that some never seem to grow up. 

 

There's a few guys here have the same problem 😂

 

 

 

Says she is Korean.

[Hummin]

15 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Sleeping with a lot of men affects women much deeper than most people realise. 

 

Every time a woman has sex with a man she absorbs his DNA which enters her blood stream. Studies have shown that women have male DNA in their brains.

 

"Sexual intercourse involves the intimate physical union of

two individuals, and it is a means of reproduction in many

organisms, including humans. During this process, genetic

material can be exchanged between partners. The research

conducted at the University of Seattle has shed light on the

extent and significance of this genetic material transfer.

 

The study suggests that during sexual intercourse, small

amounts of DNA from one partner can be found in the 

bloodstream of the other partner. This phenomenon, known

as microchimerism, indicates that genetic material can cross

over from one individual to another. While this concept

is not entirely new, the research has provided a deeper

understanding of the extent of DNA transfer and its potential

implications (Chan et al., 2019).

 

The implications of DNA exchange through sexual intercourse

are profound. It challenges the traditional notion of genetic

individuality, as it suggests that individuals can carry traces

of DNA from their sexual partners within their own bodies.

 

The implications extend beyond individuals to their offspring as well.

        

The research suggests that the genetic material transferred during sexual intercourse could

have consequences for future generations. It opens up the possibility that DNA from previous

sexual partners may influence the genetic makeup of children conceived in subsequent

relationships."

 

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/378036105_Sexual_Intercourse_and_Genetic_Integration_A_Philosophical_Exploration_of_the_Mysteries_of_DNA

 

So if you have a bar girl who's slept with 20, 30, 40, or 50 men, she will have traces of their DNA in her brain, her blood and would pass on the DNA of these other men to your own children.

 

 

You are funny.

 

So if a man sleep with alot of women, he have women dna in his brain?

 

There is biomarkers on both partners for days at pe is, and vagina, woman can have male dna in brain after male pregnancy.

 

Go back and find a peer reviewed article about you remarkable study.

 

 

[MalcolmB]

18 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So if you have a bar girl who's slept with 20, 30, 40, or 50 men, she will have traces of their DNA in her brain, her blood and would pass on the DNA of these other men to your own children.

 

Very interesting research Cam and I thank you for sharing.

 

Another thing to consider is these Thai women are servicing men from around the globe so this effect would be multiplied.

[thesetat]

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So if you have a bar girl who's slept with 20, 30, 40, or 50 men, she will have traces of their DNA in her brain, her blood and would pass on the DNA of these other men to your own children

Your numbers are for each month I would assume. Most bar girls screw that many men in a month. What about those women who have worked as a bar girl/ prostitute for many years? 

Can you imagine the uncertainty of (is that baby really mine) a man would have to face getting one of those girls pregnant? 

 

It is very hard to get the bar out of the girl as well as the attraction to the quick money they can make and their bar girl friends and the excessive drinking. I am not saying it is impossible but!!! 

 

One other thing. How can you really be sure the woman is with you for real feelings towards you, rather than the fake show of liking every man that has a thick wallet and ready to share his wealth for some short time fun? She may have grown tired of showing every Tom, Dick, and Hairy she wanted them and loved then short time or long time haha.. And instead chose you to be her money support for the next few years instead. 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Generally speaking of course, there are always exceptions.

Women mostly behave the same way when presented with the same opportunities.

[BritManToo]

30 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Sleeping with a lot of men affects women much deeper than most people realise. 

 

So if you have a bar girl who's slept with 20, 30, 40, or 50 men, she will have traces of their DNA in her brain, her blood and would pass on the DNA of these other men to your own children.

Assuming a really pretty girl, 2 customers a day would seem likely, between the ages of 20 and 30, working 5 days a week, would give them 5000 partners by age 30.

 

50 would be the number for many normal women living in SEA

[impulse]

Wouldn't that be like winding back the odometer?

 

Miles is miles...

 

 

[MalcolmB]

3 minutes ago, thesetat said:

And instead chose you to be her money support for the next few years instead. 

Once they hit early thirties they start planning for phase 2 in a whore career. They are mostly dumb but they are not stupid.

[thesetat]

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Once they hit early thirties they start planning for phase 2 in a whore career. They are mostly dumb but they are not stupid.

I don't know about that... My last trip to Pattaya is seemed most women there were in their late 30s to early 50s haha... Getting fat and old and ugly already.. 

[recom273]

I think the damage is done by whatever the mother, mamasan and the girls tell her, rather the number of clients.

 

For example, I came across a guy who had to give his missus 1500B every time he had a jump, she wanted the cash to send home to her mum, she came from p2p and continued (1500 wasn’t enough, so she started on the free market too)

 

I have had problems with my wife with other Thai people getting in her ear. Just stupid things, we changed our house number because it wasn’t lucky (ff..) we already had one house number, but when returning to the “farang” wife club with the news she was told that it was unlucky and she should pay 1000B to change it. “Dont tell your husband, he doesn’t have the money and will be angry” - yes, I don’t yet qualify for a fat pension like their husbands, but the cheek to say I would be angry, so she changed the number behind my back, and then told me the story of how she felt belittled by the group of ex-bg’s.
 

We have been married for 20th ears, generally free from these situations, but there have been a couple of times like this over the past years since we moved back to Issan. Living in the south, she worked in a kindergarten, southern women tend not to see the bars as a quick way to make money, and her life was stable, being around normal working people. 
 

If people think you can take the bar out of a girl, then they must just be oblivious to the lies. 

[MalcolmB]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Assuming a really pretty girl, 2 customers a day would seem likely, between the ages of 20 and 30, working 5 days a week, would give them 5000 partners by age 30.

The prettiest girl in the bar gets 80% of the customers.

More like 6-10 per day in Soi 6.

So more like 40,000 for the prettiest ones and 60,000 if they extend the career to 35.

 

At 1,000 a pop that is 60 million baht. Not easy work, hundreds of liters of sperm,  but rewarding financially.

 

We are talking about the top 1% though.

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

When you sleep with hordes of men, it affects you on a deep level. They are not the same as normal women at all. 

 

When you sleep with hordes of women, it affects you on a deep level. They are not the same as normal men at all.

[MalcolmB]

1 minute ago, thesetat said:

I don't know about that... My last trip to Pattaya is seemed most women there were in their late 30s to early 50s haha... Getting fat and old and ugly already.. 

Because the pretty ones spend most of their time upstairs you don’t see them much.