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Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society? 141 members have voted

  1. 1. Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

    • Yes
      26%
      31
    • Mostly, if alchohol is avoided.
      10%
      13
    • You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can never take the bar out of the girl. The damage is irreversible.
      47%
      57
    • Yes, but only if they relocate to a new country, too easy to slip back in to the drugs, sex and gambling with their old friends around.
      15%
      18

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1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

 

Did you know that you might be a descendant of Genghis Khan?

 

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    Mine is different.

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    I've popped into bars and had conversations with a few. So "a few" does not constitute a scientific study.   But based on my very limited experience, I would say most of them either cannot b

  • Absolutely, but the fella who bought her from the bar also needs to remove the bar scene from his lifestyle too.   Expecting them to stay at home whilst ya go back and rail their bar friends

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17 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Men probably cheat on women more than the other way around.

Your arguments seem one-sided. 

 

 

What do you think would happen if you sign up on Thaifriendly? How many messages would you get in a day? 

 

Exactly.

 

A woman who signs up on Thaifriendly will get at least 10 messages a day. At least. A lot more if she's very good looking, the best looking ones get 100 messages PER DAY.

 

So given that you get 10 messages per month and the girls get 300 to 3000 messages per month, who do you think has more opportunity to hook up with the opposite sex?

 

BINGO! Women!

 

And do you think women also get messages on Facebook and Instagram and TikTok? Well, they do.

 

This is why women move on way faster after a break up and hook up with another guy within 2 to 4 weeks. Often less. Because they can. 

 

This is why women retain their Insta and TikTok active while they're in a relationship with you, because they are always "exploring their options". Unless you happen to have the body, the face and the income, and she knows she'can't do better than you. Then she'll be loyal. Do you have those 3? If not, I predict you are way, WAYYYYY, more likely to be cheated on than you doing the cheating. It's just harder for you, as a man.

 

In reality both men and women have the same propensity to cheat, now that church sanction and legal sanction are done away with,  it's just it is incredibly harder for a man to do so and much easier for a woman to do so.

 

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

A woman who signs up on Thaifriendly will get at least 10 messages a day. At least. A lot more if she's very good looking, the best looking ones get 100 messages PER DAY.

 

So given that you get 10 messages per month and the girls get 300 to 3000 messages per month, who do you think has more opportunity to hook up with the opposite sex?

 

A lot of men (maybe most) seem to be using Thai Friendly for casual sex hookups.

Whereas the women are looking for long-term. 

 

This may explain the disproportionate number of messages. Guy are probably sending message to as many women as possible to try get laid on there. 

 

This is according to one woman who has a profile on there. She was even propositioned as a hooker. Because the site does have some hookers. I advised her to state clearly in her profile that she is looking for marriage. 

 

 

 

4 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

This would be an 11 for instance:

 

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would like to see without the filter.. I suspect sub 5.

22 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

A lot of men (maybe most) seem to be using Thai Friendly for casual sex hookups.

Whereas the women are looking for long-term. 

 

 

Absolutely, and the women know men want sex hookups. 

 

22 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

This may explain the disproportionate number of messages. Guy are probably sending message to as many women as possible to try get laid on there. 

 

The disproportion is the result of biology. A woman has only one egg, one chance, and she therefore has to filter out the worst and only mate with the best. Men on the other hand produce millions of sperm, that's not a consideration for men, However, increased testosterone makes men have a much higher sex drive. That's why men are way thirstier and less selective than women, and will message as many women as possible, whereas women are not as thirsty, and only want the most perfect, the best male they can get. And of course their beauty acts as a bait, as men are visually attracted, and women are not to the same degree.

 

22 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

I advised her to state clearly in her profile that she is looking for marriage. 

 

It's totally outrageous what some women put in those profiles "Don't talk about sex" "No sex" "Looking for man to support me" "Looking for sugar daddy", they take sex off the table, but want everything they need. Their view is completely skewed.

16 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

would like to see without the filter.. I suspect sub 5.

 

Well, when I walk with her on the streets even women come up to her and ask her how she got her body. She's as 11 as you can get.

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

Men probably cheat on women more than the other way around.

Your arguments seem one-sided. 

Yeah, but I never managed to get a house and someone's pension out of cheating.

53 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

What do you think would happen if you sign up on Thaifriendly? How many messages would you get in a day? 

I used to get around 20 offers in the 2-3 hours I had an account open,

Then message 2-3 of the most promising women offering their services using LINE.

Only used it during COVID when the bars were closed and travel was banned.

 

Some advertised they wanted relationships, but they always agreed to an hour or two.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

It's totally outrageous what some women put in those profiles "Don't talk about sex" "No sex" "Looking for man to support me" "Looking for sugar daddy", they take sex off the table, but want everything they need. Their view is completely skewed.

 

Yeah, many of them are up front about it in their profile. They state explicitly that they want someone to support them.

But what do you expect in a country where salaries are low and good jobs are few and far between?

This is why many men get hitched up with younger women here. They know the drill and are happy to pay. 

 

Regarding sex, I think they mean they don't want to give it away for free or next to nothing. Some guys want to get laid for free. It doesn't work like that. A bar girl will hit you up for 2000 Baht and a girl on Thai Friendly will hit you up for long-term support. But guys are still trying their luck looking for free sex. 

 

 

11 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Yeah, but I never managed to get a house and someone's pension of of cheating.

 

A lot of men ruin their marriages by cheating and then the woman gets revenge and gets nasty in court.

Again, the stories on AN are one-sided since there are no women on this site. 

 

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

A lot of men ruin their marriages by cheating and then the woman gets revenge and gets nasty in court.

Again, the stories on AN are one-sided since there are no women on this site. 

My Thai wife ( 16 years so far) wasn't ever that bothered, and it was never cheating as .......

1. Thai marriage the guy only promises to protect and support, she only promises to serve.

2. She seemed to approve, and agree men should have more than 1 woman.

 

Never had other women during my 30 year Brit marriage, different marriage promise.

Looking back I wish I had been as unfaithful as her.

21 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Generally speaking of course, there are always exceptions.

 

Also, a lot of women who work in bars are alcoholics, aren't they?

Will they stop drinking if you take them out of the bar?

I don't want a woman drinker.

I went to dinner with a girl once (not a bar girl, as far as I know) and she was knocking back the drinks one after another and even admitted to drinking and driving at one point. I don't want crazy women doing stupid sh*t. 

 

Maybe a girl in a massage parlor is a better bet. They still sleep around, but at least they don't drink 365 nights a year. 

 

11 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Looking back I wish I had been as unfaithful as her.

You're amusing. Thats why we keep you around. 

 

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, when I walk with her on the streets even women come up to her and ask her how she got her body. She's as 11 as you can get.

Face is 7 tops

7 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Also, a lot of women who work in bars are alcoholics, aren't they?

Will they stop drinking if you take them out of the bar?

I don't want a woman drinker.

I went to dinner with a girl once (not a bar girl, as far as I know) and she was knocking back the drinks one after another and even admitted to drinking and driving at one point. I don't want crazy women doing stupid sh*t. 

 

Maybe a girl in a massage parlor is a better bet. They still sleep around, but at least they don't drink 365 nights a year. 

 

My wife went out with her PTA group last week (7 ladies, 1 guy) they all got completely slaughtered except my misses. She drove half of them home, the other half drove themselves home after being helped to their cars.

Arrived home around 2:30am, then complained about them getting too drunk.

21 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

women come up to her and ask her how she got her body

 

She got it from her Duh Duh Duh Daddy

 

21 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Yeah, many of them are up front about it in their profile. They state explicitly that they want someone to support them.

But what do you expect in a country where salaries are low and good jobs are few and far between?

 

I'm not shocked that women ask for financial support explicitly on TF, but if you do that, then where do you get off taking sex off the table? I don't understand the logic. You want to take everything you want, but you don't want to give anything? How is that supposed to work? Seems like a poor strategy. Obviously I never reply to profiles that say "No sex".

 

23 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Regarding sex, I think they mean they don't want to give it away for free or next to nothing

 

Probably true. They no doubt get hit up by Indians asking for free sex constantly.

29 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I used to get around 20 offers in the 2-3 hours I had an account ope

 

You're over 70! What's your secret? 

 

Professional photos? 

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

You're over 70! What's your secret? 

Professional photos? 

I suspect it was COVID, no other foreign guys around.

At the time I thought that sort of response was normal.

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3 hours ago, transam said:

Ok, after much asking, if you will not call me by my correct username I will have to do something about it......🤨

What would that be?

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2 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

There goes Malcy getting his brain and stomach mixed up...  :whistling:

what is your body count mate?

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

I suspect it was COVID, no other foreign guys around.

At the time I thought that sort of response was normal.

 

This profile got 800 matches in 48 hours, post Covid, despite the warning in the profile that he has a criminal record for roughing up his ex girlfriend.

 

 

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

My Thai wife ( 16 years so far) wasn't ever that bothered, and it was never cheating as .......

1. Thai marriage the guy only promises to protect and support, she only promises to serve.

2. She seemed to approve, and agree men should have more than 1 woman.

 

 

Where are you meeting these women? The Thai woman I've known would never accept this, not even close.

The experts on women posting on this thread are just incredible. I'm just reading fiction from men who don't have a clue about women, but writing as if they know it all. Ironic then that they have to use financial inducements to have a partner for any length of time. Their total experience is being cheated on and paying for sex. This is what shapes their whole perspective. They cannot even imagine that not everyone goes to those extremes.

How is it that they cannot believe that people can actually love, respect and take care of each other without financial inducements nor fear of infidelity?

What a life they must lead...

 

 

 

 

7 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

The experts on women posting on this thread are just incredible. I'm just reading fiction from men who don't have a clue about women, but writing as if they know it all. Ironic then that they have to use financial inducements to have a partner for any length of time. Their total experience is being cheated on and paying for sex. This is what shapes their whole perspective. They cannot even imagine that not everyone goes to those extremes.

How is it that they cannot believe that people can actually love, respect and take care of each other without financial inducements nor fear of infidelity?

What a life they must lead...

Normal Thai life as lived by the Thai men and Thai women that live around me in my middle class Thai gated community. Everyone cheats on everyone, and the women all want to be paid, whether ugly or pretty, young or old.

 

If their husbands stop giving the wives money, the wives stop having sex with the husbands.

7 hours ago, captain_shane said:

The guy is insane. He thinks 150 sex partners is normal.

 

That is indeed not normal. The average number of lifetime sexual partners for women in Thailand ranges from 2.3 to 7. Studies indicate that the average is around 2.6, with slight variations by age and location. For example, a study in rural Thailand found that the mean number of lifetime sexual partners was 2.3, while a study of Gen Y in urban areas found an average of five. 

 

One source from Psychology Today suggests that between 4-10 partners is a general average for adult men and women. 

 

Superdrug Online Doctor reported that female respondents averaged seven sexual partners during their lifetimes, while men averaged 6.4. 

 

A more recent study found that people in Thailand are the most promiscuous in Asia with an average of 10.6 sexual partners, the highest in Asia.

 

https://thethaiger.com/news/national/boom-boom-thai-people-ranked-no-1-in-asias-list-of-top-shaggers

 

Needless to say, I am somewhat above those numbers.

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

What do you think would happen if you sign up on Thaifriendly? How many messages would you get in a day? 

 

Exactly.

 

A woman who signs up on Thaifriendly will get at least 10 messages a day. At least. A lot more if she's very good looking, the best looking ones get 100 messages PER DAY.

 

So given that you get 10 messages per month and the girls get 300 to 3000 messages per month, who do you think has more opportunity to hook up with the opposite sex?

 

BINGO! Women!

 

And do you think women also get messages on Facebook and Instagram and TikTok? Well, they do.

 

This is why women move on way faster after a break up and hook up with another guy within 2 to 4 weeks. Often less. Because they can. 

 

This is why women retain their Insta and TikTok active while they're in a relationship with you, because they are always "exploring their options". Unless you happen to have the body, the face and the income, and she knows she'can't do better than you. Then she'll be loyal. Do you have those 3? If not, I predict you are way, WAYYYYY, more likely to be cheated on than you doing the cheating. It's just harder for you, as a man.

 

In reality both men and women have the same propensity to cheat, now that church sanction and legal sanction are done away with,  it's just it is incredibly harder for a man to do so and much easier for a woman to do so.

 

I have meet some ladies in thai friendly. Many offer camsex for payment there.All ages.I meet 2 in Bangkok and of course they worked in a bar.Some there so stupid they posted pics from their village and wery often one of the pics is taken in the bar they working on.Anyway its good to know for me.I haven't been online there for a month because i get some Line id or WhatsApp and some msg everyday sending pics and some block me after i say i don't want to listen to their problems.Allways its a money issue.Im happy to being single and im not interested in a relationship.

No obligations after a funny nigth.

 

 

17 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I believe she still wanted sex.

Ran off with the gardener.

 

Common or garden hoe? 

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

If their husbands stop giving the wives money, the wives stop having sex with the husbands.

 

Why would they stop giving the wife money?

Is it because they're spending money on other women? 

Then what to do you expect? 

 

49 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Why would they stop giving the wife money?

Is it because they're spending money on other women? 

Then what to do you expect? 

I thought the forum consensus was women should earn their own money, and nobody here gave them money.

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