I have a newish drinking buddy.

Aged mid fifties, from the USA, good guy, very generous tipper, lives here most of the year.

 

One habit of his that I personally find a bit off putting is when he buys ladydrinks he doesn’t just go for a little fondle, he goes for a full on passionate kiss. Sometimes for minutes at a time like a teenager.

 

It isn’t just me that finds it a bit hard watch, other drinkers and the other bargirls find it a bit unsettling also.

He doesn’t go off in a corner with a bit of discretion either, usually starts making out right where we are drinking.

I think the only reason why they reciprocate is because he tips so well.

He likes them around the 20-23 year old age. 

 

I have tried to put him off by mentioning that they have just got back from a blow bang with 8 Indians etc  but there is no stopping him when he gets in the mood.

 

I am being too precious or is it a bit off.

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I have a newish drinking buddy.

Aged mid fifties, from the USA, good guy, very generous tipper, lives here most of the year.

 

One habit of his that I personally find a bit off putting is when he buys ladydrinks he doesn’t just go for a little fondle, he goes for a full on passionate kiss. Sometimes for minutes at a time like a teenager.

 

It isn’t just me that finds it a bit hard watch, other drinkers and the other bargirls find it a bit unsettling also.

He doesn’t go off in a corner with a bit of discretion either, usually starts making out right where we are drinking.

I think the only reason why they reciprocate is because he tips so well.

He likes them around the 20-23 year old age. 

 

I have tried to put him off by mentioning that they have just got back from a blow bang with 8 Indians etc  but there is no stopping him when he gets in the mood.

 

I am being too precious or is it a bit off.

Maybe he likes the added flavours

You think too much about the actions of others.

You no doubt enjoy a bit of tongue from your ladyboy partners

 

6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

It isn’t just me that finds it a bit hard watch, other drinkers and the other bargirls find it a bit unsettling also.

 

They will kiss, but I suspect only in the expectation of a decent return for their efforts.

 

I get the impression kissing is not really "a thing" amongst Thais in the same way as it is with Westerners.

 

I would feel exactly the same as you.......not really the done thing.

9 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

being too precious or is it a bit off.

Well every bargirl is a bit off

30 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I have a newish drinking buddy.

Aged mid fifties, from the USA, good guy, very generous tipper, lives here most of the year.

 

One habit of his that I personally find a bit off putting is when he buys ladydrinks he doesn’t just go for a little fondle, he goes for a full on passionate kiss. Sometimes for minutes at a time like a teenager.

 

It isn’t just me that finds it a bit hard watch, other drinkers and the other bargirls find it a bit unsettling also.

He doesn’t go off in a corner with a bit of discretion either, usually starts making out right where we are drinking.

I think the only reason why they reciprocate is because he tips so well.

He likes them around the 20-23 year old age. 

 

I have tried to put him off by mentioning that they have just got back from a blow bang with 8 Indians etc  but there is no stopping him when he gets in the mood.

 

I am being too precious or is it a bit off.

Let's hope he hasn't got stinking breath, poor bar girls

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Let's hope he hasn't got stinking breath, poor bar girls

He is neat and tidy and has good teeth.

 

But still.

29 minutes ago, Grumpy one said:

You no doubt enjoy a bit of tongue from your ladyboy partners

Are you gay?

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Are you gay?

Don't think kissing men that look like women counts as gay.

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Don't think kissing men that look like women counts as gay.

The 4th time it is. Ask Bob.

You are kissing a man. It counts as gay. You know it's gay.

Maybe

2 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

You are kissing a man. It counts as gay. You know it's gay.

Just simply thinking about it makes it so.

3 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

You are kissing a man. It counts as gay. You know it's gay.

What's wrong with being gay?

Best gaytime ever

36 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

I get the impression kissing is not really "a thing" amongst Thais in the same way as it is with Westerners.

 

Very true. Probably because the parents so often have to work so hard or are completely absent, that they don't see it at home.

 

Having said that, if you're a man, to escalate to kissing is perfectly sensible. Especially if you're paying.

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

What's wrong with being gay?

Did someone imply something is wrong with you?

Most Thai girls dont like it, they don't mind it at the other end though

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

What's wrong with being gay?

 He never said anything wrong about being gay, so don't worry........😘

4 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

What's wrong with being gay?

It hurts

1 minute ago, novacova said:

Did someone imply something is wrong with you?

Do you want a bite of my gaytime?

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Best gaytime ever

That ice cream does look gay.

Looks like it came out of a bum.

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

It hurts

What hurts?

9 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

You are kissing a man. It counts as gay. You know it's gay.

Is it still gay if you thought it was a woman you were kissing?

14 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Don't think kissing men that look like women counts as gay.

Kissing Ladyboys.

It isn’t the Lady part it is the boy part that makes it gay.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

What hurts?

Being gay.

Just now, MalcolmB said:

That ice cream does look gay.

Looks like it came out of a bum.

Best seller in the 80s prior to AIDS outbreak

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Is it still gay if you thought it was a woman you were kissing?

Yes

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Kissing Ladyboys.

It isn’t the Lady part it is the boy part that makes it gay.

Ever kissed a male relative?