9 hours ago, hotsun said:

Alphas have no need to be in Asia, as betas do quite well here if they choose to have high standards, which many do not

They do if they like asians and don't want to live in globohomo western cities.

18 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

I'm not knocking Gov hospitals, yeah I am kind of. People camping out under stair wells, in hallways is not my thing. I'm soo glad I have excellent health Ins. 

You implied I was forcing my GF to look after me.

 

In Thailand, there are no visiting hours in hospitals, The nursing staff clears out everyone at 10 am while the doctors make their rounds,. Everyone is back by 11, or thereabouts.

 

Looking after family members in hospital is simply accepted custom in Thailand.

 

I have top level private health cover in Australia. Hospitals there have limited visiting hours, and are far more impersonal. One is just a slab of meat in that system.

53 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Moderators get to tell me to watch my mouth. You don't.

 

Assuming your post is truthful, doesn't its content contradict your description of an alpha male?

 

Of corse it's true. Every word of it.

 

I wouldn't risk defamation charges for my wife or her family to post such a lie. I am not you.

 

Maybe you'll find out calling other posters wife a prostitute.

 

 

12 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

You implied I was forcing my GF to look after me.

 

In Thailand, there are no visiting hours in hospitals, The nursing staff clears out everyone at 10 am while the doctors make their rounds,. Everyone is back by 11, or thereabouts.

 

Looking after family members in hospital is simply accepted custom in Thailand.

 

I have top level private health cover in Australia. Hospitals there have limited visiting hours, and are far more impersonal. One is just a slab of meat in that system.

Looking after family members is a custom because most people go to Gov hospitals, and it's necessary. I would gladly pay 40K for Bangkok Hospital vs a Gov hospital.

 

Everyone is different, I don't like people doting over me like I'm an invalid. And you bragging about having your lady cutting your toenails, to me is nauseating. 

All right.....The digital scales of justice demand balance. I am downvoting every post i dont like.

19 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

 

 

Everyone is different, I don't like people doting over me like I'm an invalid. And you bragging about having your lady cutting your toenails, to me is nauseating. 

For someone who served in the military, that statement is pretty snowflake.

18 minutes ago, Celsius said:

All right.....The digital scales of justice demand balance. I am downvoting every post i dont like.

I will try not to cry myself to sleep tonight.

1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

For someone who served in the military, that statement is pretty snowflake.

Snowflake? Really? 

 

I wouldn't want anyone I cared about sleeping on the floor of a hospital or cutting my toenails. But, then I'm not an invalid.

3 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

And the evidence your girlfriend isn’t a hooker or BJ shop specialist?

 

The word of a leftist isn’t proof.  

Ah, the magic word leftist.

 

Living rent-free in your head. Although the furnishings are quite sparse.

All these sexy ladies tell me I fit perfectly. 

10 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Tell me, what would any woman you are with do for you? Assuming you even have one.

 

As usual, you have no idea what you are talking about.

Ignore him.

 

58 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

Snowflake? Really? 

 

I wouldn't want anyone I cared about sleeping on the floor of a hospital or cutting my toenails. But, then I'm not an invalid.

I have been told by a physio I am in the top 10% of people in my age cohort, for exercise level and fitness. BMI 23.5. BP 115/60, pulse 60 bpm. No meds.

 

Don't bruise yourself jumping to conclusions.

47 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

All these sexy ladies tell me I fit perfectly. 

I'm sure you do. Thais are not known for large members.

12 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

No wonder she is doing the nightly Buddha, don't take him yet, the bills aren't paid prayer.

What is wrong with you?

6 hours ago, Lacessit said:

You want to claim you don't?

No but many guys aren't honest enough to admit they are paying for long term girlfriends or wives

4 hours ago, Will27 said:

Ignore him.

 

Another sniper for my list of @rseholes.

In Isaan..........could be looking at omega.

24 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

No but many guys aren't honest enough to admit they are paying for long term girlfriends or wives

…& many guys don’t have the ability or patience to find a long term girlfriend or wife that’s not a beggar.

14 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

The fact that she worked for international company in Thailand and she saved her own money to apply for a visa to Canada.

 

Also one of her family members is an ex ambassador to Germany. Connect the dots and watch your mouth 🙂

I must say she got a jack pot meeting you 

17 hours ago, Celsius said:

This is the unvarnished "reality" of how women engage with men for sex, categorized into two utterly distinct, and rather depressing, tiers.

The Alpha: The Chosen One

Behold, the Alpha: genetically

blessed, effortlessly charismatic, and utterly devoid of the need to try. He gets sex because he exists. Women, in this charming fairy tale, simply want him for him, no strings attached, no effort required. He's the guy who farts and still gets a date; you, meanwhile, meticulously plan a romantic gesture and get left on read.

 

The Beta: The Disposable Utility

Then there's the Beta: kind, supportive, and utterly devoid of that elusive "it" factor. He gets sex only after proving his worth, laying out his resume of stability and emotional availability. Women want him for what he can provide, not who he is. He's the human ATM, the emotional support animal, the guy who fixes things – anything but the object of raw desire.

The Inevitable Disparity: Why You're Losing

Here's the kicker: Alphas get the red-carpet treatment, demanded nothing in return for sexual favors. Betas get the interrogation room, forced to jump through endless hoops before even a pity glance. Alpha sex is a passionate, immediate explosion; Beta sex is a reluctant chore, delayed and devoid of enthusiasm.

 

The "Temporal Cuckoldry": Your Grim Fate

So, if you're not an Alpha, you're living in "temporal cuckoldry." You're getting the absolute bottom-of-the-barrel sex despite pouring your soul (and probably your wallet) into the relationship. It's paying for a five-star meal and getting a stale cracker. Because, clearly, the ease and quality of your sexual conquests are the only metrics of a man's worth.
Feeling more enlightened or just ready to embrace nihilism?

 

Actually, the Alpha male also only gets sex after he proves his worth. The difference is that he's already proven his worth, because he is in the top spot of the hierarchy, but he got there by showing empathy, kindness, competence and generally being admired, so he is granted the top spot in the hierarchy.

 

And of course women don't want the Alpha just "for him", they want him because he is the top of the hierarchy and this brings privileges of many kinds. However, history is littered with the stories of Alpha males who were discarded by women, Elvis Presley, Cary Grant, Don Frye, Tom Brady, the list is endless. 

 

Just being an Alpha doesn't guarantee you'll be winning. It's the other way around, if you win and get top spot, you become the Alpha. However, as sure as there's taxes and prayers in Church, the Alpha will have been an incel at some point of his life, an involuntary celibate, and some woman will have rebuffed his sexual advances. Ultimately others decide who is Alpha, mostly women, and an Alpha will be both an Alpha and a Beta in his lifetime. Indeed you can be an Alpha and a Beta at the same time, depending on how two women see you.

 

Otherwise your post is accurate.

16 hours ago, hotsun said:

Alphas have no need to be in Asia, as betas do quite well here if they choose to have high standards, which many do not

So tell me the needs of an Alpha and why he do not need to be in Thailand ? 

 

Those Alphas I have met here, they have a good stable life with family and business. 

 

Im wondering what some of you lays in a alpha male and which criteria’s there is. 

 

As far Im concerned a Alpha male is one who succeeds with what he does, take control and also a person who other listens to and are a good leader. 

5 hours ago, Will27 said:

Ignore him.

 

If that was directed at me, I was actually trying to tell you to avoid Celsius.

I have a Thai partner too who also takes care of me (hospitals and all) I am neither alpha nor Beta - just a lucky man. 

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

So tell me the needs of an Alpha and why he do not need to be in Thailand ? 

 

Those Alphas I have met here, they have a good stable life with family and business. 

 

Im wondering what some of you lays in a alpha male and which criteria’s there is. 

 

As far Im concerned a Alpha male is one who succeeds with what he does, take control and also a person who other listens to and are a good leader. 

No, thats not what an alpha is. Theres a few posters here who claim that they are alpha because they can pick up Thai girls with no money involved. If they were really alpha then they wouldn't be here. It's a country of betas

22 minutes ago, Will27 said:

If that was directed at me, I was actually trying to tell you to avoid Celsius.

My apologies, I thought it was directed at me.

 

You can call me no-toes.

15 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

As far Im concerned a Alpha male is one who succeeds with what he does, take control and also a person who other listens to and are a good leader. 

I don't consider myself an alpha male. 

 

I mostly succeed at what I do. I am in control of my finances and health.

 

However, I have no desire to control others.

 

I can't say I was a good leader when I was in management. I mentored the people who were going somewhere. OTOH, the slackers hated me. I was far more comfortable in a non-supervisory role.

 

Pigeonholes are for pigeons.

He be proud of his wife. Countless posts have shown that. Good luck in Canada eh. I needed to escape the Australian winter for a while. Don't want to hack it for too long nowadays. 

41 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Actually, the Alpha male also only gets sex after he proves his worth. The difference is that he's already proven his worth, because he is in the top spot of the hierarchy, but he got there by showing empathy, kindness, competence and generally being admired, so he is granted the top spot in the hierarchy.

 

And of course women don't want the Alpha just "for him", they want him because he is the top of the hierarchy and this brings privileges of many kinds. However, history is littered with the stories of Alpha males who were discarded by women, Elvis Presley, Cary Grant, Don Frye, Tom Brady, the list is endless. 

 

Just being an Alpha doesn't guarantee you'll be winning. It's the other way around, if you win and get top spot, you become the Alpha. However, as sure as there's taxes and prayers in Church, the Alpha will have been an incel at some point of his life, an involuntary celibate, and some woman will have rebuffed his sexual advances. Ultimately others decide who is Alpha, mostly women, and an Alpha will be both an Alpha and a Beta in his lifetime. Indeed you can be an Alpha and a Beta at the same time, depending on how two women see you.

 

Otherwise your post is accurate.

There does seem to be a certain type of woman who are attracted to violence and danger. You can see them at the ringside of fights, cawing for blood. Or on the arms of known criminals.

 

I can still remember a quite beautiful slim woman with a skin that looked like it would bruise if slapped with a feather. She was married to a former boxer with cauliflower ears and a squashed  nose, who was built like a truck.

 

I was quite surprised she wore the pants in the relationship.

1 hour ago, hotsun said:

No, thats not what an alpha is. Theres a few posters here who claim that they are alpha because they can pick up Thai girls with no money involved. If they were really alpha then they wouldn't be here. It's a country of betas

I think you are fare out there in your own head spinning around. 

 

No matter what you think an Alpha is, it is a man who attracts women with good qualities no matter they bring their family from overseas or they find a woman here and become successful here in Thailand. 

 

I must say you have a very limited view on the world and how things really are, and generalized expats to be of one quality only. 

 

If you succeed with life, business and family and have respect among your own as well your friends, and they follow you and also listening to what you have to say, you are an Alpha. 

 

But you are right, you can not fake being alpha, even some psychopaths thinks they can do one way or the other. 

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

I think you are fare out there in your own head spinning around. 

 

No matter what you think an Alpha is, it is a man who attracts women with good qualities no matter they bring their family from overseas or they find a woman here and become successful here in Thailand. 

 

I must say you have a very limited view on the world and how things really are, and generalized expats to be of one quality only. 

 

If you succeed with life, business and family and have respect among your own as well your friends, and they follow you and also listening to what you have to say, you are an Alpha. 

 

But you are right, you can not fake being alpha, even some psychopaths thinks they can do one way or the other. 

Successful doesn't make someone alpha. Again with your holier than thou persona. You don't know more than everyone else. You are wrong quite often