August 23, 2025Aug 23 12 hours ago, DonniePeverley said: Utter nonsense. Women of course want security from their man. But most women in the west (till childbirth at least) are working. Yeah, but its all about Keeping Up With the Joneses. Married couples all go to social gatherings and compare to see which couple has the nicest house, car, fancy vacations. If you dont have a good salary, it will be hard to find a decent wife as women do not like to date down and are comparing themselves to what their friends are getting. And there are endless things to spend money on, including lavish vacations. And if you don't have the coin, it will limit your options. I've had some lean years where I was broke. I didn't even bother trying to find a girlfriend then.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 Popular Post 1 hour ago, cdemundo said: Another person who can't see the transactional nature of relationships between men and women in the west. Payments are structured differently but are essentially the same thing. Spoken by the unloved and loveless. For you - Payments are structured differently but are essentially the same thing.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 Bar girls... The unwashed and unloved. One thing that strikes me about these women I was thinking recently is that if not for bad luck they'd have no luck at all. With few exceptions these sorts of individuals careen thru life damaging everything they touch. They make so many bad decisions that some excellent advice for them is whatever they think they should do - do the opposite !! Their lack of education and critical thinking skills is just ruinous for their lives. Then they get to the point of not even trying. That's when it all falls apart. Many have been abused as well. Crap relationship, parents, former husband, worthless kids (not always). A bar girl can be a companion, but never a good wife imo. There will always be numerous trust issues.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 2 hours ago, KhaoHom said: Some could be redeemable with strict rules although marriage... Why?!!? Guarantee yourself genital herpes, HPV. Warts? She has good chance of cervical cancer. You paying dat bro? I was just in a pub the other day on lower Sukhumvit and was thinking about the future a bit. Staff in general are hard working. Usually there are quotas The drinks girls are absolutely worthless. Absolutely no talent, skills, assets. Work ethic is crap. They cling to these drinks jobs absolutely as long as possible - well into their 50s. Many quite frumpy and overweight. Their sad lounge dresses are in tatters. I'm lost as to where they get their livelihood from. Their ages alone preclude them from any employer paid job. Funny thing is they just sit about in the pubs, lounge around in front of bj bars not a care in the world. Many expats do the same
August 23, 2025Aug 23 48 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said: Why have a bar girl when the west have so many ethical young woman available. I'm sure this girl understands kind generosity. 😂😂😂😂 I’m truly delighted that her life is rich with diversity. It brings a vibrant array of experiences and perspectives that can profoundly shape her journey.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 55 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said: If she’s Australian, not many blacks down there I would imagine unless she’s referring to Abos. I was told they’re referred to as “darkies”. AFL loves that attitude, you dumb cluk!
August 23, 2025Aug 23 3 minutes ago, Olmate said: AFL loves that attitude, you dumb cluk! Whst part of my statement was false? What does AFL stand for? American Football League?
August 23, 2025Aug 23 4 hours ago, Kyoto Kyle said: Years spent in the nightlife definitely changes people. When every smile, every touch, and every late-night conversation is tied to money, it’s hard not to see the rest of the world through that lens. Men become walking wallets. Kindness gets taken fully for granted and becomes an expected obligation. Generosity starts to look less like caring and more like payment. So what happens when one of those women leaves the bar scene and settles down with a man who once sat on the other side of it with his wallet out? Does she ever learn to see his gestures as real acts of affection and caring, or is it always filtered through the old rules of the game? Some might believe the mindset never fades. Others assume people can reset, that love or stability changes the way you see things. The reality is, there’s no clear answer. Some people will argue it’s impossible to shake off years of conditioning, others might say people are capable of change if they want it badly enough. Perhaps it depends less on the past and more on what kind of future both people are trying to pursue. Or maybe it’s just one of those uncomfortable truths of the nightlife world, you can leave the bar, but the bar never fully leaves you. You definitely need to go out more.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 Popular Post 33 minutes ago, KhaoHom said: Bar girls... The unwashed and unloved. One thing that strikes me about these women I was thinking recently is that if not for bad luck they'd have no luck at all. With few exceptions these sorts of individuals careen thru life damaging everything they touch. They make so many bad decisions that some excellent advice for them is whatever they think they should do - do the opposite !! Their lack of education and critical thinking skills is just ruinous for their lives. Then they get to the point of not even trying. That's when it all falls apart. Many have been abused as well. Crap relationship, parents, former husband, worthless kids (not always). A bar girl can be a companion, but never a good wife imo. There will always be numerous trust issues. I feel sorry for them as well. i was just talking to a beautiful 24 year old but I could sense something was a bit off for her. So she tells me her sister works as a bar girl. I say, aha, and she never took you to the bar? And she replies "Yes, but I'm afraid. I know nobody likes bar girls". So what really happened is that she's the one working in the bar, but she knows guys won't like to hear that, so she says her sister works in a bar to test the waters. They know men don't like bar girls. They know it. You have to feel sorry for them.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 Popular Post 27 minutes ago, Cameroni said: I feel sorry for them as well. i was just talking to a beautiful 24 year old but I could sense something was a bit off for her. So she tells me her sister works as a bar girl. I say, aha, and she never took you to the bar? And she replies "Yes, but I'm afraid. I know nobody likes bar girls". So what really happened is that she's the one working in the bar, but she knows guys won't like to hear that, so she says her sister works in a bar to test the waters. They know men don't like bar girls. They know it. You have to feel sorry for them. I love bar girls, where are all these men that don't like them? First one I moved in with had a degree in marketing.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 4 hours ago, Olmate said: Another newbie attempt at a topic of thai bashing! What were you in your former life! Gamma
August 23, 2025Aug 23 1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said: It just popped up on my Facebook page, I don't remember what site but thought it was worthy of posting here on AN FORUM A Russian bargirl in Pattaya 5555. Good luck.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 4 hours ago, Olmate said: Another newbie attempt at a topic of thai bashing! What were you in your former life! Not really Thai bashing. Most Thais are not prostitutes. Although a recent poll did show about half of the members of this forum are with them so the view here is a bit skewed compared to the general population. More of a slut shaming topic than thai bashing. Very relevant to this forum, there wouldn’t be too many members with no experience of the bargirl scene. My personal view is many of them don’t try to hide their former life and continue to act like a bargirl all their life. Many are still bargirls at heart and they have married a customer so have gone from a casual position to more of a full time role. I doubt any of them actually love the customer, but are ok with the life he gives her. Until the money runs out of course. Some do try to pretend but after about the third drink they revert back into work mode and blow their cover. Most of them have resentment, which can also come out after a few drinks. They are very skilled in the art of love making. They have seen it all. Where did you meet your girl Olmate? In a bar?
August 23, 2025Aug 23 8 minutes ago, MalcolmB said: I doubt any of them actually love the customer, but are ok with the life he gives her. I doubt there's any woman that loves a guy she's been with for two years. It's always the same after two years the sex stops.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 5 hours ago, Kyoto Kyle said: So what happens when one of those women leaves the bar scene and settles down with a man who once sat on the other side of it with his wallet out? Easy way to find out would be to open a joint account.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 20 minutes ago, BritManToo said: I doubt there's any woman that loves a guy she's been with for two years. It's always the same after two years the sex stops. Oh dear, if you think that, perhaps you should take a loooooong good look at yourself......
August 23, 2025Aug 23 1 hour ago, Cameroni said: You have to feel sorry for them. No you don't lol. These women are just lazy and want easy money. It's a lot easier to lay on your back and make 1-2k than it is to work 50 hours at a hotel. Feel sorry for the women who have to migrate from Burma to come here and clean toilets. Or the men who have to work construction all day and can't get down on their knees and give a quick blowie for 500 baht.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 Is that you bob smith with a new moniker? It fits all of the checks: New account. Almost no activity. Fixation on bar girls. Highly patronizing.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 11 minutes ago, captain_shane said: No you don't lol. These women are just lazy and want easy money. It's a lot easier to lay on your back and make 1-2k than it is to work 50 hours at a hotel. Feel sorry for the women who have to migrate from Burma to come here and clean toilets. Or the men who have to work construction all day and can't get down on their knees and give a quick blowie for 500 baht. Of course they are lazy and want easy money. And yes they get it. But at what price? They know 80% percent of the population, excluding BritManToo mercifully, look down on them and ostracise them. Thailand is not like the UK where Bonnie Blue can make 24 million GBP a year by doing gangbangs and many accept and admire her, in Thailand bar girls are very much viewed with disdain and disgust by most people. Even if BritManToo loves them dearly. And indeed, I do feel sorry for all the people who have no way to escape poverty. If I had Bezos' money I'd give them all 100,000 baht, though that would probably cause massive inflation.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 3 minutes ago, connda said: Is that you bob smith with a new moniker? It fits all of the checks: New account. Almost no activity. Fixation on bar girls. Highly patronizing. Welcome Kyle. We are all new at some stage. Nice to get fresh members.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 2 hours ago, Cameroni said: I feel sorry for them as well. i was just talking to a beautiful 24 year old but I could sense something was a bit off for her. So she tells me her sister works as a bar girl. I say, aha, and she never took you to the bar? And she replies "Yes, but I'm afraid. I know nobody likes bar girls". So what really happened is that she's the one working in the bar, but she knows guys won't like to hear that, so she says her sister works in a bar to test the waters. They know men don't like bar girls. They know it. You have to feel sorry for them. I have no problem with them. Each one is an individual so I take it from there. Some are good good , some aren’t. No different than regular girls and in some ways much better. What other think of me is none of my business. Same with the girls. I’ve witnessed bar girls mingle with regular girls. Not a problem.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 27 minutes ago, MalcolmB said: Welcome Kyle. We are all new at some stage. Nice to get fresh members. Haven't you been 'new' a few times on here......?
August 23, 2025Aug 23 5 minutes ago, transam said: Haven't you been 'new' a few times on here......? You old timers are always jaded against anyone new. Why is that?
August 23, 2025Aug 23 5 hours ago, bkk6060 said: Not all, but many love the bar scene. Getting attention, drinking, playing with friends, gambling, having sex with different men. The longer they are working in this scene the harder it is to adjust to settling down with one dude. I guess the secret is to not go with a bargirl, or get one who has not been working too long and is not tainted. Otherwise, it could be a tough go. My exwife worked in a bar in Pattaya.Ger married 11 years.. now divorced 8 years.She and our kids moved to my country 18 years ago.Still live here...my daughter is a nurse..my son study national safety at University. All my kids family working in a bar in Pattaya selling the p..y.My exwife cousin f is a really hot girls..age 23. She allways stearing at ne and play her tongue.Yes i had sex with her.Crazy in bed.I meet a lady age 49 in her shop in Bangkok.Big store.We went to ger backstage start crazy kissing and she get so wet she had to change her pants. Still my favorite last.She is thai-chinese.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 1 hour ago, MalcolmB said: Not really Thai bashing. Most Thais are not prostitutes. Although a recent poll did show about half of the members of this forum are with them so the view here is a bit skewed compared to the general population. More of a slut shaming topic than thai bashing. Very relevant to this forum, there wouldn’t be too many members with no experience of the bargirl scene. My personal view is many of them don’t try to hide their former life and continue to act like a bargirl all their life. Many are still bargirls at heart and they have married a customer so have gone from a casual position to more of a full time role. I doubt any of them actually love the customer, but are ok with the life he gives her. Until the money runs out of course. Some do try to pretend but after about the third drink they revert back into work mode and blow their cover. Most of them have resentment, which can also come out after a few drinks. They are very skilled in the art of love making. They have seen it all. Where did you meet your girl Olmate? In a bar? Mmmm Mal come, malfunction methinks.... Massage lady manager my missus, beats bargirl business by miles Mal.! 🤣
August 23, 2025Aug 23 2 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said: Whst part of my statement was false? What does AFL stand for? American Football League? Racist ignoramus post, ru.flaming as well white yankee doodle?
August 23, 2025Aug 23 4 hours ago, TedG said: i'd wager you are frumpy and overweight. If I thought you had any money, I'd be happy to wager any sum you want. Heck, I'd even spot you 100 lbs on the bench press at the gym, and I'd still crush whatever you can lift. In fact, pick two other MAGAnistas and I'll let you combine your PBs, and I'll still out lift you. I'm a totally natty guy, too. I know MAGAs tend toward obesity and lack of muscular definition. They think imitation (of their messiah) is the sincerest form of flattery.
August 23, 2025Aug 23 Popular Post 2 minutes ago, Wingate said: If I thought you had any money, I'd be happy to wager any sum you want. Heck, I'd even spot you 100 lbs on the bench press at the gym, and I'd still crush whatever you can lift. In fact, pick two other MAGAnistas and I'll let you combine your PBs, and I'll still out lift you. I'm a totally natty guy, too. I know MAGAs tend toward obesity and lack of muscular definition. They think imitation (of their messiah) is the sincerest form of flattery. Pleasure to have you back Walker.
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