When you first meet a Farang man with a Thai girlfriend or wife do you automatically think/assume they probably met in the “nightlife industry?”

 

I do until proven otherwise. 
 

It is probably wrong in some way but I would be lying if I said I didn’t.

 

Other red flags are a big age gap, big attractiveness gap, if the male is fat and bald, if she has tattoos, if she is from Issan, if she drinks alcohol, if she makes sexual type jokes, if she doesn’t have a job.

 

 

You can usually immediately tell :

The woman has tattoos . 

Died hair .

Her speaking English ability revolves round bar topics .

She suggests having a beer at 4 PM

Has a filthy laugh when saying "I go with you *filthy laught*............to the shops"

Thinks the woman across the road is taking yaba 

Has three different coloured kids 

Goes to sleep wearing make-up

Honestly, and this may upset some, if she has tattoos clearly on view, then YES I do.😀

 

 

 

The age gap one is a dead giveaway. I could care less if you are with an ex ho....fill your boots. Good for you if it makes you happy.

 

But let's pretend she is with you for the multitude of things she shares in common with someone old enough to be her father.

No. Thai women who hook up with foreigners come from a wide cross-section of society - bar girls, caddies, massage ladies, 7/11 workers, nurses.

 

I do agree with Charlie H tattoos tend to lend to a bar girl ID.

24 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

Her speaking English ability revolves round bar topics .

Yeah, that is probably the dead giveaway.

No matter what one may say to convince one's self, society is still biaised. 

 

Any foreigner in Thailand who sees another foreigner with a Thai lady will usually assume that the lady was previously an escort or a bar girl. Wrongfully for sure, but that's how it is. 

27 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

Has three different coloured kids 

That is funny

I think this has regional implications....

We live about 25k outside of CM....

I check out t/f couples I happen to see....Most do not exhibit traits, looks, actions I'd associate as a bar girl.....

 

Now, if I lived in Patts or Bkk my answer would be different....

 

7 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Yeah, that is probably the dead giveaway.

 

   When you tell her you went on a visa run and had to pay 500 Baht a day overstay fine to Immigration  and she looks at you excitedly and says

  "Immigration pay your bar fine 500 Baht a day "

"How I get that ? "

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

When you first meet a Farang man with a Thai girlfriend or wife do you automatically think/assume they probably met in the “nightlife industry?”

 

I do until proven otherwise. 
 

It is probably wrong in some way but I would be lying if I said I didn’t.

 

Other red flags are a big age gap, big attractiveness gap, if the male is fat and bald, if she has tattoos, if she is from Issan, if she drinks alcohol, if she makes sexual type jokes, if she doesn’t have a job.

 

 

Honestly, who do not meet in the nightlife world today, yesterday or 59 years ago? 

 

What you may ask, did you pay her up front or next morning? 

 

Some very few meet at work or through business travels, be it translator, coordinator, sport activities, restaurants, 

 

Occasionally meets at any situation where contacts being exchanged. 

 

The truth is, most girls and women who meets foreigners somehow have experience from before in one way or the other. 

 

Again Malcolm, your obsession with hookers is abnormal 🙌👏

39 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

You can usually immediately tell :

The woman has tattoos . 

Died hair .

Her speaking English ability revolves round bar topics .

She suggests having a beer at 4 PM

Has a filthy laugh when saying "I go with you *filthy laught*............to the shops"

Thinks the woman across the road is taking yaba 

Has three different coloured kids 

Goes to sleep wearing make-up

 

 

Well good evening Mrs Carter. How are you.

14 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

No. Thai women who hook up with foreigners come from a wide cross-section of society - bar girls, caddies, massage ladies, 7/11 workers, nurses.

 

I do agree with Charlie H tattoos tend to lend to a bar girl ID.

There is quite a few show ladies who marketing diverse products connecting to motorsport and lifestyle products who are heavily tattooed, but I will say they have more artistic tattoos more like Japanese style. 

 

There is differences when it comes to type and style of tattoos.

 

A butterfly 🦋 on the tit, often gives it away

 

 

Dodged a bullet.

 

Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, no tattoos, no piercings, no kids......main obsession is politics.

44 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

You can usually immediately tell :

The woman has tattoos . 

Died hair .

Her speaking English ability revolves round bar topics .

She suggests having a beer at 4 PM

Has a filthy laugh when saying "I go with you *filthy laught*............to the shops"

Thinks the woman across the road is taking yaba 

Has three different coloured kids 

Goes to sleep wearing make-up

Do you describe somebody very near to you????🤗

Just now, newbee2022 said:

Do you describe somebody very near to you????🤗

 

Beat you

1 minute ago, newbee2022 said:

Do you describe somebody very near to you????🤗

 

   Why do you need to be horrible and abusive ?

Why do you need to start a fight ?

Why not just have a laugh and enjoy the thread ?

Why the need to have a confrontation and make it personal ?

Of course people will think she was an ex bar girl who hit the jackpot. Mostly it's the expats and foreigners in Thailand who would think so. 

I assume nothing.

 

First, I check her chromosomes.

 

Note:  And then, I check his.

1 minute ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Why do you need to be horrible and abusive ?

Why do you need to start a fight ?

Why not just have a laugh and enjoy the thread ?

Why the need to have a confrontation and make it personal ?

Your reply makes no sense..

Where is there a fight or confrontation? I think you've mis taken me.

Please explain.

Oh, look, another bar girl topic. Thank goodness. The Community Pub was running low on the subject. Where is Bob when you really need him, FFS?

5 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Why do you need to be horrible and abusive ?

Why do you need to start a fight ?

Why not just have a laugh and enjoy the thread ?

Why the need to have a confrontation and make it personal ?

Obviously you make it personal for those who for your descriptions of a hooker. 

17 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Dodged a bullet.

 

Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, no tattoos, no piercings, no kids......main obsession is politics.

 

Same here, and do not swear or use bad language 

 

Politics? She just wished Prayuth back today, when I told her the news about Thaksin was fired. 

 

I hope not, but seems some thais welcome back a new coup. They are tired of Thaksin family now, and this is Isaan people who used to love Thaksin 

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

Same here, and do not swear or use bad language 

 

Politics? She just wished Prayuth back today, when I told her the news about Thaksin was fired. 

 

I hope not, but seems some thais welcome back a new coup. They are tired of Thaksin family now, and this is Isaan people who used to love Thaksin 

 

 

Oh boy if I swear.....we're looking at a two to three day sulk......I'm not even swearing at her.

 

Politically I wouldn't say she was strongly aligned with anyone or any party (not since the Peoples Party were robbed of power)......she just grows weary of the infighting and corruption at the expense of the Thai people.

 

 

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

I do until proven otherwise. 

Now that really shows your intelligence.

19 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

Your reply makes no sense..

Where is there a fight or confrontation? I think you've mis taken me.

Please explain.

 

   You were suggesting that my partner is a prostitute  .

Its rude and confrontational  to even say that 

No need to make it personal 

Tats, gold, Isaan, loud, crude and dumb then yes.

21 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Obviously you make it personal for those who for your descriptions of a hooker. 

 

   I wasn't talking about anyone in particular , therefore it isn't personal to any particular person 

3 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   You were suggesting that my partner is a prostitute  .

Its rude and confrontational  to even say that 

No need to make it personal 

I think you got an extremely dirty fantasy. 

I did not do any suggestion or assumption. 

It's only in your twisted brain. Don't blame me for it.

It's your special kind of character that you think only bad of other people. Shame on you.

58 minutes ago, blaze master said:

The age gap one is a dead giveaway. I could care less if you are with an ex ho....fill your boots. Good for you if it makes you happy.

 

But let's pretend she is with you for the multitude of things she shares in common with someone old enough to be her father.

Hmm I'm with you on the age gap thing.

 

20/30 something with a 50/60+ something, that's a financial transaction

 

The tats thing, well I count myself as one of the few humans left on the planet without ink, so who am I to judge for that