11 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

it's also a kind of spiritual stain that I view in them even if they are not prostitutes.

 

spiritual stain. what does that even mean?

sounds like you need an exorcist. 

 

7 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

Did you find your partner/s buying soap & shampoo? LOL.  

Sort of. A shirt shop some 17 years ago. Reckon she was impressed I no buy Chang wife-beater singlet (& I Hansum.)🙃🙃

18 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

spiritual stain. what does that even mean?

sounds like you need an exorcist. 

 

3 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

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Yikes!  A Thai Wednesday Addams!

 

 

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Maybe try Laos instead

Some publications touts some places in the Phillipines as the places to go for fun. 

10 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I'm living in Pattaya and started viewing Thai women as unclean. It's so bad now that I don't even want to have sex with them if it was offered. It seems to be getting worse. When I do approach women it's women of different races, black, Chinese, Japanese, etc., but it's not very often.

Man, this is nothing to worry about. You are just having a string of unlucky coincidences. Just solve the problem by asking them to shower before you indulge in the beautiful biscuits the country has to offer.

3 hours ago, norsurin said:

I took a black lady in Bangkok.Really a good experience..she was really hot and wild.Not a big lady..she was petite witth a beautiful smile and a gorgeous body.

Yes Pattaya can be the same, Madagascar girls can be very spinner like, with a French accent 

11 minutes ago, ezzra said:

Some publications touts some places in the Phillipines as the places to go for fun. 

Not sure he's looking for fun, instead wants to be away from sex workers

15 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Not sure he's looking for fun, instead wants to be away from sex workers

I don't necessarily want to be away from sex workers. It's more about feeling that Thai women are unclean and potential sex workers, or just something that's spiritually deficient that's symbolized in sexwork but not limited to that. I don't have the issue towards sex workers of other nationalities (at least not as much), so it's not just sex work.

 

The insane part is I'm feeling a generalized revulsion, but not thinking anything at the time and don't have a single reason. There's something going on underneath the surface.

Just move to Wuhan because you are bat sh*t crazy.

11 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I'm living in Pattaya and started viewing Thai women as unclean. It's so bad now that I don't even want to have sex with them if it was offered. It seems to be getting worse. When I do approach women it's women of different races, black, Chinese, Japanese, etc., but it's not very often.

 

What should I do, move out of the area, or just wait it out? Relocate back to home country? I don't want to just fly solo and am not interested in social contacts with males.

 

It's been going on for many months now. Therapy is not an option here since I don't think there are many good therapists around.

sounds like a troll post, though....

Doesn't Pattaya have local mental clinics that help you cope with the inevitable  trauma of experiencing Pattaya?

11 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I'm living in Pattaya and started viewing Thai women as unclean. It's so bad now that I don't even want to have sex with them if it was offered. It seems to be getting worse. When I do approach women it's women of different races, black, Chinese, Japanese, etc., but it's not very often.

 

What should I do, move out of the area, or just wait it out? Relocate back to home country? I don't want to just fly solo and am not interested in social contacts with males.

 

It's been going on for many months now. Therapy is not an option here since I don't think there are many good therapists around.

 

So, is this your reasoning to move to Thai men?  It's 2025 and you can be gay. No one will laugh (at least not unless you commit fashion crimes).

1 hour ago, Mark1969 said:

I don't necessarily want to be away from sex workers. It's more about feeling that Thai women are unclean and potential sex workers, or just something that's spiritually deficient that's symbolized in sexwork but not limited to that. I don't have the issue towards sex workers of other nationalities (at least not as much), so it's not just sex work.

 

The insane part is I'm feeling a generalized revulsion, but not thinking anything at the time and don't have a single reason. There's something going on underneath the surface.

Maybe you are really gay and as someone suggested above go for an LB like many straight men do (555)

Well you sort of have two choices, you can go after pure civilians, those whom you know are working normal jobs and have never had any contact with the industry, or you can relocate. There are many other places in Thailand that are infinitely more desirable than Pattaya, where the people are friendlier, warmer and less jaded. 

4 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

That's definately part of it if they are having sex. It's more then being physically unclean though, it's also a kind of spiritual stain that I view in them even if they are not prostitutes.

 

I can see my view as unreasonable without knowing each person, yet I can't get over the feeling. It's at the point now where I'm feeling generalized revulsion for no apparent reason.

And do you find the Thai men spiritually clean? What about European women? And men? 

14 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

You are just having a string of unlucky coincidences.

 

yep, like lemony snickett

 

12 hours ago, NorthernRyland said:

Doesn't Pattaya have local mental clinics that help you cope with the inevitable  trauma of experiencing Pattaya?

 

That's a good business opportunity.

Shrink's office on Soi 6. 

 

13 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I'm living in Pattaya and started viewing Thai women as unclean. It's so bad now that I don't even want to have sex with them if it was offered. It seems to be getting worse. When I do approach women it's women of different races, black, Chinese, Japanese, etc., but it's not very often.

 

What should I do, move out of the area, or just wait it out? Relocate back to home country? I don't want to just fly solo and am not interested in social contacts with males.

 

It's been going on for many months now. Therapy is not an option here since I don't think there are many good therapists around.

Get psychiatric help

13 hours ago, Mark1969 said:

I don't even want to have sex with them

 

 

Now that is serious.

1 hour ago, Hellfire said:

And do you find the Thai men spiritually clean? What about European women? And men? 

Most Thai men are just as bad, but it does not matter (I'm not into men).

 

I don't have the issue with European women. Most European men are Ok, but it does not matter really (I'm not into men).

1 minute ago, Mark1969 said:

Most Thai men are just as bad, but it does not matter (I'm not into men).

 

I don't have the issue with Europeans.

 

 

If you are going off Thai girls......oh my God!.......could you be transitioning?

1 minute ago, Will B Good said:

If you are going off Thai girls......oh my God!.......could you be transitioning?

Not sure what you mean.

3 minutes ago, Mark1969 said:

Not sure what you mean.

 

 

Transitioning is about congruence—making one’s external life match their internal sense of self. It’s deeply personal, and not everyone transitions in the same way or to the same extent.

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Maybe you are really gay and as someone suggested above go for an LB like many straight men do (555)

If I were really gay I would be attracted to men. As stated in my original post that's not the case. Stop wasting time with nonsense comments.

15 minutes ago, Mark1969 said:

If I were really gay I would be attracted to men. As stated in my original post that's not the case. Stop wasting time with nonsense comments.

You're obviously mixed up and don't know yourself properly hence your confused opening post

10 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

You're obviously mixed up and don't know yourself properly hence your confused opening post

Schoolyard dining hall atmosphere? Your gay!? 

I am sure that you can find a farang who is a solid mental health professional in Thailand. Do an internet search and see what you find.

1 hour ago, Mark1969 said:

Schoolyard dining hall atmosphere? Your gay!? 

Sorry I'm not gay, keep hunting

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

Sorry I'm not gay, keep hunting

You're not happy?