She told me her ex-German guy cheated on her, so she broke up. I logged that into AI and kept a diary open. A month later, in conversation, she accidentally slipped that the same guy still calls her on Christmas and her birthday — even sent her €100 “as friends.” You don’t need AI to see what’s happening, but when I lined up the dates, logs, and chats, AI formatted it all and pulled the contradictions clear. Honestly, this was too much — if you really love someone, you shouldn’t need to be doing constant tracking, WhatsApp checks, Telegram checks, LINE checks, screen shares. I was just meticulous enough to log every contradiction into AI. But deep down, I should have known from the start: why would someone sleep with me on the first date from TF and claim they never met anyone else before? Haha… pure idiot here.

21 hours ago, FellforitBkk said:

She always said she was happy to be my Thai girlfriend — that seeing me just once or twice a year would be enough, and she would never need anyone else.

She even deleted her TF account for me.

She told me she sold lottery tickets from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m., and I was beyond convinced I had met her on ThaiFriendly by pure luck — because she swore she never went out with anyone else.

I fell hard, believing I was the only one she ever loved.

 

She said she was shy with others, but with me she took showers together, gave obedience, loyalty, and was always smiling. (She was a Cambodian girl living in Bangkok with 3 kids.)

Over months I spent about ~$5K — tuition, shopping, gifts. She called me “VIP,” gave me night camera access, and swore I was the only one.

But I used AI and discovered she had been traveling at midnight on some days — before meeting me and after I went back to Europe. It was clear I was not the only one.

 

I wasn’t the center. I was just another orbit in her sponsor system: men from Taiwan, Germany, Singapore, and me — each circling for a turn — plus 80 more contacts sitting on her WhatsApp, ready for rotation.

Two days after we split, she was back on dating apps. That’s when I understood: she never changed — she only paused when the money was heavy.

It is my belief that you are being played by a professional HOOKER.

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She was a Cambodian girl living in Bangkok with 3 kids. 

 

Did she allow you to be Daddy?

Normally the ladies not call me TIRAK,its more common KI NOK.

12 hours ago, FellforitBkk said:

“I didn’t hack anything, brother. I just paid attention. AI helped me see patterns in her stories and timelines that didn’t add up — like late-night travel showing up on ride apps when she told me she was working. You don’t need AI to know the truth, you just need to look at the contradictions. AI was just a mirror to make me face what I already suspected.”

 

"My bad; I actually didn't use AI to track her."

 

You need to work on making your responses a bit more concise, but thanks for the confirmation anyway.

20 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Did she allow you to be Daddy?

lol she said i am her family now.🤔

20 hours ago, freedomnow said:

It is my belief that you are being played by a professional HOOKER.

Yes brother. 15 days since broke off no contacts , deleted all info.  it takes 60 days to forget someone so one day at a time now

1 hour ago, FellforitBkk said:

Yes brother. 15 days since broke off no contacts , deleted all info.  it takes 60 days to forget someone so one day at a time now

 

Never mind, there is another one around the corner waiting to use her spell on you.👍

 

 

She "even" deleted her TF account -  it must be true love!

On 9/13/2025 at 2:39 AM, Celsius said:

 

To write this garbage 

NO, not even A1 is that stupid to write that crap, it was in fact a 5 year old adult !

Many men fall for the lines that women use, that they get from very competent training, and it has nothing to do with, and has absolutely no connection with truth or reality. The only way that a man can meet a woman here and have the potential for successful relationship is to really really take your time getting to know them, and I'm talking about years, before you really start investing any kind of serious money or emotional investment.

 

You just don't have any idea who they are until you've spent a huge amount of time together and really seeing what she's all about through thick and thin. 

 

They all have a story. Some are true but unfortunately most are false. 

 

 

43 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

before you really start investing any kind of serious money or emotional investment.

Nah, never invest, only pay what you consider a reasonable amount for their time in your bed.

On 9/13/2025 at 6:32 AM, blaze master said:

 

This made me giggle. But the rest of your story is stupid. 

 

 

Sounds like another wet dream of Robert  D, ( dickhead  ) Smith....am I right ???  

There is one thing that you can definately rely on and that your girlfriend can be trusted to NOT go back and work in the bar after you go home because YOU are the only one and she will wait you as long as you keep your part of the deal and send her money every month.

"She Said I Was the Only One she called "Tirak"  555!!

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Nah, never invest, only pay what you consider a reasonable amount for their time in your bed.

That's a very reasonable and smart approach for some guys. I was living alone for 21 years prior to getting with my current woman, who I've been with for two decades. Though there are some issues from time to time, they're minor, and she has  less emotional baggage than any woman I've ever met, along with a great sense of humor, alot of practical intelligence, and she's also quite attractive. I love being around her on a daily basis, even after all this time, and wouldn't trade that for anything. 

 

But I understand the virtues of being single and I think for some guys it's a great lifestyle. Especially here. 

On 9/13/2025 at 2:36 AM, FellforitBkk said:

She always said she was happy to be my Thai girlfriend — that seeing me just once or twice a year would be enough, and she would never need anyone else.

She even deleted her TF account for me.

She told me she sold lottery tickets from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m., and I was beyond convinced I had met her on ThaiFriendly by pure luck — because she swore she never went out with anyone else.

I fell hard, believing I was the only one she ever loved.

 

She said she was shy with others, but with me she took showers together, gave obedience, loyalty, and was always smiling. (She was a Cambodian girl living in Bangkok with 3 kids.)

Over months I spent about ~$5K — tuition, shopping, gifts. She called me “VIP,” gave me night camera access, and swore I was the only one.

But I used AI and discovered she had been traveling at midnight on some days — before meeting me and after I went back to Europe. It was clear I was not the only one.

 

I wasn’t the center. I was just another orbit in her sponsor system: men from Taiwan, Germany, Singapore, and me — each circling for a turn — plus 80 more contacts sitting on her WhatsApp, ready for rotation.

Two days after we split, she was back on dating apps. That’s when I understood: she never changed — she only paused when the money was heavy.

She probably had more pricks than a 2nd hand dart board.

On 9/13/2025 at 2:36 AM, FellforitBkk said:

She always said she was happy to be my Thai girlfriend — that seeing me just once or twice a year would be enough, and she would never need anyone else.

She even deleted her TF account for me.

She told me she sold lottery tickets from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m., and I was beyond convinced I had met her on ThaiFriendly by pure luck — because she swore she never went out with anyone else.

I fell hard, believing I was the only one she ever loved.

 

She said she was shy with others, but with me she took showers together, gave obedience, loyalty, and was always smiling. (She was a Cambodian girl living in Bangkok with 3 kids.)

Over months I spent about ~$5K — tuition, shopping, gifts. She called me “VIP,” gave me night camera access, and swore I was the only one.

But I used AI and discovered she had been traveling at midnight on some days — before meeting me and after I went back to Europe. It was clear I was not the only one.

 

I wasn’t the center. I was just another orbit in her sponsor system: men from Taiwan, Germany, Singapore, and me — each circling for a turn — plus 80 more contacts sitting on her WhatsApp, ready for rotation.

Two days after we split, she was back on dating apps. That’s when I understood: she never changed — she only paused when the money was heavy.

 yeah......did you really believe her?

Set up a fake account and re-connect with her.  SURPRISE your VIP is back.  

On 9/13/2025 at 2:36 AM, FellforitBkk said:

She always said she was happy to be my Thai girlfriend — that seeing me just once or twice a year would be enough, and she would never need anyone else.

She even deleted her TF account for me.

She told me she sold lottery tickets from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m., and I was beyond convinced I had met her on ThaiFriendly by pure luck — because she swore she never went out with anyone else.

I fell hard, believing I was the only one she ever loved.

 

She said she was shy with others, but with me she took showers together, gave obedience, loyalty, and was always smiling. (She was a Cambodian girl living in Bangkok with 3 kids.)

Over months I spent about ~$5K — tuition, shopping, gifts. She called me “VIP,” gave me night camera access, and swore I was the only one.

But I used AI and discovered she had been traveling at midnight on some days — before meeting me and after I went back to Europe. It was clear I was not the only one.

 

I wasn’t the center. I was just another orbit in her sponsor system: men from Taiwan, Germany, Singapore, and me — each circling for a turn — plus 80 more contacts sitting on her WhatsApp, ready for rotation.

Two days after we split, she was back on dating apps. That’s when I understood: she never changed — she only paused when the money was heavy.

The 3 kids should have been a clue

On 9/13/2025 at 2:36 AM, FellforitBkk said:

She always said she was happy to be my Thai girlfriend — that seeing me just once or twice a year would be enough, and she would never need anyone else.

She even deleted her TF account for me.

She told me she sold lottery tickets from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m., and I was beyond convinced I had met her on ThaiFriendly by pure luck — because she swore she never went out with anyone else.

I fell hard, believing I was the only one she ever loved.

 

She said she was shy with others, but with me she took showers together, gave obedience, loyalty, and was always smiling. (She was a Cambodian girl living in Bangkok with 3 kids.)

Over months I spent about ~$5K — tuition, shopping, gifts. She called me “VIP,” gave me night camera access, and swore I was the only one.

But I used AI and discovered she had been traveling at midnight on some days — before meeting me and after I went back to Europe. It was clear I was not the only one.

 

I wasn’t the center. I was just another orbit in her sponsor system: men from Taiwan, Germany, Singapore, and me — each circling for a turn — plus 80 more contacts sitting on her WhatsApp, ready for rotation.

Two days after we split, she was back on dating apps. That’s when I understood: she never changed — she only paused when the money was heavy.

Where did the 'Tirak' bit come in?

Avoid a female who calls you 'Tirak'

2 hours ago, soalbundy said:

 yeah......did you really believe her?

yes lol she was so innocent looking and smile good. Also this was my first time gf Thai when she said she works 6 am to 6 pm i was thiking she is honest working girl 🙂

2 hours ago, soalbundy said:

 yeah......did you really believe her?

yes lol she was so innocent looking and smile good. Also this was my first time gf Thai when she said she works 6 am to 6 pm i was thiking she is honest working girl 🙂

1 hour ago, SW Happy said:

The 3 kids should have been a clue

ya at first felt not attacted to her but later the stories about her being alone and husband left her and no one to love seemed like she was all alone and needed saving..oh well then i realized using AI that these are common lines in Thai, Girls use it on Tourists to hook them. It was just the first time I was hearing it.

2 hours ago, Suetape said:

Set up a fake account and re-connect with her.  SURPRISE your VIP is back.  

No brother lies and more lies I am done. NO more Thai trips for a while. I realzied I need to find someone with same social status and financial level as me else the relationship seems forced.

when reading that I just thought the OP got married with Pinocchio ....😁

On 9/16/2025 at 8:08 PM, Paradise Pete said:

She "even" deleted her TF account -  it must be true love!

haha yes at that moment it felt that way

On 9/16/2025 at 9:42 PM, spidermike007 said:

Many men fall for the lines that women use, that they get from very competent training, and it has nothing to do with, and has absolutely no connection with truth or reality. The only way that a man can meet a woman here and have the potential for successful relationship is to really really take your time getting to know them, and I'm talking about years, before you really start investing any kind of serious money or emotional investment.

 

You just don't have any idea who they are until you've spent a huge amount of time together and really seeing what she's all about through thick and thin. 

 

They all have a story. Some are true but unfortunately most are false. 

 

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Yes, very true about years to get to know her. A few months can be easily faked. Also, I kept wondering how she was able to pay 40,000 baht each month in expenses without having a stable job. She would always say, 'I am a strong girl, I will find a way for my kids.' She used to get money from the kids' father, but only 10,000 baht a month. Now I realize she gets money from tourists, but during the time I was with her, I couldn't think of it that way—she looked so innocent and like a good girl. That shows a few months is not enough to know a person, especially when they are financially much lower than you compared to your own home country

 

 

On 9/16/2025 at 11:18 PM, wavodavo said:

There is one thing that you can definately rely on and that your girlfriend can be trusted to NOT go back and work in the bar after you go home because YOU are the only one and she will wait you as long as you keep your part of the deal and send her money every month.

haha good one !  I think now I know the social/finacial level these girls are in there is no way they wait in house for payment to arrive. They will go work in bar or find someone weekly.  I think only way they stop is if you live with them.

On 9/12/2025 at 2:39 PM, Celsius said:

 

To write this garbage 

Just to make the point: this post is not for older men over 60's etc. they will mostly be more forgiving and they plan to move to Thailand to live with the girl. Older men probably wont care as much.

This post is maily for younger folks  (30-59) to not make the mistake of finding someone and attempting to take them to your own country.

You need to invest years before you do that.