Just now, fredwiggy said:

Some stay together miserable for 50 years. Some marry childhood sweethearts and stay together happy. Others marry quick and stay together decades, while some take3 years to marry, then divorce after a month. You think you, nor anyone else has the answers? Have you been married? No, so you have no experience, and any man that isn't married by 35 has some real deep issues going on.

Ive had good relationships not 100 broken ones. Marriage is just paper with the state. Means nothing otherwise

If someone has had 3+ divorces it says they like giving away half a house and are poor judges. 

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Is she married or did the father run off?

Assume, as your files are getting to be too large. Try this. None of what I, nor anyone else does, is your business. That you are constantly on her talking about bar girls and what men do with them shows where your thinking lies. I asked you, along with a couple of others, are you planning to marry a bar girl? If not, why are you trying to enter other's lives here? Boredom, lack of common sense and restraint or are there other, more dangerous thoughts in your mind?

1 hour ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Imagine.....a life without a nob?

 

It would be like a broken pencil......pointless.

For a large number of men, the "nob" becomes quite useless in their retirement years, even for urinating. If that's the only reason to live, you have a problem.

4 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

How much do you pay her?

 

In effect she gives me 40,000B pcm as I live rent free in her house/on her farm.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Ive had good relationships not 100 broken ones. Marriage is just paper with the state. Means nothing otherwise

If someone has had 3+ divorces it says they like giving away half a house and are poor judges. 

Assuming, after actually reading that those other relationships ended amicably, for different future plans. I owned my house in Texas outright, as i bought it before we married, one week to be exact, and sold it when I moved here. This is also my house, and she will only get it if she buys it from me, or I'll sell it to another. Again, if you're not married by the time you're 35, you have issues, with either women, trust or are just there to use.

1 minute ago, JensenZ said:

For a large number of men, the "nob" becomes quite useless in their retirement years, even for urinating. If that's the only reason to live, you have a problem.

 

Touch wood (see the joke? sometimes need to point them out)....not a problem for me so far.....legs crossed (another joke)

Just now, Will B Good said:

 

In effect she gives me 40,000B pcm as I live rent free in her house/on her farm.

I can live rent free in nakhon nowhere too. Rather not.

 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Assuming, after actually reading that those other relationships ended amicably, for different future plans. I owned my house in Texas outright, as i bought it before we married, one week to be exact, and sold it when I moved here. This is also my house, and she will only get it if she buys it from me, or I'll sell it to another. Again, if you're not married by the time you're 35, you have issues, with either women, trust or are just there to use.

Where did you get 35 from?

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Where did you get 35 from?

That's something you seem to always miss.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

That's something you seem to always miss.

Explain the 35 theory

1 hour ago, bkk6060 said:

Very immature to worry about what others think and too many mommy boys.  Nothing illegal about it so Yes of course, tell them then don't care.

And people seem to forget or are unaware of the culture.

Most of us come from a Judeo-Christian background where we are taught sex is something special, even precious  and prostitution is a bad thing reserved for the lowest in society.

When we move to another country where the culture is often alien to us we can't get our head around that the view of sex is very different to the point of being as natural as taking a dump.

We still hold our learned view of prostitution from our culture and start topics on AN like this one.

Sex, paid for or free, is no big thing in Thailand.

Just now, emptypockets said:

And people seem to forget or are unaware of the culture.

Most of us come from a Judeo-Christian background where we are taught sex is something special, even precious  and prostitution is a bad thing reserved for the lowest in society.

When we move to another country where the culture is often alien to us we can't get our head around that the view of sex is very different to the point of being as natural as taking a dump.

We still hold our learned view of prostitution from our culture and start topics on AN like this one.

Sex, paid for or free, is no big thing in Thailand.

 

 

Unless you're a Christian....then isn't sex a dirty, disgusting, never to be talked about act.....only animals fornicate?

 

I think that might be a little dated, but it might apply for many older generations and convey what was the zeitgeist.

6 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Explain the 35 theory

Better yet, tell us why you haven't married, and don't cop out saying you haven't met the right one yet, as that shows you think no woman is good enough. 

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Assuming, after actually reading that those other relationships ended amicably, for different future plans. I owned my house in Texas outright, as i bought it before we married, one week to be exact, and sold it when I moved here. This is also my house, and she will only get it if she buys it from me, or I'll sell it to another. Again, if you're not married by the time you're 35, you have issues, with either women, trust or are just there to use.

Still waiting for the 35 theory. Is that from a book or just your own idea? 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Better yet, tell us why you haven't married, and don't cop out saying you haven't met the right one yet, as that shows you think no woman is good enough. 

I have married. Fred making assumptions again. Oh the irony.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Still waiting for the 35 theory. Is that from a book or just your own idea? 

I don't make things up, Look it up yourself if you want to know, but before that, tell us why you haven't married, as you are above 35 right?

Easier to explain a bargirl than a barboy to the kids. How many of you decided to turn gay late in life?

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I have married. Fred making assumptions again. Oh the irony.

I didn't assume. You've never said you were married, and seeing you did, what happened there? If you acted this way, I know why she ran for the hills.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

I don't make things up, Look it up yourself if you want to know, but before that, tell us why you haven't married, as you are above 35 right?

So 2 failed marriages before age 35 is better than someone who marries first age 38 and lasts 40 years?

 

Wacky 35 theory. Throw that book in the bin.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

I didn't assume, you've never said you were married, and seeing you did, what happened there? If you acted this way, I know why she ran for the hills.

Why would I discuss marriages with a random stranger? 

Just now, Harrisfan said:

So 2 failed marriages before age 35 is better than someone who marries first age 38 and lasts 40 years?

 

Wacky 35 theory. Throw that book in the bin.

No failed marriages are better. If children were created, that's always a good result of eben a marriage that ended, as long as both are contributing to those children in time and provisions. 

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Why would I discuss marriages with a random stranger? 

Why would you assume you know what those random strangers are doing, then brag that you've seen more of Thailand with them, not understanding that they are random strangers, and you know little to nothing about them? I've told my past, with nothing to hide, as i was good to those women and children.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

No failed marriages are better. If children were created, that's always a good result of eben a marriage that ended, as long as both are contributing to those children in time and provisions. 

The world is over populated and broken homes led to crime. Better for many people to stay single. I know 2 guys in their 50s never married. 

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

I was asking the OP.

Yeah, and I was replying on your post in an open forum thread. You want to have private conversation, then use the PM function. Something a man like you, with an excellent IQ still have problem understanding.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Why would you assume you know what those random strangers are doing, then brag that you've seen more of Thailand with them, not understanding that they are random strangers, and you know little to nothing about them? 

You tell the forum your life story every week. I don't. I mainly discuss travel. Your opinion means 0 to me.

 

46 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Wife keeps pushing for kids...had the chop twice now, so doubtful there's anything left to join back up.

I took a different approach. I married someone too old to have kids and she is beautiful. I have incredible vision after 2 meters and not so good up close which might be a factor. Not a popular approach but it has been an incredible experience so far.  Only 5 years in so we will see...

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

After Freddy’s complete failure in Thailand and his lack of funds to return to the USA I think it might be a very sensitive subject for him.

I have a beautiful daughter here and a good girlfriend. I left a disturbed ex and will bring my daughter to a better place as soon as it can be arranged, as moving isn't easy when you need to bring a child, find a house, get a car, schools etc. Not exactly a complete failure eh? How do you know about my funds? I know, it's assumption number 23,863. I have nothing to hide, although you stupidly told others here you took advantage of many unconscious women , but bar girls and drive drunk.

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You tell the forum your life story every week. I don't. I mainly discuss travel. Your opinion means 0 to me.

 

No, I answer questions honestly. Do you? 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

No, I answer questions honestly. Do you? 

You lie all the time.

3 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Yeah, and I was replying on your post in an open forum thread. You want to have private conversation, then use the PM function. Something a man like you, with an excellent IQ still have problem understanding.

You still don't understand this point. Don't answer for others. I asked the OP a legitimate question, knowing he wouldn't answer it as it's his "thing" to get information from others for whatever weird reasons his kind has.