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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
      8%
      2
    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
      91%
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2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You lie all the time.

If I had a nickle for every assumption you've made here, i could buy a decent second hand bass boat for when I return home. Think again. if you don't know anyone here personally, and very well if you did, how would you know if they are lying?

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Just now, fredwiggy said:

If I had a nickle for every assumption you've made here, i could buy a decent second hand bass boat for when I return home.

You lied about food, depression and markets so likely lying about women too. I really don't care though.

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You lied about food, depression and markets so likely lying about women too. I really don't care though.

Actually, I've never lied. That you fail to understand much of what I've written is on you. I know I'm telling the truth, but seeing I don't know you, everything you say could be a lie or exaggeration. 

7 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You lied about food, depression and markets so likely lying about women too. I really don't care though.

Get a grip, everybody lies here.

1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

 

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

 

I'm sure most of these young mothers would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns, having a good time with their loving family and friends 

 

So, what is your definition of a prostitute? Can the definition selling your body and sex for money, be a good definition? Just because the girls you talk about don´t want to be there, doesn´t change the definition. Also, there are many that are perfectly happy with their work, as they see it as a great source of income. Some are also actively looking for a foreign boyfriend/husband, and in that kind of work it´s easier to make contact. In this culture, their body is not seen as something shameful. Neither is it widely seen as something you are not allowed to sell. I give you a tip, so you know in the future. If you got really good sex, then you found one that actually loves what she does.
 

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

After Freddy’s complete failure in Thailand and his lack of funds to return to the USA I think it might be a very sensitive subject for him.

Yeah, isn´t he just waiting to get home? You are really on to something here. Good call Malcolm!
 

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

So why do women in the west sell their bodies? 

Good question! @SAFETY FIRST will not get that, because he don´t even believe your next comment.
 

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Let’s call a spade a spade.

Exactly! It was this one. @SAFETY FIRST
 

1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Because they are prostitutes 

And there came the most stupid comment in the universe!
 

1 hour ago, HappyExpat57 said:

You're just not getting it today. People are joking and you're taking it seriously. Lotus is having a special on "senses of humor," recommend you go get one.

He has never gotten it. Sense of humor is alien object to Freddy.
 

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Assuming like a few others do. Some here that are new think a few are bob smith when observation tells otherwise, and my sense of humor is fine, especially if you see many of my posts.

Could you please point out that fantastic sense of humor. Can´t find it.
 

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

He isn’t the sharpest.

Now you´re on to something again. 😉 

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34 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Assume, as your files are getting to be too large.

My file says she is either unmarried or divorced.

I like to keep them updated.

A girl from a broken home is much more likely to also have failed marriages.

An even more interesting topic would be how mothers of mixed SEA-Falang men who themselves may have been the offspring of a business relationship would react to theirs sons bringing home a girl "from the business".......would most feel a sort of kinship maybe? Or just be outright against it?

 

Not insinuating in any way, shape or form that most mixed kids are offspring of (any of the many forms of) prostitution. But like it or not, the reality is that there are a lot of them. I know because I am one (who luckily grew up in a Western country until I became an established adult).

 

My mom would accept it (I think). But I don't date hookers. Not because I have some chip on my shoulder due to my own provenance, but because I'm not retarded.

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

11 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Actually, I've never lied. That you fail to understand much of what I've written is on you. I know I'm telling the truth, but seeing I don't know you, everything you say could be a lie or exaggeration. 

It´s you failing to understand. How many here are posting against you, but you just reply, that we don´t understand and you are right? There is no help for that kind of stupidity. It just can´t get fixed.

Just now, MalcolmB said:

My file says she is either unmarried or divorced.

I like to keep them updated.

A girl from a broken home is much more likely to also have failed marriages.

Include in your files that fact that many in intact homes go south, especially if their fathers were present but not loving, caring or helpful. 

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25 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I have married.

Why?

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You still don't understand this point. Don't answer for others. I asked the OP a legitimate question, knowing he wouldn't answer it as it's his "thing" to get information from others for whatever weird reasons his kind has. 

And you still don´t get that you are not in a position to tell me what to do or not on an open forum. We can clearly see that something has a very sharp curve of declining here. You know, that kind of thing that you always boost about. 🤣

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3 minutes ago, Sandboxer said:

My mom would accept it (I think). But I don't date hookers. Not because I have some chip on my shoulder due to my own provenance, but because I'm not retarded.

  

Was your father retarded?

Just now, Gottfrid said:

It´s you failing to understand. You how many here are posting against, but you just reply, that we don´t understand and you are right? There is no help for that kind of stupidity. It just can´t get fixed.

Gotttfrid, I've never failed to understand anything here. It's you assuming i do from your lack of education on certain subjects. Of course if you think you're right you will think the other is wrong, but in this case it's always been on you. Who that isn't a well known troll or a disturbed individual, is posting against? None, and if you would look, you would see mostly positive emojis, and the negative ones always come from the same few that are all in that same group. Like I've said to those few, try backing off, researching more, stop being a troll, and learn, then come back, because this is an adult forum, and the real you is shown after  a short time, especially if you keep to the same rhetoric. Yes, you just can't be fixed, as you're already past age 30 and set in your ways.

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Was your father retarded?

 

No, just had enough of "Captain Save a Ho" syndrome to take financial responsibility and get me a passport.

5 minutes ago, Sandboxer said:

But I don't date hookers.

Darn! This thread was about marrying a bargirl. @Sandboxer you know you don´t have to date a hooker before marriage, right? She is easy going! 😂

What if mom was a bargirl, would she care ?

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1 minute ago, Sandboxer said:

 

No, just had enough of "Captain Save a Ho" syndrome to take financial responsibility and get me a passport.

Did it work out for them? Till death do us part?

1 minute ago, Sandboxer said:

 

No, just had enough of "Captain Save a Ho" syndrome to take financial responsibility and get me a passport.

You don´t have a passport?

2 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

And you still don´t get that you are not in a position to tell me what to do or not on an open forum. We can clearly see that something has a very sharp curve of declining here. You know, that kind of thing that you always boost about. 🤣

And again, I "get" everything, especially the drivel you post. You haven't a clue about me, and are in that same group of trolls that usually hate other foreigners, and are clueless about what really goes on here, and also about other members. I am in that position, as you actually think you know more than people who've been there long before you have, and with a lot more experience. 

9 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:
1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Because they are prostitutes 

And there came the most stupid comment in the universe!

Are you angry with me because you always win this award, missing out on this occasion 

3 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Do you tell your family and friends back home that you barfined her from a brothel and paid her for sexual relations and now want to make it a full time position

They are going to think this, if they want, regardless.  "Oh, a Thai girl, eh?"   It's driven by jealousy and resentment.

 

The reason not to do this has nothing to do with "what people will think" - rather, what kind of lady you want to get mixed-up with.

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

You don´t have a passport?

He might get one, when old enough to apply, without parents submitting for him.

 

I suspect quite a few regular, vocal members do not possess a passport.

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2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Gotttfrid, I've never failed to understand anything here.
 

 

you struggle to understand anything here because you are basically Thai illiterate and live in a village where nobody speaks English well.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

 

 

It's you assuming i do from your lack of education on certain subjects.

Some education would help you

2 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Are you angry with me because you always win this award, missing out on this occasion 

Nah, I just tried to make you understand that a prostitute is a person that sells sex, disregarding of nationality and circumstances, but I guess I failed to get it through.

2 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

He might get one, when old enough to apply, without parents submitting for him.

 

I suspect quite a few regular, vocal members do not possess a passport.

Yeah, if you look at the quality of the conversations, it´s on a diaper level.

Just now, MalcolmB said:

 

you struggle to understand anything here because you are basically Thai illiterate and live in a village where nobody speaks English well.

Some education would help you

How would you know what I do or don't understand here if you have never met me?, and speaking Thai has nothing to do with human behavior. Your lack of education has shown all through the time you've been on this forum, as well as your ignorance of what actually goes on in a normal family. I really think you can't see just how crazy you really are, but I'm thinking it's been pointed out her so many times that eventually everyone will notice. 

15 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

So, what is your definition of a prostitute? Can the definition selling your body and sex for money, be a good definition? Just because the girls you talk about don´t want to be there, doesn´t change the definition. Also, there are many that are perfectly happy with their work, as they see it as a great source of income. Some are also actively looking for a foreign boyfriend/husband, and in that kind of work it´s easier to make contact. In this culture, their body is not seen as something shameful. Neither is it widely seen as something you are not allowed to sell. I give you a tip, so you know in the future. If you got really good sex, then you found one that actually loves what she does.
 

Yeah, isn´t he just waiting to get home? You are really on to something here. Good call Malcolm!
 

Good question! @SAFETY FIRST will not get that, because he don´t even believe your next comment.
 

Exactly! It was this one. @SAFETY FIRST
 

And there came the most stupid comment in the universe!
 

He has never gotten it. Sense of humor is alien object to Freddy.
 

Could you please point out that fantastic sense of humor. Can´t find it.
 

Now you´re on to something again. 😉 

Always amusing that the same ones always join each other in trying to downgrade people more intelligent and moral than they are. What they don't get is what everyone is saying to them in replies, although being of non sound mind, they'll just dismiss as garble.

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

And again, I "get" everything, especially the drivel you post. You haven't a clue about me, and are in that same group of trolls that usually hate other foreigners, and are clueless about what really goes on here, and also about other members. I am in that position, as you actually think you know more than people who've been there long before you have, and with a lot more experience. 

Ops! I think my 27 years, have given me the experience I need.

Fact 1, you definitely don´t get everything. Nobody does!

Fact 2, Most of us here have a clue about you Freddy, as we read your posts. Mr. think you know it all but same goes here. Nobody does!

Question: What position are you really in Freddy? 😂😂

5 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Ops! I think my 27 years, have given me the experience I need.

Fact 1, you definitely don´t get everything. Nobody does!

Fact 2, Most of us here have a clue about you Freddy, as we read your posts. Mr. think you know it all but same goes here. Nobody does!

Question: What position are you really in Freddy? 😂😂

Years aren't giving you much it seems. Answering for others doesn't work, and some of those are exactly like you. Very strange characters that have proven their hatred towards other foreigners, aren't married, don't have children, have no idea of what really goes on here, even though they've been here 27 years (you do have to leave the village and get daily news to know, along with researching), and of course, no one knows everything, but thinking you have to tell another adult you don't know this, also points out your flaws.

 

Do you actually read any of their posts and see what they're saying? Thinking it's okay to drive drunk. Okay to take advantage of women that are passed out? Thinking buying women somehow gives you the ability to judge those who have families and non purchased wives? 

2 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

 

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

 

I'm sure most of these young mothers would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns, having a good time with their loving family and friends 

 

Malaysia, Cambodia, Laos, Myanmar, Pakistan, Iran, India, Sri Lanka, Indonesia, ...and a hundred other countries do not have a welfare system. Except for western nanny states. Do they all become prostitutes?

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